From what I’ve noticed on tapa talk you need “KIN” to thank and you need to earn that Kim by I believe posting and making an account etc.Mommasnark wrote:Mine comes and goeslmmomSD wrote:How did you do it? I still can't!ears wrote:I thank posts again!!!!!!! (Ashley exclamation points!!!)
Sent from my SM-S907VL using Tapatalk
Sent from my XT1650 using Tapatalk
Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
It looked like a heavy climbed over the seat and squeezed Esmes shoulder on the way over. When the heavy sat in the seat she has a guilty look on her face.Abbiedownunder wrote: ↑Fri Apr 12, 2019 6:23 am Grrrr. Why the fuck do they both laugh when the girls are crying. Tyass asks Esme why she is crying but doesn't bother to listen to an answer and keeps talking. Bitchface just laughs her face off when either Esme or Indie is crying in the store. What vile pretend parents they are.
I wanted to say again. I know next to nothing about their faith or their beliefs. I'm just trying to make sense of their choices. I could be, and probably am, completely wrong.SqueakyWheel wrote:Fri Apr 12, 2019 5:00 amThat is just crazy to me. But I guess everyone interprets things differently. It’s entirely possible they are part of the prayer first belief but I think they are just lazy and entitled. They really believe their crap doesn’t stink and the world revolves around them. I am seriously baffled by the number of people who cater to their nonsense.PollyKrome wrote:SqueakyWheel wrote:Thu Apr 11, 2019 8:48 pm
I’m Mormon. This would not fly in my house. My children are taught what’s appropriate and why and if I tell them to knock it off they know I mean business. As for how the Mormon community would handle kids mental health needs: I can only speak for my experiences. My kids see a licensed therapist for their mental health issues. I have no idea the therapists religious affiliation. (Could be Mormon, could be something else.) Don’t care. Just like if my kid had a broken leg I’d take them to a specialist and wouldn’t care their religious affiliation. I mean it is Utah so there pretty much a 50/50 shot but I honestly don’t care. I’m paying for their medical expertise not their prayers. I definitely pray for my children and we have sought out a priesthood blessing several times over the years. I was brought up that you first do everything in your power (including seeking out proper medical care from a licensed, trained physician) and then add a priesthood blessing. Not the other way around. I have known a few people who approached it backwards but never understood that approach and never really felt like there was any logic to it. I believe those people are in the minority. It’s my belief that God would expect me to do my part as my child’s parent to protect them and seek out help for them.
I’ve never (until the Gardner’s) known of anyone who believed themselves to be invisible to consequences or anyone that would leave 3 year old children home alone. Tyson and Ashley are a whole ball of wax I just can’t comprehend. And the way they treat their family really disgusts me. Especially Tyson and his mom/siblings but Ashley’s relationship with her dad is super creepy vibes to me. Sorry if I’m rambling. I’m tired and my brain is only half working.
Sent from my iPad using Tapatalk
Thank you so much for answering my questions Squeaky Wheel. You've given me a lot to think anout. And you answered in a way that absolutely makes sense. I did ask this of a person who was Mormon who lived next to me about a year ago. In her case her son ended up with a brain tumor and needed a kidney transplant should he be string enough to undergo the brain surgery. I asked "how did it get this far without doctors suspecting all these issues" and she answered in the church they were expected to ask for the blessing or ask for members of the church to come by and pray over him. If awoke without a temperature then they felt the blessing worked. It was the first time I talked to another person with this belief system. I could see what a catch 22 that could be as to take the children in to the doctor Could be seen as a sign that you have a weak belief system or am insult to the members praying over him.
And then the kids inappropriate sexualized play I could see how some sects of the church might not see what they are doing needs to be stopped due to generations of inappropriate behavior.
Its great that you seek mental health support for your kids. I too got it for me kids in a couple of rough patches and we avoided a great deal of the acting out stage - we were prepared when it showed up . I am very sad with the lack of mental health coverage for people of all ages. The lack of insurance coverage for specialists is alarming and it makes me so angry.
In the past I've said that *suspected* that Dr Mumford did the home visits because of this prayer first belief. Now I don't know that for a fact but does that sound feasible? The pastry is dropped on the head and they must get her home to this prayer circle prior to medical care? As I said I don't know for a fact but its just a feeling I have.
At any rate; thank you for speaking up and am seeing my questions
Sent from my iPad using Tapatalk
That’s exactly what I thought.PollyKrome wrote:Fri Apr 12, 2019 7:59 amIt looked like a heavy climbed over the seat and squeezed Esmes shoulder on the way over. When the heavy sat in the seat she has a guilty look on her face.Abbiedownunder wrote:Fri Apr 12, 2019 6:23 am Grrrr. Why the fuck do they both laugh when the girls are crying. Tyass asks Esme why she is crying but doesn't bother to listen to an answer and keeps talking. Bitchface just laughs her face off when either Esme or Indie is crying in the store. What vile pretend parents they are.
Tyrone looked like he could care less.
Horrible parents.
It would be different of course if it was favourite EvieJD386 wrote: ↑Fri Apr 12, 2019 8:21 am What an asshole. Esme is crying and this jerk doesn’t skip a beat. She lays her head on his shoulder and he doesn’t say a word to her. He keeps bitching about how he can’t go eat yet. I hate him. I just wanted to reach my hands through the screen and hug the poor girl.
Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
His knowledge of gardening is piss poorsnarksite wrote: ↑Fri Apr 12, 2019 8:39 am The 4 adults in Costco: Ash(x2), Sam, and Tyson, have a combined IQ of what? Maybe 110? I have to laugh. At least the women don’t pretend to be intelligent. They just behave like the completely clueless dumbasses they are. But, Typerv? Wondering around Costco, and then later his backyard, educating all his “fans” about the proper way to garden? Hilarious. I love it when total idiots try to pretend they are intelligent. Honestly, he blathers on just to hear his own voice. What a bunch of dribble.
The girls really don’t stand a chance.
She probably dug her fingers in as hard as she could. Just like in Costco when dipshit Assley said the cats had been giggling blah blah blah. They were trying to pinch each others cheeks and fight each other. Whoever was pushing them kept trying to hold one of their arms so they couldn't fight. Brats.snarksite wrote:Fri Apr 12, 2019 8:05 amThat’s exactly what I thought.PollyKrome wrote:Fri Apr 12, 2019 7:59 amIt looked like a heavy climbed over the seat and squeezed Esmes shoulder on the way over. When the heavy sat in the seat she has a guilty look on her face.Abbiedownunder wrote:Fri Apr 12, 2019 6:23 am Grrrr. Why the fuck do they both laugh when the girls are crying. Tyass asks Esme why she is crying but doesn't bother to listen to an answer and keeps talking. Bitchface just laughs her face off when either Esme or Indie is crying in the store. What vile pretend parents they are.
Tyrone looked like he could care less.
Horrible parents.
It’s disturbing that she sees their behavior as cute. Or sweet. Or that they’re playing. Like when the girls were laying on the floor kicking one another. Just because they’re laughing while doing it doesn’t make it cute. It’s actually quite disturbing that they enjoy treating one another like that.gram3 wrote:She probably dug her fingers in as hard as she could. Just like in Costco when dipshit Assley said the cats had been giggling blah blah blah. They were trying to pinch each others cheeks and fight each other. Whoever was pushing them kept trying to hold one of their arms so they couldn't fight. Brats.snarksite wrote:Fri Apr 12, 2019 8:05 amThat’s exactly what I thought.PollyKrome wrote:Fri Apr 12, 2019 7:59 am
It looked like a heavy climbed over the seat and squeezed Esmes shoulder on the way over. When the heavy sat in the seat she has a guilty look on her face.
Tyrone looked like he could care less.
Horrible parents.
Yeah i've mentioned this a few times how they're always on the verge of hurting each other when they're supposedly just playing, it is really disturbing. Imagine when they're slightly older they'll really do some damage to each other.JD386 wrote: ↑Fri Apr 12, 2019 9:04 amIt’s disturbing that she sees their behavior as cute. Or sweet. Or that they’re playing. Like when the girls were laying on the floor kicking one another. Just because they’re laughing while doing it doesn’t make it cute. It’s actually quite disturbing that they enjoy treating one another like that.gram3 wrote:She probably dug her fingers in as hard as she could. Just like in Costco when dipshit Assley said the cats had been giggling blah blah blah. They were trying to pinch each others cheeks and fight each other. Whoever was pushing them kept trying to hold one of their arms so they couldn't fight. Brats.
Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
Of course Tybetes thinks the problem is a food issue. "They are just hungry"JD386 wrote: ↑Fri Apr 12, 2019 8:21 am What an asshole. Esme is crying and this jerk doesn’t skip a beat. She lays her head on his shoulder and he doesn’t say a word to her. He keeps bitching about how he can’t go eat yet. I hate him. I just wanted to reach my hands through the screen and hug the poor girl.
Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
i saw that. she should have separated the girls at that point.Mervellla wrote:Fri Apr 12, 2019 9:10 am At one stage Sam looked as if she was moving one of the girls arms away from the others face.
Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
That's really not normal play.Mervellla wrote:Fri Apr 12, 2019 9:14 am I tried to grab a screenshot
Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
That’s exactly it!! These girls HURT one another on purpose as a form of playing. WTF!? It’s insane. And nobody ever reprimands them or corrects their behavior. Instead their ”parents” and not a real nanny film it while calling it cute. Can’t wait until they try this shit on a classmate and see the consequences for this type of behavior.Mervellla wrote:I tried to grab a screenshot [IMG]//uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/201904 ... 57cff6.jpg[/IMG]
Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
If my kids pulled this shit, they would be out of the cart, cart left, one possibly in a football hold and frog marched out to the car. There would also be a talk about how we treat each other. (I have not had to actually leave my cart, but have started to leave the store, and they stopped).Mervellla wrote:I tried to grab a screenshot [IMG]//uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/201904 ... 57cff6.jpg[/IMG]
Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
