OKThey'reFinallyEngaged?! | OKBaby | Part 26

Fri Jan 04, 2019 4:20 am

How absolutely negligent does she have to be. I wondered about the insurance too because her refusal to seek mental help and heal herself on that area. She complained it cost too much to see a therapist. But to willingly get pregnant (they were trying) and to know you need these shots and yet nor get covered or pay out of pocket. Insane!

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Unread post by **wolflily23** » Fri Jan 04, 2019 4:43 am

Steps_to_STFU wrote:How absolutely negligent does she have to be. I wondered about the insurance too because her refusal to seek mental help and heal herself on that area. She complained it cost too much to see a therapist. But to willingly get pregnant (they were trying) and to know you need these shots and yet nor get covered or pay out of pocket. Insane!

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Exactly what I was thinking. You don't TRY for a baby and then not care about making sure that baby is going to be safe especially with them Knowing they need to take these extra steps when they're pregnant. If you know you have difficult pregnancies you better make sure you have all your ducks lined up and are ready for it.
If I'm remembering correctly with Alaya she was doing the shots at home because Oscar used to do it for her all the time.

I'm guessing they have never had insurance because they Never take the kids to the doctor when they're sick and I was always wondering why we've never seen or heard about them taking Alaya for any vaccinations? Maybe they have but I can't remember. I do remember always seeing Levi's vaccination appointments though.

Unread post by **wolflily23** » Fri Jan 04, 2019 4:49 am

Aussiemama wrote:
Islandbaby14 wrote:
MiloandMax wrote:Shots are 1400 each so one bag = 1400. In an entire pregnancy she would need 18-20 and I've heard once you get them in a pregnancy you will need to keep getting them so in total 20 = $28,000.

She could have said insurance but its also possible the doctor hasn't pushed it yet because she hasn't had issues up until this point.

Also this was one drug I looked up costs for and there may be cheaper ones out there. I've never had issues with needing it.
whaaaAt that’s so crazy I love being Australian

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Me too.

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Canadian too! I could not imagine not having free healthcare.

Fri Jan 04, 2019 5:03 am

wolflily23 wrote:
Steps_to_STFU wrote:How absolutely negligent does she have to be. I wondered about the insurance too because her refusal to seek mental help and heal herself on that area. She complained it cost too much to see a therapist. But to willingly get pregnant (they were trying) and to know you need these shots and yet nor get covered or pay out of pocket. Insane!

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Exactly what I was thinking. You don't TRY for a baby and then not care about making sure that baby is going to be safe especially with them Knowing they need to take these extra steps when they're pregnant. If you know you have difficult pregnancies you better make sure you have all your ducks lined up and are ready for it.
If I'm remembering correctly with Alaya she was doing the shots at home because Oscar used to do it for her all the time.

I'm guessing they have never had insurance because they Never take the kids to the doctor when they're sick and I was always wondering why we've never seen or heard about them taking Alaya for any vaccinations? Maybe they have but I can't remember. I do remember always seeing Levi's vaccination appointments though.

It really just shows at the end of the day they have not made progress at all. If they do not have insurance and she has been refusing to get these shots then it is just idiotic of both of them.

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Unread post by **MiloandMax** » Fri Jan 04, 2019 6:18 am

wolflily23 wrote:
Steps_to_STFU wrote:How absolutely negligent does she have to be. I wondered about the insurance too because her refusal to seek mental help and heal herself on that area. She complained it cost too much to see a therapist. But to willingly get pregnant (they were trying) and to know you need these shots and yet nor get covered or pay out of pocket. Insane!

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Exactly what I was thinking. You don't TRY for a baby and then not care about making sure that baby is going to be safe especially with them Knowing they need to take these extra steps when they're pregnant. If you know you have difficult pregnancies you better make sure you have all your ducks lined up and are ready for it.
If I'm remembering correctly with Alaya she was doing the shots at home because Oscar used to do it for her all the time.

I'm guessing they have never had insurance because they Never take the kids to the doctor when they're sick and I was always wondering why we've never seen or heard about them taking Alaya for any vaccinations? Maybe they have but I can't remember. I do remember always seeing Levi's vaccination appointments though.

Someone here back threads ago said that they don't show vaccinations anymore because some of Levi crying were demonetized. Again don't know if that's true or not but they did get some vlogs demonetized I believe.

Unread post by **chloe6124** » Fri Jan 04, 2019 6:22 am

Nevermind

Fri Jan 04, 2019 6:27 am

Too bad if they're insurance is expensive. They have two children and one they planned on the way. They have more than enough money to blow on crap. But you know, priorities.

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Unread post by **Moony** » Fri Jan 04, 2019 6:36 am

Steps_to_STFU wrote:Too bad if they're insurance is expensive. They have two children and one they planned on the way. They have more than enough money to blow on crap. But you know, priorities.

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and a c section is so expensive, and NICU treatment if needed

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Unread post by **chloe6124** » Fri Jan 04, 2019 6:37 am

My guess they have a huge deductible with their insurance. The fact they are self employed insurance is ridiculous. But if they are trying to get it approved or just refusing to pay out of pocket that’s crazy.

Levi was preterm because of a medical condition she had with that pregnancy. Of course I am not a doctor so if she doesn’t have that condition how would progesterone even help?

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Fri Jan 04, 2019 6:42 am

Moony wrote:
Steps_to_STFU wrote:Too bad if they're insurance is expensive. They have two children and one they planned on the way. They have more than enough money to blow on crap. But you know, priorities.

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and a c section is so expensive, and NICU treatment if needed

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Exactly. They no longer shock me, but as someone who also needed progesterone I am shocked that she would knowingly go without it. Just insane to me.

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Unread post by **blehhh** » Fri Jan 04, 2019 6:55 am

MiloandMax wrote:Shots are 1400 each so one bag = 1400. In an entire pregnancy she would need 18-20 and I've heard once you get them in a pregnancy you will need to keep getting them so in total 20 = $28,000.

She could have said insurance but its also possible the doctor hasn't pushed it yet because she hasn't had issues up until this point.

Also this was one drug I looked up costs for and there may be cheaper ones out there. I've never had issues with needing it.

how stupid of them to try for a baby knowing she would most likely need those shots.
Any normal person would start by buying insurace then try for a baby. How impulsive
If you really truely want a child you think of the future. Stupid people

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Unread post by **sssabrina** » Fri Jan 04, 2019 6:57 am

Mylifenolimits wrote:Even in this blog they were being super passive aggressive to each other. Fighting and ignoring each other for an hour or more.

I know most of you want to believe that things have changed in their relationship. And that they are doing so much better, but the proof is in the vlog.

SMH. Like I said before, Time will show us all the real truth.

That's how I felt about their engagement video. Everyone was saying they were crying happy tears about it and I'm like uh they're still the same people that are toxic for each other, this will only end badly.

Unread post by **blehhh** » Fri Jan 04, 2019 6:58 am

Mylifenolimits wrote:Even in this blog they were being super passive aggressive to each other. Fighting and ignoring each other for an hour or more.

I know most of you want to believe that things have changed in their relationship. And that they are doing so much better, but the proof is in the vlog.

SMH. Like I said before, Time will show us all the real truth.

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engagement does not heal a relationship.
They bring the worst out in each other. I think they would do so much better seperately

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Unread post by **Sweetiebee** » Fri Jan 04, 2019 7:26 am

"I'm supposed to be on progesterone but I'm not because of insurance issues."

Ummmm..... excuse me? You can drop 10's of thousands on complete materialistic BS, but you can't pay for a bottle of pills that might SAVE your baby?

Ok.

Unread post by **roxyroller** » Fri Jan 04, 2019 7:29 am

Sorn wrote:Wtf!! She is supposed to be on progesterone to "help keep the baby in" like she was with alaya to prevent preterm labor. But she hasn't because of "insurance issues". Okay Kyra. I thought she was doing better but clearly she's still not taking care of herself and putting her poor baby at risk. If your insurance won't cover it just pay for it out of pocket! Y'all have the money! R u kidding me! Your baby is 25 weeks BARELY past the point of viability. What is wrong with her....

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sucks that she didn’t live in Canada she could have gotten it for free since she is under 25.. but how much could it really be??

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Unread post by **Playsinrain** » Fri Jan 04, 2019 7:37 am

sssabrina wrote:
Mylifenolimits wrote:Even in this blog they were being super passive aggressive to each other. Fighting and ignoring each other for an hour or more.

I know most of you want to believe that things have changed in their relationship. And that they are doing so much better, but the proof is in the vlog.

SMH. Like I said before, Time will show us all the real truth.
That's how I felt about their engagement video. Everyone was saying they were crying happy tears about it and I'm like uh they're still the same people that are toxic for each other, this will only end badly.

This this this... they are so bad for one another. This engagement was all about shutting Krya up, not actually getting married. They have the most toxic relationship and i hope to god they don't ever go through with the wedding bc they will be divorced before the baby gets into grade school. They just need to go their separate ways and co parent these kids in a more stable environment. (meaning not together so the kids aren't witness to all this drama) and Kyra, stop getting knocked up by a guy you have to BEG to love you. You can find better, i promise.

Fri Jan 04, 2019 7:47 am

Playsinrain wrote:
sssabrina wrote:
Mylifenolimits wrote:Even in this blog they were being super passive aggressive to each other. Fighting and ignoring each other for an hour or more.

I know most of you want to believe that things have changed in their relationship. And that they are doing so much better, but the proof is in the vlog.

SMH. Like I said before, Time will show us all the real truth.
That's how I felt about their engagement video. Everyone was saying they were crying happy tears about it and I'm like uh they're still the same people that are toxic for each other, this will only end badly.
This this this... they are so bad for one another. This engagement was all about shutting Krya up, not actually getting married. They have the most toxic relationship and i hope to god they don't ever go through with the wedding bc they will be divorced before the baby gets into grade school. They just need to go their separate ways and co parent these kids in a more stable environment. (meaning not together so the kids aren't witness to all this drama) and Kyra, stop getting knocked up by a guy you have to BEG to love you. You can find better, i promise.

This is something I will never understand about Kyra. I never had to beg my husband to marry me, I never hinted. He brought up the idea of marriage and surprised me. I would have never ever wanted to marry a man I had to beg and plead with to marry me. I get maybe they both a from broken homes and do not want to do that to their kids but in all honest married or split, these two are so immature there is always going to be drama in their life. Could you imagine them attempting to co-parent with the little shit that tends to set them off now?

I do hope they stop popping out kids.

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Unread post by **chloe6124** » Fri Jan 04, 2019 8:03 am

I think personally Kyra just said that wrong. It’s very possible her doctor hasn’t pushed it. She has not had a progesterone problem. Her issue with Levi was medical issue. She may have just said that because of being on it before and thinking she had contractions. No one has answered my question. How would progesterone help her. Her problem was a placenta issue with Levi. If some knows why it would of helped her please say.

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Unread post by **chloe6124** » Fri Jan 04, 2019 8:04 am

roxyroller wrote:
Sorn wrote:Wtf!! She is supposed to be on progesterone to "help keep the baby in" like she was with alaya to prevent preterm labor. But she hasn't because of "insurance issues". Okay Kyra. I thought she was doing better but clearly she's still not taking care of herself and putting her poor baby at risk. If your insurance won't cover it just pay for it out of pocket! Y'all have the money! R u kidding me! Your baby is 25 weeks BARELY past the point of viability. What is wrong with her....

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sucks that she didn’t live in Canada she could have gotten it for free since she is under 25.. but how much could it really be??

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Nothing is free. You pay for it with high taxes.

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Unread post by **MiloandMax** » Fri Jan 04, 2019 8:11 am

Unfortuently most insurance companies even if she had insurance wait til you have had an issue before they pay. My son has a medical issue and we have good insurance but they even pull the craziest stuff. And then we are told if we pay out of pocket they won't pay for anything else. As a parent your backed into a corner. I had to fight to be referred to a children's hospital that doesn't bill just for this reason and felt guilty for it. Although our insurance did come around. I do think Kyra and Oscar could have paid for it but its possible that since she hasn't had issues until that night it wasn't discussed. She said insurance could that be she was seeing a different doctor as well? If she didn't buy the bag after this visit I don't see how that counts against her.