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Shorty02 wrote:Sorry, but I think it’s so messed up for Julie to take 3 of her kids to Disney World and leave Porter in Utah with her parents. He’s old enough to have fun at Disney World, and I think it’s incredibly selfish of her to leave him out of this experience when all of his siblings get to go. If you can’t afford to take all of your kids, then wait and save up until you can.
I think she is not taking him because he is too hard to handle. He is a brat. She has allowed him to get away with everything. If he were my kid I would tell him since you misbehave in public and at home and don’t listen to mom, you cannot go to Disney. Maybe you will think about what your missing when you drink out of fountains and put your fingers in cakes when you are told not to. I did something similar to my younger boy and guess what he learned a lesson. It was not a Disney. I did not take any of my kids to Disney, but he missed out so to behavior. He learned to behave in a socially acceptable way and was a pleasure to take places. Porter’s behavior makes me cringe, but how they deal with it is even worse. They are not doing him favors by letting him get away with it. The same goes to Ruby with Eve. Grow a spine and discipline!


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I disagree. You are going to punish him for the way he has been parented? The grandparents can’t help her? They are young and it’s their son who is still in school. Why have a 4th child if your husband is going to be in school full time and not helping at home?

Work it out, put the 2 youngest in a stroller.


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Shorty02 wrote:Sorry, but I think it’s so messed up for Julie to take 3 of her kids to Disney World and leave Porter in Utah with her parents. He’s old enough to have fun at Disney World, and I think it’s incredibly selfish of her to leave him out of this experience when all of his siblings get to go. If you can’t afford to take all of your kids, then wait and save up until you can.
I think she is not taking him because he is too hard to handle. He is a brat. She has allowed him to get away with everything. If he were my kid I would tell him since you misbehave in public and at home and don’t listen to mom, you cannot go to Disney. Maybe you will think about what your missing when you drink out of fountains and put your fingers in cakes when you are told not to. I did something similar to my younger boy and guess what he learned a lesson. It was not a Disney. I did not take any of my kids to Disney, but he missed out so to behavior. He learned to behave in a socially acceptable way and was a pleasure to take places. Porter’s behavior makes me cringe, but how they deal with it is even worse. They are not doing him favors by letting him get away with it. The same goes to Ruby with Eve. Grow a spine and discipline!


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I disagree. You are going to punish him for the way he has been parented? The grandparents can’t help her? They are young and it’s their son who is still in school. Why have a 4th child if your husband is going to be in school full time and not helping at home?

Work it out, put the 2 youngest in a stroller.


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This just really pisses me off. I only have one child and I couldn’t imagine not wanting to include him in a family trip. Just because you have chosen to have 4 children you should not be doing things that will exclude one of the middle children or any unless they are an infant. This is a family/child orientated vacation, it’s for the kids and to exclude one is terrible. It’s also documented for them forever!!!!


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Looks like she did discipline Porter today. He is a brat!


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I like her excuse of he won't remember it anyway. Well if you really think back on yourselves you have no strong memories at 5 and 7 either (or whatever the ages of Cooper and Emma are) and the older you get the more you don't so....I don't believe in taking them for expensive and memorable things til at least after 10 for many reasons. I know her in laws are paying for this so not blaming her for going just laughing inside from her excuse of not taking him. Why not just say it. You lost control and don't discipline now you don't want to deal with him and have a good time without him. If she would of left Lucy too then she could say she is just taking the older two for one on one since they are school age and don't get as much time and will appreciate the trip more but leaving the middle one out looks bad.
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I think it’s pathetic they aren’t taking him. His behaviour is a product of their parenting, this is what happens when you don’t discipline your children. And now Porter has to miss out because his parents haven’t taught him how to behave. I bet he will be pissed to find this out when he’s older, I sure would have been.


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That gun video was cringy. No gun safety had been taught. It takes more than " talking quite a bit in the car" Landon. I saw Cooper shooting without looking, waving the gun around unsteady while shooting and then pointed at his brother and then, I swear put the gun barrel side down into the dirt and snow. Also you should not shoot with gloves on.

As an add on for Porter's behavior I have noticed when Julie was explaining to them about the reminders of how to behave in church that Porter was actually responding right to the answers as in really listening where as Cooper was answering wrong every time (yes and no answers) because it was obvious he was not paying attention. So Porter has lots of potential to behave if he was worked with better. Still feeling so sorry for him not going to Disney I guess. He may not remember but he will remember in the moment and for a few years and will have fun in the moment just the same as his siblings.
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Do any of these Griffith s know how to parent seriously???? This pisses me off to no end. At least the brother beau and. Emily do a,decent job...
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So Julie is an R.N. and a Mom of 4 and she thought her baby had a 107 fever the day before at 8 months old in cold and flu season no less and waited and made her an appt the next day? I am glad it was only an ear infection but poor kid. I am hoping she knew a 107 fever was probably not real but she acted like she checked it only once and not by another means (she was using a forehead one, the best on a baby is rectal when in doubt).

Just another instance of bad parenting that the Griffiths CHOOSE to put on their 10 mins a day. So weird.
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OK in today's video she pronounced Eczema as Eggs-zeema. I have two BFF's that are RN's and they are exceptionally sharp ladies and I know how hard nursing school was and it baffles me when airheads make it through the same as their league. The baby had a 103 fever today. I am sure that poor sick baby felt like sitting upright in your lap while you played the piano. I had hopes she might remain the one likeable Griffiths Sister but losing hope.
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I think it’s really crappy that they chose to go to Disney World knowing they couldn’t take all the kids. Poor Porter. I know people like to argue that there is no point in bringing little ones because “they won’t remember.” They still experience it! I’ve always taken my boys when they were small, and it was amazing.

Then again, I also decided to stop at two kids so we wouldn’t find ourselves in a position where we would need to “cherry pick” which children to do activities with. Always more about the baby and mom and dad’s needs.

She’s just like her mother and sisters.


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I'm going to just do one post combining on their last few vlogs. I don't watch them all the time, but Julie is becoming a lot like her sisters IMO.

The Disney trip-Porter should have went too. Emma is not a young child that would need constant help so that's 3 adults, 3 children.

The temp bit with Lucy-she's a nurse and didn't take the baby to the ER with what she thought was 107 degree temp!

The vlog with the title of It's really hard on me-that whine fest at the end-urrrggg! They are the ones that decided to go to bed at 11 p.m. They are the ones that chose to have four kids! He chose to go back to school again and knows how babies are up and down all night!

Yesterday's was the topper with me. Julie has the kids coming to her with stuff instead of getting up out of bed. I know the food bit she was joking, but her sister Ellie isn't. They have had it their vlog recently of Jackson fixing Calvin a bowl of cereal. She's coming across as scattered brain as her sisters. She didn't know the name for a procession, didn't know how policemen come from different areas when one is killed, etc. The end is what got me though. Landon talking about how this is why you get an education-he needed it pointed out to him that someone has to do the job. Just the way he was putting them down rubbed me the wrong way! I was thinking while viewing it was the trash men are providing for his family while he bounces from one degree to another with four kids to provide for!

Julie talking about youtube and her sisters success on there, that they are positive influencers-I think she is getting that youtube fame bug just like them!
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Julie identified herself on IG in a comment as a “former nurse, current stay at home mom and social influencer.” I think that says a lot.

Also, Landon is an immature moron who things too highly of himself. He’s a lifetime student with nothing to show for it. He shouldn’t be judging those that are working any job they can to support their families. He should be doing that too! What an entitled douche.


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HelloSweetie wrote:I think it’s really crappy that they chose to go to Disney World knowing they couldn’t take all the kids. Poor Porter. I know people like to argue that there is no point in bringing little ones because “they won’t remember.” They still experience it! I’ve always taken my boys when they were small, and it was amazing.

Then again, I also decided to stop at two kids so we wouldn’t find ourselves in a position where we would need to “cherry pick” which children to do activities with. Always more about the baby and mom and dad’s needs.

She’s just like her mother and sisters.


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Exactly this. Her leaving Porter home was the end of me liking her. She did it for herself, so she would enjoy her time but she chose to have another baby, which you should not do if that means you need to exclude one of your existing children from family activities. There is really no valid reason why she would have had to as there are enough adults there including Landon’s parents who raised the professional student. If he wanted to keep going to school perhaps he should have waited before having more children.

I disagree that he won’t remember it. He will because he will remember he didn’t get to go and it now documented on the internet for him to be reminded. There were times throughout my childhood where I felt excluded and no matter how young I was I do remember. You remember those moments.


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I still can't believe what she done to that poor little boy. Looking at the vlogs. It would of been nice to see him there. He will look back on these and probably resent his mother. And by the looks of it Landon did not go as well.

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sheltiefan wrote: Thu Jan 24, 2019 12:10 pm I'm going to just do one post combining on their last few vlogs. I don't watch them all the time, but Julie is becoming a lot like her sisters IMO.

The Disney trip-Porter should have went too. Emma is not a young child that would need constant help so that's 3 adults, 3 children.

The temp bit with Lucy-she's a nurse and didn't take the baby to the ER with what she thought was 107 degree temp!

The vlog with the title of It's really hard on me-that whine fest at the end-urrrggg! They are the ones that decided to go to bed at 11 p.m. They are the ones that chose to have four kids! He chose to go back to school again and knows how babies are up and down all night!

Yesterday's was the topper with me. Julie has the kids coming to her with stuff instead of getting up out of bed. I know the food bit she was joking, but her sister Ellie isn't. They have had it their vlog recently of Jackson fixing Calvin a bowl of cereal. She's coming across as scattered brain as her sisters. She didn't know the name for a procession, didn't know how policemen come from different areas when one is killed, etc. The end is what got me though. Landon talking about how this is why you get an education-he needed it pointed out to him that someone has to do the job. Just the way he was putting them down rubbed me the wrong way! I was thinking while viewing it was the trash men are providing for his family while he bounces from one degree to another with four kids to provide for!

Julie talking about youtube and her sisters success on there, that they are positive influencers-I think she is getting that youtube fame bug just like them!
I don't think Julie was ever any different from her sisters. She just doesn't have the money to show of like them so she stays undercover. I actually suspects that she could be worse than her sisters with that self entitled husbands of hers. Can't even imagine how they would act if they had money like her sisters. Bonnie and Ruby used to be poor and humble but became themselves as soon as they started making money.
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I think Cooper and Porter are too old for onesies! How in the world do they go to the bath by theirse? She says she does this to keep their shirt tails tucked in..[IMG]//uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/201902 ... f2b7cc.jpg[/IMG]

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crowmtmom78 wrote: Sun Feb 17, 2019 10:24 pm I think Cooper and Porter are too old for onesies! How in the world do they go to the bath by theirse? She says she does this to keep their shirt tails tucked in..//uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/201902 ... f2b7cc.jpg

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I actually thought that this was really smart solution for a obvious problem that arises on Sundays with little boys.
They are old enough to know how to handle themselves in bathroom with couple of buttons like this.

It is not like they are wearing onesies everyday all day.
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crowmtmom78 wrote: Sun Feb 17, 2019 10:24 pm I think Cooper and Porter are too old for onesies! How in the world do they go to the bath by theirse? She says she does this to keep their shirt tails tucked in..//uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/201902 ... f2b7cc.jpg

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I actually thought that this was really smart solution for a obvious problem that arises on Sundays with little boys.
They are old enough to know how to handle themselves in bathroom with couple of buttons like this.

It is not like they are wearing onesies everyday all day.
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crowmtmom78 wrote:I think Cooper and Porter are too old for onesies! How in the world do they go to the bath by theirse? She says she does this to keep their shirt tails tucked in..[IMG]//uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/201902 ... f2b7cc.jpg[/IMG]

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Bonnie used to do it with Cody and Boston too. I assume she does it with Lincoln but I don’t watch her anymore.


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Why is it any different from a woman wearing a body suit?




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