chloe6124 wrote:Echox3 wrote:chloe6124 wrote:
If nonny didn’t want to stay and live with them she would of renewed her lease or found a different apartment. At least now she will beable to sit and watch her own shows or even set up a area to do crafts or what ever she likes to do. She is a grown woman and if she didn’t want to live with them she would find her own place. This is no way Keren and khoas fault. They are giving her a excellent opportunity to save money and maybe retire in a couple years if she wants. Is it ideal. No but this is what she wants to do at the moment. She is 65 yo and can make her own decisions. Maybe in five or ten years they find a bigger house that will work better.
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LOL you really believe that? Keren already said the old furniture is going upstairs so Nonnie has no say on how her room will look.
They said ‘this is the last time we’re going up here. The kids will still be up here’ aka ‘Jackson? Wanna go see Nonnie?’ And then she’ll pawn them off to her.
She already had her kids. She raised them. She shouldn’t have to do it again, whether she enjoys it or not. She’s at the age where lots of people retire but instead she’s being forced to parent her grandkids cause her conceited daughter needs to nap 38298 hours a day.
It’s great that they offered her a place rent free because maybe she can’t afford a place but that should have been done from the kindness of their hearts, not for the free babysitting.
And don’t give me examples of your family. I don’t want to discuss them, otherwise I would make a board for your family.
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I understand that. The point is she is a 65 yo adult woman. She can do what she wants. To say she had no say is ludicrous. What if she has no money saved. She works at a sleep number store. She isn’t ranking in the bucks. If in six months she thinks it isn’t working she will get her own place. Or maybe she will meet someone. She isn’t being forced to do anything. Everyone is different. Maybe she enjoys being there. Not everyone wants what you would want.
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not everyone wants what you want either. Maybe she doesn’t enjoy being there. Everyone is different.
I agreed that yes, maybe she can’t afford to move out but does that mean that her daughter, who stays at home all day, should pass her kids off to her mom? NO.
You’ve stated multiple times you’re disabled. So if your sister drops her rambunctious kids off and wants you to babysit them all morning, every day, you’re okay with that, right? When they’re climbing on you and shrieking ‘EH EH EHHHH’, and both older kids want to be held while you’re holding he baby, that’s okay still?
Oh, and go live upstairs where there’s no bathroom or kitchen. And cook for four other people, even though you just worked all day. OH and can you take one of the kids to speech therapy everyday too?
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It’s clearly okay for an elderly lady to do it, and you seem to have nothing but time on your hands with posting here all the time, so it should be okay for you to do everything too!!!
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