Gardner Quad Squad - The Freeloaders (Part 10)

[Night lady]

Yes they ask for advice but they never take it. Those girls desperately need preschool or gymboree or something like that a few days a week. That would help tremendously. But we all know it won't happen. So Greedners you've been told several times..... now act on the advice given.

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[Tigress95]

Just happened to by on YT when their vlog came through. A 9 minute one.

Guys, they are so stressed out at the moment. The girls are just misbehaving all the time and they have so much going on, oh by the way, keep a lookout on their IG and FB pages for all the new offers they will be putting out in the next week.

So guys, we are so burned out we are thinking of not vlogging for the next week. What do all you guyssss think?

A$$ley to Indie: Who do you play with today?
Indie: Guckey

Girls are told to clean up and Evie decides not to and no consequences. Tyler starts helping to clean up and asks the girls if they want to help? Deeer!!! Girlssssss behaviour was really bad. And it will have only started. Mind you it was 8.30 at night so no wonder they are grumpy.

They really don't have any clue about raising the girls and they have no idea what they are in for. While I feel for the girls I have absolutely no sympathy for Lazy 1 and Lazy 2. You get back what you put in. As we say here in Aus, "suffer in ya jocks". Translation. "suck it up". Oh, and jocks are underpants.

Suffer in ya jocks is going to be my new favorite thing to say! Lol


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[Abbiedownunder]

Alright so I've got a couple things that I'd like to discuss.
1- I've known quite a few people who had babies that had to stay in the NICU when they were born (including a 28 weeker). Most kids do follow ups with those doctors for at least a year and become 'NICU Graduates'. (At least this is my experience.) The Gardners never became NICU Graduates to my knowledge. Must mean they never did all the follow ups they were supposed to do. Good job idiots. Way to go!
2-So I used to be a big follower of the Greedner (I'd like to say I wasn't KAD level, but who knows). As a follower of theirs I started following Cashley's sister on IG (the one who does her brows). This is how obsessed her entire family is with looks. She WAXES her 11 year old daughter's (Kaya) eyebrows. She also uses a razor to shape up 'Tuna's' brows and get rid of her unibrow. Isn't Tuna like 3 or 4? Way to teach young girls how important their looks are.


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Are you for real? My god the whole family is fucked. She needs a good slapping, that is just so not on. All the girls in the family are going to grow up, and the ones who are already grown, with an obsession with looks and the physical. Makes me sick to my stomach.

[AthenaA]

There are some comments from people that don't have kids.

I hate how they think they are so special. Most parents of young kids are exhausted at the end of the day. Many parents of young children don't ever get to sleep in or have date nights. Many parents of young kids don't have those kids sleeping through the night or napping. Many people with young kids have zero help. They do not have my sympathy at all.

[eskayem]

You're exhausted? Really? And you want us to trade shoes with you? Again, no thanks. My husband got back a few days ago and he was gone more days than I can remember. He was fighting fires and possibly saving lives. There are times he doesn't want to talk about work, and I respect that. I haven't gotten a day off since he's been home. And here I am, at work early, so he can take the girls to school and I can go join them at their lunches.

You want to know WHY you're exhausted? Because you choose to be. If your girls had any sort of structure; other than being tossed in a crib with a wub and a bottle, you guys wouldn't be exhausted. If you put them in Day Care/Preschool as SO many others have kindly suggested, you wouldn't be exhausted. You can create lesson plans for FREE online (some are even Mad Lib style; enter activity here, enter time here), or you can even look one up and make your own; kind of time consuming but if you love organization like my sister-in-law, you can keep track of all the lessons and have something kind of nifty to look back on. She's turned hers into a scrapbook of sorts with pictures of her kids doing said lesson plans, it's pretty cool. You take enough photos, you could even show the outfits they wore when they played with play-doh for the first time in 3 years If they had better diets, I guarantee you that you wouldn't be nearly as exhausted either. Experts have shown diets affect attitudes. Not saying I don't have an attitude, I'm very sarcastic, and I still eat more fruits and veggies than I should.

Like many here, I just can't have sympathy for you guys. You reap what you sow.

A lot of us, myself included, have suggested from the start, that you guys vlog once a week. No one is forcing you to vlog every day, except maybe your Father and your never full enough wallets. That's one of your issues. You guys are never ok with what you have, you have to have more. You'd make a far better, and steady, income if you vlogged once a week. Think of how many more people would anticipate a weekly vlog if you did that all along. Why do you think most TV shows, before syndication, ran weekly? Not daily? It burns out the viewer as well as the actors/producers/writers. Much like your own life I'm positive there'd be a script if there could be in your life.

Will you still do make up videos? Of course you will. You'll need to fill that wallet more. Plus poor Amanda can't do her videos all the time. With her fake tits and insensitive jokes, she won't stay afloat for a week without you. Or her whiny voice which has no energy in it either. I don't like the bitch but you know your business would collapse without her. But it's ok, keep telling her she's your best friend; which is always her words (I don't think you've ever once publicly said in a video that she's your best friend), and I'm sure she'll keep keeping your head above water.

The sad thing is, you know who HAS been exhausted from all this vlogging? The girls. But have you ever stopped to think about their needs? Their wants? I promise you none of the girls needed or wanted 4 pairs of boots.

Sigh. I'm done.

[Premmie101]

Today’s vlog.
Yep raising kids is hard whether you have FTYO’s or 4 different ages kids. You have to put in time with each kid. Get down on their level and be involved. In that 9 minutes today there were so many times they could have done that. In all honesty I didn’t think they were too bad for kids at 8.30 at night. The playroom was a mess but hopefully that was because they were playing. That would be normal in my eyes. They mostly helped pack up and it didn’t take that long.
They mainly need to be stimulated to an appropriate age level. To be allowed to have things of their own. I was thinking today of what to get my Grandkids for Christmas as I want to get a start on my shopping and I was reminded of all the things the girls got last year and how they haven’t really played with any of it. Their life is so sad dragged around from 1 shop or fast food place to the next. No wonder they don’t know how to play.
It’s only going to get worse as the winter comes in.
I’d be more stressed if I were the babysitters about their actual move. Isn’t it only weeks away. There must be a lot to organise and pack!!
Also listening to Princess talk about the Halloween experience is like she was so disappointed. She got to do all the fun things. The dressing up and the makeup but then the little dolls didn’t cooperate as she had pictured in her head. Omg so immature. These kids comprehension is so far behind she could have explained what was going to happen till she was green in the face and they still wouldn’t have got it.
I hope if they do take time off they actually spend it with the girls actually teaching them something but experience tells me that’s very unlikely. Sounds like princess needs another girls weekend

[Night lady]

Today’s vlog.
Yep raising kids is hard whether you have FTYO’s or 4 different ages kids. You have to put in time with each kid. Get down on their level and be involved. In that 9 minutes today there were so many times they could have done that. In all honesty I didn’t think they were too bad for kids at 8.30 at night. The playroom was a mess but hopefully that was because they were playing. That would be normal in my eyes. They mostly helped pack up and it didn’t take that long.
They mainly need to be stimulated to an appropriate age level. To be allowed to have things of their own. I was thinking today of what to get my Grandkids for Christmas as I want to get a start on my shopping and I was reminded of all the things the girls got last year and how they haven’t really played with any of it. Their life is so sad dragged around from 1 shop or fast food place to the next. No wonder they don’t know how to play.
It’s only going to get worse as the winter comes in.
I’d be more stressed if I were the babysitters about their actual move. Isn’t it only weeks away. There must be a lot to organise and pack!!
Also listening to Princess talk about the Halloween experience is like she was so disappointed. She got to do all the fun things. The dressing up and the makeup but then the little dolls didn’t cooperate as she had pictured in her head. Omg so immature. These kids comprehension is so far behind she could have explained what was going to happen till she was green in the face and they still wouldn’t have got it.
I hope if they do take time off they actually spend it with the girls actually teaching them something but experience tells me that’s very unlikely. Sounds like princess needs another girls weekend

Exactly and if they do take time off from vlogging, hopefully they do some potty training as well as spend quality time with each of the girls. Maybe even sign them up for dance, gym, or preschool. But we all know they just won't. I don't get why they won't put the girls in some activity. It would be "easier" for these babysitters.

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[lmmomSD]

I fast forwarded to watch the Q & A with the girls. I am really sad and really angry. So sad for those girls-holy crap I cannot believe how bad Evie's speech is. Scarlett surprised me but she is still very behind. But I am so angry that Assley and Byson are so ignorant that they really think that is something to show off, and I am angry at the stupid KADs for enabling it.

What I cannot understand is they are both from reasonably large families and have some friends with kids. How do they not see how behind they are? Do they just ignore other kids? Do they put everything down to them being quads? As a parent, in particularly a first time parent, don't most people want to know what other kids are doing to check their kids are ok? They're just so self centred.

I don't get it either. There's another vlogger kid-- Ollie, from Daily Bumps, and he's got a speech delay too. If you mention it, you get blocked. When my kids were little, I kept track of milestones. That is how I knew my daughter needed speech therapy at 18 months. Especially when you went through a lot to have those children, wouldn't you want to make sure everything was ok, and that they are getting any help they need? I just don't understand.

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Never heard of them. so does he get therapy then? Or do they ignore it like gqs?

They totally ignore it. If you mention it in a comment, you get blocked. His mom went on a rant on Snapchat about how advanced he was. They all act like it's a character defect if you need speech therapy. It's not. Ignoring it is what makes you a bad parent. But don't do or say anything to negate this "perfect family" image that they are trying to project.


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[lmmomSD]

Omg yes!!! I saw indie going in for bites like a damn carnivore. And from what I could tell, Esme wasn’t even doing anything but sitting there. Will have to look for bite marks tomorrow.




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On her personal page post of Indies Halloween picture, one of her friends asked why Indie was chosen to be the witch when she’s the sweet one. Ass replied that she hasn’t been the sweet one lately. Ha ha. (She wrote the ha ha, not me).

First I think both Indie and Esme have taken a drastic change for the worse. They used to be articulate and well spoken and daring. I think Esme especially has some serious sensory issues, but those two were by far my favorite to watch. I think they have regressed BIG time. Their language etc. They used to be way ahead of the chunkies.

I think the biting and bad behavior is a result of not being able to express themselves or express their frustration or ask for what they need or stand up for themselves. Probably another way to get attention from mom and dad. Bad attention is better than no attention. Although if biting doesn’t work, mom, to get attention be prepared it will get worse until you meet their needs. And if they continue to let Evie just take things, this will escalate!

Also, yeah, I don’t think it’s funny that Indie misbehaves. Putting a “ha ha” indicates it’s funny, idiot, that you have a child biting and misbehaving.


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I absolutely agree that the biting is from frustration. I had a lot more sympathy for Evie after watching the Q & A because even her comprehension seems so poor and some her behaviour must be attributed to her frustration. Those girls are watching each other and she must know on some level that she isn't understanding stuff her sisters do. If there is something wrong that could be diagnosed and dealt with then that gap is going to get wider and it is going to be more obvious.

Three year olds are challenging little creatures. FOUR THREE YEAR OLDS with little speech, stimulation or discipline is going to be a shit show.

Kids know when they are different. My daughter knew. I seriously think she was depressed when she was about 3 and couldn't do the things her friends did. And when she got older, and knew that "normal' kids were doing things like sleepovers and she wasn't, and that she didn't really have any friends (her special ed classmates were far lower functioning than she, and the "normal" kids didn't include her) she would cry. If one of the girls has a delay the others don't, she knows it.

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[GA Peach70]

I think it’s funny that these two fucktards are stressed. Doing whatever is easiest isn’t so easy now is it? No rules, no structure, no consequences for bad behavior - letting them do what they want when they want. Of course the girls are going to be misbehaving. It’s all they know. They don’t know not to stand on tables, high chair trays, not to hit, bite, etc. These two assholes also think just because the girls cry that they are naughty. How many times have we heard them say that? It is all Asswipe $ the Waddlers fault, not the girls. It’s sad really because one of these days these girls will come to realize the only reason they were even born was to support their parents. They will wonder why, instead of violating our privacy, constantly vlogging, eating out, shopping, and laying around didn’t you so called parents get us the help we obviously needed. I wonder if Asswipe $ The Waddler ever thought past the baby stage and how they would manage to take care of them. I didn’t watch their live feed but I saw the picture on Facebook. She looked like she didn’t have a care in the world. Now I know why, her parents were taking care of the girls. She always gets like that when she doesn’t have to take care of them.

If you truly wanted advice, you should have taken it a long time ago. If you would have listened to parents who have been through it or who were going through it, it would really have made your life easier. You wouldn’t have so many issues now if you did. But I’m sure you two know best, especially since you are on social media bitching about your precious children. Good job assholes. Something else people can give your girls trouble for, having piece of shit parents like you two who publicly embarrass them on their behavior that you two caused. So no privacy for the girls, pictures/videos of their every move, their lack of development & speech, being dressed up & paraded around like some freak show, them being in diapers at almost 3 years old and now their parents bitching about them? All of this is for their memories? For infertility awareness? Yeah, don’t think so.

[Itsjusrme]

Alright so I've got a couple things that I'd like to discuss.
1- I've known quite a few people who had babies that had to stay in the NICU when they were born (including a 28 weeker). Most kids do follow ups with those doctors for at least a year and become 'NICU Graduates'. (At least this is my experience.) The Gardners never became NICU Graduates to my knowledge. Must mean they never did all the follow ups they were supposed to do. Good job idiots. Way to go!
2-So I used to be a big follower of the Greedner (I'd like to say I wasn't KAD level, but who knows). As a follower of theirs I started following Cashley's sister on IG (the one who does her brows). This is how obsessed her entire family is with looks. She WAXES her 11 year old daughter's (Kaya) eyebrows. She also uses a razor to shape up 'Tuna's' brows and get rid of her unibrow. Isn't Tuna like 3 or 4? Way to teach young girls how important their looks are.


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Sadly this doesn’t surprise me as I noticed in the Halloween vlog that Whitney was talking to one of the girls in a sing song high pitched baby voice talk like Ashley does and she was telling the child that she was their favourite aunt


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[girlielove]

I think T$A have some very distorted ideas about how their kids should act. Ashley probably had it in her head yesterday that they would all run up to people's doors and say trick-or-treat and thank you and be happy and cute. Kids aren't going to perform the way you want them to. She is happy when they are asleep or when someone else is watching them. It's as if she wants the adulation and to take credit for the girls without doing any of the work needed to raise well-mannered kids.

Of course they were grumpy yesterday. They were uncomfortable and confused and probably thirsty after eating all that sugar. I'm sorry they didn't put on a viral-worthy show for you, Assley. No offense, but she doesn't realize that being a parent is 90% hard work and 10% reward. She thinks she's due all the reward right now, the attention and admiration and money money money, simply because the girls were born. I can see many years of hard work ahead for her, and Tubs too, because otherwise they will never enjoy their children.

The baby stage is over! I think they are realizing that, or they will within the next year when they will have to eventually move to toddler beds and out of diapers and high chairs. Time to put the work in, Greedners. The money isn't going to make itself now that the quads are growing into bratty, misbehaving kids.

[mia]

Esme "face-planted" off the deck earlier in the day. "Boof, it was so sad." (Could the fall have been caused by those stupid, clumsy boots you make your kids wear for outside play? Nah ...)

Ca$hley said Esme talked about it all morning. Come here, Esme, tell them what happened to your face. She points to the stairs, twice. (Hmm.) Nitwit says, no that's not what happened. Guess Esme forgot, must not be "super traumatic". Keep reminding her, genius, and it will be.

[Twinsplusone]

Kids NEED routine! The ONLY routine they have is that they must sleep in their cages (err,cribs).
Seriously, that’s the only thing I’ve ever heard them say is a must for their children! No set schedule, no routine of going to a class or playgroup, no set time for meals...... it’s all just a free for all. And they wonder why the girls are exhausting them? They are bored! They never know what’s coming next! They can’t communicate their needs because of lack of speech.
They are frustrated and bored, not naughty. They are acting like children, not the props you need them to be.

[amyisnewhere]

Most people with small kids do a few Trunk or Treats so they can experience Halloween slowly before the big day. Also most people feed their kids dinner BEFORE so they aren't hungry but it's more simple carbs & sugar what would those kid's bodies do with protein and complex carbs.

That's exactly what we did with our toddlers last year and this year. The trunk or treat gave them an idea of what we were doing and even then it was low key. And trick or treating we only did about an hour with my 2 and 3 year old. That was enough. I can't tell how long gqs went. We also brought our stroller for tired kids... along with so many other parents. Why do they do things the hard way???

[amyisnewhere]

Just happened to by on YT when their vlog came through. A 9 minute one.

Guys, they are so stressed out at the moment. The girls are just misbehaving all the time and they have so much going on, oh by the way, keep a lookout on their IG and FB pages for all the new offers they will be putting out in the next week.

So guys, we are so burned out we are thinking of not vlogging for the next week. What do all you guyssss think?

A$$ley to Indie: Who do you play with today?
Indie: Guckey

Girls are told to clean up and Evie decides not to and no consequences. Tyler starts helping to clean up and asks the girls if they want to help? Deeer!!! Girlssssss behaviour was really bad. And it will have only started. Mind you it was 8.30 at night so no wonder they are grumpy.

They really don't have any clue about raising the girls and they have no idea what they are in for. While I feel for the girls I have absolutely no sympathy for Lazy 1 and Lazy 2. You get back what you put in. As we say here in Aus, "suffer in ya jocks". Translation. "suck it up". Oh, and jocks are underpants.

Suffer in ya jocks is going to be my new favorite thing to say! Lol


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All The Americans start saying that, lol

[utahmom]

Alright so I've got a couple things that I'd like to discuss.
1- I've known quite a few people who had babies that had to stay in the NICU when they were born (including a 28 weeker). Most kids do follow ups with those doctors for at least a year and become 'NICU Graduates'. (At least this is my experience.) The Gardners never became NICU Graduates to my knowledge. Must mean they never did all the follow ups they were supposed to do. Good job idiots. Way to go!
2-So I used to be a big follower of the Greedner (I'd like to say I wasn't KAD level, but who knows). As a follower of theirs I started following Cashley's sister on IG (the one who does her brows). This is how obsessed her entire family is with looks. She WAXES her 11 year old daughter's (Kaya) eyebrows. She also uses a razor to shape up 'Tuna's' brows and get rid of her unibrow. Isn't Tuna like 3 or 4? Way to teach young girls how important their looks are.


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Because the only use for a female in the Mormon Church, is to be sealed to a temple worthy man and bring to the Earth as many Mormon Spirit Babies as possible. No need for education for that role. Just be pretty and keep sweet

[Sneaky_snarky]

So... are the kads offering advice as they asked? This could be fun.


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[Abbiedownunder]

Mimi must be out cos there's quite a few negative comments.

Don't feed them full of sugar and expect them to behave well.
This is just a halloween hangover
Put them into nursery school 2 days a week so they have some structure
Have a nanny move into your new house to do the cooking, cleaning and babysitting
Send them to nursery school 2 girls at a time on different days
Get some family to babysit

And on it goes. They truly have no idea how real families do it. Sure, most of us don't or didn't have quads but there are two of you and a large majority of women with kids in ages not too far apart do it by themselves.
A number of people commented on structure and routine which they don't have. And they can't go to nursery school because they are not potty trained so that's no good. Everyone's telling them to take a break. Awwww diddums.

[mia]

Mimi must be out cos there's quite a few negative comments.

Don't feed them full of sugar and expect them to behave well.
This is just a halloween hangover
Put them into nursery school 2 days a week so they have some structure
Have a nanny move into your new house to do the cooking, cleaning and babysitting
Send them to nursery school 2 girls at a time on different days
Get some family to babysit

And on it goes. They truly have no idea how real families do it. Sure, most of us don't or didn't have quads but there are two of you and a large majority of women with kids in ages not too far apart do it by themselves.
A number of people commented on structure and routine which they don't have. And they can't go to nursery school because they are not potty trained so that's no good. Everyone's telling them to take a break. Awwww diddums.

Let's see how long this one lasts.

I can't believe you guys are asking for advice. A lot of us have been trying to give you advice for a year and you called us haters. No, it's just that we've been there and parenting is hard. Your motto has always been, "what ever is easiest". 3 will be a nightmare compared to 2, and that's most all kids, now you have it times 4!! I cant even imagine having 4 kids with no boundaries, no discipline, no structure. I know this sounds harsh but really, they are little children and were not born with the knowledge on how to behave, that is where you train them and you have a lot ahead of you if you want your life and your kids to be happy. This has nothing to do with how smart, cute, or cutely dressed they are. You have to train them from the beginning. 1 "for instance" throwing silverware to the sink. You laughed. It needs shutdown immediately, throwing is for balls, outside. So easy for me to sit back and judge but you show it daily and it's crazy if you think people won't have opinions, good and bad.