There is no specific guideline about swimwear. I personally wouldn’t feel modest in a bikini but it’s one of those things that is left up to the individual to decide. I do have a few Mormon friends that wear them but culturally it is frowned upon and sometimes that will get the little old church ladies talking behind your back.DollarsToDonuts_9 wrote:I normally do not like to comment on women's bodies because I believe all have our own features that make us pretty, etc. but good gravy...that does not fit. I'm sorry. First, a bikini or whatever that is...that is not modest! And I do not care what women wear but if you tout modesty then you need to have the integrity to exemplify it. Can one of our resident Mormon sisters speak up and let us know?GA Peach70 wrote: ↑Mon May 06, 2019 2:04 pm Can’t she find a swimsuit that fits? She’s hanging out so much. She says she’s modest? Bhahaha! Since when? She also says she puts on the sunless tanning Seneshit and sleeps for 8-9 hours. What mother actually gets that many hours of sleep? None that I know. I guess it’s just the ones that have #notarealnanny. The girls come in and one asks if Asswipe is going with them to the sand. I’m assuming it’s at a park but Asswipe never answers her and just walks away. That’s mother of the year right here folks.
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Second, it is ill-fitting. She is spilling out and not in a good way - in a way that means that the top is about 2 sizes too small. Here is my other issue...the last thing I think of when I'm out in the water with my kids is a bikini top like that. I want to get in the water and play and watch diligently to make sure they are safe. You cannot do that in this type of top. This is an I'll a lay in chair all day top. But I guess if you have NANNY, then you are afforded such luxuries. [Insert Eyeroll]
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I do think the younger generation is a little less strict with their definition of modesty and perhaps more of them are comfortable with a bikini. But to be honest my mother would probably still take my 44 year old self and give me one heck of a lecture about modesty if she saw me in one, lol. I was brought up being told that we were to only wear one piece suits. But like I said there is no actual guideline. What I was taught was in line with the culture of the time.Now Ashly’s ill fitting swimwear...well that’s just immodest no matter how you slice it. If it fit better I probably wouldn’t think too much about it.
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Does she think that’s how “rill” professionals run business pages? Showing their boobs spilling out of their swimsuit? I get wanting/trying to be sexy 
(Hod I just threw up in my mouth) but this wasn’t even close. It may work for some models who have killer bodies but not with Asswipe. If the bikini top had fit better I’m sure none of us would have gave it a second thought. But when you looked at it, there were boobs everywhere! 
Every business woman I know would never, ever post something like that to a business page. Personal page, maybe, doubtful, but maybe, but never professionally. I have a friend who is a State Representative. A few of my other friends include a branch manager for a bank, an producer for the Academy Awards, a “rill” makeup artist for A-list celebrities, a professional stunt woman for movies, an astronaut, many successful business owners, and a news anchor. I literally do know several entrepreneurs who are “rill” entrepreneurs not just make believe like Asswipe. None of them would ever do this. It would never cross their minds. It’s just not done on a professional page. Whoever said it earlier was correct. She could have demonstrated it on her arms or legs. There really was no need for the suit. But hey, I’m just a 60 year old grandma who is an old lady (according to the KADs anyone over a certain age is old and automatically a grandma 
) that is enjoying retirement who, believe it or not, was once a young woman. Yes, I wore bikinis too but I didn’t have my boobs hanging out because my suit was too small. I never claimed to be modest either while wearing a bikini. Was I proud of the fact that after all my children were born I didn’t have one stretch mark (thank you cocoa butter!) and could still wear one? Damn right I was. I’m really not a prude by any means. I will say, and I’m seriously not bragging here so please don’t take it that way, but I’m in much better shape than she is. Of course I don’t eat shit food all the time and was blessed with good genes. I definitely don’t eat Raising Canes 5 times a day either or lounge around on the couch every day. Well I take that back. I do lounge on the couch or in bed when I’m having a fibro flare but that is still nowhere near how often these two do it. That definitely is catching up to her. I actually eat healthy and exercise too as much as I’m able to due to my fibromyalgia. She’s not doing anything to help with the weight gain. Believe me I get it. As we get older we gain weight just by looking at food and it’s so hard to lose it. There could be other reasons as to why the weight gain. Medicines or medical issues. I get that. I really do. But these two just keep shoveling in the food and do nothing to work it off and she keeps trying to fit into something that clearly doesn’t fit. She does this rather often. Maybe one of her sisters, her BFF’s, or even her Senesisters 
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) The busy mom’s wants/needs are usually last. (But if you are like Asswipe then your children’s wants/needs are last.) I understand how women go grab their swimsuit from last year, the year before, or even from 5 years ago and put it on, hoping it fits. Sometimes the damn dresser drawers and closets shrink clothing and things don’t always fit. 