DailyBumps100ThreadsOfClickbait (Part 100!)

[Playsinrain]

It's bad that my first thought was something horrible had happened to Bryan's mom or sister, totally based on how upset Bryan was and how (at first) Missy seemed completely unfazed.

[ImShookHunnay]

I literally came to the forum right before watching because I thought they were going to say they had a miscarriage to be honest. But I could tell when the video started it was something different. I am completely heartbroken for Henry's family. A nightmare no family ever wants to even imagine living! It just added a layer of tears reading they didn't make it in time. So upsetting. You'd have to be inhuman for the death of a child to not affect you, so I truly hope it gives them new perspective!

[lmmomSD]

I literally came to the forum right before watching because I thought they were going to say they had a miscarriage to be honest. But I could tell when the video started it was something different. I am completely heartbroken for Henry's family. A nightmare no family ever wants to even imagine living! It just added a layer of tears reading they didn't make it in time. So upsetting. You'd have to be inhuman for the death of a child to not affect you, so I truly hope it gives them new perspective!

Definitely, no matter what I may think of these two, my heart does break for the family of that child. You aren't supposed to outlive your children. I wish them nothing but comfort and lots of loving people around them. And if Bryan and Missy's words help, then that's good. I am sure at least Bryan was sincere in his sadness.

I hope it will give B&M perspective, but I will wait and see.

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[coolusername1236]

I'm just about speechless. We may say a bunch of messed up stuff about thus family, but when I saw them like this, I had respect for them (for once) I like that they didn't have any happy vlog footage, or even the intro.

It actually looked like they were genuine, and they REALLY CARED about that kid. It's such a shame that they didn't get to see Henry. I was hoping they could at least get a picture.

This was so unexpected. What they said is true, like when they said when you don't have someone like this in your life, you don't think of this happening. Bryan even said that they have Ollie, who was just about the same age as him. It's seems like, for once, I could actually RELATE to them!

Hoping the family is okay, I'm sending prayers out to them.

[brownprincess93]

That was truly sad to watch - I felt more pain for Bryan. Missy just doesn't know how to express her emotions, and that's okay because she grew up in a very sheltered lifestyle so maybe she can't express herself - I do get the whole "pray for us" line she threw in there but that was probably because she is scared to go through it. I don't wish this on anybody so that's all I'm going to say about this.

[avabrooke1226]

This one got me, I was crying like a baby. My friends son had leukemia when he was 3, he is 6 now and in remission. I also have a 5 year old and it breaks my heart for him and his family as well, to have to see him suffer and pass away.. I just don’t even know how people get through that honestly. I was really hoping they would make it, the whole situation is just devastating.

[lmmomSD]

I'm sorry for sounding "negative". I am expressing it badly, I guess.

Obviously, have nothing remotely negative to say about the family of the little boy. And I buy that they were sincerely touched that he wanted to meet them and were devastated that they didn't get there in time.
What I am reserving judgement on is all the people saying that they think this will change anything about Bryan and Missy fundamentally. I would love to be wrong. And I know I sound like a jerk.

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[natalka81]

I think they handled this all very well. I was very moved by today's vlog.

[Lovethesnark]

I wish they could catch a break for one day... I can’t believe there is still negativity here about this. Bottom line is it’s a devasting situation and missy and Bryan are a part of it. Yet you still find something negative to say? Missy straight up said, a lot of the time you hear these things and you don’t want to put yourself in that situation or even imagine what it would be like. And I think she was struggling with it. I can’t lie, I wouldn’t be able to do what they were about to go do. That’s a very delicate and tough situation so fuck yeah she needed to pray for strength for HERself... I understand her 100%... in that situation you can’t go in crying, you have to be positive for the child and family, they needed to have their emotions in check and make him feel happy! If he saw them crying he’d be upset. So yes, everything she said was valid... I don’t think she was making it all about her, she portrayed her thoughts well in my opinion. And she was being very real, you don’t know if she was bawling before the cameras were on, or if she bawled when the camera turned off, so give her a break for once. I can’t even imagine what it felt like when they got the call that it was too late. All that little boy wanted was missy and Bryan and they didn’t make it on time, that’s going to hurt them for a good while.

I agree. I don't think there was anything wrong with Missy asking for prayer for herself and Bryan. It was pretty clear that she didn't want to make the situation worse. I assume most people would have a hard time handling this type of request. Their hearts were in the right place. Missy was clearly upset, but Bryan was more upset. They were making a video so one of them had to put on the brave face. They wouldn't have accomplished much with both of them sobbing uncontrollably. I thought Missy showed real concern for Bryan in the video. I do think this could change their perspective on things.

[8elz]

Dang Bryan. I don’t really know what to say because I never thought I’d be moved by a DB vlog but this got me


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[MommaLindsey2]

I have never cried like that over any YouTube video. I really felt for them, Bryan’s reaction was so raw and made me feel so bad for him. I’m sure they feel sad and guilty that they didn’t make it to the hospital in time. I also feel bad for poor Henry’s family no mother should have to bury her child. As a mother of a 2 year old and 4 year old I cans even imagine that heartbreak.


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[NellieNovember]

Today’s vlog had me sobbing as well. And I’m going to be honest, reading the comments here and seeing the vast majority being kind towards B and M is making me tear up also. So often we forget that these YouTubers are humans just like it. I’m not here to debate if we should or shouldn’t “gossip” about them, because I’m just as guilty as the next guy. But today really put some things in perspective for me.

[Thegoatsmeow]

Bryan had me in absolute tears. It was almost strange to see them so normal. I really hate to be "that" person. But Missy smiling while her husband is crying really bothered me. I am trying to give her the benefit of the doubt and assume she didn't know how to handle the situation... But how could she smile? How?! I've never met Bryan in my life and seeing him cry broke my heart. How can Missy, someone who has an intimate relationship with him smile?

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[onbreak]

Oh my god .. I got on!!

I didn't watch but I was able to read .. I just have to say, Im glad they put the effort in to trying to visit him.
My heart breaks for anyone who lost a child. I hope the DB's dont forget about his family. In the coming weeks as the daily check ups and meals stop, I hope they reach out and let them know they are grateful for having him as a fan

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[avabrooke1226]

Bryan had me in absolute tears. It was almost strange to see them so normal. I really hate to be "that" person. But Missy smiling while her husband is crying really bothered me. I am trying to give her the benefit of the doubt and assume she didn't know how to handle the situation... But how could she smile? How?! I've never met Bryan in my life and seeing him cry broke my heart. How can Missy, someone who has an intimate relationship with him smile
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I think the smile is a nervous reaction, my sister does that.. it’s hard to control

[coolusername1236]

Seeing Bryan actually have emotion for once was moving.

I cried too. I couldn't keep it back. Bryan just REEEALLY had that affect on me! I'm glad that he didn't deny crying just because he's a man. Letting it out is the best thing to do.

[Thegoatsmeow]

Bryan had me in absolute tears. It was almost strange to see them so normal. I really hate to be "that" person. But Missy smiling while her husband is crying really bothered me. I am trying to give her the benefit of the doubt and assume she didn't know how to handle the situation... But how could she smile? How?! I've never met Bryan in my life and seeing him cry broke my heart. How can Missy, someone who has an intimate relationship with him smile?

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I think it’s a comforting smile, like a “you’ll be ok” kind of smile... what you’re leaving out is at this point she was asking him if HE WAS OK and if he would like her to speak for him... she wasn’t just smiling like a crazy woman, she was trying to comfort him.

Thanks for pointing it out this way. Makes more sense. I didn't hear Missy say that (I was jogging while watching). I initially saw this smile and while she was touching her hair and thought it was odd. But we all handle things differently.

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[Cgl33]

My honest opinion might be different from others. I’m not hating on them, I’m just making observations. I thought Missy handled the vlog the best. It must be very emotional for Bryan to know that this last kid’s wish was to meet them and have him sing. What a honor. But I liked that Missy reminded people that it’s not about them.

The vlog was very much about their reaction and their sadness. But knowing that the vlog was dedicated to the little boy and this is what the parents would watch, I’m not sure the crying is what was needed, even if that’s the natural reaction. If you notice celebrities or royals who visit children in hospices or through make a wish, they are all smiles for the child and the family. Hopefully this is what they would have done if they met them. Think of all of the characters at Disney who see children who are terminal through make a wish. They smile and make the child’s experience as amazing as possible. I’m not saying Bryan and Missy wouldn’t have done that, I’m just hoping they would have. I hope that make sense.

My prayers go out to the child and those who loved him. It’s an unimaginable loss. A friend of mine lost her daughter at 4 to a tragic accident. She did not want people to cry to her, so that’s probably why I am reacting the way I am. She wanted her child’s life to be celebrated. The funeral was beautiful and everyone wore the child’s favorite color. It was a celebration of the child’s life, not the focus of her death.

[Thegoatsmeow]

My honest opinion might be different from others. I’m not hating on them, I’m just making observations. I thought Missy handled the vlog the best. It must be very emotional for Bryan to know that this last kid’s wish was to meet them and have him sing. What a honor. But I liked that Missy reminded people that it’s not about them.

The vlog was very much about their reaction and their sadness. But knowing that the vlog was dedicated to the little boy and this is what the parents would watch, I’m not sure the crying is what was needed, even if that’s the natural reaction. If you notice celebrities or royals who visit children in hospices or through make a wish, they are all smiles for the child and the family. Hopefully this is what they would have done if they met them. Think of all of the characters at Disney who see children who are terminal through make a wish. They smile and make the child’s experience as amazing as possible. I’m not saying Bryan and Missy wouldn’t have done that, I’m just hoping they would have. I hope that make sense.

My prayers go out to the child and those who loved him. It’s an unimaginable loss. A friend of mine lost her daughter at 4 to a tragic accident. She did not want people to cry to her, so that’s probably why I am reacting the way I am. She wanted her child’s life to be celebrated. The funeral was beautiful and everyone wore the child’s favorite color. It was a celebration of the child’s life, not the focus of her death.

Very interesting perspective! Many good points too. If I was in their shoes, I'm not sure how I could go see a little boy that's dying without crying. How do you make yourself strong enough?

On another note, it's too bad make a wish couldn't have got ahold of them sooner. I'm not really sure how that process works though.

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[ImShookHunnay]

My honest opinion might be different from others. I’m not hating on them, I’m just making observations. I thought Missy handled the vlog the best. It must be very emotional for Bryan to know that this last kid’s wish was to meet them and have him sing. What a honor. But I liked that Missy reminded people that it’s not about them.

The vlog was very much about their reaction and their sadness. But knowing that the vlog was dedicated to the little boy and this is what the parents would watch, I’m not sure the crying is what was needed, even if that’s the natural reaction. If you notice celebrities or royals who visit children in hospices or through make a wish, they are all smiles for the child and the family. Hopefully this is what they would have done if they met them. Think of all of the characters at Disney who see children who are terminal through make a wish. They smile and make the child’s experience as amazing as possible. I’m not saying Bryan and Missy wouldn’t have done that, I’m just hoping they would have. I hope that make sense.

My prayers go out to the child and those who loved him. It’s an unimaginable loss. A friend of mine lost her daughter at 4 to a tragic accident. She did not want people to cry to her, so that’s probably why I am reacting the way I am. She wanted her child’s life to be celebrated. The funeral was beautiful and everyone wore the child’s favorite color. It was a celebration of the child’s life, not the focus of her death.

I think this is just a good reminder to us that we all grieve differently & express our emotions differently. There is no right way to grieve