Bonnie Hoellein: Flying In A Rage Against Those Who Pay My Wage | Part 17

[Scar2016]

She had all the fibrous fat removed from her body

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By a miracle doctor sent by heavenly father who just performed ground breaking surgery on a-special-kind-of-never-seen-before fibrous fat

[fossilfinger]

I don't understand how she was even a candidate for liposuction. Wouldn't she have to lose most of the weight on her own first? For someone who is overweight, liposuction isn't going to make that much of a difference looks-wise, because they still have abdominal fat that can't be removed by lipo. I guess doctors will do anything if they're paid well for it.

[Scar2016]

Bonnie's grateful tears were from her thinking she did it once again, she won back her viewers, even the ones who doubted her. Once again after a major eff up she came back and fooled them all. Cha ching cha ching her paycheck is still coming There is not other reason for those tears None.
She has so much hyperbole on the skin cancer situation. I can't even with her and her over the top making mountains out of molehills for sympathy. This surgery and how she did her kids just really took it to another level and that she honestly thinks her kids were put on this earth to serve her mental and physical needs and she used their pure trusting love to enable her. It is all so sick.

Also if the video of the confession was just the day before and we know it was because not only did she say so but the peach cobbler cinched it, then why did she act so sickly and in pain in this one, could she not hide it like she did in the confession one just the day before? Why are her fans so stupid?

New thread title: Hyperbole and Lying, Hidden Behind Bonnie's Crying.

[littlebit]

I don't understand how she was even a candidate for liposuction. Wouldn't she have to lose most of the weight on her own first? For someone who is overweight, liposuction isn't going to make that much of a difference looks-wise, because they still have abdominal fat that can't be removed by lipo. I guess doctors will do anything if they're paid well for it.

Would the tummy tuck she’s going to have take care of the abdominal fat? I’m super curious how it’s all going to look when all is said and done


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[natalka81]

It's interesting how this vlog has prompted so many of us to think about our own childhoods, sometimes positively and sometimes not so positively. If Bonnie thinks that not telling her kids about the surgery and then leaning on them for emotional support and bragging about how much they love her was a good plan, then I really think she needs to think twice. There is NOTHING more harmful than a child having to act as an emotional comfort for her/his parent. Once or twice it may happen of course, but not in serious or prolonged situations and certainly not when the child doesn't even know what's really going on. If you're reading this Bonnie, please know that being the parent's go-to person for emotional support can really really screw up a kid. It's NOT their job. They deserve to know as much of the truth as they can handle in a way that makes it less scary and helps them to understand that the grown-ups are making ever effort to keep things under control and to keep the kids safe. And in case it's not clear, I'm speaking from personal experience here.

[lmmomSD]

Anyone see her Instagram story? Bonnie said she fell asleep looking at Halloween costumes with the kids so Olivia changed Lincoln’s diaper and got all the boys to bed apparently. Where’s Joel?


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She fell asleep looking at Halloween costumes with the kids?
Oh yeah, she's taking those pain pills...

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[onbreak]

Under that fibrous fat is pure muscle
donchaknow!

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[Scar2016]

Wow. My single mother died of cancer when I was nine, and I don't ever remember a moment that I was supposed to be taking care of her. She acted so normal up until her last hospitalization that her death caught me completely off guard because she didn't seem that sick at all. We stayed with friends at the very end, but she never stopped taking care of us.

These girls seemed to have been raised in a world where they were either completely ignored or being used for emotional support. They grew up with the mindset that their mother is the most important person in the house, and that mothers are allowed to be selfish even to the detriment of their children. Now that they've grown up to be mothers themselves, they expect their children to give them all of the love and attention that was so lacking in their own childhoods. It's their turn to be the center of attention, everyone else be damned.

Bonnie lacks the insight, self awareness and emotional intelligence to see that she is perpetuating the same familial cycle of insidious dysfunction. And yes, it is most likely learnt behaviour from 'good ole' Jennifer but while that may be the reason it's not an excuse that flies with adult kids of mothers like her, especially those who realise what's been done to them. Way to do a huge and most times irreversible disservice to your kids. My ex birth mother was mentally and emotionally abusive (I did have the insight and stopped the generational cycle vehemently when I had my daughter) which is why I clocked Bonnie long ago. It's like having a sixth sense without being able to put your finger on it with cast iron evidence.

Until of course Bonnie started offering up evidence of her own volition on the vlogs, on instagram and in the YouTube comments section - about her being their mother and as such she-knows-best. Just because you created and birthed a small human doth not make one righteous in all things parenting, at all times. If that were the case foster carers would not exist and there would be no damaged adults walking around from childhood parental abuse/neglect. Her smugness as a mother is unpalatable and unsettling.

[DrYoutube]

Well they did not suck all the fat out of her. She still has her head. I PROMISE you this is going to blow up in her face so badly. I have read the stories of REAL people watching loved ones die and then this narcissist comes off like she just had life saving surgery. She will be looking for validation from EVERYONE once she starts to heal. Also she did NOTHING to get to the root cause of her eating problem. Like I said there is a train wreck coming.

[Aussiegal2017]

She did say Joel was in charge of her pills maybe shes likes those pain killers a bit too much

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[lmmomSD]

She did say Joel was in charge of her pills maybe shes likes those pain killers a bit too much

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If you're unhappy with your life and yourself, it's easy to start taking them to numb the emotional pain, not just for physical pain. I really hope she's being careful. If she seems like a selfish person now, becoming addicted would just be the icing on the cake.
Speaking from experience-- as someone who did take the pills for emotional pain. And getting off them took a lot of work.

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[ba1006]

I don't understand how she was even a candidate for liposuction. Wouldn't she have to lose most of the weight on her own first? For someone who is overweight, liposuction isn't going to make that much of a difference looks-wise, because they still have abdominal fat that can't be removed by lipo. I guess doctors will do anything if they're paid well for it.

Apparently her "doctor" told her she should have liposuction and a tummy tuck to make everything symmetrical - and her Heavenly Father agreed.

[grapesandbeans]

One more thing...was anyone else bothered by her saying Bree was her best friend...err...second best friend because of couse Ellie is her #1. It's weird to have your "best friend" on the payroll. I wonder if she says that to justify having someone else raise and nurture her kids? If it's someone you consider family it's not so bad.

As for her being so looped on pain pills...there is no way that 2 weeks post-op she is still on that high of a dose. My mom had double knee replacement and didn't get that level of pain relief. She either had more done than she is letting on or the surgery was more recent than she is admitting.

Does Bonnie even have other friends she sees outside of church / not "neighbour friends" of course Bree is her second best friend.

[angelfire89]

Maybe it’s partially swelling but she still has a double chin and fat hands. I have arthritis so I know what swollen hands/feet etc can look and feel like. Can’t really tell if that’s what’s going on with Bonnie. Imagine having all this surgery to look fit and thin but still have a round face, double chin and chunky looking hands.

[polly9033]

The blog today she states that it's the first time she's gotten dressed in a couple of weeks (enabler Joel says since "since forever" in the background), but her lies are catching up to her. The video "Regular Vlog" that she obviously had to do as damage control to try and keep her audience....in that video at approx. 11:19 minute mark, she talked about going to some family event where her dad was released from State Presidency (or something in the church). She was dressed in that part of the video (as she was in other videos that followed). I doubt she went to that event in her robe. And YES< these clips are AFTER the surgery because she's talking about "all the crap" they got (her words) from the week prior about not having a regular blog. No question it's after the surgery, and SHE SEEMS JUST FINE in those videos before she told people what she had done and received all that DYSFUNCTIONAL sympathy from duped and fooled viewers. Today's vlog, she said it's been weeks since her surgery, and she tried to say Lincoln didn't think she could bend down to kiss him goodnight. Oh, but in the "Regular Vlog" video she's indicated putting him to sleep and change the poopy diaper. Eiy yih yih. Are people really believing these things from her? I cringe to give her any viewing minutes, and I won't continue watching, but it just amazes me the LIES, the DRAMATICS, and the CRAZY that is coming out of this!!! And by the way, the video, "My Plastic Surgery" at the 6:00 minute mark, she said she gained 10 pounds when she started exercising and in that same minute, she then said she gained 15 pounds. Lies, lies, and more lies! Oy!

[Liz_444]

For those that don't want to give them a view:

https://hooktube.com/watch?v=LKhj_-PwsAc

[ohaudrey]

She seemed high on pills, how long ago was the surgery ?

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Been awhile since I watched her videos but holy crap that vlog was like was like watching a car wreck. From the horrible hair (wtf is happening there) down tiger shaky video of new shoes this lady is something else. Also I know it’s not healthy but where can I find a man who worships me and looks at me like a lost puppy dog like Joel. She acts like she is recovering from a horrible accident with how she treats her family when its a vain attempt at beauty. With all those damn mirrors in her house (literally EVERYWHERE) you’d think she’d see it’s not working. Last thought, Joel looks very fit so where is the disconnect- is she upstairs binging on peach cobbler while he exercises in the basement each night or what?!?!

[Todays drama]

Bonnie should kiss the ground Bree walks on! Bree seems to be a really nice person to the kids and Bonnie. Bonnie would be a mental mess if it wasn’t for her. She wouldn’t be able to have date nights, long weekend get always, hair & nail appts whenever the mood strikes and her house would be a filthy mess. Hopefully when Bree starts her own family, Bonnie will help her out with an occasional date night. But Somehow I doubt Bonnie would ever take time out of her narcissistic day to help anyone out. It IS the Bonnie Show!

[rdt1004]

Joel, I think, is still amazed he managed to land his middle/high school crush so that’s probably why he’s so whipped and enamored with her. He feels like she was way out of his league and he should spend the rest of his life being grateful she ever gave him the time of day. And Bonnie is happy to let him him do it.


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[grapesandbeans]

Maybe it’s partially swelling but she still has a double chin and fat hands. I have arthritis so I know what swollen hands/feet etc can look and feel like. Can’t really tell if that’s what’s going on with Bonnie. Imagine having all this surgery to look fit and thin but still have a round face, double chin and chunky looking hands.

Hands? They still look like pig trotters especially with her claws