procraftinating wrote:In today's vlog Trashley mentions that they have a hidden stash of playdough but they don't get to use it often because Bison hates messes and playdough is too messy for him. Just wow! Because Bison is out on an errand and can't say anything she decides to let them play with playdough, and you can even see how excited the girls are to play with it, and they all sit at the island nicely! That statement seriously pissed me off so much though... your girls need good activities that engage and challenge them, more than just stickers or wandering around kicking toys. And Bison puts his own needs above the girls, not allowing them to ever have playdough because it's too messy in his mind? And again, aside from using Lysol wipes, when have we ever seen that he is soooo clean and organized? He lays on the couch all the time... if anything Trashley is generally the one shown cleaning their house.
That is seriously so selfish and messed up and controlling that they can't play with good things because of Bison's needs! That seriously pisses me off so much! Yeah, four kids can make much more of a mess than 1 or 2 kid, but they really need more challenging activities.
Not to mention the whole problem of playdough being too messy could be solved with better parenting! Put them in older clothes rather than a fancy Gap outfit when they play it. Give them a firm but kind talking to that if they want to play with the playdough they MUST keep it on the table and not carry it away from the table, throw it on the ground, put it in their hair etc. Let them use it anywhere on the surface of the table. Put down a disposable tablecloth that can just be pulled up with all the mess on it at the end. And follow through on the parenting... if the girls break the rules of making a mess with the playdough by throwing it on the ground or trying to take it away from the table or doing anything naughty with it, then there are a few options. You can take the playdough away from them entirely and say "sorry, you didn't follow the rules of keeping the playdough on the table so we can't play with it today. We can try again tomorrow but next time you must keep the playdough off the floor." They will cry and it's not easy to discipline like that but they need consistency to learn. Alternatively to be less harsh you could give them like a 10 minute time out from the playdough, and let the sisters continue with it at that time. Say something like "sorry, you weren't playing with the playdough at the table like I asked. Now you have to take a break from the playdough until you can listen to mom and keep it on the table. You can try again in 10 minutes." That seriously pisses me off so much! Yeah, four kids can make much more of a mess than 1 or 2 kid, bu
He is ticking me off so much more than her. I think the older and more “independent” those girls become (or try to become) the more Buttheaded Scum Daddy will want and try for more and more control. Not that I am a fan of The Clueless Wonder either, but lately she is the better parent in my opinion. She seems so locked into having to “be beautiful” over ANYTHING; like the only way she deserves love is if she’s “so beautiful”. Again, I think she was raised in this very bizarre, odd environment. Mimi doesn’t like the camera and anytime I see her sisters they are made up big time. Perhaps Big Daddy #1 only treated his girls like princesses if they looked the part. Maybe Mimi doesn’t quite fit into his idea of beauty now so he request she be off camera so his Blonde Beauty shines more.
A bit of me feels sorry for Ashley. A BIT. Just think how dependent she must have been and still is on Daddy’s approval. No need to be smart and gain a good education when Daddy will get you whatever you want as long as you are pretty enough to be a model. I mean, how creepy is he? What father has such a huge desire for his baby girl to model that he has her photographed looking like a hoochie...when she’s over 18 and married. I’m surprised Daddy allowed Scum Bag to be around her. I guess he liked something about Tyson’s adoring and drooling over his 13 year old daughter? Disgusting. I will never see what was obviously perfectly fine with her “parents” letting a 19 year old creeper be alone EVER with their 13 year old daughter...unless Big Daddy likes the idea of his daughter being with a fellow creeper who would do anything for her, treat her like a princess if she would always put being “so beautiful” as her first, #1 priority.
I think in Ashley’s never grown up mind she doesn’t think she can do anything on her own, without the approval of her “Daddies”. Sad, in a way. Even more sad, she is allowing and taking part in her daughters being raised with the same thinking. Beauty is FAR more important than smarts. Your beauty can get you a “loving” husband, what will being smart get you? A girl needs a man to be of any good and to get a good man, a girl must be “so beautiful”. Sickening.
I think Scum Bag has been “in control” of everyone in his family (excluding the sister closest to his age whom we never see because she was WISE and moved away from crazy land. I have a feeling she isn’t a vlog every second of your child’s lives and live off them fan. I hope and pray Madison finds that strength to move away from that lunacy as well. All the siblings really. They deserve MUCH MORE than Scum Bag ordering them around. His momma as well.) ever since his dad left. He took control and has never let up. Probably drove his mom’s other husband(s) away.
He reminds me of my fat, lazy, male chauvinistic PIG, lard assed uncle. This man was and is such a pig. Oh yeah, that’s right, he had a job as a carpenter in his own business out of their garage, so he as well “had his own business”. He, as well, laid around on “his” couch all day. His 2 daughters and wife were expected to take care of him and they’d best do as he said, when he said it, by God. Yes, he as well, is a “good, Christian, Godly man”; not JW though. He literally would holler (yell from his lying down position) at one of the girls to stop washing the dishes, come out of the kitchen (where they belonged) and CHANGE THE FREAKIN CHANNEL FOR HIM! They had to click, slowly through channels as he bellowed, “Go. Go. Stop. No, go. Go back. Go. That’s good right there.”; then they must return to the kitchen and their “duties”...cooking for him or doing his dishes. Yep. Thank God for dishwashers and remote controls for Ashley and these girls sake. Can you imagine all poor Madison has had to do for that pig, Scum Bag, or his mom? One of his girls lives STATES away and doesn’t communicate much with her parents. The other one faked being pregnant when she was 19 in hopes of getting married (to a fellow idiot) then claiming “miscarriage” JUST TO GET OUT OF THE HOUSE. She lives a state away and only communicates with her mom, really. Just imagine what will happen to Scum Bags relationship with “his girls”. I hope so much Evie will tell him off and spit in his face on the way out “his” door and the other 3 will follow right behind. Won’t they have lovely stories to share of how living with their “parents” was “SO FUN” and everything was always “SO BEAUTFUL”? I’m sure they will.
I find myself lately really hoping The Clueless Wonder will start to honestly take a look around her and SEE her TRUTH: That she is only as good as how beautiful she is, that her miracle daughters have been, are and will be treated the same, and SHE IS JUST AS GUILTY AT PUSHING “HOW BEAUTIFUL” they are and how much it matters, that her loving Prince Charming is a LAZY, GOOD FOR NOTHING WHO REFUSES TO DO A THING TO HONESTLY PROVIDE FOR OR HELP WITH HER FAMILY, that he is the King of lying on the couch and laying on the couch, showing PERSONAL GARMENTS while claiming to be “so Holy”, going online with young girls...as she once was when he fell for her (yuck) and he is honestly not making her happy and fulfilled. I hope she sees SOON she CAN take care of her house (THE GIRLS HOUSE), continue to do well in some area of “beauty care”, send her daughters to school, step up and teach them to be smart, strong women, get them the help they so obviously need, hire a Nanny to help, for Lords sake, if that’s what she feels she needs, STEP UP AND BE A GOOD MOM TO HER GIRLS...She just needs to realize she can do BETTER, if and when she decides to BE A TRUE, HONEST, BETTER person and put those girls first.
Shut the cameras down. Find her privacy and find herself...without Big Daddy and Scum Bag. She has proven she can make money. She still could because Utah “fans” certainly would go to her for whatever she found to do. She needs to look around honestly and see how many of her “friends” or women in general DO NOT NEED THEIR HUSBANDS OR A MAN WITH THEM, HOVERING, STALKING, NEVER LETTING THEM GO ANYWHERE WITHOUT THEM, NEVER OUT OF THEIR SITE; they like their husbands supporting them by working real jobs and cheering them on from the sidelines.
I doubt this will happen though. I so wish this would be the new miracle for those girls and the true beginning of the end of this ridiculous “fairy tale”...and it would happen soon.
I see Clueless getting bored. Trying a new Instagram gig to cheer herself up, but I don’t see it lasting as a long pick me up. She has to be depressed. It’s pretty obvious she isn’t happy...with Scum Bag, not having a life outside of her “family film fest”, with her “miracles”...she seems to feel stuck. She needs to SEE she doesn’t have to live this way. Tell Two Daddies to bite her butt, get out, leave her alone, buckle up and be a good mom for those girls. It’s time to fight for a better life for her girls...than her sad, all about being Daddies princess, beautiful, never had the chance to grow up and figure out who she truly is, living with a lazy creeper, raising wild, ill mannered miracles, sad life.
Dreaming...I know.
