HelloSweetie wrote:jbg1515 wrote:menehune wrote:Thats his wife they are talking about. Do people seriously expect him to not feel like defending her?
That comment was ridiculous in my opinion. I get what the person was trying to say, but implying that a mom needs to stay home is just crazy.
Thats like when people nitpick the crap out of things on these boards but then want to act outraged when constructive criticism isn't received well. Yes tubers put themselves out there, but of course they are going to react to what they see as over the top criticism and hate.
I didn’t meant to thank your post. But I can understand Joel’s comment but I 100% agree with the OP. She never said that Bonnie shouldn’t be a stay at home mom, nor did she imply that at all. Just that all she does is literally what she wants to and is constantly spending money and pampering herself with expensive shit on a weekly basis and is indeed an attention seeker. At least that’s what I got out of it.
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Fair point or not, it was stated aggressively. Tone is everything in a discussion. Even if a small part of Joel agreed with that post, I can see why he'd feel the need to step in and say something. I'd rather see that than the comment deleted tbh.
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I agree that the tone could have been different, but the way Bonnie is, the comment would have gotten her back up anyway. It's not because of rude comments that she can't take constructive criticism. She never was able to, even when most of the comments were positive.
And of course the "you can't judge them based on 10 minutes of their day" argument pops up. That one cracks me up. These vlogs are edited to be "the best part of the day", the kids are coaxed to say certain things, and 10 minutes a day of footage over several years adds up to quite a lot. We're generally able to predict what they're going to do in a given situation. So I think we "know" them pretty well.
So, she's got a stay at home husband, a mothers helper, and films her life for a living, but doing a kid's fundraiser is "too stressful"?
My eyes are rolling out of my head.
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