Playsinrain wrote:Self confidence issues can really put bad thoughts in your head and i think that may be part of it. I don't question weather they love one another, their relationship comes off as the most genuine of any of the vloggers i watch and Cullen has been vocal in the past about how he thinks cheaters are pretty scummy, so i don't think there is an issue like that. I have been married to my husband for nearly 15 years and there has never been any concern of affairs of any type between us, but i also struggle greatly with self confidence. There are days where i worry that i'm not good enough for him, or why would he ever want to be with me.. even though i know in my heart that he loves me unconditionally. So in my own head it's not odd to me at all bc i can understand those feelings of not being worthy or attractive enough for your spouse even after years of marriage. It's hard to not be comfortable in your own skin.JVK19 wrote:I want to know why Katie is so insecure? Why is she questioning Cullen's intentions? Does anyone else find that completely odd?! I can't help but wonder if their was an incident of an emotional affair with Cullen or something like that? Why would Katie feel like Cullen doesn't really want to show her affection?
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I don't think cullen shows her physical affection as often as she would like (and i don't mean sex, i mean hugs, kisses, hell..a slap on the ass lol) bc she has voiced that before, so this is an issue that has been going on for some time. I don't think that he means anything by it, or does it to make her feel insecure, I think they just have different love languages (as cliche as that is lol) and that he needs to work more on showing her physical affection bc she needs it. I don't think that he's not attracted too her, he has made comments to her in the recent past when she has brought up her body assuring her that he loves the way she looks...i just think that he doesn't realize that he's not showing her in the ways that mean the most to her. this is for sure something that therapy and counseling could help them with.
So true, I remember her being insecure even before being pregnant with Gaines. She was an average weight and she was still always making comments about not wanting to try on clothes and not liking where she was at with her weight. So, I am sure now it is really hard for her.