Brianna K | Part 3

[skippy1931]

I took care of my Dad and Father-in-law when they passed on. The fact that Bri filmed her Dad while dying is insulting to all of us who took CARE of our loved ones, protecting them from any of that, the photos, cell phone videos, etc.. no way was I going to shame the MAN who raised me!! That’s not a side show to put on the internet!!
To promote the “gifts” she is receiving because her Dad died is wrong! We had friends just show up at our door with home cooked meals, for Days! We didn’t take photos of that either! I can’t with her, I am just not able to keep making excuses for stupidity!!

this a million times not only his passing his whole journey with hospice. I never ever would have done that to my mom not for strangers not for my siblings. I could barely breathe or function after the last year. After watching my mom not even recognize me or worse not know me or trust me to not hurt her. I had stuffed every feeling done for 5 years i took care of her. i would never ever do something like she did. Then she is so heartbroken she cannot stop posting her free gifts. Sorry she had to be the only caregiver but guess what that is what many of us have done. She will do an promote anything to make a buck

[skippy1931]

My mother in law has awful pictures of relatives sitting at the bedside of terminally ill loved ones. Also of their dead ones. These are very old and from way back in the day. I saw them and winced. How can people, even back in the day, think it's ever a good thing to take pictures of death and suffering? What does one get out of it? Why can't you just remember the GOOD things and move on?

Yes, promoting gift cards and such is such a shame. Bri needs to grieve. Away from social media.

my mom was one of 16 kids her family Italian they waked them in the house they died. That is different though then someone blasting it all over the internet for views, sympathy and free gifts

[RicePaper]

I think Bri is sharing the GC and flowers as a way of saying thank you. I don’t really have an issue with that because she might not feel like writing out a bunch of thank you messages right now. So it’s easier just to tag and say thanks. It doesn’t bother me personally.
Adam is the best man in the wedding and I’m sure Bri told him to go and have fun. She doesn’t seem like the needy type honestly. She seems like she wouldn’t mind having her girlfriends over and grieving with the kids ( I guess her sister isn’t able to come yet?) . I can’t imagine some of the other youtubers being ok with their husbands leaving them so soon after for a trip
I am surprised she never mentioned her brother. But family dynamic is weird. She might not even know him that well if her Dad wasn’t close with him. I have a friend with half siblings she never met and they are all adults now. Just no desire to have a relationship.
I guess I still have a soft spot for her right now. Also her dad did not want to be filmed at first but then told her it was ok for memory reasons. So he knew he was on the vlog. Wether or not you agree with it , I’m glad she did ask him.

I’m gonna have to agree with you.
I think the whole GC thing in her mind is just a simple thank you shoutout. I have had friends tag me in stories when I’ve sent them birthday gifts. I am really starting to think she believes what she spews about her viewers being her friends. She can’t grieve without them. She’s starting to seem really lonely...not surrounded by the best friends. She needs these randos to help lift her up.

And the whole best man thing. I was in this situation. My husband didn’t want me to grieve when his dad died...he honestly didn’t want me around at all. Like my presences angered him because my dad was still around. But since there are kids involved Adam should be there to help handle them. Bri needs time to step away from social media and just grieve. She doesn’t need to be super mom

I have mixed feelings about recording her dad. And she did seem to scale back on taking videos of him towards the end. So....that’s nice at least


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[yeahsureok]

I’m really glad to see I’m not the only one who wasn't bothered by her filming her dad. I think she got a lot of unfair judgment for that and people were acting like because he was sick he couldn’t be in her videos. As long as he gave her the OK that’s all that really mattered to me. With that being said, I understand a lot of you have been in similar situations with parents on hospice (I have not) so I get why this might hit more at home and my heart goes out to you. And I also understand that a lot of it had to do with the visits Turing into parking lot ads of her crying in the car... The was weird, I will say.

The Adam thing does piss me off. You guys know I have not been his fan since joining and I’m not surprised he isn’t with her. Poor Bri seems very alone. It makes sense why she reaches out to the internet, it’s actually a very common symptom of depression.
I’ll say it but I think he leaves her feeling unfulfilled in their marriage. He doesn’t seem emotionally or psychically supportive and they both already admitted to “doing it for the kids”. I’m know they’re trying so I hope one of them explain why he wasn’t with his wife... and it better be damn good.

However I do think the Gc thing isn’t only to say thanks... it’s to show popularity because all the other Yt moms do it too. you can easily send a DM. It’s tacky, there’s no other way to put it.

[RicePaper]

She showed her brother and nephew at the end of that video for a brief moment.


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[Itsnotmyfault]

She showed her brother and nephew at the end of that video for a brief moment.


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Well she’s feeling good enough to read her very own gossip thread, that has to scream loudly that her mental state is very unhealthy. Losing your Dad, if you were close, is the most earth shattering, life changing, inability to breathe events that by coming on this thread is punishment. I’d say she’s feeling guilty about something.

[catmom89]

Why is she so obsessed with being on her socials? She said she's going to step back from Youtube to grieve, but is constantly posting things on instagram. Maybe it's her way of distracting herself. To each their own, I guess.

[Lilyrose22]

Those girls share what people send them all the time, it’s normal in their world. They have no self awareness or care how tacky it looks because they WANT to show off how “popular” they are and they WANT other people to feel obligated to send them more shit.

I want to shake Bri and just be like “stop! Some things can remain private! You don’t have to share every little thing on the internet... that’s what your husband, best friends and Gigi are for! tell them and then move on with your day!” She’s lost so much of herself to the internet that there is not filter anymore.

I do have a soft spot for her tho. Like I look at her and just know she’s been depressed for a while, I know she’s stressed, you can see it all over her... she looks like a fragile, tired, sick woman. Mentally she’s been unhealthy for a long time and I truly think youtube is really toxic for someone like Bri. I would love to see her get back to work and just post on YT once or twice a week. Life and especially YT doesn’t have to be that serious and it doesn’t NEED to be her income source. She’s a smart girl.

I agree with so much you've said.

I watch Bri on IG (somtimes) and maybe will watch a YT if its not cooking or excessive cleaning, but I am always a bit hesitant opening any of her Social Media anymore.

I see a fragile woman who is trying so hard to be happy and only able to keep herself together if she can control the situation in front of her. She has built a cocoon around her and is afraid of what might emerge if she breaks through. She wants to be the butterfly, but is scared she will only be the Moth, but doesn't understand there is beauty in both...

Her Father passing will be a test for her. For almost the past year she solely dedicated herself to taking care of him. Her Sister and Brother were living their lives and she was acting caretaker alone, based on her stories. I'm afraid that she will harbor negative feelings with family that will spiral her even more. I know she must blame her Mom, even though it was/is not her Mom's fault as relationships take two, regardless. She, IMO, will have a rough present for awhile.

What disturbed me most the past days was not the posting of gifts, the photographer taking professional pics of her journey, but the brief IG of Presley having kissed "Poppy's" Urn Goodnight.
Maybe I don't understand peoples rituals, but all I could see was Bri having her kids now doing this nightly and I was, well, no words.

She needs therapy. She needs to find Bri in all this and I don't think its appropriate to post any of her struggles right now on IG. I see no matter what Adam does as not being right, he won't understand her, based on her, and god help them if she does get pregnant.

I can't watch in real time someone break like her. She's not a Aaryn, Tara, etc., and she doesn't have the "Skin" to weather a fail on Social Media. It will decimate her.

Just my opinion. Yes, I feel bad for her...

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I have to say I agree 110% about the whole thing with Pressley kissing "Poppy's Urn" I truly don't mean to disrespect peoples' beliefs or rituals, but seeing a 2 year old kissing her grandfather's ashes (urn) was just upsetting and disturbing to me. Like I said, I don't mean any disrespect, but I just cannot imagine having my parent's ashes in my home and having my very young children that aware. I would think it would be very confusing and upsetting for them.

[username44]

I’m guessing if Adam took off for the weekend there’s still a lot of trouble and the counseling isn’t going as well as she’s claimed. Maybe it’s just me, but I think she’s better off without Adam than she is with him. You can tell just by looking at him he’s not very loving or supportive. He probably pisses her off daily (not siding with Brianna either, but she’s got a reason to be on edge). The argument that Adam should have been there for Brianna is valid, but if he’s literally just at home in the basement doing whatever and also not giving her what she needs then there’s no difference if he’s there or not because he’s been checked out mentally for a while. Brianna probably honestly didn’t care if he left or if he didn’t.

[yeahsureok]

I’m guessing if Adam took off for the weekend there’s still a lot of trouble and the counseling isn’t going as well as she’s claimed. Maybe it’s just me, but I think she’s better off without Adam than she is with him. You can tell just by looking at him he’s not very loving or supportive. He probably pisses her off daily (not siding with Brianna either, but she’s got a reason to be on edge). The argument that Adam should have been there for Brianna is valid, but if he’s literally just at home in the basement doing whatever and also not giving her what she needs then there’s no difference if he’s there or not because he’s been checked out mentally for a while. Brianna probably honestly didn’t care if he left or if he didn’t.

Ok so there was 1 thing that was said that made me wonder if they have already separated or We’re at one point.. in P’s birthday video Bri is talking about guests coming and then p says “oh daddy” maybe it was even Landon. But I remember thinking that was weird. I completely agree with you, he seems like a total tool. If you really listen he is constantly correcting her and seems very competitive with her. I think they’re just 2 totally different people and once the honeymoon phase wore off it was too late.

I do realize this is “coming from” a 2 year old, so take it with a grain of salt. I’m not saying this happened or was the case it just stood out to me.

[username44]

I’m guessing if Adam took off for the weekend there’s still a lot of trouble and the counseling isn’t going as well as she’s claimed. Maybe it’s just me, but I think she’s better off without Adam than she is with him. You can tell just by looking at him he’s not very loving or supportive. He probably pisses her off daily (not siding with Brianna either, but she’s got a reason to be on edge). The argument that Adam should have been there for Brianna is valid, but if he’s literally just at home in the basement doing whatever and also not giving her what she needs then there’s no difference if he’s there or not because he’s been checked out mentally for a while. Brianna probably honestly didn’t care if he left or if he didn’t.

Ok so there was 1 thing that was said that made me wonder if they have already separated or We’re at one point.. in P’s birthday video Bri is talking about guests coming and then p says “oh daddy” maybe it was even Landon. But I remember thinking that was weird. I completely agree with you, he seems like a total tool. If you really listen he is constantly correcting her and seems very competitive with her. I think they’re just 2 totally different people and once the honeymoon phase wore off it was too late.

I do realize this is “coming from” a 2 year old, so take it with a grain of salt. I’m not saying this happened or was the case it just stood out to me.

Could be. Presley is obsessed with Adam though so she could have said it in a different context. I’m not sure. Bri said they’re only together because of the kids and I mean you can also only do that for so long too.. I’m guessing she’s gonna try to get one more baby out of him to see if it will fix their marriage (spoiler: it never does) and once she’s finally come to her senses she might have just had enough with him. Adam is a total tool, I agree. He seems like the type of guy who never grew up and would spend everyday golfing and drinking with his college roomies if he could. This probably means nothing to a lot of y’all, but I’ve been getting into astrology and when it comes to that they aren’t compatible. Bri is the definition of a Sagittarius and Adam is a cancer. They don’t combine super well romantically. I know Bri plays dumb, but she’s a smart woman and I hope she realizes she could do better.

[ActualWorkingMom]

I don’t know what y’all see in Bri. She has very little appeal... why does she deserve better than that useless lump of a husband?

They are both equally shady and selfish. Landon and Prezzlee are the ones who deserve better. Thank God for Gigi.


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[yeahsureok]

I don’t know what y’all see in Bri. She has very little appeal... why does she deserve better than that useless lump of a husband?

They are both equally shady and selfish. Landon and Prezzlee are the ones who deserve better. Thank God for Gigi.


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I just don’t think she’s as malicious of a person as some people make her out to be. I think she has a lot of unresolved issues stemming from her parents divorce (and how that went down) and watching her father die for the past 14 years. I see someone that needs ALOT of help. I think she befriended another youtuber and started taking her advice and her traits because she thought it would grow her channel and it didn’t work out as well for her. I feel like she just needs guidance from people who actually care about her and have a degree in psychology. I really don’t think she’s a bad person tho. She seems like she’s been friends with the same group of girls for years (actual real life friends), so there must be some type of loyalty there.

[catmom89]

It's frustrating to see Bri and Adam stay together because they think that they "should". Bri saw her parents' divorce, and vowed to herself never to go through that herself. When she and Adam met, they were in college, and were probably very different that they are now (I'm 29, and I am a totally different person than I was in college). People change and go through things. You can either grow together or grow apart, and obviously these two have grown apart. Why stay together when you're miserable? Just for the image? Because it's the "right" thing to do? Bri needs to let go of these expectations of herself. Getting a divorce does not make you a horrible person. Unfortunately, Bri is so stuck in this role of a perfect mother that she will probably stay in this marriage forever. I wonder what it would take to make them finally see the light.

[yeahsureok]

It's frustrating to see Bri and Adam stay together because they think that they "should". Bri saw her parents' divorce, and vowed to herself never to go through that herself. When she and Adam met, they were in college, and were probably very different that they are now (I'm 29, and I am a totally different person than I was in college). People change and go through things. You can either grow together or grow apart, and obviously these two have grown apart. Why stay together when you're miserable? Just for the image? Because it's the "right" thing to do? Bri needs to let go of these expectations of herself. Getting a divorce does not make you a horrible person. Unfortunately, Bri is so stuck in this role of a perfect mother that she will probably stay in this marriage forever. I wonder what it would take to make them finally see the light.

Honestly, probably Adam packing his shit and just taking off one night. It’s sad to watch. At one point a while back I said I felt guilty watching her channel because I always saw right through her smiles and the perfect life, As most of us on here did.

She needs to let go of everything. Someone commented on one of her pics that there is no time limit for grief or something and she made a comment like “well in the business world you get 5 paid days off” or something along those lines. it’s almost like she set her grief time and then told herself... that’s it. She needs major help. You can’t control everything and if she doesn’t get a grip on her mental health, I’m scared for her future.

[username44]

If Bri wants to spend her life miserable with Adam because she thinks her kids will handle the divorce as hard as she did is one thing, fine. I guess I just want to tell her to wake up!!! It seems her mom left her dad after the MS diagnosis (obviously I don’t know if this is the sole reason) Brianna’s kids are going to also be damaged by watching their parents fight. LANNDANNN and Prezzlee already seem to pick up on the tension and stress so she’s doing a number on them as it is. She could leave Adam and try to find happiness or stay with a man she cannot stand because she’s afraid her kids will handle divorce how she did. She also has to remember the kids are much younger than she was. Just my opinion.

[geewhiz]

I’m sorry but Adam is a fucking loser. There’s no excuse for leaving your wife alone with the kids days after her father died, let alone to whoop it up in Vegas with the broskis. And now he’s on IG posting his date night dinner like it’s business as usual. Bri looks so broken inside. Say what you want about her, but nobody deserves to be abandoned by their spouse during the most painful time of their life. I don’t care if the tickets were paid for and non-refundable, there is simply no excuse in my eyes. I hope she doesn’t try to squeeze another kid out of him before she kicks him to the curb. He must be emotionally stunted if he doesn’t see a problem with his behavior.


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[girlandboymom]

I’m sorry but Adam is a fucking loser. There’s no excuse for leaving your wife alone with the kids days after her father died, let alone to whoop it up in Vegas with the broskis. And now he’s on IG posting his date night dinner like it’s business as usual. Bri looks so broken inside. Say what you want about her, but nobody deserves to be abandoned by their spouse during the most painful time of their life. I don’t care if the tickets were paid for and non-refundable, there is simply no excuse in my eyes. I hope she doesn’t try to squeeze another kid out of him before she kicks him to the curb. He must be emotionally stunted if he doesn’t see a problem with his behavior.


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I 10000% agree. That's one messed up marriage if either one is ok with him going away so soon. My husband would never consider going if I'd just lost someone close and nor would I. So wrong on so many levels no matter what their personalities or family dynamics are. She absolutely cannot say she was ok with it. The woman wasn't ok with him being outside doing yard work instead of being in the house with her and the kids. So sad!

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[catmom89]

It's frustrating to see Bri and Adam stay together because they think that they "should". Bri saw her parents' divorce, and vowed to herself never to go through that herself. When she and Adam met, they were in college, and were probably very different that they are now (I'm 29, and I am a totally different person than I was in college). People change and go through things. You can either grow together or grow apart, and obviously these two have grown apart. Why stay together when you're miserable? Just for the image? Because it's the "right" thing to do? Bri needs to let go of these expectations of herself. Getting a divorce does not make you a horrible person. Unfortunately, Bri is so stuck in this role of a perfect mother that she will probably stay in this marriage forever. I wonder what it would take to make them finally see the light.

Honestly, probably Adam packing his shit and just taking off one night. It’s sad to watch. At one point a while back I said I felt guilty watching her channel because I always saw right through her smiles and the perfect life, As most of us on here did.

She needs to let go of everything. Someone commented on one of her pics that there is no time limit for grief or something and she made a comment like “well in the business world you get 5 paid days off” or something along those lines. it’s almost like she set her grief time and then told herself... that’s it. She needs major help. You can’t control everything and if she doesn’t get a grip on her mental health, I’m scared for her future.

WTF?? She said that? You're right. She needs help.

[formerctfxcer]

Wow I’m pregnant so I know I’m pretty emotional but the present Liza gave her and Bri’s tearful thanks made me sob


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