Meet The Gardners....Fake, Fat and The Feral Four | Part 23

[DoodleBop2]

Wishful thinking isn't enough when a child is a preemie or has noticeable delays. There is a window of opportunity. Kids who have a mild speech delay can do a year or two of speech therapy and catch up to their peers. Wait until Kindergarten and they've had 5 years of delays compounding on top of parents who don't know how to talk to them like people and you have kids who may have a speech impairment for life or a child who will take years and years to work past it. They are making it harder for their kids. This isn't about pressuring kids to grow up too quickly.

This does not mean these kids have to be a slave to their therapy. 45-60 minutes once a week. Parents working on the speech goals which is like 5-10 minutes a day max AND here's the kicker speaking properly to their kids. This is the speech therapist being like yeah kiddo keeps doing this I recommend having her hearing reevaluated just to make sure and parents following up. Being former preemies they should be having yearly or even biannual hearing checks and eye exams.

Private preschools can and do reject kids who are too delayed because they cannot meet their needs and then the parents will blame the school. Parents like these make schools wary of taking special needs kids because they have been burned by parents who don't put in the work.

[Krouton]

Wishful thinking isn't enough when a child is a preemie or has noticeable delays. There is a window of opportunity. Kids who have a mild speech delay can do a year or two of speech therapy and catch up to their peers. Wait until Kindergarten and they've had 5 years of delays compounding on top of parents who don't know how to talk to them like people and you have kids who may have a speech impairment for life or a child who will take years and years to work past it. They are making it harder for their kids. This isn't about pressuring kids to grow up too quickly.

This does not mean these kids have to be a slave to their therapy. 45-60 minutes once a week. Parents working on the speech goals which is like 5-10 minutes a day max AND here's the kicker speaking properly to their kids. This is the speech therapist being like yeah kiddo keeps doing this I recommend having her hearing reevaluated just to make sure and parents following up. Being former preemies they should be having yearly or even biannual hearing checks and eye exams.

Private preschools can and do reject kids who are too delayed because they cannot meet their needs and then the parents will blame the school. Parents like these make schools wary of taking special needs kids because they have been burned by parents who don't put in the work.

They would actually qualify for free preschool in my state because of their delays. Which is a good thing, Tyler would have more more to eat in restaurants and get fatter and fatter.

[spooky]

It's come up several time before how dominating Tyler comes off in photos so it's interesting to compare older photos with the photo from today's thumbnail. Normally it's Tyler who has his Wicked in a near head-lock or an arm around her and she usually looks closed off to him. In today's picture, Tyler has his legs and arms pulled in to his body (a self-soothing behavior) and Wicked has her arm around his shoulders and is leaning into him for a change. Poor Tyler must've been feeling self-conscious about posing with shirtless (non) birthday boy Branden.

[Merikat]

This page has all the info on kindergarten in Utah.
https://www.schools.utah.gov/curr/kindergarten

Thank No child can be denied entrance into a public school kindergarten in the US if they meet the age requirements.
If their skills are significantly lower than those indicated by the Utah requirements, they mayquickly be referred for a special education evaluation and/or retained in kindergarten for another year.

I believe one or more of the Gardner girls may ultimately be referred for special education services.

Additionally, no public school can retain a child if the parent refuses.
If the parent refuses recommended special education services, a School System may or may not take the parents to Court.

Private schools may have different rules or requirements.
Pre-school education is not required at this time in the US. Therefore, preschools are not required to accept all children who apply.

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[DoodleBop2]

One reason many states began paying for preschool for "at risk" children is that it's so much cheaper to nip things in the bud at 3-4 years old than once they reach K-12. If they cared as much about their girls as what people think of them they'd take the state up on the help.

[3momstrong]

Looks like Mr. Mountable’s surprise party was a success. Omgosh! The way Tra$$ley gushed and said “we” you would have thought she planned the party. Truly one of their most nauseating vlogs EVER.

Couple of observations:

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1) She was excited to touch Brandon.

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2) Tyabetes was his usual “fun loving” self. More snarky comments from him aimed at AssWipe at the pool than I could count.

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3) She had to be up front and center. No surprise.

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4) Poppa and Monna Bingham as well as Madi were NOT impressed with Screech. They just wanted her to go away.

Really pathetic. No one stood still long enough to acknowledge Ass while she was filming. Everyone walked away ... even AmanDUH. How do they not see it? They really are clueless.


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[flocketyflock]

On QTK IG she is again trying to pass off someone else’s lips as her own.


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[AthenaA]

I doubt the cats will ever be just fine. Unless, Tawney and Clyde disappear.
Lectures ruin the "snark" fun, here. Just saying.....

Really? If we are completely one sided we are no better than the KADs.

[flocketyflock]

On QTK IG she is again trying to pass off someone else’s lips as her own.


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Along with about 20 selfies in a row (all old and all totally photoshopped) on her IG stories


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[B4bfmmom]

Dear God, STOP TAKING TO YOUR GIRLS WITH BABY TALK!!! THEY NEED TO HEAR HOW TO SPEAK PROPERLY SO THEY CAN SPEAK PROPERLY, YOU FREAKING SELFISH IDIOTS!!!! The two of you are LITERALLY the MOST SELFISH, IGNORANT, NARSACISTIC FOOLS EVER!!!!

“Daddy go get a drink!!!!!” “You da best momma ever!!!”
Seriously, Child Wife? Do you think you sound cleaver or do your seriously still believe your 3 1/2 year old daughters are “tiny babies”. Stop it!!

This isn’t the time I’ve heard you ask Indie or Esme what their babies name is. Can you begin to understand how sad it is your girls have NO IDEA WHAT YOUR ARE TALKING ABOUT? THEY HAVE NO CONCEPT WHAT NAMES MEAN AND EVERYONE HAS ONE!!! This is a clear example of them being BEHIND developmentally and the fact you and your loser hubby honestly think they are “so smart” is frightening. You praise Indie for tracing shapes? She should have been doing that at 2 years old! They are at least 1 1/2 years behind, if not more. They should know their colors....this means staying the correct color on the first try, every time. They should be able to count to at least 50 and know the numbers when shown them; same with ALL letters. (And if they know colors and letters as you claim, show us. Show us them stating every letter, out of order, and every color more than one time. I dare you.) They should know how to spell their names and write them. They should know their address and phone number.

It is so sad to me not one of your girls can comprehend basic questions and usually answer every stupid question you and lazy ass ask them with a color or animal or Costco. “Where do you want to go?” “Costco.” Never the zoo, the library, the park, etc.; just Costco. “What’s your favorite fruit?” “Pink.” Wow, way to teach your kids. Brilliant.

I’m am happy to see Indie has been allowed to have a doll she loves and the other 3 haven’t been forced to like dolls as well or she hasn’t been made to stop carrying and loving her doll because God knows all 4 MUST BE EXACTLY THE SAME AT ALL TIMES. The FACT she has NO CLUE what naming her baby means should concern you. Again - She’s 3 1/2. My daughter named her favorite blanket “B” at 9 - 10 months old, named her favorite doll, her first real doll she got for her first birthday, Jenni, at age 1 and continued to name each doll or animal she ever received. No one told her what to name them or gave her ideas. She just knew, by listening and learning, as kid should be able to do in order to figure things out, that people and pets have names; then she picked names she liked. You absolutely SHOULD BE CONCERNED YOUR GIRLS DO NOT CATCH ON TO WHATS AROUND THEM...AND JUST STARE BLANKLY. I blame their imbicile parents for this because NEITHER OF YOU GIVE TWO CRAPS WHAT YOU
HAVENT TAUGHT THEM FOR THEIR GOOD. You are too worried about what you do teach them and that is to not bother with manners, to be selfish, grabbing, whining kids who “need it” ALL THE TIME without a please, thank you or you’re welcome to be shared. You’ve taught them MONEY MEANS EVERYTHING, that POSTING INAPPROPRIATE PICTURES OF THEMSELVES WITH THEIR BOOBS HANGING OUT, MOUTHS OPEN AND TONGUES OUT IS MORALLY FINE BECAUSE THEY ARE HELPING PERVERTS FEEL GOOD AND ITS PERFECTLY FINE TO LIE ABOUT EVERYTHING, INCLUDING A SO CALLED FAITH IN ORDER TO GET WHAT YOU WANT.

Wake up, you idiotic fools!!!! You are HURTING YOUR CHILDREN! YOU ARE NEGLECTING THEM IN SO MANY WAYS. Once again, I say, IF YOU LOVE THEM AS YOU CLAIM (which I honestly doubt), PUT DOWN YOUR PHONES, STOP FILMING THEM AND POSTING THEIR LIVES ON ALL SOCIAL MEDIA AND START PAYING ATTENTION TO THEIE NEEDS, NOT YOURS!

Ok, this is a little over the top. They drive me crazy too but a three yr old isn’t behind because they can’t count to 50. They also do not need to know all their letters. They should begin practicing them but I wouldn’t say they are behind for not knowing ALL of them. And as far as naming a doll. Does it really matter if she’s named it? It’s more important that she’s playing imaginary play at this age. We don’t always have to rush everything.


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Where we live, the school system requires your child entering kindergarten to know all their letters and count to 50. Plus, their full name. With that said, what is concerning is that indie didn't understand what Assface meant when she asked her what her dolls name was. She should at least know what that means, a name or naming her doll. Not shrug and look at the dog.
Why aren't they concerned about this? Its not funny stupid idiots! Damn.

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Thank you, Night Lady! I know I’m not crazy knowing what I HELPED 4 - 5 year olds be tested on at Round-up - the April before they enter Kindergarten in the fall. I was there. I saw heard what teachers were asking and what task I was given to do with the kiddos to see what they knew. Even a mom who said HER CHILD JUST GRADUATED KINDERGARTEN was told she was wrong, that Kindergarteners didn’t do what she said her son did. Um...I’m pretty sure SHE KNOWS WHAT HER CHILD DID OR DID NOT DO IN KINDERGARTEN.

Yes, every state is different. But it cannot be denied that these girls are behind and this will cause issues when it comes time to enter elementary school. It is also sadly EXTREMELY OBVIOUS to most they are clearly dealing with cognitive issues. At 3 1/2 years old they should not be staring blankly when asked basic questions. Nor should they look around and name the first thing they see. And, yes, there most certainly are 18 month old kiddos who “name” their toys. It’s nit all that uncommmon.

The point of all of this is those girls don’t stand a chance to catch up if their IDIOT PARENTS CONTINUE TO DENY THEY HAVE ISSUES AND REFUSE TO GET THEM ANY HELP. They need to grow up, stop being so self centered and start working with their girls. Reading to them would be an amazing start. By this, dingbats, I mean sitting down with them, tell them it’s time to sit and listen, read every word, ask them questions, etc. Stop putting yourselves first and help your girls!

[B4bfmmom]

I doubt the cats will ever be just fine. Unless, Tawney and Clyde disappear.
Lectures ruin the "snark" fun, here. Just saying.....

Thank you. I like to lecture Dimwit and Douche Bag, but not snarkers. I hope that’s clear. I’ve been reprimanded and corrected so often today I thought I was mistaken that I had indeed helped teachers test kids regarding Kindergarten readiness. I’m pretty sure that was me sitting in those tiny chairs at tiny tables, but I began to wonder if I may have been dreaming...so much so, I questioned if my child ever ACTUALLY LITERALLY attended Kindergarten in this first place. After a couple of sweet friends on here agreed with me, I realized I hadn’t dreamed it all up! Good to know!

[Howlin17]

I doubt the cats will ever be just fine. Unless, Tawney and Clyde disappear.
Lectures ruin the "snark" fun, here. Just saying.....

Really? If we are completely one sided we are no better than the KADs.

Since I said nothing about being "one sided", I suppose you misunderstood what I meant. There is not one single person here who I would ever compare to a KAD. There is a difference between disagreeing and being disagreeable. Really.

[B4bfmmom]

[quote="XYZ"]This page has all the info on kindergarten in Utah.
https://www.schools.utah.gov/curr/kindergarten[/quote

Thank you for sharing this! You are so beautiful and yes, I love it!

Wow. Poor Nanny and preschool teachers are going to have A LOT to play catch up on...even if it’s 2 years away. Those poor girls. Breaks my heart for them. NONE of the issues they have are their fault.

So does it mean in the frequently asked questions section kids are only required to attend a minimum of 2 hours a day for Kindergarten? Does Utah have all day Kindergarten? Just curious.

[soooawesome]

Wow, who was out past their bedtime and cranky as hell at the end of the party? Not the girls.

[3momstrong]

Wow, who was out past their bedtime and cranky as hell at the end of the party? Not the girls.

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He behaved like a petulant child the entire party.



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[soooawesome]

He behaved like a petulant child the entire party.

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He didn't even try to hide it, so obvious he did not want to be there.

[AthenaA]

I doubt the cats will ever be just fine. Unless, Tawney and Clyde disappear.
Lectures ruin the "snark" fun, here. Just saying.....

Really? If we are completely one sided we are no better than the KADs.

Since I said nothing about being "one sided", I suppose you misunderstood what I meant. There is not one single person here who I would ever compare to a KAD. There is a difference between disagreeing and being disagreeable. Really.

Who was disagreeable? No one as far as I can see. What I said was that if we all have to have one unified voice all the time then that is KAD like behaviour.

I am in Australia. Children may be tested for what they know. But public schools have to take children. They do assess where they are up to but no public school is legally allowed to turn away a child. I presume that public schools work the same way there. If a kid rocks up and doesn't know any letters/numbers then that is their starting point. But they cannot legally be refused school entry.

However and this is the point we all agree on is that kids being behind does a great disservice to the child. And that four children that have had two full time parents in the first three years of life should be in a great position to know all the basics. But because their parents are dumb and dumber they haven't been taught anything. There are obvious speech delays and possibly other issues which they are ignoring. And the tragic thing is that the girls ability is much greater than they allow for. We saw it in their speech in Hawaii last year and we see in with the short time they have had Nanny Ash.

[B4bfmmom]

He behaved like a petulant child the entire party.


He really has been acting like a pouty teenage girl having a little tissy fit the past few days hasn’t he? Ever since Child Wife went purple and they went to the pool and he didn’t step a toe in the water, he’s been behaving like a whiny cry baby who got their feelings hurt and didn’t get their way. So weird...yet enjoyable to witness. All the blogs and “I show you” answers...Me thinks thou doth protest too much, Tyler.

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[AthenaA]

I watched the vlog because it makes me happy to see sulky Tyson.

The vlog was ok-Tyson mad and fat not wanting to go down slides in case he gets stuck, Brandon was speechless, Trash was less annoying than usual and the girls had a great time. At the end Byson says they were so tired they went straight to sleep! Yes because they were out and enjoying themselves dimwit.

[3momstrong]

He behaved like a petulant child the entire party.


He really has been acting like a pouty teenage girl having a little tissy fit the past few days hasn’t he? Ever since Child Wife went purple and they went to the pool and he didn’t step a toe in the water, he’s been behaving like a whiny cry baby who got their feelings hurt and didn’t get their way. So weird...yet enjoyable to witness. All the blogs and “I show you” answers...Me thinks thou doth protest too much, Tyler.

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YESSSSS!!!!!! ^^^^^^^ If you haven’t had a chance go to post #346. I shared some interesting (but not surprising) observations!


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