Brianna K | Part 3

[ActualWorkingMom]

She’s already doing it by showing off gift cards she’s received. It’s downright trashy.

Commence trying for a boy she will name after her dad in 3, 2, 1...


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

[skippy1931]

before I'm trashed as heart less about my answer. I recently lost my mom after moving her in and taking care of her the past 5 years as she battled Alzheimers. The last year the hardest I have ever done. i have 4 siblings that even when I said she is dying they refused to be bothered to come up they asked for videos and you know what I said no you want to see her come see her I'm not videoing her so you can ease your conscious and see her. Its disrespectful its disgusting and her using his illness for the past year for views, for sympathy is just disgusting. not only are they getting a ton of gcs they don't need have some damn respect tell your fans to donate to a charity if they feel the need not cash in on free meals or gcs

[catmom89]

I feel really bad for Bri, and I don't want to trash her right now, but I don't know why she is sharing screenshots of all the gift cards she's getting on her insta story. It just seems...weird.

[Itsnotmyfault]

I took care of my Dad and Father-in-law when they passed on. The fact that Bri filmed her Dad while dying is insulting to all of us who took CARE of our loved ones, protecting them from any of that, the photos, cell phone videos, etc.. no way was I going to shame the MAN who raised me!! That’s not a side show to put on the internet!!
To promote the “gifts” she is receiving because her Dad died is wrong! We had friends just show up at our door with home cooked meals, for Days! We didn’t take photos of that either! I can’t with her, I am just not able to keep making excuses for stupidity!!

[speaktruth]

My mother in law has awful pictures of relatives sitting at the bedside of terminally ill loved ones. Also of their dead ones. These are very old and from way back in the day. I saw them and winced. How can people, even back in the day, think it's ever a good thing to take pictures of death and suffering? What does one get out of it? Why can't you just remember the GOOD things and move on?

Yes, promoting gift cards and such is such a shame. Bri needs to grieve. Away from social media.

[username44]

Being thankful for the gift cards and responding with a personal private message is what she should have done. I get that she’s really hurting, and I actually do feel awful for her despite the fact I’ve been hard on her about a lot of things. I guess showing it all off reminds me of the Bri who would fake cry about her dad and promote something sponsored all in the same breath.

[yeahsureok]

Those girls share what people send them all the time, it’s normal in their world. They have no self awareness or care how tacky it looks because they WANT to show off how “popular” they are and they WANT other people to feel obligated to send them more shit.

I want to shake Bri and just be like “stop! Some things can remain private! You don’t have to share every little thing on the internet... that’s what your husband, best friends and Gigi are for! tell them and then move on with your day!” She’s lost so much of herself to the internet that there is not filter anymore.

I do have a soft spot for her tho. Like I look at her and just know she’s been depressed for a while, I know she’s stressed, you can see it all over her... she looks like a fragile, tired, sick woman. Mentally she’s been unhealthy for a long time and I truly think youtube is really toxic for someone like Bri. I would love to see her get back to work and just post on YT once or twice a week. Life and especially YT doesn’t have to be that serious and it doesn’t NEED to be her income source. She’s a smart girl.

[jazieg]

Those girls share what people send them all the time, it’s normal in their world. They have no self awareness or care how tacky it looks because they WANT to show off how “popular” they are and they WANT other people to feel obligated to send them more shit.

I want to shake Bri and just be like “stop! Some things can remain private! You don’t have to share every little thing on the internet... that’s what your husband, best friends and Gigi are for! tell them and then move on with your day!” She’s lost so much of herself to the internet that there is not filter anymore.

I do have a soft spot for her tho. Like I look at her and just know she’s been depressed for a while, I know she’s stressed, you can see it all over her... she looks like a fragile, tired, sick woman. Mentally she’s been unhealthy for a long time and I truly think youtube is really toxic for someone like Bri. I would love to see her get back to work and just post on YT once or twice a week. Life and especially YT doesn’t have to be that serious and it doesn’t NEED to be her income source. She’s a smart girl.

I agree with so much you've said.

I watch Bri on IG (somtimes) and maybe will watch a YT if its not cooking or excessive cleaning, but I am always a bit hesitant opening any of her Social Media anymore.

I see a fragile woman who is trying so hard to be happy and only able to keep herself together if she can control the situation in front of her. She has built a cocoon around her and is afraid of what might emerge if she breaks through. She wants to be the butterfly, but is scared she will only be the Moth, but doesn't understand there is beauty in both...

Her Father passing will be a test for her. For almost the past year she solely dedicated herself to taking care of him. Her Sister and Brother were living their lives and she was acting caretaker alone, based on her stories. I'm afraid that she will harbor negative feelings with family that will spiral her even more. I know she must blame her Mom, even though it was/is not her Mom's fault as relationships take two, regardless. She, IMO, will have a rough present for awhile.

What disturbed me most the past days was not the posting of gifts, the photographer taking professional pics of her journey, but the brief IG of Presley having kissed "Poppy's" Urn Goodnight.
Maybe I don't understand peoples rituals, but all I could see was Bri having her kids now doing this nightly and I was, well, no words.

She needs therapy. She needs to find Bri in all this and I don't think its appropriate to post any of her struggles right now on IG. I see no matter what Adam does as not being right, he won't understand her, based on her, and god help them if she does get pregnant.

I can't watch in real time someone break like her. She's not a Aaryn, Tara, etc., and she doesn't have the "Skin" to weather a fail on Social Media. It will decimate her.

Just my opinion. Yes, I feel bad for her...

Sent from my SM-S727VL using Tapatalk

[username44]

Those girls share what people send them all the time, it’s normal in their world. They have no self awareness or care how tacky it looks because they WANT to show off how “popular” they are and they WANT other people to feel obligated to send them more shit.

I want to shake Bri and just be like “stop! Some things can remain private! You don’t have to share every little thing on the internet... that’s what your husband, best friends and Gigi are for! tell them and then move on with your day!” She’s lost so much of herself to the internet that there is not filter anymore.

I do have a soft spot for her tho. Like I look at her and just know she’s been depressed for a while, I know she’s stressed, you can see it all over her... she looks like a fragile, tired, sick woman. Mentally she’s been unhealthy for a long time and I truly think youtube is really toxic for someone like Bri. I would love to see her get back to work and just post on YT once or twice a week. Life and especially YT doesn’t have to be that serious and it doesn’t NEED to be her income source. She’s a smart girl.

I agree with so much you've said.

I watch Bri on IG (somtimes) and maybe will watch a YT if its not cooking or excessive cleaning, but I am always a bit hesitant opening any of her Social Media anymore.

I see a fragile woman who is trying so hard to be happy and only able to keep herself together if she can control the situation in front of her. She has built a cocoon around her and is afraid of what might emerge if she breaks through. She wants to be the butterfly, but is scared she will only be the Moth, but doesn't understand there is beauty in both...

Her Father passing will be a test for her. For almost the past year she solely dedicated herself to taking care of him. Her Sister and Brother were living their lives and she was acting caretaker alone, based on her stories. I'm afraid that she will harbor negative feelings with family that will spiral her even more. I know she must blame her Mom, even though it was/is not her Mom's fault as relationships take two, regardless. She, IMO, will have a rough present for awhile.

What disturbed me most the past days was not the posting of gifts, the photographer taking professional pics of her journey, but the brief IG of Presley having kissed "Poppy's" Urn Goodnight.
Maybe I don't understand peoples rituals, but all I could see was Bri having her kids now doing this nightly and I was, well, no words.

She needs therapy. She needs to find Bri in all this and I don't think its appropriate to post any of her struggles right now on IG. I see no matter what Adam does as not being right, he won't understand her, based on her, and god help them if she does get pregnant.

I can't watch in real time someone break like her. She's not a Aaryn, Tara, etc., and she doesn't have the "Skin" to weather a fail on Social Media. It will decimate her.

Just my opinion. Yes, I feel bad for her...

Sent from my SM-S727VL using Tapatalk

Bri has a brother? I’ve only ever seen her talk about her sister, or post photos of her. I thought she only had one sibling.

[aclay032]

According to instagram, it looks like Adam is in Vegas for a bachelor party at the moment. Is it just me, or does anyone else find this to be awful. I mean, obviously the world doesn't stop when terrible things happen, but if ever there was a time to cancel a trip, I would think now would be the time. "I'm sorry, but my father-in-law just passed away. I think I need to be with my wife and family right now."

[jazieg]

Those girls share what people send them all the time, it’s normal in their world. They have no self awareness or care how tacky it looks because they WANT to show off how “popular” they are and they WANT other people to feel obligated to send them more shit.

I want to shake Bri and just be like “stop! Some things can remain private! You don’t have to share every little thing on the internet... that’s what your husband, best friends and Gigi are for! tell them and then move on with your day!” She’s lost so much of herself to the internet that there is not filter anymore.

I do have a soft spot for her tho. Like I look at her and just know she’s been depressed for a while, I know she’s stressed, you can see it all over her... she looks like a fragile, tired, sick woman. Mentally she’s been unhealthy for a long time and I truly think youtube is really toxic for someone like Bri. I would love to see her get back to work and just post on YT once or twice a week. Life and especially YT doesn’t have to be that serious and it doesn’t NEED to be her income source. She’s a smart girl.

I agree with so much you've said.

I watch Bri on IG (somtimes) and maybe will watch a YT if its not cooking or excessive cleaning, but I am always a bit hesitant opening any of her Social Media anymore.

I see a fragile woman who is trying so hard to be happy and only able to keep herself together if she can control the situation in front of her. She has built a cocoon around her and is afraid of what might emerge if she breaks through. She wants to be the butterfly, but is scared she will only be the Moth, but doesn't understand there is beauty in both...

Her Father passing will be a test for her. For almost the past year she solely dedicated herself to taking care of him. Her Sister and Brother were living their lives and she was acting caretaker alone, based on her stories. I'm afraid that she will harbor negative feelings with family that will spiral her even more. I know she must blame her Mom, even though it was/is not her Mom's fault as relationships take two, regardless. She, IMO, will have a rough present for awhile.

What disturbed me most the past days was not the posting of gifts, the photographer taking professional pics of her journey, but the brief IG of Presley having kissed "Poppy's" Urn Goodnight.
Maybe I don't understand peoples rituals, but all I could see was Bri having her kids now doing this nightly and I was, well, no words.

She needs therapy. She needs to find Bri in all this and I don't think its appropriate to post any of her struggles right now on IG. I see no matter what Adam does as not being right, he won't understand her, based on her, and god help them if she does get pregnant.

I can't watch in real time someone break like her. She's not a Aaryn, Tara, etc., and she doesn't have the "Skin" to weather a fail on Social Media. It will decimate her.

Just my opinion. Yes, I feel bad for her...

Sent from my SM-S727VL using Tapatalk

Bri has a brother? I’ve only ever seen her talk about her sister, or post photos of her. I thought she only had one sibling.

The obituary in The Plain Dealer has a son Andrew with wife Tiffany listed. So maybe he was married before or had him before he married Bri's Mom??? I know she never mentioned him so I was surprised too.

(Anyone wondering why I would see an Obit is because it was in my hometown paper)

Sent from my SM-S727VL using Tapatalk

[formerctfxcer]

According to instagram, it looks like Adam is in Vegas for a bachelor party at the moment. Is it just me, or does anyone else find this to be awful. I mean, obviously the world doesn't stop when terrible things happen, but if ever there was a time to cancel a trip, I would think now would be the time. "I'm sorry, but my father-in-law just passed away. I think I need to be with my wife and family right now."

I’ll try to give him the benefit of the doubt and hope she told him to go/insisted he go despite the bad timing.


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

[formerctfxcer]

I agree with so much you've said.

I watch Bri on IG (somtimes) and maybe will watch a YT if its not cooking or excessive cleaning, but I am always a bit hesitant opening any of her Social Media anymore.

I see a fragile woman who is trying so hard to be happy and only able to keep herself together if she can control the situation in front of her. She has built a cocoon around her and is afraid of what might emerge if she breaks through. She wants to be the butterfly, but is scared she will only be the Moth, but doesn't understand there is beauty in both...

Her Father passing will be a test for her. For almost the past year she solely dedicated herself to taking care of him. Her Sister and Brother were living their lives and she was acting caretaker alone, based on her stories. I'm afraid that she will harbor negative feelings with family that will spiral her even more. I know she must blame her Mom, even though it was/is not her Mom's fault as relationships take two, regardless. She, IMO, will have a rough present for awhile.

What disturbed me most the past days was not the posting of gifts, the photographer taking professional pics of her journey, but the brief IG of Presley having kissed "Poppy's" Urn Goodnight.
Maybe I don't understand peoples rituals, but all I could see was Bri having her kids now doing this nightly and I was, well, no words.

She needs therapy. She needs to find Bri in all this and I don't think its appropriate to post any of her struggles right now on IG. I see no matter what Adam does as not being right, he won't understand her, based on her, and god help them if she does get pregnant.

I can't watch in real time someone break like her. She's not a Aaryn, Tara, etc., and she doesn't have the "Skin" to weather a fail on Social Media. It will decimate her.

Just my opinion. Yes, I feel bad for her...

Sent from my SM-S727VL using Tapatalk

Bri has a brother? I’ve only ever seen her talk about her sister, or post photos of her. I thought she only had one sibling.

The obituary in The Plain Dealer has a son Andrew with wife Tiffany listed. So maybe he was married before or had him before he married Bri's Mom??? I know she never mentioned him so I was surprised too.

(Anyone wondering why I would see an Obit is because it was in my hometown paper)

Sent from my SM-S727VL using Tapatalk

Well that’s super weird of her not to ever mention him?? I have tons of friends with half siblings, some of whom they didn’t even know existed until they were older, but it isn’t something they hide. I wonder what the story is there


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

[username44]

Bri has a brother? I’ve only ever seen her talk about her sister, or post photos of her. I thought she only had one sibling.

The obituary in The Plain Dealer has a son Andrew with wife Tiffany listed. So maybe he was married before or had him before he married Bri's Mom??? I know she never mentioned him so I was surprised too.

(Anyone wondering why I would see an Obit is because it was in my hometown paper)

Sent from my SM-S727VL using Tapatalk

Well that’s super weird of her not to ever mention him?? I have tons of friends with half siblings, some of whom they didn’t even know existed until they were older, but it isn’t something they hide. I wonder what the story is there


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

I wonder if it’s one of those instances where they had a falling out and she just crossed him out of the picture completely. Even in her draw my life she said that she just has one sister, kali? And that her mom and dad struggled to conceive after Bri which is why her sister is 5-6 years younger. Idk.

[jazieg]

The obituary in The Plain Dealer has a son Andrew with wife Tiffany listed. So maybe he was married before or had him before he married Bri's Mom??? I know she never mentioned him so I was surprised too.

(Anyone wondering why I would see an Obit is because it was in my hometown paper)

Sent from my SM-S727VL using Tapatalk

Well that’s super weird of her not to ever mention him?? I have tons of friends with half siblings, some of whom they didn’t even know existed until they were older, but it isn’t something they hide. I wonder what the story is there


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

I wonder if it’s one of those instances where they had a falling out and she just crossed him out of the picture completely. Even in her draw my life she said that she just has one sister, kali? And that her mom and dad struggled to conceive after Bri which is why her sister is 5-6 years younger. Idk.

IDK, but this is what was listed.

Loving father of Brianna Koehler (Adam), Kali Savoca, and Andrew Savoca (Tiffany).

Lol, time to go back into FBI mode...

Sent from my SM-S727VL using Tapatalk

[username44]

Well that’s super weird of her not to ever mention him?? I have tons of friends with half siblings, some of whom they didn’t even know existed until they were older, but it isn’t something they hide. I wonder what the story is there


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

I wonder if it’s one of those instances where they had a falling out and she just crossed him out of the picture completely. Even in her draw my life she said that she just has one sister, kali? And that her mom and dad struggled to conceive after Bri which is why her sister is 5-6 years younger. Idk.

IDK, but this is what was listed.

Loving father of Brianna Koehler (Adam), Kali Savoca, and Andrew Savoca (Tiffany).

Lol, time to go back into FBI mode...

Sent from my SM-S727VL using Tapatalk

Hmm. They usually list kids oldest to youngest in obituaries too. So Andrew would be the youngest if that’s how it went in order.

[formerctfxcer]

My internet sleuthing shows Andrew and his wife are ~50 years old. Which would mean her dad was pretty young when he was born...and obviously her brother being much older than Bri.


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

[jazieg]

My internet sleuthing shows Andrew and his wife are ~50 years old. Which would mean her dad was pretty young when he was born...and obviously her brother being much older than Bri.


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

I saw that too, but it shows his Mother as Cynthia and she is 72yrs old.

We don't even know if he lives in Ohio.

Or maybe her Father was into older women at age 17 and married and divorced her as the last name is the same.

Who knows. I'm not wasting anymore time on it.

Sent from my SM-S727VL using Tapatalk

[formerctfxcer]

My internet sleuthing shows Andrew and his wife are ~50 years old. Which would mean her dad was pretty young when he was born...and obviously her brother being much older than Bri.


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

I saw that too, but it shows his Mother as Cynthia and she is 72yrs old.

We don't even know if he lives in Ohio.

Or maybe her Father was into older women at age 17 and married and divorced her as the last name is the same.

Who knows. I'm not wasting anymore time on it.

Sent from my SM-S727VL using Tapatalk

Yeah I only looked for guys with that name with an associated person with the same name as his spouse and that’s the only one I could find that fit the bill. Ohio or otherwise.


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

[Backyard Chicken]

I think Bri is sharing the GC and flowers as a way of saying thank you. I don’t really have an issue with that because she might not feel like writing out a bunch of thank you messages right now. So it’s easier just to tag and say thanks. It doesn’t bother me personally.
Adam is the best man in the wedding and I’m sure Bri told him to go and have fun. She doesn’t seem like the needy type honestly. She seems like she wouldn’t mind having her girlfriends over and grieving with the kids ( I guess her sister isn’t able to come yet?) . I can’t imagine some of the other youtubers being ok with their husbands leaving them so soon after for a trip
I am surprised she never mentioned her brother. But family dynamic is weird. She might not even know him that well if her Dad wasn’t close with him. I have a friend with half siblings she never met and they are all adults now. Just no desire to have a relationship.
I guess I still have a soft spot for her right now. Also her dad did not want to be filmed at first but then told her it was ok for memory reasons. So he knew he was on the vlog. Wether or not you agree with it , I’m glad she did ask him.