No, I agree with you. I think Frank is a decent guy. My issue is that Brittany was(is) WAY to trusting. She cannot possibly know for a fact he was a good guy when she brought him to her home on the first date. I actually agree with her that if a guy and your kids dont mix then the relationship is doomed so in that respect I probably would introduce a guy early BUT as a friend and in an open area, NOT my childrens home and not as Mommys new boyfriend. I would arrange it a McDonalds play centre or something and just see if he jived with the kids. Then he wouldn't actually meet them again for a loooong time and my kids wouldnt know of a boyfriend for that time too. However, with Brittany she just jumped right in, guns a blazing.here4the_drama wrote:I've been thinking, and please don't kill me. Just hear me out with an open mind.. what if Frank isn't a bad guy? What if he is just really stupid and got sucked into Bishs shitshow? I sometimes feel like maybe he was all about having a good time, and kids honestly didnt bother him (my now husband had a 6yr old when we met and I was only 21, and I was okay with it). Then Bish gets pregnant on purpose, "oh no, dont worry! I'm on the pill *not*" because she realizes he is just in it for some fun and she wants a more permanent thing. Now here is Frank trying to actually do the right thing and act positive about it all. He just happens to not be the brightest light bulb and keeps making poor choices that just happen to be public. I'm not trying to defend him...I just got to thinking about it. Ean got roped in, whose to say Freenk couldn't have? And the real reason he is always out with her and her friends is because Bish doesn't trust him and SHE makes a big deal he is there... idk...am I the only one to have thought this?
I also think Frank probably just trust Brittany when it comes to Nolans health and he has NO FUCKING IDEA WHAT HE IS IN FOR.
Also, since it is her apartment and probably cheap(ish) and maybe all inclusive, or atleast not at the expense a house will be (property taxes etc) he doesn't realize how bad her spending is. Her spending is also probably under the guise of "new house! New baby" so he doesn't understand she spends like this all the damn time.