Rachelle, Justin and the $20 Onesies | Part 6

[NaNaBrianna]

Yep she reads here:
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[Sweetiebee]

What was the hashtag?

[Andielina0984]

Anyone else see that post where she says she feels "complete" with Emma here?

I'm sorry but since when does losing one baby and having another one, make someone complete? No offense but if you have a kid that died, you will always be incomplete. You can't just put another one in their stead and be complete. What the hell. Poor choice of words maybe? It seems like life subtracted one child (which is sad) but adding another child shouldn't make someone "complete" maybe help the pain and bring you further into motherhood but COMPLETE? What about Brynn? I understand not hurting anymore and moving on but you have a daughter in heaven. How is having another child mending that pain to the point where you feel compete.

Sorry I'm feeling rant-y today. Just an opinion

I think it was just a poor choice of words. Very poor.

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Very poor choice of words. I would never ASK a loss mom if she feels COMPLETE after having her rainbow baby. That seems a little offensive and I'm sure people would get triggered by that choice of words.
Its also something she'd prematurely complain about on twitter. She complains when people didnt call her a mother before Emma (which she totally is a mom) and then she uses words like "first time mom" and finally "feeling complete" poor choice.

I lost one before my daughter was born and a set of triplets two years after both times between 19 and 21 weeks. No, our lives aren’t complete. We have 4 missing kiddos. However had I not lost my first, we we wouldn’t have out 12 year old and she was not a planned pregnancy months after my first one passed away. We never say our lives our complete. We say we are blessed with our ( not so) tiny human.


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[judgeybuggie]

Anyone else see that post where she says she feels "complete" with Emma here?

I'm sorry but since when does losing one baby and having another one, make someone complete? No offense but if you have a kid that died, you will always be incomplete. You can't just put another one in their stead and be complete. What the hell. Poor choice of words maybe? It seems like life subtracted one child (which is sad) but adding another child shouldn't make someone "complete" maybe help the pain and bring you further into motherhood but COMPLETE? What about Brynn? I understand not hurting anymore and moving on but you have a daughter in heaven. How is having another child mending that pain to the point where you feel compete.

Sorry I'm feeling rant-y today. Just an opinion

Let her enjoy it. She shouldn't have to dial down her joy because she lost her previous daughter. It's a big thing that should be met with celebration. She probably didn't mean it in that way.

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It's not about letting her enjoy things it's her platform. She filmed her journey and stuff as a loss mom, it's safe to say that not every follower of theirs has suffered infertility or loss, she has a platform and she's raised awareness about it (whether she likes it or not) she should use correct terminology. A lot of people don't know what we shouldn't say and I'd think calling her a first time mom or asking if she feels complete should make the list of things not to say to a Mom who's suffered loss. I don't know. Just my opinion

[judgeybuggie]

[/quote]I think it was just a poor choice of words. Very poor.

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Very poor choice of words. I would never ASK a loss mom if she feels COMPLETE after having her rainbow baby. That seems a little offensive and I'm sure people would get triggered by that choice of words.
Its also something she'd prematurely complain about on twitter. She complains when people didnt call her a mother before Emma (which she totally is a mom) and then she uses words like "first time mom" and finally "feeling complete" poor choice.[/quote]

I lost one before my daughter was born and a set of triplets two years after both times between 19 and 21 weeks. No, our lives aren’t complete. We have 4 missing kiddos. However had I not lost my first, we we wouldn’t have out 12 year old and she was not a planned pregnancy months after my first one passed away. We never say our lives our complete. We say we are blessed with our ( not so) tiny human.


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Yeah, I'd assume something like "we feel so blessed" "I feel so blessed" "I feel completely blessed"

But complete.... Girl.

[staceyla]

Anyone else see that post where she says she feels "complete" with Emma here?

I'm sorry but since when does losing one baby and having another one, make someone complete? No offense but if you have a kid that died, you will always be incomplete. You can't just put another one in their stead and be complete. What the hell. Poor choice of words maybe? It seems like life subtracted one child (which is sad) but adding another child shouldn't make someone "complete" maybe help the pain and bring you further into motherhood but COMPLETE? What about Brynn? I understand not hurting anymore and moving on but you have a daughter in heaven. How is having another child mending that pain to the point where you feel compete.

Sorry I'm feeling rant-y today. Just an opinion

Let her enjoy it. She shouldn't have to dial down her joy because she lost her previous daughter. It's a big thing that should be met with celebration. She probably didn't mean it in that way.

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It's not about letting her enjoy things it's her platform. She filmed her journey and stuff as a loss mom, it's safe to say that not every follower of theirs has suffered infertility or loss, she has a platform and she's raised awareness about it (whether she likes it or not) she should use correct terminology. A lot of people don't know what we shouldn't say and I'd think calling her a first time mom or asking if she feels complete should make the list of things not to say to a Mom who's suffered loss. I don't know. Just my opinion

I agree. A lot of people don't know what to say. And her to be insulted by certain things and turn around and call herself a first time mom and saying she feels complete just confuses things. All she wanted was a baby no matter what. I feel like her losing Brynn was mainly sad for her because it didn't result in a healthy baby. It wasn't just the fact that she lost her daughter. (If that makes sense)

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[Andielina0984]

Let her enjoy it. She shouldn't have to dial down her joy because she lost her previous daughter. It's a big thing that should be met with celebration. She probably didn't mean it in that way.

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It's not about letting her enjoy things it's her platform. She filmed her journey and stuff as a loss mom, it's safe to say that not every follower of theirs has suffered infertility or loss, she has a platform and she's raised awareness about it (whether she likes it or not) she should use correct terminology. A lot of people don't know what we shouldn't say and I'd think calling her a first time mom or asking if she feels complete should make the list of things not to say to a Mom who's suffered loss. I don't know. Just my opinion

I agree. A lot of people don't know what to say. And her to be insulted by certain things and turn around and call herself a first time mom and saying she feels complete just confuses things. All she wanted was a baby no matter what. I feel like her losing Brynn was mainly sad for her because it didn't result in a healthy baby. It wasn't just the fact that she lost her daughter. (If that makes sense)

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Makes perfect sense.


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[staceyla]

It's not about letting her enjoy things it's her platform. She filmed her journey and stuff as a loss mom, it's safe to say that not every follower of theirs has suffered infertility or loss, she has a platform and she's raised awareness about it (whether she likes it or not) she should use correct terminology. A lot of people don't know what we shouldn't say and I'd think calling her a first time mom or asking if she feels complete should make the list of things not to say to a Mom who's suffered loss. I don't know. Just my opinion

I agree. A lot of people don't know what to say. And her to be insulted by certain things and turn around and call herself a first time mom and saying she feels complete just confuses things. All she wanted was a baby no matter what. I feel like her losing Brynn was mainly sad for her because it didn't result in a healthy baby. It wasn't just the fact that she lost her daughter. (If that makes sense)

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Makes perfect sense.


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Look at us... Agreeing... Lol

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[Lailac23]

Hello Rachelle... now touch your nose while jumping on one foot for the next vlog.

For a girl that is so mentally unstable as she seems, she shouldn't be reading a gossip site dedicated to her. Massive selfharming. But when the ego is too big...
At least she can find some good advice from real moms here, her minions are probably teenagers looking to ditch school and start having babies.

[Haulnarse]

Vlog recap:

Amazing amazing amazing amazing
Not ruling out homeschooling (wtaf?? I cant even believe she is considered homeschooling!!!)
Parenting style the same (see siblings!!) “very much the same person”
Considering moving to cheaper state
Postpartum doing great, hasnt been approved for strenuous physical exercise- she references swimming - which id say was fairly low physically?
She’s doing (surprise surprise) amazingly!
Amazing sleeper
Literally have the baby sleeper
Its amazing
Pp healing amazing
Future ivf - didn’t anticipate needing ivf, body goes through SO MUCH,
Did she just reference “the one that didnt work” - as Brynn??
“Its alot but totally worth it”
End of 2019 start ivf again - does she realise thats 15mths away?? And a potential 2.5-3yr gap if it works first hit
Justins already asking for another one... hint Rachelle: learn to share your toys, Justin wants another one because you dont share!!
“Have another one”... its a BABY, not an fashion statement piece, a BABY
Anxiety, sids. Does she not realise sids doesnt only occur between 8pm-8am?? Its a 24hr risk. And praying to god aint gonna stop that!! We have two sids losses in our immediate family, neither occured at night. One occured in the hospital basinette, the other at 9mths old in a cot during the day.
Apparently she is still seeing a councillor “i just dont vlog about it” - considering thats a huge part of her vlog following, I dont understand why she doesn’t just say “busy day, have councillors appointment today” etc
She cant wait to get a house
She’s honestly never been happier in her life now being a mom
Shes always always wanted to be a mom
Its everything shes dreamed of

She has a strict budget.... wtf??
Budgets for her clothes
Emmas clothes
Justins video games - lol, Justin sorry you have to go nude this month, we didn’t budget money for clothes
No debt - so money parents have paid on things dont count? Id be wanting to pay my parents back
No credit cards - the way she shops online suggests otherwise!

“Is baby waking up? Lets go get her” said in a cringy baby voice :shudder:

[canipetyourdog28]

Vlog recap:

Amazing amazing amazing amazing
Not ruling out homeschooling (wtaf?? I cant even believe she is considered homeschooling!!!)
Parenting style the same (see siblings!!) “very much the same person”
Considering moving to cheaper state
Postpartum doing great, hasnt been approved for strenuous physical exercise- she references swimming - which id say was fairly low physically?
She’s doing (surprise surprise) amazingly!
Amazing sleeper
Literally have the baby sleeper
Its amazing
Pp healing amazing
Future ivf - didn’t anticipate needing ivf, body goes through SO MUCH,
Did she just reference “the one that didnt work” - as Brynn??
“Its alot but totally worth it”
End of 2019 start ivf again - does she realise thats 15mths away?? And a potential 2.5-3yr gap if it works first hit
Justins already asking for another one... hint Rachelle: learn to share your toys, Justin wants another one because you dont share!!
“Have another one”... its a BABY, not an fashion statement piece, a BABY
Anxiety, sids. Does she not realise sids doesnt only occur between 8pm-8am?? Its a 24hr risk. And praying to god aint gonna stop that!! We have two sids losses in our immediate family, neither occured at night. One occured in the hospital basinette, the other at 9mths old in a cot during the day.
Apparently she is still seeing a councillor “i just dont vlog about it” - considering thats a huge part of her vlog following, I dont understand why she doesn’t just say “busy day, have councillors appointment today” etc
She cant wait to get a house
She’s honestly never been happier in her life now being a mom
Shes always always wanted to be a mom
Its everything shes dreamed of

She has a strict budget.... wtf??
Budgets for her clothes
Emmas clothes
Justins video games - lol, Justin sorry you have to go nude this month, we didn’t budget money for clothes
No debt - so money parents have paid on things dont count? Id be wanting to pay my parents back
No credit cards - the way she shops online suggests otherwise!

“Is baby waking up? Lets go get her” said in a cringy baby voice :shudder:

I'm pretty sure wasn't referring to Brynn. She had a failed transfer before she got pregnant with Brynn.

[Lailac23]

Boring...

What I don't understand is why she bothers responding indirectly to our critics/comments on her public platforms. We are critizicing her true colors showing through her actions. Tweeting things to prove us wrong (like that about her two babies) won't make us feel any different because we know she only did it in response to us. And her minions don't care. So, why bother? My guess is to try to silence her own conscience because she knows that we are right most of the time and can see right through her.

[chloe6124]

Vlog recap:

Amazing amazing amazing amazing
Not ruling out homeschooling (wtaf?? I cant even believe she is considered homeschooling!!!)
Parenting style the same (see siblings!!) “very much the same person”
Considering moving to cheaper state
Postpartum doing great, hasnt been approved for strenuous physical exercise- she references swimming - which id say was fairly low physically?
She’s doing (surprise surprise) amazingly!
Amazing sleeper
Literally have the baby sleeper
Its amazing
Pp healing amazing
Future ivf - didn’t anticipate needing ivf, body goes through SO MUCH,
Did she just reference “the one that didnt work” - as Brynn??
“Its alot but totally worth it”
End of 2019 start ivf again - does she realise thats 15mths away?? And a potential 2.5-3yr gap if it works first hit
Justins already asking for another one... hint Rachelle: learn to share your toys, Justin wants another one because you dont share!!
“Have another one”... its a BABY, not an fashion statement piece, a BABY
Anxiety, sids. Does she not realise sids doesnt only occur between 8pm-8am?? Its a 24hr risk. And praying to god aint gonna stop that!! We have two sids losses in our immediate family, neither occured at night. One occured in the hospital basinette, the other at 9mths old in a cot during the day.
Apparently she is still seeing a councillor “i just dont vlog about it” - considering thats a huge part of her vlog following, I dont understand why she doesn’t just say “busy day, have councillors appointment today” etc
She cant wait to get a house
She’s honestly never been happier in her life now being a mom
Shes always always wanted to be a mom
Its everything shes dreamed of

She has a strict budget.... wtf??
Budgets for her clothes
Emmas clothes
Justins video games - lol, Justin sorry you have to go nude this month, we didn’t budget money for clothes
No debt - so money parents have paid on things dont count? Id be wanting to pay my parents back
No credit cards - the way she shops online suggests otherwise!

“Is baby waking up? Lets go get her” said in a cringy baby voice :shudder:

She follows Dave Ramsey. Yes that is how his budget system works. You litterly budget every penny when you get paid. You make envelope categories for everything. She probably uses a debit card online. Being debt free frees up so much money. She was also right about her target hauls. In the Dave Ramsey system you budget blow/fun money. His system is awesome and it sounds weird but it gives you permission to spend. I remember on Twitter Rachelle saying her and Justin already have IRA’s for retirement they contribute to. Doing his system has probably let them live a more comfortable life on less money.


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[Mommajamba]

Vlog recap:

Amazing amazing amazing amazing
Not ruling out homeschooling (wtaf?? I cant even believe she is considered homeschooling!!!)
Parenting style the same (see siblings!!) “very much the same person”
Considering moving to cheaper state
Postpartum doing great, hasnt been approved for strenuous physical exercise- she references swimming - which id say was fairly low physically?
She’s doing (surprise surprise) amazingly!
Amazing sleeper
Literally have the baby sleeper
Its amazing
Pp healing amazing
Future ivf - didn’t anticipate needing ivf, body goes through SO MUCH,
Did she just reference “the one that didnt work” - as Brynn??
“Its alot but totally worth it”
End of 2019 start ivf again - does she realise thats 15mths away?? And a potential 2.5-3yr gap if it works first hit
Justins already asking for another one... hint Rachelle: learn to share your toys, Justin wants another one because you dont share!!
“Have another one”... its a BABY, not an fashion statement piece, a BABY
Anxiety, sids. Does she not realise sids doesnt only occur between 8pm-8am?? Its a 24hr risk. And praying to god aint gonna stop that!! We have two sids losses in our immediate family, neither occured at night. One occured in the hospital basinette, the other at 9mths old in a cot during the day.
Apparently she is still seeing a councillor “i just dont vlog about it” - considering thats a huge part of her vlog following, I dont understand why she doesn’t just say “busy day, have councillors appointment today” etc
She cant wait to get a house
She’s honestly never been happier in her life now being a mom
Shes always always wanted to be a mom
Its everything shes dreamed of

She has a strict budget.... wtf??
Budgets for her clothes
Emmas clothes
Justins video games - lol, Justin sorry you have to go nude this month, we didn’t budget money for clothes
No debt - so money parents have paid on things dont count? Id be wanting to pay my parents back
No credit cards - the way she shops online suggests otherwise!

“Is baby waking up? Lets go get her” said in a cringy baby voice :shudder:

She follows Dave Ramsey. Yes that is how his budget system works. You litterly budget every penny when you get paid. You make envelope categories for everything. She probably uses a debit card online. Being debt free frees up so much money. She was also right about her target hauls. In the Dave Ramsey system you budget blow/fun money. His system is awesome and it sounds weird but it gives you permission to spend. I remember on Twitter Rachelle saying her and Justin already have IRA’s for retirement they contribute to. Doing his system has probably let them live a more comfortable life on less money.


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Yes his system may work but I seriously doubt they actually use it. She's tweeted and said before that she spent more at Target then what she originally went for. How do you do that if you budget and go with cash in hand which they supposedly do???

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[chloe6124]

Vlog recap:

Amazing amazing amazing amazing
Not ruling out homeschooling (wtaf?? I cant even believe she is considered homeschooling!!!)
Parenting style the same (see siblings!!) “very much the same person”
Considering moving to cheaper state
Postpartum doing great, hasnt been approved for strenuous physical exercise- she references swimming - which id say was fairly low physically?
She’s doing (surprise surprise) amazingly!
Amazing sleeper
Literally have the baby sleeper
Its amazing
Pp healing amazing
Future ivf - didn’t anticipate needing ivf, body goes through SO MUCH,
Did she just reference “the one that didnt work” - as Brynn??
“Its alot but totally worth it”
End of 2019 start ivf again - does she realise thats 15mths away?? And a potential 2.5-3yr gap if it works first hit
Justins already asking for another one... hint Rachelle: learn to share your toys, Justin wants another one because you dont share!!
“Have another one”... its a BABY, not an fashion statement piece, a BABY
Anxiety, sids. Does she not realise sids doesnt only occur between 8pm-8am?? Its a 24hr risk. And praying to god aint gonna stop that!! We have two sids losses in our immediate family, neither occured at night. One occured in the hospital basinette, the other at 9mths old in a cot during the day.
Apparently she is still seeing a councillor “i just dont vlog about it” - considering thats a huge part of her vlog following, I dont understand why she doesn’t just say “busy day, have councillors appointment today” etc
She cant wait to get a house
She’s honestly never been happier in her life now being a mom
Shes always always wanted to be a mom
Its everything shes dreamed of

She has a strict budget.... wtf??
Budgets for her clothes
Emmas clothes
Justins video games - lol, Justin sorry you have to go nude this month, we didn’t budget money for clothes
No debt - so money parents have paid on things dont count? Id be wanting to pay my parents back
No credit cards - the way she shops online suggests otherwise!

“Is baby waking up? Lets go get her” said in a cringy baby voice :shudder:

She follows Dave Ramsey. Yes that is how his budget system works. You litterly budget every penny when you get paid. You make envelope categories for everything. She probably uses a debit card online. Being debt free frees up so much money. She was also right about her target hauls. In the Dave Ramsey system you budget blow/fun money. His system is awesome and it sounds weird but it gives you permission to spend. I remember on Twitter Rachelle saying her and Justin already have IRA’s for retirement they contribute to. Doing his system has probably let them live a more comfortable life on less money.


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Yes his system may work but I seriously doubt they actually use it. She's tweeted and said before that she spent more at Target then what she originally went for. How do you do that if you budget and go with cash in hand which they supposedly do???

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I guess that just because you bought more then you planned wouldn’t mean that you exceeded the monthly amount. It also gives you room if you budget the money to one category and don’t need it you can use it for another. Or sometimes just leave it there and it builds up or next month you don’t put any extra in it because you didn’t use last months. Usually it’s a monthly amount not budgeting just a one time trip somewhere. You can even put a tiny amount each month for birthdays and gifts and then you don’t have to worry when the time comes.


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[Sweetiebee]

How do you guys know she reads here?

[Haulnarse]

How do you guys know she reads here?

She frequently posts to instagram and makes snark comments in the vlogs to do with things directly mentioned here.

[Haulnarse]

How do you guys know she reads here?

She frequently posts to instagram and makes snark comments in the vlogs to do with things directly mentioned here.

I should say, more-so recently

[Sweetiebee]

How do you guys know she reads here?

She frequently posts to instagram and makes snark comments in the vlogs to do with things directly mentioned here.

Oh really? I guess I've not seen it. Im always curious which vloggers (for certain) come and read the posts.

[judgeybuggie]

Guys, personally I don't think she reads this. I don't think she secretly drops signs for us to catch lol. If some of you are here to hurt her feelings I think that ship has sailed. I love being snarky and bitchy but you can hurt someones feelings only so many times and there's 6 threads probably pages and pages of semi negative comments. She's not crying over them at anymore. If anything it's just curiosity on her part, boredom or constructive feedback.