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Jesssfam: Doing Splits, Flashing Tits, Hopping Dicks (Pt104)

Re: Jesssfam: Doing Splits, Flashing Tits, Hopping Dicks (Pt

Postby webbygurl626 » Sat Nov 18, 2017 12:45 am

I don’t understand why the EMT was considered rude he was stating facts about what happened which is vital they needed to know how bad the bleeding had been he told them and how come we didn’t see the midwives is that because they were in the wrong!


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Re: Jesssfam: Doing Splits, Flashing Tits, Hopping Dicks (Pt

Postby Hilly » Sat Nov 18, 2017 12:47 am

ok so im really not trying to start a debate but why are some people are so against hospital birth ?
I feel it is a huge risk to do a home birth what if the baby needed to be intubated ?? I follow an instagram mom who had a normal pregnancy and when she went to give birth her baby just born without a heartbeat and needed quick medical intervention and was on a cooling blanket and stuff like that
and thanks god he is a normal child now
just imagine if she gave birth at home and did not have access to that ??
I have friends who are against medication (dont know why but whatever) and they gave a natural birth at the hospital and their doctors supported them
so it is not like if you give birth in a hospital you will be pumped with medication
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Re: Jesssfam: Doing Splits, Flashing Tits, Hopping Dicks (Pt

Postby funkycat123 » Sat Nov 18, 2017 12:48 am

Shawn2011 wrote:Obviously a complete hypothetical, but who would have raised the kids if Jess died birthing Addie? I doubt if it would have been her husband. Would Mimi have taken them all?
I think Gabe would have Lilia, Chris would have Addie, and Mimi would take the boys.
That's so awful to think about. She would be leaving behind so much.
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Re: Jesssfam: Doing Splits, Flashing Tits, Hopping Dicks (Pt

Postby Captain Smooth » Sat Nov 18, 2017 1:34 am

I didn't think he was exactly being rude, I just felt like he himself didn't know how to proceed, since he didn't have a clear picture and he sounded a little exhausted as well. The term 'bleeding out' probably came from the midwives themselves and it does sound like a life and death situation, so I think he just wanted to hurry. Could he have done it in a better wording? Maybe, but when you're under stress, I doubt you find the right words.
Having called police and paramedics myself, I also have trouble communicating with them, they are either very rough, or they don't take you seriously. I once had a police officer on the phone, who questioned me about 7 minutes, before actually sending an ambulence and a policecar to the adress, that I gave her after 5 minutes of (heated) conversation. When they arrived they also took their time to get to the flat, so I understand when you're frustrated with them. They do their job, but the way they do it sometimes is a little strange.
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Re: Jesssfam: Doing Splits, Flashing Tits, Hopping Dicks (Pt

Postby 80085 » Sat Nov 18, 2017 1:45 am

Hilly wrote:ok so im really not trying to start a debate but why are some people are so against hospital birth ?
I feel it is a huge risk to do a home birth what if the baby needed to be intubated ?? I follow an instagram mom who had a normal pregnancy and when she went to give birth her baby just born without a heartbeat and needed quick medical intervention and was on a cooling blanket and stuff like that
and thanks god he is a normal child now
just imagine if she gave birth at home and did not have access to that ??
I have friends who are against medication (dont know why but whatever) and they gave a natural birth at the hospital and their doctors supported them
so it is not like if you give birth in a hospital you will be pumped with medication

From what I understand, (American) people who are against hospital births say there's more unnecessary intervention if you have a hospital birth and a higher chance that you'll end up with a c-section (which, again, in the scheme of things... is that really a big deal as long as everyone's healthy?). I can't say whether or not that's true because I just don't know these things but I have read that America has the highest marternal death rate in the developed world so I definitely think there's some truth to it and I do understand why some people feel this way but I personally still feel It's even riskier to birth at home. Yes, I'm aware many women have birthed at home and everything has been great but I still can't comprehend why you'd risk your baby's or your own health or even life just so... you can avoid a c-section?
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Re: Jesssfam: Doing Splits, Flashing Tits, Hopping Dicks (Pt

Postby cjl123 » Sat Nov 18, 2017 2:16 am

Am I the only one who isn’t looking for “bedside manner” from my paramedic? Like a paramedic is not a doctor or a nurse who is going to be giving me constant care. A paramedic gets you from point A to point B alive and with some basic info. I don’t need nor want a paramedic to coddle me and hold my hand. Just keep me alive and get me to a damn hospital as fast as you can. When he was relying What he knew, he was clear, concise, and to the point. I don’t think he would get reprimanded if his superiors seen that video. Jessica is just soo accustomed to asspats and praise at every turn that she was shocked when someone didn’t kiss her ass.


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Re: Jesssfam: Doing Splits, Flashing Tits, Hopping Dicks (Pt

Postby Sparklingdee » Sat Nov 18, 2017 4:47 am

I thought the paramedic guy was fine - he was blunt and to the point. The poster above me is right, Jess is so used to being praised 24/7 for her terrible life choices that she cant stand it when someone sets her right. She needs to wake up and realise it could have gone so terribly wrong. And as for hating on hospitals or "medical intervention" .... good job ambulances exist, hey Jess???????
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Re: Jesssfam: Doing Splits, Flashing Tits, Hopping Dicks (Pt

Postby Kitina13 » Sat Nov 18, 2017 7:18 am

that paramedic helped save her life she should just be grateful instead of worrying if he liked the midwives or not.
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Re: Jesssfam: Doing Splits, Flashing Tits, Hopping Dicks (Pt

Postby DoodleBop » Sat Nov 18, 2017 7:57 am

This is why I think she didn't show the midwives because if she had we'd probably all know exactly why the EMT was so frustrated. Or her midwife didn't want it being shown I wonder what sort of liability she has. He said they weren't making a lot of sense but that he was told to hold her stomach so she wouldn't bleed out, which he was still doing and they got her there in four minutes. He did his job. Comments about it being a bloody mess aside although I couldn't hear what the woman not facing the camera asked so maybe that was in direct response to a question about loss of blood.

Around the time Addie was born a couple other youtubers had home births with complications and I kept thinking this isn't showing me how calm and natural home birth is. If anything it's reaffirming why I'd never do it.
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Re: Jesssfam: Doing Splits, Flashing Tits, Hopping Dicks (Pt

Postby kgiff77 » Sat Nov 18, 2017 8:07 am

So I watched the video for the first time. My boyfriend is a firefighter/emt on his way to paramedic. What the paramedic did when Jess was brought in was nothing abnormal. He wasn’t rude. Everything he said was normal. He was just saying what was happening and what little he knew.


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Re: Jesssfam: Doing Splits, Flashing Tits, Hopping Dicks (Pt

Postby smom12 » Sat Nov 18, 2017 8:17 am

One of the posters above hit the nail on the head. Jess is so used to her ass being kissed and being idolized that one person not kissing her ass makes them seem “rude” and “mean”.


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Re: Jesssfam: Doing Splits, Flashing Tits, Hopping Dicks (Pt

Postby Shawn2011 » Sat Nov 18, 2017 8:26 am

funkycat123 wrote:
Shawn2011 wrote:Obviously a complete hypothetical, but who would have raised the kids if Jess died birthing Addie? I doubt if it would have been her husband. Would Mimi have taken them all?
I think Gabe would have Lilia, Chris would have Addie, and Mimi would take the boys.
That's so awful to think about. She would be leaving behind so much.


I feel like Gabe and Chris would both use the excuse that they don't want to split the kids up and would only want partial custody
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Jesssfam: Doing Splits, Flashing Tits, Hopping Dicks (Pt104)

Postby RaginaPhalanges » Sat Nov 18, 2017 8:38 am

I went back and watched the situation in the birth vlog. The screen went black but you can hear the panic in the midwife’s voice (I think she was still in training). They both kept reassuring her that she was fine, but they sounded panicky. Chris’ voice sounded confused and scared. The midwives started to talk over each other. What doesn’t make sense to me is that the last thing we hear the midwife say is “your bleeding is minimal.” Next thing we see is the ambulance. Now if we go back to this unseen footage video we can see the paramedic say it was a mess and that the midwives told him Jess would bleed out if he didn’t keep his hands on her stomach.


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Re: Jesssfam: Doing Splits, Flashing Tits, Hopping Dicks (Pt

Postby karunohana » Sat Nov 18, 2017 8:42 am

Who filmed the scene with the paramedic? Chris was standing next to her.
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Re: Jesssfam: Doing Splits, Flashing Tits, Hopping Dicks (Pt

Postby olemama » Sat Nov 18, 2017 8:44 am

80085 wrote:
Hilly wrote:ok so im really not trying to start a debate but why are some people are so against hospital birth ?
I feel it is a huge risk to do a home birth what if the baby needed to be intubated ?? I follow an instagram mom who had a normal pregnancy and when she went to give birth her baby just born without a heartbeat and needed quick medical intervention and was on a cooling blanket and stuff like that
and thanks god he is a normal child now
just imagine if she gave birth at home and did not have access to that ??
I have friends who are against medication (dont know why but whatever) and they gave a natural birth at the hospital and their doctors supported them
so it is not like if you give birth in a hospital you will be pumped with medication

From what I understand, (American) people who are against hospital births say there's more unnecessary intervention if you have a hospital birth and a higher chance that you'll end up with a c-section (which, again, in the scheme of things... is that really a big deal as long as everyone's healthy?). I can't say whether or not that's true because I just don't know these things but I have read that America has the highest marternal death rate in the developed world so I definitely think there's some truth to it and I do understand why some people feel this way but I personally still feel It's even riskier to birth at home. Yes, I'm aware many women have birthed at home and everything has been great but I still can't comprehend why you'd risk your baby's or your own health or even life just so... you can avoid a c-section?


There is depth of fear and distrust of the medical establishment by Americans that people who live in countries with universal healthcare may not fully understand. Unless you are very wealthy or have super duper health insurance, the care you receive is very expensive and inadequate. Americans pay the highest prices in the world for any medical treatment. Millions of Americans are uninsured and others have insurance with outrageous out-of-pocket expenses. As a result Americans avoid seeking conventional medical care if they can. Americans use the healthcare system far less than Europeans or Canadians. And they understand that the foundation for the high cost is GREED, pure and simple. So they seek alternatives, herbalists, naturopaths, midwives etc. I'm not saying that this is Jess's reasoning for her decisions but it is certainly a factor for lots of Americans.
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Re: Jesssfam: Doing Splits, Flashing Tits, Hopping Dicks (Pt

Postby PinkTuTu » Sat Nov 18, 2017 9:04 am

Here is what Jess wanted the paramedic to say: “It was literally the most amazing homebirth I have ever seen! She is an expert on pregnancy & giving birth because this is her 5th child and 2nd homebirth. Her midwives were incredible & they did not make any mistakes.”

She is being way too sensitive. Get over it Jess!
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Re: Jesssfam: Doing Splits, Flashing Tits, Hopping Dicks (Pt

Postby twomommies » Sat Nov 18, 2017 9:28 am

WheresMyCoffee wrote:
twomommies wrote:
damondaniel wrote:I gotta say I didn't find the paramedic to be all that shocking. I agree he probably shouldn't have said those things in front of Jess, but as he said, he was instructed to keep his hands where they were so he couldn't move. It sounded to me like he was trying to do his job in saving a patient's life while surrounded by distractions and some bad moves on the midwives' part, making things harder than they needed to be, so he was expressing his frustration. He definitely could've been more polite but I just know if I were in his shoes I probably wouldn't have the patience left to think about how I worded things lol
I would've reported them because something still seems fishy there

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Honest question... what do you think is fishy?
Pretty much how they handled the situation.

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Re: Jesssfam: Doing Splits, Flashing Tits, Hopping Dicks (Pt

Postby LilaLavender » Sat Nov 18, 2017 9:43 am

Could someone tell me what he actually said? I don't watch Jessica's videos anymore + video of medical situations freak me out. Can someone give a rundown of what actually happened? Why is there a video about the birth?
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Re: Jesssfam: Doing Splits, Flashing Tits, Hopping Dicks (Pt

Postby DoodleBop » Sat Nov 18, 2017 9:51 am

RaginaPhalanges wrote:I went back and watched the situation in the birth vlog. The screen went black but you can hear the panic in the midwife’s voice (I think she was still in training). They both kept reassuring her that she was fine, but they sounded panicky. Chris’ voice sounded confused and scared. The midwives started to talk over each other. What doesn’t make sense to me is that the last thing we hear the midwife say is “your bleeding is minimal.” Next thing we see is the ambulance. Now if we go back to this unseen footage video we can see the paramedic say it was a mess and that the midwives told him Jess would bleed out if he didn’t keep his hands on her stomach.


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Thank you for going back. Seems like it was more dangerous than Jess would like everyone to believe. Seems like the EMT was justified in how he acted.
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Re: Jesssfam: Doing Splits, Flashing Tits, Hopping Dicks (Pt

Postby Jm87053 » Sat Nov 18, 2017 10:04 am

I think it's a little weird to post this video right on your daughter's 1st birthday. I could see doing it a month or 2 later, to say...thank Godness I'm alive( or whatever)
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Re: Jesssfam: Doing Splits, Flashing Tits, Hopping Dicks (Pt

Postby webbygurl626 » Sat Nov 18, 2017 10:06 am

Jm87053 wrote:I think it's a little weird to post this video right on your daughter's 1st birthday. I could see doing it a month or 2 later, to say...thank Godness I'm alive( or whatever)


Yes I thought so too I get she just found the footage but she had to upload right away because addy was stealing her attention so she had to remind everyone that she could have died giving birth!


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Re: Jesssfam: Doing Splits, Flashing Tits, Hopping Dicks (Pt

Postby DoodleBop » Sat Nov 18, 2017 10:22 am

She got so many views for her vaginal delivery of twins and the homebirths she's trying to milk this one for views a year later.
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Re: Jesssfam: Doing Splits, Flashing Tits, Hopping Dicks (Pt

Postby charmed596 » Sat Nov 18, 2017 11:01 am

I was born at home, my mom dislikes hospitals. My friend had twins a few months before and the OB on call cut her without telling her or making sure it’s what she wanted. She had already delivered one child without tearing. I’ve heard many other horrors of that as well. The off chance I decide to have a baby bet ur ass I’ll be in the hospital lol.

Jess however just wanted the views and appraisal from the “crunchy” moms



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Re: Jesssfam: Doing Splits, Flashing Tits, Hopping Dicks (Pt

Postby ytdramaqueen » Sat Nov 18, 2017 11:32 am

charmed596 wrote:I was born at home, my mom dislikes hospitals. My friend had twins a few months before and the OB on call cut her without telling her or making sure it’s what she wanted. She had already delivered one child without tearing. I’ve heard many other horrors of that as well. The off chance I decide to have a baby bet ur ass I’ll be in the hospital lol.

Jess however just wanted the views and appraisal from the “crunchy” moms



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New here; what does "crunchy" moms mean? I think the midwives majorly dropped the ball. As soon as there was a complication they should have called. There's a reason they're a midwife and not a doctor.


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Re: Jesssfam: Doing Splits, Flashing Tits, Hopping Dicks (Pt

Postby Shawn2011 » Sat Nov 18, 2017 11:39 am

It's so weird to me how she makes it all about her. The birthdays are always about her giving birth, not the kids being born.
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