TinaK wrote:ok I haven't got thru all4 blogs because hello am I the only that got legit motion sickness while trying to watch taras video like legit motion sickness. As for krista not giving her a pass she is an uptight witch with everything her videos are brutal and you feel bad for her husband or anyone that has to put up with her. I don't feel bad for her how many of us would have gone on weekend with all pregnant people? like why would you do that especially if its called a baby moon? I thought for sure she would announce because it doesn't make any sense for her to be there. But to say she is boring or witchy because she is there with them no one made her go and sorry she is always this way. I'd rather watch paint dry with toothpicks in my eyeballs. Going back to her migraine again I call bull I'm on week THREE of a set of cluster migraines. I'm l lucky if I have a few hours to be out of bed around lights noise computer etc. There is no way I could be in a loud bar with lights and music blaring. Like I said its so bad I watched part of tara's and got motion sickness which I'm sure is partly due to migraines. I'm on preventative medication, I have injections at home to keep me out of the er and I have dissolving anti nausea meds because migraines are that bad. So why was she in a bar on her phone? another thing I cannot do is be on my phone even the computer is hard by the time I can go on I've missed pages of posts so nope don't get the migraine Ill stay in the bar. I don't see back fat in her picture don't stone me I just don't. there are a lot of things to pick on but I don't get the back fat comments or the covering up. its a damned if she does or doesn't if she did show everything we would all be saying what we are about tara put it away stop lol. I cannot blame her for not doing it and to be honest I gained 70 pounds with my first pregnancy. I was a double zero to start you would think I would have looked healthy or maybe that I swallowed a watermelon because I was so tiny. I had been battling anorexia my whole life but nope I was huge no other way to describe it and I was not comfortable. I hated my body even though it took years multiple miscarriages and loosing a daughter at birth so you would think none of this happening to my body would be an issue yet it was for me. It still is I mean how many women are happy with their bodies there is always a point when we don't like them and we are self conscious and our self esteem isn't the best i cannot fault her for that.
You know, you don’t HAVE to love “everything” about your body. A more natural reaction is to do the best you can to take care of the body god gave you and accept it flaws and all. I was the one writing about back (and underarm) fat. I am not overweight, but yep, I’ve got that. I had five babies and I’m older than most of you. No boob job here. Life and gravity happen. So what? I don’t hate myself. Apparently my husband doesn’t hate it. You know what I do to keep my self esteem —and tits— up? I wear a bra! I don’t wear a backless, braless halter top maxi dress that looks like it is made out of a shower curtain. If I have low self esteem about a certain body area or feature I don’t expose it looking it’s worst.
Lastly I just want to say I’ve gained 19 pounds when pregnant and I’ve gained 60 pounds when pregnant. There was no rhyme or reason to it. I was able to lose all of it, every time. Thank goodness... because I don’t have Tara’s magically high metabolism. Neither does aryan and she needs to watch her calorie intake because as we allllll know it is a lot easier to gain weight than to lose it and the older you get the harder it gets. Ick.
Tina I’m sorry to hear you lost a baby at birth. That’s beyond awful. We should talk sometime.
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