GQS: Pretty in Pink Ty, Our Life is a Lie, Subscribe or I’ll Cry| Part 52

[tg910]

The two bigger girls are defiantly more advanced, in all areas except for empathy, than the smaller two. Indie in particular seems to struggle, maybe GDD?

Is it possible they are aware of health conditions/delays and just dont discuss it online?

I think they are in denial that their “miracles” aren’t perfect and therefore aren’t seeking proper intervention to deal with the issues. I also believe they can’t see the girls as individuals with individual needs. They always seem to be treated as one of a set: buying one size clothing for all 4, always buying four of everything (recently I recall reading somewhere that A$$wit posted about a cute outfit but couldn’t buy it because there weren’t four). So unless all four need it, it’s not going to happen for just one - not enough to get everyone’s attention. What’s special about one child needing help when they have four, and are a unit?
(I was in denial for a while over my child needing speech therapy (so I understand the denial part) , timing wise though I think it has worked better that we waited for him as he is improving in leaps and bounds). I also mommed up and got him what he needed.
*these are just my thoughts from things I’ve observed.


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[RolyPoly123]

The two bigger girls are defiantly more advanced, in all areas except for empathy, than the smaller two. Indie in particular seems to struggle, maybe GDD?

Is it possible they are aware of health conditions/delays and just dont discuss it online?

I was literally coming here to post something like this exactly. I am convinced they know something is up and don’t discuss it. I think they only stick to things relevant to all 4. I was considering that while Cashley usually films doctor appointments (until Staplegate) they may not be showing all of them, every time.

So now I’m in the camp they know but just don’t say. Maybe religious reasons? Or they don’t feel like being judged for it, which, when you have their ‘jobs’ is just par for the course & they realize that now. However, it would be nice if they acknowledged it or they spoke openly b/c many families could identify & likely, in a genuine way, up the views.

I agree about Indie but i actually think Esme is the most advanced and intelligent and her comprehension is the best but i still think they're all way behind where they should be.

[Pina]

The two bigger girls are defiantly more advanced, in all areas except for empathy, than the smaller two. Indie in particular seems to struggle, maybe GDD?

Is it possible they are aware of health conditions/delays and just dont discuss it online?

I was literally coming here to post something like this exactly. I am convinced they know something is up and don’t discuss it. I think they only stick to things relevant to all 4. I was considering that while Cashley usually films doctor appointments (until Staplegate) they may not be showing all of them, every time.

So now I’m in the camp they know but just don’t say. Maybe religious reasons? Or they don’t feel like being judged for it, which, when you have their ‘jobs’ is just par for the course & they realize that now. However, it would be nice if they acknowledged it or they spoke openly b/c many families could identify & likely, in a genuine way, up the views.

They dont even have to discuss any diagnosis/medical concerns online but why not just say that instead of pretending everything is ok.

Premie kids at 4 still wearing pull ups is not unusual. Kids wearing pull ups for bed at 7,8,9,10 is not that uncommon. Its the combination of issues that is worrying. I hope it is the fact that it is just not being discussed online rather than being ignored.

[lmmomSD]

The two bigger girls are defiantly more advanced, in all areas except for empathy, than the smaller two. Indie in particular seems to struggle, maybe GDD?

Is it possible they are aware of health conditions/delays and just dont discuss it online?

I was literally coming here to post something like this exactly. I am convinced they know something is up and don’t discuss it. I think they only stick to things relevant to all 4. I was considering that while Cashley usually films doctor appointments (until Staplegate) they may not be showing all of them, every time.

So now I’m in the camp they know but just don’t say. Maybe religious reasons? Or they don’t feel like being judged for it, which, when you have their ‘jobs’ is just par for the course & they realize that now. However, it would be nice if they acknowledged it or they spoke openly b/c many families could identify & likely, in a genuine way, up the views.

If they do know and aren't saying anything, it's not to protect Indie's privacy. It's because if there is something "wrong" with her, it ruins their perfect happy family image that they try so hard to put out there.
Daily Bumps' little boys both have speech delays. When the oldest was old enough to be speaking in sentences, what was coming out was barely understandable. To everyone. And people posted about their concerns, and the mom went on a Snapchat rant about how advanced his speech was, and that they just "never caught it on film. Sure, Jan. But Samika Vlogs had a little boy who appeared to be a little delayed, and people commented, and they said in the vlog "We appreciate your concern and we will mention it our doctor". Big difference in attitude.

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[MervelllaB]

I think in the face of the criticism they receive, they would not continue to insist nothing was wrong if there was and they were doing something about it.
We have seen how far down their list of priorities Indie comes when they took her on a 5 hr flight instead of having her head examined. They put her through having it filmed while their doctor stitched it up, while their child laid curled up sand unresponsive. Ashley and Tyson showed not one ounce of emotion.
These parents are too self-obsessed to notice a problem, not to mention too stupid. Neither understand child development or how to be a parent.
This woman says her kids wearing non-matching shoes stresses her out, but taking her child on a flight with a gaping wound in her head didn’t?
I’ve really got to the stage that I can’t stick it any longer! Their immaturity and lack of intelligence astonishes me! I pity the children - it’s heartbreaking. The worst thing is they see themselves as wonderful human beings who are an example to others! I’ve never seen such self-absorbed individuals with such an overwhelming sense of entitlement!


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[Howlin17]

I think most of us have recognized that something is wrong with the pastry. Her eyes & her joints. And what about Esme and the lines on the floor and the wind? The heavies can’t answer simple questions. They, especially Heffer, are aggressive, loud and champion meltdown artists. At 4 1/2 they are still in pull-ups. But, they have matchy matchy clothes and know how to pose....so, all is good


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[monkey_crazy]

By the way why are they always mocking Oakland with his hair? Like he can't choose his own hairstyle or what. Trashly saying his hair is scary… well you should look at yours first Trash.

[Snarky33]

Yes premature babies can have delays. The issue with the Greedners is that they never foster growth and development in a meaningful way. Are they in pullups because they are locked out of the bathroom at night or because they still need them??? And how would they as parents even know if the girls are fully potty trained, because for dumb and dumber's ease they are locked out of the bathroom?? They have already mentioned the girls are awake way before they themselves get out of bed and now they have trained them to stay in their rooms with the green light red light alarm, so how are they supposed to go to the bathroom after holding it in all night. That is disgusting and sad that they don't have access to jack and jill bathroom conveniently between their rooms.

She did the same thing with the toddler beds and left them in those crib cages forever then blathered on how they loved being in them. You can see they don't ever correct their incorrect pronunciation and the girls given nonsensical answers to most questions they are asked. I've seen many opportunities for learning and lack of attention given to the girls because their parents are too busy with a phone or camera in front of their faces.

Now not only has he taught them how to open the spa cover, now their four years old know how to turn on the grill and cook over a boiling pot on the stove. They also are allowed to be in the spa unattended, even brief moments are too long, take their ride along toys into the street and up neighbors driveways without helmets. And as if that wasn't enough, now they get to ride in the back of a golf cart unattended. For the love of hod, why is that golf cart necessary??? Where is it that they have to go that they need a golf cart?? For A$$ley's sake nothing better happen to one of those four because of this choice because she will have to live with the fact she is responsible for bringing that into her home. Although, after seeing how she rationalized everything that negatively impacts her children, I doubt she could ever look in the mirror and take responsibility.

[Guest]

I assume today vlog was sponsored by the hotdog place as the logo was pasted on the thumbnail. What a snore fest.

[RolyPoly123]

Yes premature babies can have delays. The issue with the Greedners is that they never foster growth and development in a meaningful way. Are they in pullups because they are locked out of the bathroom at night or because they still need them??? And how would they as parents even know if the girls are fully potty trained, because for dumb and dumber's ease they are locked out of the bathroom?? They have already mentioned the girls are awake way before they themselves get out of bed and now they have trained them to stay in their rooms with the green light red light alarm, so how are they supposed to go to the bathroom after holding it in all night. That is disgusting and sad that they don't have access to jack and jill bathroom conveniently between their rooms.

She did the same thing with the toddler beds and left them in those crib cages forever then blathered on how they loved being in them. You can see they don't ever correct their incorrect pronunciation and the girls given nonsensical answers to most questions they are asked. I've seen many opportunities for learning and lack of attention given to the girls because their parents are too busy with a phone or camera in front of their faces.

Now not only has he taught them how to open the spa cover, now their four years old know how to turn on the grill and cook over a boiling pot on the stove. They also are allowed to be in the spa unattended, even brief moments are too long, take their ride along toys into the street and up neighbors driveways without helmets. And as if that wasn't enough, now they get to ride in the back of a golf cart unattended. For the love of hod, why is that golf cart necessary??? Where is it that they have to go that they need a golf cart?? For A$$ley's sake nothing better happen to one of those four because of this choice because she will have to live with the fact she is responsible for bringing that into her home. Although, after seeing how she rationalized everything that negatively impacts her children, I doubt she could ever look in the mirror and take responsibility.

You're right they would never ever take responsibility for anything that goes wrong, it will always be someone else's fault.

[RolyPoly123]

I forgot to mention the other day. Did anyone else notice in the vlog when they were out with their family, i think the tulip place, that Ashley was harping on about the girls sharing their lolly with baby Mack. She actually said "even Evie shared" so just goes to show that the sharing never happens from their "sweet" Evie.

[SqueakyWheel]

The two bigger girls are defiantly more advanced, in all areas except for empathy, than the smaller two. Indie in particular seems to struggle, maybe GDD?

Is it possible they are aware of health conditions/delays and just dont discuss it online?

I was literally coming here to post something like this exactly. I am convinced they know something is up and don’t discuss it. I think they only stick to things relevant to all 4. I was considering that while Cashley usually films doctor appointments (until Staplegate) they may not be showing all of them, every time.

So now I’m in the camp they know but just don’t say. Maybe religious reasons? Or they don’t feel like being judged for it, which, when you have their ‘jobs’ is just par for the course & they realize that now. However, it would be nice if they acknowledged it or they spoke openly b/c many families could identify & likely, in a genuine way, up the views.

There is zero religious reasons a Mormon wouldn’t speak of what is going on. I’d like to think they might protect her privacy by choosing not to vlog it. But realistically that’s not their style. Because vlogging it gets views which equals money which buys them more stuff to fill the deep empty hole in their souls. The smart thing to do would be to acknowledge that there is an issue. And say that they’ve chosen to not vlog it to protect her privacy and then get her the help she needs. I don’t think they are doing anything to help her. I’d sure like to be proven wrong though.


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[DollarsToDonuts_9]

The two bigger girls are defiantly more advanced, in all areas except for empathy, than the smaller two. Indie in particular seems to struggle, maybe GDD?

Is it possible they are aware of health conditions/delays and just dont discuss it online?

I was literally coming here to post something like this exactly. I am convinced they know something is up and don’t discuss it. I think they only stick to things relevant to all 4. I was considering that while Cashley usually films doctor appointments (until Staplegate) they may not be showing all of them, every time.

So now I’m in the camp they know but just don’t say. Maybe religious reasons? Or they don’t feel like being judged for it, which, when you have their ‘jobs’ is just par for the course & they realize that now. However, it would be nice if they acknowledged it or they spoke openly b/c many families could identify & likely, in a genuine way, up the views.

They dont even have to discuss any diagnosis/medical concerns online but why not just say that instead of pretending everything is ok.

Premie kids at 4 still wearing pull ups is not unusual. Kids wearing pull ups for bed at 7,8,9,10 is not that uncommon. Its the combination of issues that is worrying. I hope it is the fact that it is just not being discussed online rather than being ignored.

Because like someone else said it ruins their (imagined) perfect family vision. When I watched that video about the golf carts & the shoes I realized Cashley is very blank in terms of the DUHrls desires. Like she just had to have them all wearing the same shoes and when the Heavies had to get bigger shoes she was noticeably annoyed - not concerned that her kids may not want them. So yea... while I think they know I have to say I think they say nothing b/c they don’t want to hear it. They want to pretend all is perfect.

[DollarsToDonuts_9]

The two bigger girls are defiantly more advanced, in all areas except for empathy, than the smaller two. Indie in particular seems to struggle, maybe GDD?

Is it possible they are aware of health conditions/delays and just dont discuss it online?

I was literally coming here to post something like this exactly. I am convinced they know something is up and don’t discuss it. I think they only stick to things relevant to all 4. I was considering that while Cashley usually films doctor appointments (until Staplegate) they may not be showing all of them, every time.

So now I’m in the camp they know but just don’t say. Maybe religious reasons? Or they don’t feel like being judged for it, which, when you have their ‘jobs’ is just par for the course & they realize that now. However, it would be nice if they acknowledged it or they spoke openly b/c many families could identify & likely, in a genuine way, up the views.

There is zero religious reasons a Mormon wouldn’t speak of what is going on. I’d like to think they might protect her privacy by choosing not to vlog it. But realistically that’s not their style. Because vlogging it gets views which equals money which buys them more stuff to fill the deep empty hole in their souls. The smart thing to do would be to acknowledge that there is an issue. And say that they’ve chosen to not vlog it to protect her privacy and then get her the help she needs. I don’t think they are doing anything to help her. I’d sure like to be proven wrong though.


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I have no idea about Mormons hence my question mark. It was a guess. Like a point of discussion b/c that’s what we do here.

I agree they should be open about it. I didn’t suggest it’s for reasons of privacy. I said maybe they just don’t want to hear it. Ain’t nothing done for the benefit of children for this family

[SqueakyWheel]

I was literally coming here to post something like this exactly. I am convinced they know something is up and don’t discuss it. I think they only stick to things relevant to all 4. I was considering that while Cashley usually films doctor appointments (until Staplegate) they may not be showing all of them, every time.

So now I’m in the camp they know but just don’t say. Maybe religious reasons? Or they don’t feel like being judged for it, which, when you have their ‘jobs’ is just par for the course & they realize that now. However, it would be nice if they acknowledged it or they spoke openly b/c many families could identify & likely, in a genuine way, up the views.

There is zero religious reasons a Mormon wouldn’t speak of what is going on. I’d like to think they might protect her privacy by choosing not to vlog it. But realistically that’s not their style. Because vlogging it gets views which equals money which buys them more stuff to fill the deep empty hole in their souls. The smart thing to do would be to acknowledge that there is an issue. And say that they’ve chosen to not vlog it to protect her privacy and then get her the help she needs. I don’t think they are doing anything to help her. I’d sure like to be proven wrong though.


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I have no idea about Mormons hence my question mark. It was a guess. Like a point of discussion b/c that’s what we do here.

I agree they should be open about it. I didn’t suggest it’s for reasons of privacy. I said maybe they just don’t want to hear it. Ain’t nothing done for the benefit of children for this family

I understood that. I’m Mormon so was providing the perspective that it’s definitely not a Mormon thing and adding my own opinion, sorry....should have mentioned that I’m Mormon as I don’t have a lot of time to chime in here often so it’s not necessarily known by all.


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[DollarsToDonuts_9]

There is zero religious reasons a Mormon wouldn’t speak of what is going on. I’d like to think they might protect her privacy by choosing not to vlog it. But realistically that’s not their style. Because vlogging it gets views which equals money which buys them more stuff to fill the deep empty hole in their souls. The smart thing to do would be to acknowledge that there is an issue. And say that they’ve chosen to not vlog it to protect her privacy and then get her the help she needs. I don’t think they are doing anything to help her. I’d sure like to be proven wrong though.


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I have no idea about Mormons hence my question mark. It was a guess. Like a point of discussion b/c that’s what we do here.

I agree they should be open about it. I didn’t suggest it’s for reasons of privacy. I said maybe they just don’t want to hear it. Ain’t nothing done for the benefit of children for this family

I understood that. I’m Mormon so was providing the perspective that it’s definitely not a Mormon thing and adding my own opinion, sorry....should have mentioned that I’m Mormon as I don’t have a lot of time to chime in here often so it’s not necessarily known by all.


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Ahhh I see now. Thank you! And thank you for sharing your Mormon views so we can be more informed.

[skipperpt]

Sorry to go off topic, but how did Nanny Ash and Sammycakes sneak away for a girls trip with A$$ tagging along?!


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[RolyPoly123]

Sorry to go off topic, but how did Nanny Ash and Sammycakes sneak away for a girls trip with A$$ tagging along?!


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Yeah i wondered that too

[MervelllaB]

Can you eat frankfurters raw?


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[Here_2_talk]

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Someone finally punched him?!

More likely one of the FF poked him with their dirty little fingers


Small victories


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