ShudnaB3 wrote: ↑Thu Feb 07, 2019 3:51 pm Her latest Instagram post actually makes me feel very sorry for her. 1) that she can't just own the fact that she is feeling herself these days and wants to post selfies, but always has to set it up as "teehee a child insisted on taking my photo/oh gosh I'm so shy/wow rare photo of me..." and 2) ...oh Chloe. Your kids WILL notice your flaws and failures and insecurities. Maybe they haven't yet, but she should also not discount the fact that kids who are allowing her to dress them alike and pose them like dolls COULD also be internalising her ocd-like tendencies and are being groomed to be people pleasers. OR they're just young enough to not notice their mums flaws. Either/or. It just shows how very early on in her parenting journey she still is, and how ill-prepared she is to deal with older, more aware kids.
AlsoIhatehercreepyfingernails.
She looks great and needs to be proud she put in the work to get where she is as far as fitness goes.
She also doesn’t need to feel bad for putting effort into her physical appearance. It’s fine to want to dress up for yourself or liking how you look with a nice haircut or a piercing or make-up.
Being a mom doesn’t mean you have to devout everything, including your body, to your child.
I hate this trend of martyr motherhood. She likes the way she looks and it’s ok to “feel yourself” and show that off.