OKBaby: New House, New Life, Still Not a Wife | Part 20

[Whateverumean]

Kyra needs a therapist not another child.


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It baffles me how they spend money on useless stuff but find therapy expensive and doesn’t want to take prescribed meds.

[Mylifenolimits]

Kyra needs a therapist not another child.


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It baffles me how they spend money on useless stuff but find therapy expensive and doesn’t want to take prescribed meds.

At the end of today’s video she didn’t deny being pregnant. We all know what that means.


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[Coco_]

so it’s true she cannot be alone with oscar without her having breakdowns and crying... she really does need other people there with her and that’s just not normal in a two people relationship or marriage yet she wants to be engaged and married

[adeline]

Oh come on, no guy wants to baby a grown ass woman for crying 10 a day over stupid stuff. It's better for her to go take a walk or do whatever, than forcing him to hang out with her and them fighting.

so it’s true she cannot be alone with oscar without her having breakdowns and crying... she really does need other people there with her and that’s just not normal in a two people relationship or marriage yet she wants to be engaged and married

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[adeline]

10 times a day *

Oh come on, no guy wants to baby a grown ass woman for crying 10 a day over stupid stuff. It's better for her to go take a walk or do whatever, than forcing him to hang out with her and them fighting.

so it’s true she cannot be alone with oscar without her having breakdowns and crying... she really does need other people there with her and that’s just not normal in a two people relationship or marriage yet she wants to be engaged and married

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[Torfour_]

I've never been on this thread, but I need to know why she chooses those ugly unflattering thumbnails. She looks like an ogre even though she's not totally unfortunate looking irl


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[ytmamaviewer24]

so it’s true she cannot be alone with oscar without her having breakdowns and crying... she really does need other people there with her and that’s just not normal in a two people relationship or marriage yet she wants to be engaged and married

It's not a relationship issue tho. She has problems.. mental problems. She needs help but somehow she's fooled herself into thinking she can just deal with it on her own.
But I feel like she thinks marriage and more kids will magically fix whatever's wrong with her, instead of trying to fix herself first.

It's obvious that she's been through some shit she hasnt talked about but I worry for her kids.. clearly she's emotionally unstable and that can affect both Levi and Alaya in the future.

[minties82]

WTF is with Oscar saying Alayah has an ugly smile? He says it twice while they are handing her a bottle outside the hair salon. God I hate that guy.

[Steps_to_STFU]

I need to know why WHY she will not wash and brush that baby girls hair. For fuck sake. It's disgusting every vlog.

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[chismosa]

My goodness!! It’s such a shame that these youtubers will flaunt their “mental health,” “anxiety,” “OCD,” and how “the struggle is real” but will not seek help. They have the platform and such an amazing opportunity to discuss mental health and make it less of a taboo. Ignoring issues doesn’t make them go away. Childhood trauma is real and if it isn’t addressed it can seep into all areas of your life. I understand PMSing or having an off day but if she says there is a pattern...wouldn’t you want help with learning better coping skills?

[RottieMama]

so it’s true she cannot be alone with oscar without her having breakdowns and crying... she really does need other people there with her and that’s just not normal in a two people relationship or marriage yet she wants to be engaged and married

It's not a relationship issue tho. She has problems.. mental problems. She needs help but somehow she's fooled herself into thinking she can just deal with it on her own.
But I feel like she thinks marriage and more kids will magically fix whatever's wrong with her, instead of trying to fix herself first.

It's obvious that she's been through some shit she hasnt talked about but I worry for her kids.. clearly she's emotionally unstable and that can affect both Levi and Alaya in the future.

Wait a second...I thought moving into their dream home was going to “fix everything?” They were going to start being nicer to each other and everything was supposed to be “perfect!” That didn’t happen?

Hmm...who would’ve thought buying a second home wasn’t going to magically fix their relationship and Kyra’s fragile mental state?

E V E R Y O N E

A new baby or an engagement is NOT going to help either! Especially a baby! Kyra needs to focus on herself and the TWO kids she has right now! Also, her relationship with Oscar! I’ve always had my doubts about him but lately I’ve being seeing a different side. That whole Insta fight was a real eye opener; showing how emotional Kyra can be off camera while he was keeping his cool. I would not be able to deal with that if it was happening 10x’s a day.

Does anyone else think that she’s been dealing with postpartum depression? I wonder if her mom went through something similar bc wasn’t she raised by her dad?

[Coco_]

WTF is with Oscar saying Alayah has an ugly smile? He says it twice while they are handing her a bottle outside the hair salon. God I hate that guy.

right and kyra lets him but he calls alaya daddys girl and kyra has the most ugliest face on

[pigpie19]

Whatever she's dealing with needs to be formally addressed for the sake of her relationship with Oscar and the kids. It's not normal to unexplainably cry over things multiple times a day for days at a time. That has to be putting a strain on their relationship and if she's truly suffering, she needs to seek therapy and/or medication. Claiming money is the issue is a load of BS to me considering they can afford two mortgages, a brand new car, and various shopping sprees and vacations at the drop of a dime. No one WANTS to spend their money on something like therapy but if it's a serious enough issue, it needs to be done.

[kayjay]

I really feel bad for Kyra. Crying 8 times a day sounds like she's dealing with some serious depression. She NEEDS to seek help not just for her family but for herself, I hope she isn't have thoughts of hurting herself. I know she was in group therapy and said it was expensive but I'm sure her insurance would cover some meetings with a therapist?

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[oldschoolmom39]

I am new to this page but I am curious what type of OCD she has. I have had OCD most of my life and the constant clutter and disorganization in her house would set me off. Six loads or more of laundry just piled up and a suitcase full of stuff from a trip that was a while ago is excessive. They don't work outside of the home so they should have plenty of time to keep their house up. The whole I have kids thing is an excuse. I know mothers with three or more children who also work outside of the home that keep their house in order every day. Does he help her with the household chores at all. I hope they are paying their babysitter well considering she is playing housekeeper apparently.

[kayjay]

I am new to this page but I am curious what type of OCD she has. I have had OCD most of my life and the constant clutter and disorganization in her house would set me off. Six loads or more of laundry just piled up and a suitcase full of stuff from a trip that was a while ago is excessive. They don't work outside of the home so they should have plenty of time to keep their house up. The whole I have kids thing is an excuse. I know mothers with three or more children who also work outside of the home that keep their house in order every day. Does he help her with the household chores at all. I hope they are paying their babysitter well considering she is playing housekeeper apparently.

I believe her OCD revolves around natural disasters. I personally think she has depression and anxiety and possibly Boderline personality disorder. That disorder has to to with an inability to regulate emotions, anger, and lack of identity. Could explain a lot including her copying Keren. I'm not a Dr or anything just speculating.

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[oldschoolmom39]

I just wonder if he gives her a hard time because of fears off camera or tries to push her into situations that she is just not comfortable being in. They may not make any sense to him but they are very real for her and coming from someone who deals with OCD and severe anxiety daily being chastised and constantly pushed or belittled for your irrationality or quirks only makes it ten times worse. If they plan on being married they need to learn a basic level of respect for each other's space and boundaries.

[Moony]

I am HELLA pregnant and am no where near as emotional as she is describing herself. In the vlog she was just normalizing it and acting like it’s completely normal. As much as I feel bad for her if this is how she lives her life, I feel bad for Oscar and the kids even more if they’re always walking on eggshells around her. They’ve seemed tense lately and this would easily explain why
She’s going to push him away sooner rather than later


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[KKand3boys]

I'm guessing she has Primarily Obsessional OCD, also called Primarily Cognitive or Pure O. It mainly manifests as thoughts and (often irrational) fears that you can't get out of your head and it causes you extreme anxiety. They're usually pretty specific, and for Kyra is seems like the big one is natural disasters. It's not the kind of OCD where you have to clean constantly or turn the light switch off 3 times before you can leave the room.