BritneyandBruises: Parenting Optional (Part 59)

[DoodleBop2]

Yes, this is personal but yeah.

As the mom of a medically complex kid out of me and my friends FMLA doesn't protect us as much as we hope it would. If they get pissy they just find another reason not to give you hours, or not approve your raises or fire you. Then you have to have the time, money, energy to prove the real reason good luck with that. I have one friend and her company was amazing even was cool with her scheduling her breaks so she could go BF her kids but most companies don't care and will as soon replace you. Another friend got scheduled for 8 hours a week for 3 weeks after taking time off when her child was admitted to the hospital.

Yes! People are naive if they think it's just as simple as using FMLA. plus I believe it's unpaid, and a lot of people can't afford to just take days off unpaid.

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This is like when people mention laws about pumping at work or the ADA. Sure these exist but often times they have little or no teeth so real world they're not always enforceable and people\companies depend on the fact that most people filing cannot afford to fight back.

[karen_955]

I thought she said aria wouldn’t have to switch schools when they moved. Didn’t she say they kept aria’s school district in mind when they were looking for a place to build?


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I remember her saying this too. I tried to find which vlog she said that in but there’s too many house updates and I can’t recall when she said it. Maybe someone else knows.


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Yes I remember this too. So messed up she couldn’t let aria finish her school year at her old school.


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[olemama]

I thought she said aria wouldn’t have to switch schools when they moved. Didn’t she say they kept aria’s school district in mind when they were looking for a place to build?


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Aria has not changed school districts which is what Britney said. She did not say Aria would remain in the same school when they moved from the apartment to the house.

Britney moved within the same school boundary in the district when she left Ean and went into the apartment so Aria could attend the same school. She may have said something about that when she first left Ean.

[WheresMyCoffee]

I am pretty sure Ean works like a regular, minimum wage job... he probably cannot afford to take any time off and honestly for a quick docs appointment for Harlows shots he shouldnt have to. Most times both parents do not go to appointments like that.... maybe he should be mor involved with Nolans appointments but Britney answering those questions with that wording makes her seem salty.

[Bambi_]

If it wasn’t more obvious that she reads here, she just posted Nolan & Harlow running...

Hi Britney (who’s Harlow’s real father)...

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This video is so sad. Go get that little girl checked out you shit-parent. How does she not see it? I really wanted to comment (in a “kind” way), but what for, she’d call me a HaTEr.


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[Luna89]

I have to say I truly commend ean for keeping his mouth shut and not airing anything publicly. Brit has time and time again Taken sideways digs at him . I don’t think I would have that kind of composure.


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[toomuchsalt]

They should have waited for the kids to finish the school year before making them switch mid year. She's proven over and over that's she's a selfish fat cow.

SPOILER ALERT BRITNEY: YOUR KIDS COME FIRST, NOT YOU AND FRANK.

I can't stand this bitch. She's not done shit for all the stuff she's put her children through.

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[WheresMyCoffee]

It could be different in US, and obviously I have no fucking clue where Ean lives but couldnt they have used his address to atleast allow her to finish the school year? It just seems so late in the year for Aria to chnage.. and kids are adaptable when they HAVE to be, of course it is great that she is easy going/independent but having an overly adaptable kid isnt always a great thing (Im not saying it is bad, but the way she was bragging about it...) she is learning not to get attached to things or people because she doesnt know when they will be taken away from her. Houses, her dad, now her school and friends, Nolan....

[olemama]

I have to say I truly commend ean for keeping his mouth shut and not airing anything publicly. Brit has time and time again Taken sideways digs at him . I don’t think I would have that kind of composure.


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I think Britney has not been attacking Ean directly or indirectly on social media. When I compare her to youtubers like Jesssfam and Hayleeandfamily, she comes out okay. Ean is a private guy and she has minimized mentioning him. I hope she remains silent on her issues with Ean.

[olemama]

It could be different in US, and obviously I have no fucking clue where Ean lives but couldnt they have used his address to atleast allow her to finish the school year? It just seems so late in the year for Aria to chnage.. and kids are adaptable when they HAVE to be, of course it is great that she is easy going/independent but having an overly adaptable kid isnt always a great thing (Im not saying it is bad, but the way she was bragging about it...) she is learning not to get attached to things or people because she doesnt know when they will be taken away from her. Houses, her dad, now her school and friends, Nolan....

Yes, if Ean's current residence is within the school boundary of Aria's old school, Aria could attend that school. In fact ,as long as Ean is within the boundary, Aria has a choice of schools to attend. I do wish Britney had allowed her to finish the year out. I'm glad that she is outside and playing after being cooped up in the apartment for a year, but the poor kid has been through so much.

[Resting_Bitch_Face]

Please...Britney switched her out of pure convinience for HER, she could’ve at least waited till the next school year to switch her.

Now that the school bus is dropping Aria off in front of her house she can lazy it up even more now after she gives birth. Nolan doesn’t even look like he goes to school anymore so now she doesn’t even have to leave the house, the bus will probably start picking her up in the mornings too.

[nineteenninety3]

Please...Britney switched her out of pure convinience for HER, she could’ve at least waited till the next school year to switch her.

Now that the school bus is dropping Aria off in front of her house she can lazy it up even more now after she gives birth. Nolan doesn’t even look like he goes to school anymore so now she doesn’t even have to leave the house, the bus will probably start picking her up in the mornings too.

I think she is planning on her taking the bus to school too because she said "it's her first day so I took her" as if it wasn't going to be a regular thing. Yeah Brit, so kindhearted and gracious of you to drop your kid off at school, have the Nobel people been in touch about your prize yet?

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[Mildlyhottea]

It could be different in US, and obviously I have no fucking clue where Ean lives but couldnt they have used his address to atleast allow her to finish the school year? It just seems so late in the year for Aria to chnage.. and kids are adaptable when they HAVE to be, of course it is great that she is easy going/independent but having an overly adaptable kid isnt always a great thing (Im not saying it is bad, but the way she was bragging about it...) she is learning not to get attached to things or people because she doesnt know when they will be taken away from her. Houses, her dad, now her school and friends, Nolan....

Yes, if Ean's current residence is within the school boundary of Aria's old school, Aria could attend that school. In fact ,as long as Ean is within the boundary, Aria has a choice of schools to attend. I do wish Britney had allowed her to finish the year out. I'm glad that she is outside and playing after being cooped up in the apartment for a year, but the poor kid has been through so much.

But that means Brit Brit would have to drive Aria to school in the mornings and pick her up because the bus for the old school wouldn’t pick her up at home. It’s out of pure convenience for HER, she doesn’t care if Aria makes new friends or is happy.


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[Haulnarse]

It could be different in US, and obviously I have no fucking clue where Ean lives but couldnt they have used his address to atleast allow her to finish the school year? It just seems so late in the year for Aria to chnage.. and kids are adaptable when they HAVE to be, of course it is great that she is easy going/independent but having an overly adaptable kid isnt always a great thing (Im not saying it is bad, but the way she was bragging about it...) she is learning not to get attached to things or people because she doesnt know when they will be taken away from her. Houses, her dad, now her school and friends, Nolan....

Yes, if Ean's current residence is within the school boundary of Aria's old school, Aria could attend that school. In fact ,as long as Ean is within the boundary, Aria has a choice of schools to attend. I do wish Britney had allowed her to finish the year out. I'm glad that she is outside and playing after being cooped up in the apartment for a year, but the poor kid has been through so much.

But that means Brit Brit would have to drive Aria to school in the mornings and pick her up because the bus for the old school wouldn’t pick her up at home. It’s out of pure convenience for HER, she doesn’t care if Aria makes new friends or is happy.


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Lol, but she had no issue driving from the apartment to the new house dozens of times a week.... shes lazy, if it doesn’t benefit her, shes lazy.

Heck we moved twice recently (sold house, moved into a rental and then brought another house), our rental had two schools closer to where the kids go and now our new house has four schools closer than the one our kids go too. We kept them in the same school, all three have been going for 3-7 years, I am fully capable to drive an extra 5 mins twice a day.

[Mildlyhottea]

Yes, if Ean's current residence is within the school boundary of Aria's old school, Aria could attend that school. In fact ,as long as Ean is within the boundary, Aria has a choice of schools to attend. I do wish Britney had allowed her to finish the year out. I'm glad that she is outside and playing after being cooped up in the apartment for a year, but the poor kid has been through so much.

But that means Brit Brit would have to drive Aria to school in the mornings and pick her up because the bus for the old school wouldn’t pick her up at home. It’s out of pure convenience for HER, she doesn’t care if Aria makes new friends or is happy.


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Lol, but she had no issue driving from the apartment to the new house dozens of times a week.... shes lazy, if it doesn’t benefit her, shes lazy.

Heck we moved twice recently (sold house, moved into a rental and then brought another house), our rental had two schools closer to where the kids go and now our new house has four schools closer than the one our kids go too. We kept them in the same school, all three have been going for 3-7 years, I am fully capable to drive an extra 5 mins twice a day.

But you aren’t pregnant with the golden child . I swear she acts like shes pregnant with baby Jesus or something. My mom did farm work when she was pregnant with me but Queen Brit can’t even go outside to get Aria off the bus.


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[fossilfinger]

I don't think kids usually have to switch schools in the middle of the year if they're already enrolled. Maybe once they re-enroll for the next school year they do, but I don't think any school would mandate they be pulled out in the middle of the year...I'm not an expert, though.

I do have to say just from my one year of being a teacher that parents transfer their kids to new schools ALL the time. It is pretty crappy sometimes, but it does happen frequently that kids get thrown into a new class in the middle of the year. I had a student transfer into my class who was on their third school that year (and it was only November), and had an IEP so was receiving inconsistent special education. It sucks, but after a few weeks or so the kids usually do adapt and are considered to have always been a part of the class.

[chloe6124]

I just watched the ok vlog. Alaya is running around having fun. You guys are right Harlow does not walk or run right. Comparing Alaya running is totally different then Harlow.


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[Ttylheyy643]

Sorry if it’s been mentioned before, but in the new Baby makes 6 video Brittany mentioned that they have TWO infant car seats. One for her car and his. They also got ANOTHER stroller. Why does 1 baby need two infant car seats and two of the same functioning strollers?!


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[sarahelizabeth_1]

Yes, this is personal but yeah.

As the mom of a medically complex kid out of me and my friends FMLA doesn't protect us as much as we hope it would. If they get pissy they just find another reason not to give you hours, or not approve your raises or fire you. Then you have to have the time, money, energy to prove the real reason good luck with that. I have one friend and her company was amazing even was cool with her scheduling her breaks so she could go BF her kids but most companies don't care and will as soon replace you. Another friend got scheduled for 8 hours a week for 3 weeks after taking time off when her child was admitted to the hospital.

Yes! People are naive if they think it's just as simple as using FMLA. plus I believe it's unpaid, and a lot of people can't afford to just take days off unpaid.

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I’m not naive, thank you very much. I’m stating that there are options. Didn’t say it was the perfect solution for Ean ‍

Also, all these people say they’d fire you anyway for another reason, you should look for better employment.


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[simplyoutspoken]

I just watched half the vlog.. couldn’t get through the entire thing and it broke my heart when Harlow was crying after her shots and instead of Britnay comforting her.. it was Replacement dad. Idgaf who is their.. my child is getting mommy cuddles when crying like that. I honestly feel like Brotnay is going through something because she seems so disconnected from her kids.


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