On the other hand, almost every single day of her life is exactly the same, not surprising she cannot tell if something happened 2 or 4 months ago.luna nova wrote:So, E. rolls for the FIRST time in her life, and Greyge doesn't remember when exactly that happened: Beginning or towards end of December. Even I KNOW you moron! You would think since E. is her first child, she would be so EXCITED about it, yet she mentions it like it was not a big deal.
I can imagine when E. grows older and if she would ask about her infant year, milestones etc. the morons would tell her: "Girl, I am too busy now and I don't remember. Just google it".
The fact that E. can look back years from now and see those 2 morons how they interact, it makes me cringe, but also makes me so sad. I am thinking more and more that they could create lots of beautiful memories for her, to help her on the way to one day becoming a mother herself?
I lost my mother few years ago, when I was pregnant with our twins, moved to the Netherlands at 7 months pregnant, not knowing anybody but my husband, and there I was alone, facing the simplest questions from the house doctor whether I, when I was a child, had i.e. chicken pox; or having my mother around to tell me when I used to crawl, talk, first tooth etc, as my children did at the same age. There was nobody that could give me that answer, amongst other answers that first time mothers are facing.
This bitch doesn't deserve to have children. EVER.
Wow, that must have been a ridiculously stressful and tough time for you. Really a test of strength.