B4bfmmom wrote:Hey Ashley. I decided to go look at your personal FB page just to see for myself how much you’ve changed since the birth of those miracles you and your lazy hubby claim to love. One thing I noticed is you were far prettier when the girls were in their first year. You didn’t have funky, unnatural eyebrows and caked on makeup. Your hair looked better. And you genuinely looked like you loved your little girls. Makes me wonder...what has changed since then? What has caused you and your lazy hubby to have turned away from loving and caring for your girls before yourselves? You do know parents wants and needs come second...after their children? Well, the way I see it is this - Once you started pimping out your “miracles” by vlogging every day, continually shoving your phones in their faces constantly instead of, oh, I don’t know, LOVING, TEACHING, SPENDING QUALITY TIME WITH THEM, as well as, GETTING THEM EVALUATED FOR ANY ISSUES BY SPECIFIED DR.S, FEEDING THEM BETTER MEALS, ETC. and you started “becoming famous” in your eyes, your hearts became cold and indifferent towards your daughters and YOU BOTH became super selfish and self absorbed.
Then Ashley, once you started selling LipCraps and begged for your “fans” to spend their hard earned money to be “under” you (because, let’s be honest, EVERYONE is beaneath you in your world) and you began to make BIG money by doing nothing but USING people who more than likely cannot afford to be any where near LipsCraps, but are so weirdly in awe of you they would give you THEIR MONEY instead of feed their children and/or themselves, by meds, etc., it was then you decided BEING BEAUTIFUL is your number one priority. And boy does your lazy, perverted, lying on the couch, can’t even be man enough to change prisons to toddler beds, plant his own trees or flowers, has to have his brother come over and put together furniture because he’s too lame and lazy to do it himself. (Come to think of it, what example of a man is he showing your girls. That real men don’t have real jobs, they sale cheap blankets made in China and lie around making immature nasty faces with their little girls for other perverts to use for their sexual enjoyment to get off on. Yep. You got yourself a good one there, girl. Your first clue really should have been when he was 19 and making moves on you at 13. Is that what you hope your girls get? A lazy, perverted, LAZY non-man?) Hey, perhaps you should have had his brother CONVERT THE GIRLS PRISONS TO BIG GIRL BEDS while he was doing what other men would have done themselves and putting YOUR patio furniture together. Now that would have made too much sense and freed those poor girls...don’t want that, do we?
Anyway, back to how important being “SO BEAUTIFUL” is to you two imbiciles. Please go to your AWG FB page and take a look at Jan.15, 2014 You will see you post “Love this” Then watch the Dove video you supposedly “loved”. The video is about girls self esteem and how they see themselves compared to how others see them and how their moms feel about themselves as well. You will hear this quote: “Often times moms pass on their insecurities to their children”. Do you get that Ashley? Do you get in ANY way that you and your garbage eating, crap drinking, lazy ass, good for nothing but lying on the couch all day hubby are creating insecurities, food issues, health issues, worries - all of which can end with anxieties, depression, anerexia, bulimia, body dismorphic disorder, self harm, cutting, etc. in your girls because all they hear and all they see is “WHY ARE YOU SO BEAUTIFUL?”, “YOU ARE SO BEAUTIFUL?” “DO YOU LOVE IT?” (“It” being pretty clothes, shoes, makeup, overly styled hair which is being utterly damaged at such a young age - all to be beautiful, soda, donuts, going out to eat crap food and THINGS, not their own specific toy, doll or blankies they and they alone can love and have to themselves.) Heaven forbid you allow them to be who they are - individuals. By God, they are the QUADS and the QUADS they shall ever be! Man, I feel for your pocket book full of the money those girls enable you to have (and you have it for no other reason than you pimp out your girls) when you two dimwits users have to pay for counseling for four bewildered, sad, angry, fed up girls. Maybe THEY will get together and write their own book about what it was like to be used and neglected and made to feel they only mattered if they were ALWAYS SO BEAUTFUL. Does it not bother you at all they don’t know the letters in their names, can’t name ALL colors correctly, can’t count or recite their alphabet, can’t recognize letters or numbers, don’t know their phone number or address, can’t draw shapes, let alone name them, aren’t even trying to get ready to learn to tie their shoes (oh, that’s right, they aren’t allowed to wear practical shoes which need to be tied...too ugly!), can’t sit their bottoms down on chairs, don’t listen to instruction, can’t answer questions in a normal manner...all of which will be tested before Kindergarten, and not by your Dr. who you claim says the girls are amazingly normal...yet they can sure say makeup, lipstick and mascara? THAT seriously makes you happy and you laugh? You, my dear, are disgusting. You need to go back and delete your “Love it” post.
I’m guessing that during 2012 your desire was to be a model...due to all the pics you posted and THE FACT that BEAUTY IS FAR MORE IMPORTANT THAN BRAINS in your house. Wow. Do you want your girls to get an education? Their teachers will have a lot of teaching to do to them caught up for sure...things YOU AND LAZY BUM should have taught years ago. Do you want them to go to college and do something they love? I’m not sure you do. I think you want them to always be “so beautful” so they can have some immature, pervy 19 year old creep on them when they are 13; then they can get married at barely 18 and continue to have the miserable lives you two ungrateful, self centered, pathetic losers started their lives out with.
Stop using your girls for views and likes which bring YOU money! Stop pushing your nasty makeup crap - using your daughters lives as a cover for “followers” to give you what you have...you in no way earned. If not for your daughters, YOU HAVE NOTHING. You know that, right?
Do you girls a favor. Stop spending their hard earned money on trees, plants, FREAKING BOTOX, house decorations, etc., etc. and GET THEIR ROOMS DECORATED AND BEDS DONE!!! FIX UP THEIR DUNGEN PLAY ROOM, ALLOW THEM TO BE INDIVIDUALS WITH THEIR OWN LIKES AND THINGS THEY LOVE. Dear God, what in that house you bought with money THEY MADE YOU is for them? Helps them learn and play like kids should? You stifle them and stunt their growth. ANY growth they’ve done is thanks to the GOOD ASHLEY. You need to follow HER rules. Make the girls SIT DOWN, be quiet, share, wait their turn. Man, all I know is their teachers are going to have a HUGE deal to catch your girls up on...ALL BECAUSE THEIR IDIOTIC, LAZY, SELFISH parents certainly couldn’t be bothered to teach them anything. They just laughed at and repeated baby talk, encouraged climbing on chairs, counters and tables, laughed at not sharing, and worse of all only praised their girls for being “SO BEAUTFUL”. Not once do your girls consistently hear “Good job”, “Thank you for sharing, helping, being kind”, “Wow. You’re doing good.” “Not quite but keep trying. You’ll get it.” “Wait your turn.” “No shouting or sit in the corner.” “Use your words, please.” “That was great!” “I’m proud of you!”
Those precious little girls deserve so much better. They deserve better parents for sure. Your daughters deserve so much BETER THAN YOU AND YOUR LAZY, NASTY, CREEPY HUBBY.
Hopefully your fairyland will crumble down fast and hard soon. Maybe something will wake you up and cause you to change for the better. If you ever did listen to your Heavenly Father and live realistically by the words you falsely proclaim, maybe, just maybe, people would see your family and be able to say “They are so beautiful”. Maybe, but it’s doubtful with what you and creeper have shone the past 2 - 2 1/2 years.
You have said it all beautifully. I sincerely hope she reads this and absorbs it. However, I doubt she will, to her it's words from a hater. What they don't understand, and may never understand, is we are concerned for the girls. The parents aren't doing right by them.
