☆Adventures in Babysitting-Greedner Style☆ (Part 12)

[DoodleBop]

Well, I must admit, I had no idea she was planning on actually cooking IN THE pantry. This whole time I thought she was just going to store heavier appliances in there. No wonder I was confused. Ha, ha!
I think she'd be better off NOT doing that. Just keep all the heavy appliances in there and bring them out to the kitchen to use. Especially when the FF want to help with banana bread again.

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and also, most pantry items say to store in a cool dry place. So that window being in there is going to make that room hot...


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Most of the stuff they buy has the half life of plutonium so I guess maybe eventually if they don't eat it all, which seems unlikely at the rate the girls and idiot seem to eat cereal...it might eventually go stale.

[amyisnewhere]

She wanted the window in there in case she burned toast, she could just toss it out the window. She actually said that.

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[SnarkyJ]

She wanted the window in there in case she burned toast, she could just toss it out the window. She actually said that.

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And just when I thought she couldn't get stupider.

[Guest]

It's the photo that makes me uncomfortable....
and then ontop of that there is the implied "I saw the Heavy kissing santa clause" on the mouth... which is an old christmas song about seeing "momma kissing santa clause under neath the mistletoe" on Christmas Eve; -- the implied confusion of the boy seeing his mother kissing someone who is not the father under the mistletoe; and now having this secret.

This family has so many bizarre undercurrents showing many dysfunctional and pedo storylines going on in the family.

[eskayem]

Kind of sad she has to slouch in that picture to make him look taller. Suck it up Fatty, she'll always be taller than you.

[Guest]

Well, I must admit, I had no idea she was planning on actually cooking IN THE pantry. This whole time I thought she was just going to store heavier appliances in there. No wonder I was confused. Ha, ha!
I think she'd be better off NOT doing that. Just keep all the heavy appliances in there and bring them out to the kitchen to use. Especially when the FF want to help with banana bread again.

Do you think there is room for all the flowers needed for the banana bread? Maybe the window is for the fresh flowers?

[ClassyCat]

Her lips literally do not line up. Like her whole jaw is off set!

[Stellaboo]

Is that food Heavy is holding next to Santa? When are these children NOT eating?

I also noticed Frodo guarding her food in the McDonald's picture - of all of them I think she will be the one to end up with some sort of eating (or hoarding) disorder.

[Sunnyunicorn]

She wanted the window in there in case she burned toast, she could just toss it out the window. She actually said that.

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Oh my god, you're joking?!?!

[Guest]

This may already have been discussed.
Do you remember sometime last winter when the ff were constantly sick and T&A decided they would take their half sick ff up the mountain and tula wear them to give them some fresh air. They didn't get far; bitching about how much weight they were both carrying. They turned around and came back.
Turns out this was yet another paid advertisement/article through Tula mfg.
They will put anything at the risk of further harming their children for another buck.

These are a bit out of order.

[Howlin17]

Is that food Heavy is holding next to Santa? When are these children NOT eating?

I also noticed Frodo guarding her food in the McDonald's picture - of all of them I think she will be the one to end up with some sort of eating (or hoarding) disorder.

Frodo!

[Howlin17]

OMG! Is every damn thing they have crowdfunded? Random people do fundraisers for them? Greedy grifters...

[Harkette]

Is that food Heavy is holding next to Santa? When are these children NOT eating?

I also noticed Frodo guarding her food in the McDonald's picture - of all of them I think she will be the one to end up with some sort of eating (or hoarding) disorder.

omg Frodo...lol! I am rolling


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[Sneaky_snarky]

Her lips literally do not line up. Like her whole jaw is off set!

Yes! And I don’t even think that part has anything to do with bottle or pacifier. I’m thinking she was born with the cross bite.

Does anyone know what they do to fix that??


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[AthenaA]

I have never watched this family or even heard of them until recently and their story caught my attention. Can someone give me a brief run-down on what the deal is with this family? Obviously there is some drama since they have a thread here and that’s the stuff I wanna know about....lol.


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OK I probably won't do this justice as I am newer to the Greedners than a lot of people but here we go...

Tyson also known as Waddling Windbag, Byson etc. and Ashley also known as Trashley, Cashley etc. met when she was 13 and he was 19, apparently they stayed up until 2am talking when she was just a teen and he was an adult. They then fudge the timeline so he looks like less of a pervert but they got married just after she turned 18, she is now 30. He claims to hav a degree in some kind of family counselling? (something like that) and he was working in sales. She is a master aesthetian (sp?) and claims she did that for 8 years. They claimed to have struggled with infertility for eight years despite a blog post a couple of years after they married saying they weren't ready for children.

So they had IVF and implanted her last two eggs and both eggs split to produce two sets of identical twins. Indie and Esme are the smaller twins and Scarlett and Evangeline are the bigger twins. They call them all manner of ridiculous nicknames. The girls will be three on December 28th and were born at 29 weeks.

They started vlogging saying it was for memories but they have continued to sell the girls out. Ashley is a 'Queen' with Senegence making what is believed to be a pretty hefty income. Tyson has a website selling blankets etc which they originally claimed were made by SAHM's but remarkably look exactly like patterns from an exporter in China.

Continued in next post...

[Stellaboo]

Is that food Heavy is holding next to Santa? When are these children NOT eating?

I also noticed Frodo guarding her food in the McDonald's picture - of all of them I think she will be the one to end up with some sort of eating (or hoarding) disorder.

omg Frodo...lol! I am rolling


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Yes, I know it's horrible of me but I just don't give a shit about being kind to the girls any more.

My names for the Feral Four are as follows (in birth order): Cake, Frodo, Grain, Heavy

That's what you get for making up stupid nicknames for your offspring Greedners!

P.S. - Someone else came up with Scarlett/Barley as Grain and I loved it, so I followed up with turning Indie-Pie in to "Cake".
The Greedners are the ones who call Evie "Heavy". I think Frodo is self-explanatory. #sorrynotosrry

[AthenaA]

A lot of people were turned against them when Tyson went to a McDonalds and went through the drive through on foot with the girls being in wagons. They wouldn't serve him and he was an entitled dick about it.

The girls are nearly three and until recently all had bottles and pacis (we think two of the girls still have them). They go in in the morning, give them milk and go back to bed. They are all still in cribs even though two have climbed out so they have nets over the top. They sleep in the cribs on a mattress on the floor. None are potty trained. They make up every excuse under the sun.

They claim to work incredibly hard but they have a cleaner, someone runs Ashley's business for her and they have Tyson's family help with his 'business'. They go out several times a week to eat and often have donuts. They have an appalling diet.

They also often have vacations away from the girls (it's been a while so I think family have put their foot down). They have frequent date nights. All well and good but they complain about how hard they have it.

The girls are clearly delayed in both receptive and expressive speech. They delete any reference to this and haven't sought any help for them.

Basically they are whoring their daughters out for money and neglecting their development.

[B4bfmmom]

Back again - I have to say it DRIVES ME CRAZY how the coo-coo bird fans will step in and answer questions others ask of T & A. How odd are you that you as young girl, teen, a foreigner, man or an elderly, lonely person have connected with ANY YOUTUBE FAMILY, not just this one? How can these parents NOT think people who know the answers to every question asked about THEIR FAMILY, say how much they love and adore THEIR girls, talk about loving and wishing they could love and cuddle and kiss THEIR DAUGHTERS, how they would love to run into them somewhere, someday, how they LOVE one of the girls more than the other - because she is the most beautiful and so special to them...HOW CAN ANY PARENT READ THESE COMMENTS AND NOT THINK THESE PEOPLE HAVE SOME REAL ATTACHMENT ISSUES WITH THEIR DAUGHTERS...IN A BAD, CONCERNING WAY? Plus, they are so much in their own world these 2 dopes continue to advertise exactly where they live, shop, eat, exactly where THEIR GIRLS rooms are to all these odd ducks and creepers! I DO NOT UNDERSTAND THIS! HOW CAN FAMILY MEMBERS SIT BACK AND NOT STOP THIS?

[B4bfmmom]

Last one. Thought you may enjoy my Instagram POSTS sent on 11/2 after the whiny parents asked for help handling the girls in this new stage. I was blocked from their Instagram after...shocking, I know.


Truth hurts sometimes, huh? Just please remember you asked for thoughts. Don’t block people just because they say things that you probably need to hear and consider. I know I certainly don’t say what I do just to tick you off. I will say I don’t really care what happens with the two of you, honestly. You’re adults. Maybe it’s more than time to behave like it and do what you know is best for your daughters; stop putting yourselves first. I do care about those girls though. They used to make me smile, laugh and happy you were blessed with them. Not so much the past year though. Now, if I watch and don’t fast forward, I just feel really sad for them and angry at you for using “your blessings” to make a buck or two and look “so beautiful”. You have neglected them - by not disciplining, not teaching, not providing heathy meals and snacks, making food a source of comfort, not letting them be INDIVIDUALS, not having a schedule of daily sleep habits, and putting them on show. It breaks my heart because they have the potential to be amazing people, but have been taught selfishness and money comes before anything. Tough love is what is desperately needed...for all 6 of you. I have watched since the girls (not babies) were around 9 months; more once they turned one. It seems to me (and others) the limelight, “fame” and money took over for the two of you and your girls quickly took a back seat. No discipline, laughing when they do something wrong, no sitting down with them and teaching them, no letting them pretend, get dirty, run around with even proper shoes, ride trikes or small bikes, no ball kicking and/or throwing, etc. All the baby talk has to stop. Now. They are GIRLS; not durls. They like suckers or lollipops; not guckies. They are little girls; not babies. They need bedrooms; not nurseries. You both do realize MOST OF WHAT YOUR GIRLS LEARN THEY HAVE LEARNED? The brain develops THE MOST between birth and three years old. How much knowledge, learning and being taught CORRECT colors, counting and how to properly say words do you think you can cram into those precious minds HONESTLY in the next 8 weeks? I know they were preemies, but their speech should be better. They should know FAR MORE words. They should be able to answer questions and be understood by others. They shouldn’t have to have their answers edited or prompted. You have to see the reality of all they haven’t been taught when you see other kids their age, surely? Even with including their preemie births, they are behind. How hard is it to sit down and READ them books EVERY DAY? READ to them, not flip through the books. This is how they learn vocabulary. Plain and simple. Ask them questions. Count objects in the books. TEACH them manners and how to behave. Children aren’t born knowing all of this. THEY HAVE TO BE TAUGHT. Sadly, what your girls have learned is vlogging is your number one priority. Are you seriously proud of the fact they can say, “vlog it” repeatedly, but they can’t answer what color of candy they are eating correctly? They surely think all people have a phone in their face constantly. Put the phone away and help your girls grow into the PEOPLE they were created to be. It’s time to treat them as INDIVIDUALS. They are not one person called “quads”. They will have their own opinions, likes, wants and needs. What do any of them have that is THEIRS? That not one of the others can take away? That belongs ONLY TO THEM? THEY ARE GOING TO BE 3 YEARS OLD! When is it time to focus on those girls and what they need and STOP focusing on yourselves, money, advertising for others so you can make more money, how beautiful your girls are, etc? I would pray being smart, kind, compassionate and giving would be FAR MORE IMPORTANT than being “so cute” or “so beautiful”. I agree 100% preschool would help them, and you, tremendously. I get you’re tired and stressed. Having 4 3 year olds IS tough. I only have one and I wouldn’t do 3 again if you paid me and I have a pretty amazing kid. Where you find yourselves right now is all because YOU TWO MADE IT THIS WAY. Think about that. Are you really strong enough, brave enough, tough enough to step up and be true parents to those girls you say are your biggest blessing? You owe them that. You owe them strong parents who will do whatever it takes to raise them to be who God created them to be.; not to be the “so beautiful” girls who helped you get a brand new house, but who haven’t learn a useable thing except that phones in their faces is what matters. They are not puppets or dolls who were created and given as a GIFT to you for you to coddle, baby and put on show for money and a nice house. They are INDIE, ESME, SCARLETT and EVIE. They need discipline so they know there is a right and wrong way in this world. They need to be TAUGHT so they can learn to THEIR OWN potential. They need to eat better so they are healthy. They need to learn how to socialize with other kids...share and be kind. What are you going to do if one gets better grades than the others, one is better at sports, one sings, one dances, one is more “popular”? Will they be allowed to be who they truly are? You have already started a huge popularity contest between them with your fans. How many times have you read “I like .... best.” or “..... is the cutest” or “my favorite”? How can putting your amazing daughters in that situation to be judged when they are only 3 not bother you? Pretty sure if they see these videos, it will certainly bother them. And putting them out there with nothing on but diapers? That one baffles me. Sadly, you do need to know this is wrong. Besides THE FACT there are perverts watching, you have people, sadly, talking about how “fat”, “ugly”, “awful”, “obese” YOUR DAUGHTERS are. THAT breaks my heart. My daughter has always been a “bigger” girl; always the “biggest” in her group of friends until college; college shows a more realistic view that there are body types of every shape, size and color in this world. To see supposed adults talking about YOUR GIRLS and using these words kills me. They don’t deserve it. YOU TWO are the ones allowing them to eat the crap they do. Teaching them junk food is good for comfort or what it takes as the only way to do right is horrible. Showing your girls half naked is wrong. Not because there is anything wrong with your girls, but because there are some SICK MINDED people out there LOVING your girls in ways I’m sure you wouldn’t want to know. STOP and seriously, honestly, THINK about what these sickos do with pictures or videos of YOUR GIRLS to satisfy their SICK MINDS. Not to mention THE FACT you consistently put your house #, the areas you live and will live, exactly which house is yours and the exact place your girls bedrooms are out there FOR THE WORLD TO SEE. STOP IT! Think about the horrible people out there who are more than willing to harm YOUR GIRLS. It’s tough, I know, but you have to think about all of this. You need to take a huge STEP BACK to when you both were devastated with no kids. Heartbroken. Maybe it’s true you honestly hoped for one, maybe two. So what? Too bad! Go back to when you believed YOU WERE BLESSED to have been given 4. Or were you lying? I’m pretty sure we all have seen and heard lies from both of you over the years. How about the ring bands you are promoting? Not sure any vlog lately has had one on Ashley. I’ve noticed no ring at all myself. And Tyson? Can we go back through the Hawaii blogs? I mean seriously, if you can’t be honest and tell THE WHOLE TRUTH about this what else have you not been completely honest about...in order to get views, comments, sympathy...MONEY? No donuts? No pop for 3 weeks? Eating better? What exactly are you teaching your daughters? Seems to me they have learned to “vlog it” at all times is of high importance, that they must be “so cute” or “so beautiful” at all times, that beauty and cuteness comes first over comfort and the ability to walk and run without falling down or tripping. How about buying the girls clothes that fit THEM? It is OBVIOUS two girls wear smaller clothes and shoes than the other two. That really isn’t rocket science. I’m guessing Indie may even wear a smaller size than Esme. I get buying clothes larger because you get more use out of them in the long run, but, again, BE HONEST, how often do they even wear the same outfit again and again? Why don’t the two of you wear clothes and shoes that are HUGE on you? That would be fair. Oh, right, having all things in the same size is “easier” and you’ve said “you do what is the easiest”. But is easiest for YOU fair to the girls? No, it’s not. I think it’s time to tell people, AND TELL THEM YOU ARE SERIOUS, to STOP SENDING YOU STUFF. It is pretty clear you can afford what is needed...especially since you are happy to buy what is certainly NOT NEEDED. Tell them whatever they send, since you have out right asked they don’t, WILL BE IMMEDIATELY DONATED TO KIDS WHO HAVE FAR LESS THAN YOUR GIRLS HAVE...MANY HAVE NOTHING. If your “fans” can’t understand your request, then are they really people you want in your lives in any way? Again, go back to thinking about crazy, stalker mentality, sadly. It is time for the two of you to sit down and openly, honestly talk about what matters to you...your priorities. Seriously, if you can’t begin to put your girls FIRST and start TEACHING THEM, DISCIPLINING THEM, LOVING THEM WHETHER THEY ARE BEAUTIFUL OR NOT, PUTTING THEIR NEEDS BEFORE YOURS...I am sad to say you are in for very LONG, HARD, SAD YEARS AHEAD. I know I wish my husband and I would have done several things different. Not allowing our child to sleep in our bed, because for her, it caused sleep issues, eaten better, sat at the table for dinner, had her do more chores, stopped the back talking more, given her more responsibility for herself, made physical activity more important, etc. I cannot change MY BAD PARENTING CHOICES now, but YOU CAN. IT WILL BE TOUGH. 100%. Getting your girls to understand NO MEANS NO and what you say is the RULE after allowing bad behaviors WILL SUCK. I’m not sure time out will work for each of them either. You will probably have to use different discipline for one or each of them. One may do well and learn with time out, one you may just be able to give “the look” to, one may be really mouthy while the other may learn quickly by simply watching the other three learn the hard way and be a breeze. YOU WILL HAVE TO TRY VARIOUS WAYS FOR EACH GIRL until you see what works for who. I know time out did NOT work with my very vocal, mouthy, strong willed child with a huge vocabulary. First, she would for sure need more than the “minute per year of age” rule to settle her attitude. 3 minutes wouldn’t be near long enough. My raising my voice did nothing. Taking away a toy...nope, because her imagination was so good, she would be fine in “her mind”. I finally found putting myself in “time out” worked the best for us. I would tell her I was going to my room or upstairs and I didn’t want to hear from her until SHE was ready to stop acting the way she was. This wouldn’t work for others though. One great idea I learned, after it was too late to work for us unfortunately, was to NOT raise your voice, but to speak in a WHISPER. This stops them and makes them really listen to what you are saying. Great idea from a great teacher! Please know I HONESTLY wish the best for your girls. They DESERVE so much more. They deserve to show how smart they are. To show their capabilities. To get the help they need to learn, if that is what is truly needed. To be confident INDIVIDUALS. To be able to shine in a crowd or class or group without HAVING TO BE WITH A SIBLING. They deserve SOME ALONE TIME. To have things THAT BELONG ONLY TO THEM. To have HEALTHY PARENTS...physically and mentally. TO HAVE ALONE TIME WITH THEIR PARENTS...with only one parent and with both. HOW CAN YOU TRULY KNOW WHO EACH GIRL IS UNLESS YOU SPEND TIME WITH THEM INDIVIDUALLY? YOUR DAUGHTERS DESERVE TO HAVE THEIR PARENTS TO THEMSELVES...without being recorded for the world to see. They deserve to know THEY MATTER SO MUCH MORE THAN A NICE NEW HOUSE, A BUNCH OF PRETTY CLOTHES AND FANCY SHOES, A BUNCH OF FREE STUFF, LIKES, VIEWS AND COMMENTS. I think THEY WILL TREASURE MEMORIES SO MUCH MORE WITH THEIR SISTERS AND PARENTS without a phone or camera in their faces, constantly vlogging them for the world. THEY WILL LOVE MOMENTS WHERE THEY WERE LEARNING AND SPENDING TIME WITH YOU WHEN YOU ARE PRESENT WITH THEM 100%. My husband and I will always treasure the nights before Madi fell asleep, reading to her in her bed. We TALKED then. Asked questions. Had her predict what she thought might happen next while reading books. Talked about school, etc. We did this EVERY. SINGLE. NIGHT. we could, even in middle school. I even read to her when she was too tired in high school. I loved that time with her and miss it tremendously now. I know she will always remember that time as well. WHAT MEMORIES WILL INDIE, EVIE, SCARLETT OR EVIE REMEMBER? That you treated them like babies far too long? That they were locked in cribs until they could finally get out and open their doors without bothering to wake both of you? That they had to be MISERABLE in wet, nasty diapers for FAR TOO LONG because you couldn’t handle having 4 3 year olds and decided to “do whatever is easiest for you” INSTEAD OF DOING THE BEST FOR THEM? That you both PUT MONEY AND FAME OVER THEIR WELL BEING? That you dressed them up and treated them like babies for “show and tell”, again, because it was what was the easiest for the “adults”? THAT VLOGGING WAS THE FIRST AND MOST IMPORTANT THING IN YOUR LIVES...YES, EVEN MORE IMPORTANT THAN THE GIRLS YOU HAD PREVIOUSLY CLAIMED WERE YOUR MIRACLES? I honestly do not think this is at all what you thought it was going to become. Seriously. I think the “fame”, THE MONEY for sure and all the people talking about you...”famous” people even, has taken over your reality and changed you. It’s completely understandable. It is also FORGIVABLE. But YOU CAN STOP IT. YOU CAN LOOK AT YOURSELVES, HOW YOUR PRIORITIES HAVE SHIFTED, WHAT YOU HAVE AND HAVE NOT DONE TO HURT YOUR GIRLS...HONESTLY...AND YOU CAN CHANGE YOUR SITUATION AND FAMILY FOR THE BETTER. SO MUCH BETTER. STOP VLOGGING. PUT YOUR PHONES DOWN AND CHERISH THOSE GIRLS! LOVE THEM BY DISCIPLINING AND TEACHING THEM. SHOW THEM THEY MATTER MORE THAN ANYTHING. Please. At least think about what people have written in the comments. The HONEST comments. Not the flattering, happy times and rainbow comments. Those aren’t true. Those “fans” are the selfish ones who “love” you and your girls in a juvenile, sad, frightening manner. Those of us telling you our concerns honestly, we are willing to show you TOUGH LOVE in order for you to be honest with yourselves and where you find yourselves now. WE WANT YOU TO BE THE BEST FOR YOUR GIRLS. THEY ARE MIRACLES. THEY ARE A BLESSING AND A HUGE GIFT FROM GOD. IN THE DEPTHS OF YOUR HEARTS, YOU KNOW THAT. PUT THISE GIRLS FIRST. STARTING NOW.

[WheredoIbegin]

B4bfmmom excellent advice....ALL of it


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