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Steps_to_STFU wrote:Did they delete the whole thread? I can't see it anymore.

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Playsinrain wrote:So is Kelsey playing stupid for views or did her dr not go over all the things that will happen after removing the IUD? Bc it sounds like completely normal things that would have just a couple months after having it removed.
I had mine removed 11 months ago for TTC purposes and my OB informed me at the time of removal that it could take as long as 1 year for my body to sort itself out. I can totally understand getting attached to the idea of a potential pregnancy, it happened to me back in September with a chemical that had an actual positive test and not just a feeling. They're clearly using this to get views which is just disgusting. If she was honestly concerned, she should go see a doctor and not consult the internet.

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This is going to make me sound like a raging bitch but at this point I really don’t care.

I hope they do end up dealing with infertility. Just so they know how it feels. They’re faking it enough they deserve to deal with it!!

Usually I wouldn’t wish this hell on anyone. I’ve been ttc for FIVE YEARS. But these childish assholes deserve it.


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Pyro1309 wrote:This is going to make me sound like a raging bitch but at this point I really don’t care.

I hope they do end up dealing with infertility. Just so they know how it feels. They’re faking it enough they deserve to deal with it!!

Usually I wouldn’t wish this hell on anyone. I’ve been ttc for FIVE YEARS. But these childish assholes deserve it.


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Yup. Agreed. It took me 5 years and the pain of infertility fucking sucks. Thank God I didn't have to endure the pain of a loss, but that's even worse. And if these assholes even try to lump themselves in that group after 2 months, then yeah. They deserve what they ask for. But at the same time, they'll just use it for views, so I feel like they'll "win" either way. I can't stand them. This is beyond low.

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First, I really can’t imagine the ignorance and the lack of shame necessarily to create miscarriage clickbait. It’s a huge slap in the face to women everywhere. I haven’t brought myself to read the comments, but I hope she’s being called out for this. Not that we would ever know, I'm sure they're deleting comments left and right.

The only thing that can confirm early pregnancy is a positive pregnancy test. Not random "symptoms." Furthermore, the one thing that can almost exclusively confirm you are not pregnant is the arrival of your period. She has both negative tests and active bleeding. Is she really posing this question to YouTube?! The First Response tests are so sensitive that they would pick up on a very low level of HCG if it was present at all, including chemical pregnancies and ectopic. "Implantation bleeding” could very well be a myth. Most pregnant women don’t experience it, and lots of women have spotting at various times in their cycle because of hormone fluctuations. Specifically, a surge in estrogen. A simple google search (or better yet, a call to her doctor’s nurse’s line) could tell her that spotting during the luteal phase is common. It likely has nothing to do with “implantation.” It's not uncommon to have light periods and spotting leading up to your period when your body is adjusting post birth control. I’ve been there before, anxiously waiting to take a test only to get your period early. It’s a big disappointment. But it doesn’t mean you had a chemical pregnancy. Or that you have an ectopic pregnancy. To question this publicly on YouTube makes them look not just insensitive, but ignorant and desperate for views.

And is he really trying to claim that the "pay is awesome and yet they have abandoned two leases in two years, lived in his parent's RV, and moved into his mother-in-law's guest room? I don't doubt the pay was pretty decent when they were on the Lanning payroll (they left Portland pretty quickly in search of that paycheck) but those days are long gone. I mentioned last week that an account can show negative views if videos are deleted, but does he really expect people to believe that pedophiles were focusing in on a few videos when their child is in almost every video? The dirty little secret of family vloggers is that pedophiles are all over their videos, but they don't talk about it because it makes them money. They do very few sponsorship and they have a relatively small audience. No one believes they're living large on YouTube income. And Social Blade is 10% of their income if that?! Please. They were at no point bringing in $10K plus a month. They mentioned they still had credit card payments and debt when they did the video breaking down their monthly expenses in the RV.

Honestly, I have known men like Corbin in my life, and they will tell the boldest lies just to try to convince themselves and the world that they live up to the narcissistic, egotistical, grandiose sense of self that they've built up in their own head. Approximately no one with any insights into their real life believes these lies. In my experience people are just too polite and too bewildered to call these people out to their face. It's probably easier for people like Kelsey's mom to just nod her head in agreement and pretend that everything is fine. At least this way she can keep an eye on her daughter and granddaughter.
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HashtagBlessed wrote:Honestly, I have known men like Corbin in my life, and they will tell the boldest lies just to try to convince themselves and the world that they live up to the narcissistic, egotistical, grandiose sense of self that they've built up in their own head. Approximately no one with any insights into their real life believes these lies. In my experience people are just too polite and too bewildered to call these people out to their face. It's probably easier for people like Kelsey's mom to just nod her head in agreement and pretend that everything is fine. At least this way she can keep an eye on her daughter and granddaughter.
I think ALL of this is very true. I think Corbin is delusional and people walk on eggshells around him so he doesn't fly into a rage or cut you out of his life. He didn't speak to or see his own parents for a YEAR when he had a newborn child.

He obviously doesn't take criticism well—or at all. It really makes me nervous for Kelsey when I think about what happens when the cameras aren't rolling and Corbin is "stressed out." I always remember that vlog about the insurance problems (which were their fault) and think that's the real Corbin and he has the potential to go blind with rage and even potentially hit/assault someone.

I hate to even say this, but he also strikes me as the type of guy who forces his wife into sex because it's her "duty" and HE wants another baby.

Bottom line: Corbin is an asshole and potentially dangerous and Kelsey needs to wake up and leave him.
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Steps_to_STFU wrote:
jmoysa wrote:It was yesterday one about a pet. He just posted this reply to someone

[img]//uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/201901 ... ad23c0.jpg[/img]

What a baby he is and a real jerk. This is the reason he can’t hold down a job. He’s asking for it by not deleting it. With that attitude, it’s going to really turn people off.


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I hope he leaves it up so sponsors see what he is really like and that people are not stupid. They want to delete anything that isn't rainbows and glitter saying how awesome they are. No channel not even the nicest people have 100% positive comments.

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I hope he leaves it up because I am dying to ask why if "the pay is awesome", they're living with Kelsey's mom... Why they had to borrow his parents' "RV", and why they aren't living on their own, someplace they'd rather be than Boise.

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I feel like everything is a lie at this point in a sad pathetic attempt to save their channel.. I don’t even believe they are trying to conceive at all
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Why does he end his sentences with "haha"?

"You're super uninformed haha"

"I've got a dream job and the pay is awesome haha"

It's almost like a poker tell when he's trying to desperately convince the person he's responding to that he's right and they're wrong. He wants people to think he's amused by their comment, but in actuality he's super threatened by the fact that people are bringing this to the attention of the few followers they have left.

I wonder what Kelsey thinks when he goes off on people in the comments. It certainly doesn't reflect well on their channel and it really just makes them look even more insecure.

Did anyone notice the tags for that video?
  • pregnant
    pregnancy
    second pregnancy
    am i pregnant
    pregnancy test
    pregnancy announcement
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ewokfan11 wrote:
HashtagBlessed wrote:Honestly, I have known men like Corbin in my life, and they will tell the boldest lies just to try to convince themselves and the world that they live up to the narcissistic, egotistical, grandiose sense of self that they've built up in their own head. Approximately no one with any insights into their real life believes these lies. In my experience people are just too polite and too bewildered to call these people out to their face. It's probably easier for people like Kelsey's mom to just nod her head in agreement and pretend that everything is fine. At least this way she can keep an eye on her daughter and granddaughter.
I think ALL of this is very true. I think Corbin is delusional and people walk on eggshells around him so he doesn't fly into a rage or cut you out of his life. He didn't speak to or see his own parents for a YEAR when he had a newborn child.

He obviously doesn't take criticism well—or at all. It really makes me nervous for Kelsey when I think about what happens when the cameras aren't rolling and Corbin is "stressed out." I always remember that vlog about the insurance problems (which were their fault) and think that's the real Corbin and he has the potential to go blind with rage and even potentially hit/assault someone.

I hate to even say this, but he also strikes me as the type of guy who forces his wife into sex because it's her "duty" and HE wants another baby.

Bottom line: Corbin is an asshole and potentially dangerous and Kelsey needs to wake up and leave him.
Does anyone know the video where they were having the insurance problems? I want to see the REAL Corbin!

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Plus, even if she and Missy aren't on the best of terms now, Missy was once her very best friend. And she had a couple of losses.
She knows what people going through that experience. I wouldn't expect Corbin to care, because I think he's utterly lacking in empathy. But she is the one yammering away in the video.

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lavenderlove wrote:
ewokfan11 wrote:
HashtagBlessed wrote:Honestly, I have known men like Corbin in my life, and they will tell the boldest lies just to try to convince themselves and the world that they live up to the narcissistic, egotistical, grandiose sense of self that they've built up in their own head. Approximately no one with any insights into their real life believes these lies. In my experience people are just too polite and too bewildered to call these people out to their face. It's probably easier for people like Kelsey's mom to just nod her head in agreement and pretend that everything is fine. At least this way she can keep an eye on her daughter and granddaughter.
I think ALL of this is very true. I think Corbin is delusional and people walk on eggshells around him so he doesn't fly into a rage or cut you out of his life. He didn't speak to or see his own parents for a YEAR when he had a newborn child.

He obviously doesn't take criticism well—or at all. It really makes me nervous for Kelsey when I think about what happens when the cameras aren't rolling and Corbin is "stressed out." I always remember that vlog about the insurance problems (which were their fault) and think that's the real Corbin and he has the potential to go blind with rage and even potentially hit/assault someone.

I hate to even say this, but he also strikes me as the type of guy who forces his wife into sex because it's her "duty" and HE wants another baby.

Bottom line: Corbin is an asshole and potentially dangerous and Kelsey needs to wake up and leave him.
Does anyone know the video where they were having the insurance problems? I want to see the REAL Corbin!

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I've been wondering the same!!

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0 is still 0 Corbin you gangly fuck ! D- is D - you never ever were a D- before. Your channel is as trashy as your wife for miscarriage clickbait.[img]//uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/201901 ... 2b678d.jpg[/img]

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lavenderlove wrote:
ewokfan11 wrote:
HashtagBlessed wrote:Honestly, I have known men like Corbin in my life, and they will tell the boldest lies just to try to convince themselves and the world that they live up to the narcissistic, egotistical, grandiose sense of self that they've built up in their own head. Approximately no one with any insights into their real life believes these lies. In my experience people are just too polite and too bewildered to call these people out to their face. It's probably easier for people like Kelsey's mom to just nod her head in agreement and pretend that everything is fine. At least this way she can keep an eye on her daughter and granddaughter.
I think ALL of this is very true. I think Corbin is delusional and people walk on eggshells around him so he doesn't fly into a rage or cut you out of his life. He didn't speak to or see his own parents for a YEAR when he had a newborn child.

He obviously doesn't take criticism well—or at all. It really makes me nervous for Kelsey when I think about what happens when the cameras aren't rolling and Corbin is "stressed out." I always remember that vlog about the insurance problems (which were their fault) and think that's the real Corbin and he has the potential to go blind with rage and even potentially hit/assault someone.

I hate to even say this, but he also strikes me as the type of guy who forces his wife into sex because it's her "duty" and HE wants another baby.

Bottom line: Corbin is an asshole and potentially dangerous and Kelsey needs to wake up and leave him.
Does anyone know the video where they were having the insurance problems? I want to see the REAL Corbin!
It's this one. Corbin is such a massive jerk!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VzttftmJcxA

BTW, it was 100% their fault for missing the insurance deadline - which is ALWAYS Dec. 15. They waited until January to call?? ASSHOLES. They could have done everything online, which is what I do every year with no problem, but I think they were stupid and missed the deadline completely.
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ewokfan11 wrote:
lavenderlove wrote:
ewokfan11 wrote: I think ALL of this is very true. I think Corbin is delusional and people walk on eggshells around him so he doesn't fly into a rage or cut you out of his life. He didn't speak to or see his own parents for a YEAR when he had a newborn child.

He obviously doesn't take criticism well—or at all. It really makes me nervous for Kelsey when I think about what happens when the cameras aren't rolling and Corbin is "stressed out." I always remember that vlog about the insurance problems (which were their fault) and think that's the real Corbin and he has the potential to go blind with rage and even potentially hit/assault someone.

I hate to even say this, but he also strikes me as the type of guy who forces his wife into sex because it's her "duty" and HE wants another baby.

Bottom line: Corbin is an asshole and potentially dangerous and Kelsey needs to wake up and leave him.
Does anyone know the video where they were having the insurance problems? I want to see the REAL Corbin!
It's this one. Corbin is such a massive jerk!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VzttftmJcxA

BTW, it was 100% their fault for missing the insurance deadline - which is ALWAYS Dec. 15. They waited until January to call?? ASSHOLES. They could have done everything online, which is what I do every year with no problem, but I think they were stupid and missed the deadline completely.
Yall better watch it before it disappears Image

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ewokfan11 wrote:
lavenderlove wrote:
ewokfan11 wrote: I think ALL of this is very true. I think Corbin is delusional and people walk on eggshells around him so he doesn't fly into a rage or cut you out of his life. He didn't speak to or see his own parents for a YEAR when he had a newborn child.

He obviously doesn't take criticism well—or at all. It really makes me nervous for Kelsey when I think about what happens when the cameras aren't rolling and Corbin is "stressed out." I always remember that vlog about the insurance problems (which were their fault) and think that's the real Corbin and he has the potential to go blind with rage and even potentially hit/assault someone.

I hate to even say this, but he also strikes me as the type of guy who forces his wife into sex because it's her "duty" and HE wants another baby.

Bottom line: Corbin is an asshole and potentially dangerous and Kelsey needs to wake up and leave him.
Does anyone know the video where they were having the insurance problems? I want to see the REAL Corbin!
It's this one. Corbin is such a massive jerk!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VzttftmJcxA

BTW, it was 100% their fault for missing the insurance deadline - which is ALWAYS Dec. 15. They waited until January to call?? ASSHOLES. They could have done everything online, which is what I do every year with no problem, but I think they were stupid and missed the deadline completely.
I’d forgotten all about that. I do remember thinking at the time that it was so strange that he was having so many problems when everyone else was just doing it online. I actually think he’s gotten worse in so many ways. I wonder what the gripe was with his parents back then.

His hahaha in that reply was so childish. Typical Corbin. Like it was said, a D- and -0 income are still there. Can’t really imagine they make. Even 2000 on sponsorships.


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jmoysa wrote: Can’t really imagine they make even 2000 on sponsorships.
Me either. Plus, December is the BIG month to do sponsorships for YTers. In January they all dry up until about summertime. They had a couple of big ones, but nothing that great. The eyeglasses one was probably their biggest one. Then they had Hello Fresh and the baby plates and utensils. Were there others? I already can't remember so they aren't selling the stuff well. LOL!

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ewokfan11 wrote:
jmoysa wrote: Can’t really imagine they make even 2000 on sponsorships.
Me either. Plus, December is the BIG month to do sponsorships for YTers. In January they all dry up until about summertime. They had a couple of big ones, but nothing that great. The eyeglasses one was probably their biggest one. Then they had Hello Fresh and the baby plates and utensils. Were there others? I already can't remember so they aren't selling the stuff well. LOL!

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There was also the Canon one, which I was shocked that they got!

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jmoysa wrote:
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GooseyLucy wrote:Yes ~ he is still spewing his ridiculous rhetoric!! What an a-hole!!!
I'd guess that 90% of their I come comes from shilling products then. It sure as shit isn't coming from views on their channel.

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10% of 0 is still 0. He’s really an idiot like it’s been said, but this kind of stuff will only turn people off even more! Now with this whole TTC, they should be very, very careful. Too many women have suffered for years and have no patience for crap like this. Almost every comment is telling her to see a dr. Wonder if they have insurance. I wouldn’t be surprised if they were on Medi-cal or similar.


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Honestly, my immediate thought was that they must not have insurance as K didn’t even raise going to see a doctor as an option
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I cant with this shit today.

Kelsey (we know you read here): YOU WERE NOT PREGNANT STOP ACTING LIKE YOU WERE. STOP WITH THE CLICKBAIT.

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