So those she finally knkw where she is moving? LolPrimadxnna wrote:[img]//uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/201809 ... bfb13d.png[/img][img]//uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/201809 ... e1b3df.png[/img][img]//uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/201809 ... 395454.png[/img]
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Things* sorry lolssr0312 wrote:So those she finally knkw where she is moving? LolPrimadxnna wrote:[img]//uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/201809 ... bfb13d.png[/img][img]//uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/201809 ... e1b3df.png[/img][img]//uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/201809 ... 395454.png[/img]
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I really want to see her do think by herself with no help.
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I agree, she needs serious help from a professional. I'm not sure why no one close to her is addressing it... or maybe they are?kiwi wrote:Is she really coping well though, even with the amount of help she has? The poor girl is pulling her hair out, picking @ her skin and scarfing down diet pills. That’s all WITH a live in au pair paid for by the in laws.
There is a deeper issue. A mental health issue that she needs to address head on. This is not normal.
And "apart from that" lolForeverGauc01 wrote:The frequency with which she says “typically” makes me stabby
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This is why David should’ve never went to the military or she should’ve never had Charlie til he was in for at least a few years to see how they manage with that lifestyle.staceybrax wrote:She handled having her kids alone for a year so well that her in laws paid for her to have a live in au pair. Please Vanessa, tell us more about how well you handled things “on your own” for a year (we all know Nona helped you every day). With an au pair she looks like a meth Addict with all of her picking and hair pulling, I hate to think about how how awful actually having to parent is going to make her look.
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Exactly. I understand she misses David and it’s hard for her when he’s gone but it’s not like she wasn’t aware of this before he joined the military. She isn’t some special snowflake, millions of people have to solo parent for a heap of different reasons. There are single parents who have no help and work full time and still manage to actually raise their own children and yet Vanessa can’t seem to manage with a live in au pair and her mother’s help??Resting_Bitch_Face wrote:This is why David should’ve never went to the military or she should’ve never had Charlie til he was in for at least a few years to see how they manage with that lifestyle.staceybrax wrote:She handled having her kids alone for a year so well that her in laws paid for her to have a live in au pair. Please Vanessa, tell us more about how well you handled things “on your own” for a year (we all know Nona helped you every day). With an au pair she looks like a meth Addict with all of her picking and hair pulling, I hate to think about how how awful actually having to parent is going to make her look.
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Military life is just not for them, in her mind she thinks that because she’s gonna be with David now she will magically be on top of everything.....um no sweetie. If you can’t even fucking parent your kids WITH help you won’t do it at all. Just cz you can get pregnant doesn’t mean you should have kids, I really hope she doesn’t ever have a 3rd.
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she probably meant that she lives in there because she’s trying to shit out all the weight she gained after losing weight. So she’s probably taking laxatives again lolResting_Bitch_Face wrote:For the love of god ppl stop send Vanessa free shit...she just said she “never has time to put on face masks” then a minute later she says “I live in my bathroom and at night I always pampers herself”....so which lie is the right one? Lol these companies need to stop sending her shit because she is such a damn moron, so much second hand embarrassment. [img]//uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/201809 ... 041f38.png[/img][img]//uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/201809 ... 48ffe1.png[/img]
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Hahahahahaanr92 wrote:she probably meant that she lives in there because she’s trying to shit out all the weight she gained after losing weight. So she’s probably taking laxatives again lolResting_Bitch_Face wrote:For the love of god ppl stop send Vanessa free shit...she just said she “never has time to put on face masks” then a minute later she says “I live in my bathroom and at night I always pampers herself”....so which lie is the right one? Lol these companies need to stop sending her shit because she is such a damn moron, so much second hand embarrassment. [img]//uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/201809 ... 041f38.png[/img][img]//uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/201809 ... 48ffe1.png[/img]
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David should probably find another career but 1. I don’t think he’s in tune enough/cares about Vanessa’s mental state to give up the job that gives him the biggest excuse to continue not to parent his children and 2. The military was like his last option. He dropped out of college, and before he joined the military he was working a dead end job as an overnight security guard. The military was his parents’ last ditch effort to get him to straighten up and start really supporting his family. If he quit, I don’t know what options he’d have considering he comes off as a spoiled immature rich kid who knows he can kinda coast through life because his parents will always provide if he can’t.tieruhhlynn wrote:I honestly feel as though David should find a different career. With Lily having her disabilities and Vanessa clearly having codependency issues, she's not going to fair well in the long run and if David loved her he'd consider that. My husband is military, but I've proven I can handle my shit with being overseas and by myself with our son. Vanessa needs a ton of help, and clearly has some mental issues. That's a recipe for disaster. One woman even killed herself and her child while her husband was deployed because she didn't get the help she needed. Another one killed her child. I'm not saying Vanessa would go that far but it's worrisome. Military life isn't for them, and I've never seen such an out of touch relationship either.
Omg, you can really see how bad her hair is on that pictureResting_Bitch_Face wrote:Why? Why would she choose that thumbnail? [img]//uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/201809 ... 9bf5e8.png[/img]
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