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2011WaysToSpendMoney (Part 41)

Re: 2011WaysToSpendMoney (Part 41)

Postby VagrantRhapsody » Sun Dec 10, 2017 1:33 pm

I just...I can't even. I just can't. This bitch is the laziest person I've ever seen and I can't believe her MIL would enable her like that. She doesn't deserve anything she has, gets tons of help from everyone in her life, and is still a lazy ungrateful bitch. The last time she tried college it lasted for like a month before she gave up. No fucking way is she going to use this "opportunity" for anything other than sleeping in and shopping or fucking around. You bet your ass you're going to get hate for this, and rightly so.

I guess the only mildly intelligent decision she's ever made was to marry into a well-off family, because there is no hope for her.
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Re: 2011WaysToSpendMoney (Part 41)

Postby Amelia322 » Sun Dec 10, 2017 1:34 pm

How embarrassing for Casey to come and see what Vanessa does all day

Like damn I can’t lounge around all day I have to pretend I’m busy and need help


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Re: 2011WaysToSpendMoney (Part 41)

Postby rottiemama » Sun Dec 10, 2017 1:37 pm

Sorry for the double post but I just can’t with this girl.

“I don’t know what sane person would say no to this.”

I don’t know Vanessa, maybe a real SAHM that actually ENJOYS the time she has with her kids. You only have TWO anyway! One is in school for 6-7hrs a day and the other one is just now getting mobile. It’s not like you have 4-5 kids or even twins. Look at your friend Britney...she seems like she gets by just fine with 3 and she actually cooks and does fun things with her kids.

I get the feeling she kept complaining about how “hard” her life is now that David’s gone. Maybe she gives him shit and he relays it back to her parents and since they pushed him into the military, they feel partially responsible so that’s why the suggested Casey? I wonder if they’re giving her money every month too?

Also, does she really think she’s going to move to Korea next year?? If she truly believes that, why the fuck did she waste all that money for new furniture? Can she even take Lily? I thought they weren’t allowing any family members at all in the area? It seems like Lily’s already having a hard enough time in the school she’s in now, does she really want to take her halfway around the world, away from her grandparents and everything she’s ever known bc her mom can’t cope? I really hope she thinks that through and maybe put Lily’s needs before her greed.
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Re: 2011WaysToSpendMoney (Part 41)

Postby Beautifuldisaster » Sun Dec 10, 2017 1:39 pm

She has TWO KIDS. She needs an extra set of hands to take two kids somewhere? Lily doesn’t even do anything. She is quiet and walks right next to Vanessa anytime she shows them out and about. Charlie is always in the damn stroller or seat. What does she need an extra set of hands for?!?! I have three kids and we go places every damn day. I don’t ever think “oh! I need help”. You adapt.

Casey, if you’re reading this. I hope you don’t live up to miss bitchnessa’s expectations. Please don’t. Please run far far away. She’s expecting you to be her friend because she has none. And a ‘light’ for her family to go on target trips and eyebrow appointments. DONT DO IT!
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Re: 2011WaysToSpendMoney (Part 41)

Postby webbygurl626 » Sun Dec 10, 2017 1:39 pm

Wow and yes go ahead and assume anyone if gifted this would take the help, umm no I am a firm believer in “I gave birth to my children and I better damn well be able to take care of them” so she has all this help plus a nanny now and she is going to be able to handle moving to another country haha that’s hilarious, she does know David will be off for trainings and other things and she will be all by herself


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Re: 2011WaysToSpendMoney (Part 41)

Postby Kish » Sun Dec 10, 2017 1:40 pm

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I thought it was interesting/nice to see that Lily is featured in the great majority of V’s most popular photos of the year – I don’t necessarily think all her viewers know ‘what’s up’ (the blatant favouritism), and that they seem to have more of a ‘connection’ to Lily just because of her being older and them being more familiar with her, but … hehe.


… And then, there was this idiot.

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Re: 2011WaysToSpendMoney (Part 41)

Postby Jeybee27 » Sun Dec 10, 2017 1:42 pm

I hope Vanessa doesn't treat this poor girl like her personal slave. To me it sounded like Vanessa wants a 24/hr maid and nanny. Isn't the girl supposed to be here to further her education too? Not just pick up after Vanessa and watch her kids while she sleeps until noon or goes out looking for Rae Dunn?
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Re: 2011WaysToSpendMoney (Part 41)

Postby VagrantRhapsody » Sun Dec 10, 2017 1:43 pm

rottiemama wrote:Sorry for the double post but I just can’t with this girl.

“I don’t know what sane person would say no to this.”

I don’t know Vanessa, maybe a real SAHM that actually ENJOYS the time she has with her kids. You only have TWO anyway! One is in school for 6-7hrs a day and the other one is just now getting mobile. It’s not like you have 4-5 kids or even twins. Look at your friend Britney...she seems like she gets by just fine with 3 and she actually cooks and does fun things with her kids.

I get the feeling she kept complaining about how “hard” her life is now that David’s gone. Maybe she gives him shit and he relays it back to her parents and since they pushed him into the military, they feel partially responsible so that’s why the suggested Casey? I wonder if they’re giving her money every month too?

Also, does she really think she’s going to move to Korea next year?? If she truly believes that, why the fuck did she waste all that money for new furniture? Can she even take Lily? I thought they weren’t allowing any family members at all in the area? It seems like Lily’s already having a hard enough time in the school she’s in now, does she really want to take her halfway around the world, away from her grandparents and everything she’s ever known bc her mom can’t cope? I really hope she thinks that through and maybe put Lily’s needs before her greed.


Especially because there are single mothers with 3-4 children who still manage to do a better job than this bitch and live successful lives.
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Re: 2011WaysToSpendMoney (Part 41)

Postby Beautifuldisaster » Sun Dec 10, 2017 1:44 pm

Okay this is the last post. I’m posting as I’m watching.


BUT FUUUUUUCK!
She said “Casey is going to be a playmate to the kids. She will be able to hold Charlie while i...” and i thought for sure she’d say ‘while i play with lily or take her somewhere.’ No. Nope. She said she will hold Charlie while SHE TAKES A SHOWER.

Ahh! She deserves all shit she is going to get for this decision. She has no idea what an au pair is. An au pair isn’t there to JUST nanny your damn kids while you continue focusing on your self. They are there to experience the US and broaden their horizons.

I have never been too hard on Vanessa. I’ve had hope. But she’s too far gone. There is no saving her.
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Re: 2011WaysToSpendMoney (Part 41)

Postby kiwi » Sun Dec 10, 2017 1:59 pm

“Nobody wanted to gift me an Au Pair because I need help...”

Girl, you are in denial. The depression/anxiety since David left and Charlie was born has been blatantly obvious. She has more help than most military wives or single moms have, Nona is there for her practically whenever she needs her. Yet she’s still struggling, and she’s blowing through money like nobody’s business in an effort to cope.

This will not solve the problem.
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Re: 2011WaysToSpendMoney (Part 41)

Postby Mel1011 » Sun Dec 10, 2017 2:04 pm

"Casey is going to help teach them things that I may not have known how to teach them"

Translation:
"Casey is going to help teach them things that I am too lazy to teach them"
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Re: 2011WaysToSpendMoney (Part 41)

Postby kiwi » Sun Dec 10, 2017 2:04 pm

Also, her mother in law is super close to this girl’s family and suddenly is footing the bill for her to come and stay with Vanessa. Perhaps to be her mother in law’s eyes and ears, because no doubt she’s worried about her daughter in law and her grandchildren. Plus, it benefits this girl too. Ehhhh, I wouldn’t do it lol!
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Re: 2011WaysToSpendMoney (Part 41)

Postby Amelia322 » Sun Dec 10, 2017 2:09 pm

So apparently an au pair...

“Au pairs are not to work more than 10 hours per day or 45 hours per week, and are not to serve as general housekeepers or assume responsibility for household management.”

So if she starts inthe morning say 7am she’ll probably work only until 3ish?

What could Vanessa need help with if lily is in school most of the day and she has Charlie to herself lmao


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Re: 2011WaysToSpendMoney (Part 41)

Postby MommaOfThree » Sun Dec 10, 2017 2:15 pm

Just because the MIL offered or suggested this doesn’t mean she had to do it. She’s doing it bc she’s too lazy to be a mom. I’m glad her MIL saw the shit show she’s called life and decided to step in though. What will happen if:

1) the Kids (including Charlie) no longer want anything To do w V?

2) What happens if they don’t get along? She’s gotta be way more mature than V is.

3) what if David has a Hallmark movie experience when he comes back home? What if he falls in love with this girl and they live happily ever after?

So David already knows they are moving out of the country in a year and this dumb ass has blown so much money on furniture and cups.

I’m sure this girl will take over Charlie’s room. We knew Charlie would never use it. I don’t know why she wasted $ on decorating that room bc she said she has known about this since the spring.


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Re: 2011WaysToSpendMoney (Part 41)

Postby lagenialester » Sun Dec 10, 2017 2:29 pm

Please let Casey find YTMD and spill ALL the tea...


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Re: 2011WaysToSpendMoney (Part 41)

Postby SunnyLove » Sun Dec 10, 2017 2:31 pm

Why did she choose that thumbnail? -so excitied to get away from your kids?
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Re: 2011WaysToSpendMoney (Part 41)

Postby Rosiex3 » Sun Dec 10, 2017 2:40 pm

Well that was anticlimactic....


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Re: 2011WaysToSpendMoney (Part 41)

Postby British25 » Sun Dec 10, 2017 3:02 pm

Her make-up is awful, if you can't do eyeshadow then you should stop trying to do it because it looks embarrassing.
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Re: 2011WaysToSpendMoney (Part 41)

Postby SecretService » Sun Dec 10, 2017 3:19 pm

I'm sure the only reason her MIL even suggested it was because she trusts a stranger to raise her grandchildren better than Vanessa can.


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Re: 2011WaysToSpendMoney (Part 41)

Postby boonz » Sun Dec 10, 2017 3:39 pm

Plot twist : since she claims she’s so lonely without David. She begins lesbian games with her new nanny!


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Re: 2011WaysToSpendMoney (Part 41)

Postby Amelia322 » Sun Dec 10, 2017 3:44 pm

She has never raised her kids alone. She always had Nona. She raised lily. Remember when she said Nona woke up with lily in the mornings so Vanessa can sleep in? She didn’t work or go to school!!

David was a deadbeat for all of Lily’s life until the past year?

She hid the fact that she moved to her moms apartment complex because she needed her that much.

She doesn’t know what it’s like to raise two kids on her own let alone 1!

She has no clue.

Why the fuck would they plan another child if she could barely take care of the one she had?


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Re: 2011WaysToSpendMoney (Part 41)

Postby kalipali » Sun Dec 10, 2017 3:45 pm

Does V realize an au pere is NOT there to become your best friend and someone to keep you company and talk to? She’s not supposed to be your new BFF, V.
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Re: 2011WaysToSpendMoney (Part 41)

Postby NutraSteve » Sun Dec 10, 2017 3:58 pm

So can we just go ahead and confirm that MIL hates Vanessa?

Also, the fact that she was hesitant to post this video and tell everyone pretty much confirms that she knows she's a moron and can't handle things by herself. This is all hysterical really.
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Re: 2011WaysToSpendMoney (Part 41)

Postby mydietsucks_1 » Sun Dec 10, 2017 3:59 pm

What is she going to do when they (supposedly) move out of country. No Nana, no nanny, and David will be working all the time. If she can't cope now, she won't cope then.
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Re: 2011WaysToSpendMoney (Part 41)

Postby Mel1011 » Sun Dec 10, 2017 4:18 pm

Can she just admit that she is depressed and get actual help instead of allowing others to spend thousands of dollars just to bandaid the problem? I would never accept this. She has no dignity left. All that this is going to do is help her continue her unhealthy coping mechanisms(shopping, eatingout) without kids in the way. but since she said she was cleared of depression, it's pretty sad how damn lazy she is.
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