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Re: JesssFam: I See Your True Lashes Shining Through (Part 1

Postby Viewingsince2010 » Fri Jun 15, 2018 10:10 am

I don't think it is a bad thing for Chris to have a hobby. But I think we all see him as a lazy freeloader. He does the absolute bare minimum in that house. He doesn't give his step kids the time of day. I think he could really benefit from some antidepressants, he seems to really be going through something. Or maybe he is just absolutely over Jess and her kids. I think their relationship is actually really bad off camera and I imagine them arguing constantly. I also think Jess will never make it easy for him to spend one on one time with his kids. She will keep spending money on projects for him to do to keep him busy and they will only do "family" things all summer.
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Re: JesssFam: I See Your True Lashes Shining Through (Part 1

Postby MommaMia3 » Fri Jun 15, 2018 10:12 am

I think that for normal parents that actually put effort into caring for their kids, no one would have a problem with them taking a day for themselves. But Chris and Jess are so incredibly lazy on a daily basis, what exactly is it that they need a break from? They don't discipline the kids at all, they don't clean, they don't cook for the family. The most they do is go to Target or Lowe's.

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Re: JesssFam: I See Your True Lashes Shining Through (Part 1

Postby DoodleBop2 » Fri Jun 15, 2018 11:09 am

What exactly does Chris need a break from? He hardly does anything.
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Re: JesssFam: I See Your True Lashes Shining Through (Part 1

Postby DoodleBop2 » Fri Jun 15, 2018 11:13 am

shilohjulia wrote:It’s just hella trashy that the one time his bio kids are actually over his house he leaves for the day to play a game. A game that little boys like. His father passed it down to him, so why isn’t he passing it on to his boys? He could have them join a kids team or whatever. Jess has her boys in baseball and gymnastics ... T&C come over and get stuck sitting in the bleachers watching their stepbrothers play. It’s like Chris thinks just having the boys is enough. Like dude interact with them. Take them out. Lilia goes and spends time with her Dad’s family alone. Why do all the jesssssskids always have to be together? When Chris has his boys he never spends any alone time with them. He’s so lazy and phones it in 90% of the time, all he cares about is his precious Adderal


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This. He's not working on having a relationship with his boys and then he'll probably blame their mom when they don't want to come to visit. He should be doing things with the boys even taking one on one lunches out without the siblings so they can talk as father and son.
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Re: JesssFam: I See Your True Lashes Shining Through (Part 1

Postby Sparklingdee » Fri Jun 15, 2018 12:17 pm

Its not even as tho he WORKS when Tommy and Caden are visiting his house lmao like DUDEEE, you dont work, you have every second of ever hour free. Do something with just T&C, even if its just a lunch just the 3 of them.
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Re: JesssFam: I See Your True Lashes Shining Through (Part 1

Postby Bsveach15 » Fri Jun 15, 2018 1:38 pm

Tell me why Kaden is eating Gerber baby snacks? Those are for babies younger than Addie even.

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Also, 6 years later and she’s now noticing how bad she lumps the twins together?
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Re: JesssFam: I See Your True Lashes Shining Through (Part 1

Postby Sparklingdee » Fri Jun 15, 2018 1:40 pm

I hope Jess DOES keep taking 1 or 2 kids out like she did in todays vlog with Kaden + Caden - god knows they need time away from the chaos. She said Kaden suffers with a big family but I get the vibe that its Kyson who doesnt like it!
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Re: JesssFam: I See Your True Lashes Shining Through (Part 1

Postby blipbloop » Fri Jun 15, 2018 1:41 pm

I’m all for parents getting a break. Hell knows I need one, and so does my partner. What bugs me is that Chris gets to take a break, but Jess, as least as far as we see, doesn’t. For all of her flaws, she is with those kids nearly 100% of the time and hardly gets a minute to herself unless it’s like one in the morning. I don’t we’ve ever seen Chris take all of the kids. It may happen, we can’t say for sure that it doesn’t, but it doesn’t seem likely.

In my opinion - and this is just me speculating - I don’t see Jess as a bad person, though I think she makes bad choices. I think most (not all) of these choices stem from a) being incredibly overwhelmed and b) not ever really having the time to develop herself as a person.

I have ONE kid and I know how hard and how tiring it is. Doing it without a break would suck, and Chris doesn’t seem to get that his taking a break (which is fine in and of itself) puts a tremendous strain on his wife, with little reciprocation for her.


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Re: JesssFam: I See Your True Lashes Shining Through (Part 1

Postby blipbloop » Fri Jun 15, 2018 1:43 pm

Though I also don’t get the not working thing. Like yeah they’re financially comfortable, but doesn’t he get bored?? I’m ready to pull my hair out after even just a day of not feeling productive.


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Re: JesssFam: I See Your True Lashes Shining Through (Part 1

Postby Amelia322 » Fri Jun 15, 2018 1:44 pm

blipbloop wrote:I’m all for parents getting a break. Hell knows I need one, and so does my partner. What bugs me is that Chris gets to take a break, but Jess, as least as far as we see, doesn’t. For all of her flaws, she is with those kids nearly 100% of the time and hardly gets a minute to herself unless it’s like one in the morning. I don’t we’ve ever seen Chris take all of the kids. It may happen, we can’t say for sure that it doesn’t, but it doesn’t seem likely.

In my opinion - and this is just me speculating - I don’t see Jess as a bad person, though I think she makes bad choices. I think most (not all) of these choices stem from a) being incredibly overwhelmed and b) not ever really having the time to develop herself as a person.

I have ONE kid and I know how hard and how tiring it is. Doing it without a break would suck, and Chris doesn’t seem to get that his taking a break (which is fine in and of itself) puts a tremendous strain on his wife, with little reciprocation for her.


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Re: JesssFam: I See Your True Lashes Shining Through (Part 1

Postby Echox3 » Fri Jun 15, 2018 2:04 pm

I don’t like the idea that Chris gets a day off for multiple reasons;

He doesn’t do anything to bring in money. Not even a part time job that’s 2-3 days a week. He could be working when all the kids are in school; Jess can handle 5/7 kids while he’s gone all day Sunday, I’m sure she can handle Addie during the day

You know damn well that if Jess took off every Saturday, Chris would be slingshotting the kids to Mimi, the neighbour, Gabe, anywhere he could!

We can whine and bitch that Jess should do something (go back to school) but she at least brings in the income.


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Re: JesssFam: I See Your True Lashes Shining Through (Part 1

Postby sondraK » Fri Jun 15, 2018 2:26 pm

I would love to see Jess n Janelle take a day off,while Chris watches all the kids.Alyna,too.Didn't he say he wanted to step up and be a father figure for her? Then spend some time with her.
J nJ can go shopping,movie,library or bookstore to read etc.No bar hopping! LOL
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Re: JesssFam: I See Your True Lashes Shining Through (Part 1

Postby Iammrsnesbitt » Fri Jun 15, 2018 2:32 pm

blipbloop wrote:Though I also don’t get the not working thing. Like yeah they’re financially comfortable, but doesn’t he get bored?? I’m ready to pull my hair out after even just a day of not feeling productive.


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Right?? I was a stay at home mom for about 2 years and I was so bored all the time. I would babysit a little to bring in some money for myself but at the end of the day I was constantly like “I just want to contribute to society and leave the house!” I’m just not one of those people who can constantly stay at home.
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Re: JesssFam: I See Your True Lashes Shining Through (Part 1

Postby Mommyof6 » Fri Jun 15, 2018 2:35 pm

Sparklingdee wrote:Its not even as tho he WORKS when Tommy and Caden are visiting his house lmao like DUDEEE, you dont work, you have every second of ever hour free. Do something with just T&C, even if its just a lunch just the 3 of them.
I agree its about the money you spend on the kids its the memories they will remember.

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Re: JesssFam: I See Your True Lashes Shining Through (Part 1

Postby dazzled » Fri Jun 15, 2018 2:41 pm

Wow, she finally realizes what people here have been saying all along... That some of those kids might actually want some quiet and peace and not be locked in with a bunch of screeching children.

Taking only two with her is a good enough start (even if it was just a glorified shopping trip) but she should also introduce some quiet time. I can't imagine being in a house that noisy 24/7. Also she really should've gotten a bigger house so the kids could have some breathing room. In a few years Caden will want to have some privacy.

I also hope she realizes that Kyson probably feels the same way Caden and Kaden do.
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Re: JesssFam: I See Your True Lashes Shining Through (Part 1

Postby LilaLavender » Fri Jun 15, 2018 2:46 pm

Ernestthecow wrote:How do we know that man whom was supposedly Alyna's father wasn't Jannell's new boyfriend?
Just wondering, as I might have missed something


Because I recognise his face from his FB page, which, yknow, had his name on them. The pictures I posted of him are from his own girlfriend's Instagram account.

Janell has a picture of her with some other guy on her Instagram right now in which she calls the guy she's with her "best friend".
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Re: JesssFam: I See Your True Lashes Shining Through (Part 1

Postby thewordalive » Fri Jun 15, 2018 3:12 pm

I disagree with what she said about giving more attention to kyson than Kaden. L M A O

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Re: JesssFam: I See Your True Lashes Shining Through (Part 1

Postby kiki » Fri Jun 15, 2018 6:17 pm

Wolvesmouth101 wrote:Anyone find it weird that when shes asked how many siblings she has she says 1 just Ben when she has alot of step and a half brother but yet she makes them all say theyre all brothers and sisters and make it look like she has all these kids when tommy & caden arent hers... it’s just two sided
This has always driven me crazy. She went on and on when she got with drake about how much she LOVED having 2 dads growing up and LOVED being from a blended family, blah blah blah. Yet we NEVER hear or see her step siblings. I dont think sje has much of a relationship witj them and i dont recall her EVER talking about her stepmother. We've never seen her in a vlog... she's also made comments about her bio dad in the past saying he cheated on her mom, left them, and basically started a new family. She was obviously resentful. That's why she prefers her step dad and why she had no problem throwing gave under the bus after their breakup and getting Lilia to call drake "daddy" after dating him for 3 months. And for some reason when her dad leaves and starts a new family, he abandoned her and Ben, but when Chris does the same thing, it's "stepping up" to look after her sons!

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Re: JesssFam: I See Your True Lashes Shining Through (Part 1

Postby kiki » Fri Jun 15, 2018 6:18 pm

kiki wrote:
Wolvesmouth101 wrote:Anyone find it weird that when shes asked how many siblings she has she says 1 just Ben when she has alot of step and a half brother but yet she makes them all say theyre all brothers and sisters and make it look like she has all these kids when tommy & caden arent hers... it’s just two sided
This has always driven me crazy. She went on and on when she got with drake about how much she LOVED having 2 dads growing up and LOVED being from a blended family, blah blah blah. Yet we NEVER hear or see her step siblings. I dont think sje has much of a relationship witj them and i dont recall her EVER talking about her stepmother. We've never seen her in a vlog... she's also made comments about her bio dad in the past saying he cheated on her mom, left them, and basically started a new family. She was obviously resentful. That's why she prefers her step dad and why she had no problem throwing gave under the bus after their breakup and getting Lilia to call drake "daddy" after dating him for 3 months. And for some reason when her dad leaves and starts a new family, he abandoned her and Ben, but when Chris does the same thing, it's "stepping up" to look after her sons!

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Actually now that I think about it, we never hear about her stepdad's kids either... I forgot he even had any

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Re: JesssFam: I See Your True Lashes Shining Through (Part 1

Postby blipbloop » Fri Jun 15, 2018 7:10 pm

Amelia322 wrote:
blipbloop wrote:I’m all for parents getting a break. Hell knows I need one, and so does my partner. What bugs me is that Chris gets to take a break, but Jess, as least as far as we see, doesn’t. For all of her flaws, she is with those kids nearly 100% of the time and hardly gets a minute to herself unless it’s like one in the morning. I don’t we’ve ever seen Chris take all of the kids. It may happen, we can’t say for sure that it doesn’t, but it doesn’t seem likely.

In my opinion - and this is just me speculating - I don’t see Jess as a bad person, though I think she makes bad choices. I think most (not all) of these choices stem from a) being incredibly overwhelmed and b) not ever really having the time to develop herself as a person.

I have ONE kid and I know how hard and how tiring it is. Doing it without a break would suck, and Chris doesn’t seem to get that his taking a break (which is fine in and of itself) puts a tremendous strain on his wife, with little reciprocation for her.


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I mean regardless, lots of people plan pregnancies and later find themselves overwhelmed! I’m not saying it was good or right or that I agree with it - I’m just stating it as a potential reason!


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Re: JesssFam: I See Your True Lashes Shining Through (Part 1

Postby Wolvesmouth101 » Fri Jun 15, 2018 7:18 pm

kiki wrote:
Wolvesmouth101 wrote:Anyone find it weird that when shes asked how many siblings she has she says 1 just Ben when she has alot of step and a half brother but yet she makes them all say theyre all brothers and sisters and make it look like she has all these kids when tommy & caden arent hers... it’s just two sided
This has always driven me crazy. She went on and on when she got with drake about how much she LOVED having 2 dads growing up and LOVED being from a blended family, blah blah blah. Yet we NEVER hear or see her step siblings. I dont think sje has much of a relationship witj them and i dont recall her EVER talking about her stepmother. We've never seen her in a vlog... she's also made comments about her bio dad in the past saying he cheated on her mom, left them, and basically started a new family. She was obviously resentful. That's why she prefers her step dad and why she had no problem throwing gave under the bus after their breakup and getting Lilia to call drake "daddy" after dating him for 3 months. And for some reason when her dad leaves and starts a new family, he abandoned her and Ben, but when Chris does the same thing, it's "stepping up" to look after her sons!

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yup!! Idk how ive never seen anyone talk about this before but it’s always bothered me!! Shes always like oh yeah guys that my step brother. He’s only an after thought
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Re: JesssFam: I See Your True Lashes Shining Through (Part 1

Postby DoodleBop2 » Fri Jun 15, 2018 7:21 pm

Ben is probably the only one who can actually stand her and even Ben sometimes seems so tired of her.
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Re: JesssFam: I See Your True Lashes Shining Through (Part 1

Postby hopelesslysoulful » Fri Jun 15, 2018 7:38 pm

DoodleBop2 wrote:Ben is probably the only one who can actually stand her and even Ben sometimes seems so tired of her.


Funny. I don’t even think he likes her


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Re: JesssFam: I See Your True Lashes Shining Through (Part 1

Postby kiki » Fri Jun 15, 2018 7:41 pm

hopelesslysoulful wrote:
DoodleBop2 wrote:Ben is probably the only one who can actually stand her and even Ben sometimes seems so tired of her.


Funny. I don’t even think he likes her


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Well considering she was constantly moving her 3 or 4 kids and baby daddies in and out of that tiny house that he was forced to share with them.... and we know Wendy's time and attention was 100% about jessica. She literally took over that entire house. They probably forgot ben even existed.

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Re: JesssFam: I See Your True Lashes Shining Through (Part 1

Postby courtneybenjamin » Fri Jun 15, 2018 7:46 pm

for me its not that he has a hobby its that he plays every sunday so when his children come tge odd time they do you think he would spend it with them either not going or bringing them with

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