Til Vacuum do us part | Part 2

[QueenMaleficent]

I for one, would like to know what a negative comment even really looks like, to her. Seriously, how bad are they that she would have to go down that path to actually hire someone to moderate them? If I had to hazard a guess, they're not bad at all because Chase was moderating them, then she must've pitched a fit over some that he may have thought weren't so bad. Gave up with his whiny wife, causing her to seek someone else who will coddle her to do it. I don't know. Or........ maybe she's just doing it because she seriously thinks she's all that and then some! This girl needs some thick skin. And no, going without washing your hair doesn't give you thick skin, it gives you bad scalp infections. lol

Honestly, I don't know of ANY other youtube mama out there carrying on like this. Many have multiple children, cluttered and dirty houses and not griping about comments. Why not just shut the comments off it it bothers her so much? Oh ya.... gotta have the praise. Praise me! Praise me! Lookeeatmeeeee!

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I don’t think she gets many, I think honestly she’s reading here and can’t hang that she is caught being an asshole and it embarrassed her so she had to make up a story to be able to show face. I have a feeling that this woman is super uncomfortable with people knowing that she isn’t really a role model, but rather a what not to be like realistically!! God can’t save her from herself, so she’s gotta fake it and she is failing epically.

Agreed, she totally reads here and this site is something that she can't control and that is deep under her skin.
To her, a negative comment is probably when people asked why Savannah wasn't cleaning her own mess and reacted by going batshit with the screeching vlog. A simple question set her off! I honestly think if anyone questions her, she takes that as criticism and gets defensive. That is what immaturity is, and Ashley is showing it to all of her viewers.

Did any of you read the transcript to the Q&A? I read a bit and there is a part where Chase is explaining that he knew Ashley could never work outside the home and have a boss because she doesn't like to be told what to do (I'm paraphrasing, but that's pretty close), so he's not surprised she did something like this from home. That tells you a lot about our little Ashley, doesn't it? Dame Delicate can't have anyone telling her how to do a job, is self centered, can't take constructive criticism, obviously isn't a team player (it's her way or no way) and is a total control freak.

Her relationship with Chase seems more like roommates than a couple.

[speaktruth]

To be honest, my eyes totally glazed over the transcript because it was so dang BORING. But I did listen about halfway and yes, Chase was all in agreement how Ashley would not or could not handle having a boss. Hmm... Did Ashley pay him to say that 'cause she sure looked and sounded NERVOUS when he did! In fact, Ashley was nervous and tense through what I saw of the video. She was constantly clenching her hands giving out the fake giggles. Her teeth were very clenched! Girl was not relaxed in the least. But Chase seemed to be OK which is why he was cooking. He seemed at ease whereas she was fidgety, clenchy and her eyes were darting everywhere. She especially got worked up when she said she HAS to be on social media 24/7 because it's HER JOB! He just bobs his head. Um, girl, you're not saving lives. Social media is only an extra and a privilege. It's not like she OWNS YOUTUBE!

They definitely seem very roommatey. I mean, they both can't remember their wedding song? That has got to be embarrassing and says ALOT about the beginning of their marriage and even now! Wow... she thinks she's got balls of steel. She doesn't.

[kaedlie]

To not be able to work because one would not or could handle having a boss is NOT something to be proud of. I am embarrassed for Chase over that comment. I suppose next she will be doing a chatty chat chat saying that she has hired someone to go and work a real job for her. . .

It would be interesting what she thinks a negative comment is - I don't think she gets riled up over troll bots and such, but the constructive criticism. And if she gets that bothered by 'negative comments' she could always just delete those subscribers. . .but they are likely the bots she paid for and we know how important that subscriber # is to her. Imagine if YouTube did another purge of inactive accounts how much her numbers would drop. Not enough tissues to absorb the tears for days that would ensue.

[Lifeisfun]

I actually watched the q&a now and my gosh. Like a few people said, they are roommates. Of course her love language is gift giving. Even when they were poor, chase just couldn’t say or do something nice for her, he had to go spend money he didn’t have. How pathetic and selfish of her. She doesn’t like hearing “I love you”?!?!? They need to re-evaluate this marriage. And my gosh let chase answer the damn questions that are asked to him!!

Edit to add: clearly YouTube isn’t the culprit of her selfish narcissistic personality. She has always been that way. “I’m the baby I like to be taken care of”.

[here4fun]

Next video / ig story: their song will have come on the radio and she’ll miraculously remember and have to tell us!


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[kaedlie]

I actually watched the q&a now and my gosh. Like a few people said, they are roommates. Of course her love language is gift giving. Even when they were poor, chase just couldn’t say or do something nice for her, he had to go spend money he didn’t have. How pathetic and selfish of her. She doesn’t like hearing “I love you”?!?!? They need to re-evaluate this marriage. And my gosh let chase answer the damn questions that are asked to him!!

Edit to add: clearly YouTube isn’t the culprit of her selfish narcissistic personality. She has always been that way. “I’m the baby I like to be taken care of”.

She has stated in the past that her mother started bleaching her hair and getting her fake nails in elementary school - of course she is narcissistic and values looks and money and adoration over all else. Hopefully Chase has enough influence at home that he breaks that cycle with Savannah. I am starting to think Ashley is envious of Sav; Sav seems to be friendly and outgoing, no doubt would make friends easily but Ashley does not allow that to happen and instead keeps her on a tight reign and suffocated. Reminds me of that old movie Mommy Dearest. . .

[speaktruth]

So if I just type "I disagree ..........." in a comment to one of her videos.... She'll block me and yell HATER! Oh, it is SO tempting to try! LOL!

I would not be surprised if she were the type of mother to get jealous of her daughter. Lock up your boyfriends, Savannah. Mama ain't gonna like it!

[Itsnotmyfault]

I actually watched the q&a now and my gosh. Like a few people said, they are roommates. Of course her love language is gift giving. Even when they were poor, chase just couldn’t say or do something nice for her, he had to go spend money he didn’t have. How pathetic and selfish of her. She doesn’t like hearing “I love you”?!?!? They need to re-evaluate this marriage. And my gosh let chase answer the damn questions that are asked to him!!

Edit to add: clearly YouTube isn’t the culprit of her selfish narcissistic personality. She has always been that way. “I’m the baby I like to be taken care of”.

She has stated in the past that her mother started bleaching her hair and getting her fake nails in elementary school - of course she is narcissistic and values looks and money and adoration over all else. Hopefully Chase has enough influence at home that he breaks that cycle with Savannah. I am starting to think Ashley is envious of Sav; Sav seems to be friendly and outgoing, no doubt would make friends easily but Ashley does not allow that to happen and instead keeps her on a tight reign and suffocated. Reminds me of that old movie Mommy Dearest. . .

That’s what I was thinking too!! The control thing is really passive aggressive abuse!! The hubs and sav are battered, that’s fucked up too!!!
Her vanity is hideous, her skin is bad and getting worse, her hair is breaking off.. she clearly doesn’t eat well and could very possibly be deficient in vitamins and minerals!! It does mess with your head if your diet is lacking fresh food, the processed food is not good, just look at her, ewww!!! Speaking of looking at her:

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Lmao, the similarities are striking, except Ashley is an uneducated mean girl!!

[QueenMaleficent]

Savannah is very sweet when she's with Chase. In their vlogs, she's always sitting by him, walking with him and holding his hand. They've cuddled on the couch and done projects together. I don't recall seeing Ashley act lovingly to either of them. It's all business, all the time and that's glaringly clear in her demeanor. I feel for Savannah. I hope she has other female adults who can show her that not all are prickly and oh-so busy that they can't spare their daughter some time together.

[jrs]

Well, it goes to show just how "Christian" they are. Have you seen their "church" videos? Rather scary, if you ask me....

Totally agree! I grew up with a lot of "Sunday Christians" meaning that they are perfect from the outside on Sundays. The other six days of the week, they apply verses and biblical principles when they benefit their egos. I would rather her claim to be a heathen and own it than use the Bible to boost her channel and online persona. She gives Christianity a bad name. She can fool many online but I guarantee all the moms she knows roll their eyes when they see her.

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I use to like Joel Osteen but the more I watched him and listened to him, I realized he was nothing more than a televised cult leader and I believe her "church" is the same. I watch cleaning and organizing videos for the cleaning and organizing inspirations, not to be preached at and listen to a hypocrite preach about "her" God. I guess our God's are different. I don't care to see the stupid movie shows they do at her "church". That's not church, it's a cult

I actually attend the same church she does, but not the same location. it’s a really popular church in oklahoma. we are not a cult lol. i don’t think there is any point in putting down the church someone attends... i dislike ashley as much as everyone else here, but there’s no reason to attack our church and call us a cult just because you don’t like the style of it. the movies she showed was just one series we do for one month out of the year. not sure why there was a need to put quotations around church, it is very much a church lol

[KSGirl4Ever]

Did anyone notice how swollen Savannah's eyes were in the back to school pics? I was worried for her. Allergies or been crying?!

[ChelleBelle]

I for one, would like to know what a negative comment even really looks like, to her. Seriously, how bad are they that she would have to go down that path to actually hire someone to moderate them? If I had to hazard a guess, they're not bad at all because Chase was moderating them, then she must've pitched a fit over some that he may have thought weren't so bad.

Considering she blocked me on Instagram simply because I agreed with someone that suggested she do an 80K giveaway with the LV bag, her comments are not bad at all. Her hate comments are just people that say things that she doesn't like. I actually enjoyed her videos and watched them all up until I found out she blocked me on Instagram. She lost a fan/sub that day.

[Lifeisfun]

I for one, would like to know what a negative comment even really looks like, to her. Seriously, how bad are they that she would have to go down that path to actually hire someone to moderate them? If I had to hazard a guess, they're not bad at all because Chase was moderating them, then she must've pitched a fit over some that he may have thought weren't so bad.

Considering she blocked me on Instagram simply because I agreed with someone that suggested she do an 80K giveaway with the LV bag, her comments are not bad at all. Her hate comments are just people that say things that she doesn't like. I actually enjoyed her videos and watched them all up until I found out she blocked me on Instagram. She lost a fan/sub that day.

Yup, that’s how they operate. If she is really working with the Hickman’s, that is EXACTLY how they operate. I “liked” someone’s comment on I believe Justin’s Instagram that respectfully said they had really changed and she honestly didn’t find them relatable anymore but wished them well. Blocked. Can’t see his profile, can’t message Meg whatsoever. For LIKING a comment. Not even making a comment myself. These peoples egos are so huge they can’t even handle if someone disagrees. I think it’s clear Ashley is now working with them. She is behaving exactly the same as Meg. Barf.

[mckinneymom27]

Savannah is very sweet when she's with Chase. In their vlogs, she's always sitting by him, walking with him and holding his hand. They've cuddled on the couch and done projects together. I don't recall seeing Ashley act lovingly to either of them. It's all business, all the time and that's glaringly clear in her demeanor. I feel for Savannah. I hope she has other female adults who can show her that not all are prickly and oh-so busy that they can't spare their daughter some time together.
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I've said it before, I think both Chase and Savannah are over YT and like us, they see how much it's changed Ashley and their home dynamic. I can't imagine living in a household where YT is constant 24/7 thing. She has zero time management skills despite her thinking she does. I feel bad for Savannah and wish she would put her in school so she could get out of under "mommy dearest" control for a few hours a day. Chase must be thrilled when he gets to leave the house for the day and be at work and not have to listen to the screeching voice of Ashley ordering him around non stop!

[speaktruth]

Did anyone notice how swollen Savannah's eyes were in the back to school pics? I was worried for her. Allergies or been crying?!

Could be a sign of malnutrition. Does Ashley even prepare her breakfast? I mean, she is only 9! Her eyes are VERY noticeable in the last 2 pics. Also, too much screen time and dehydration can cause dry and puffy eyes.

[libertyrose]

I actually watched the q&a now and my gosh. Like a few people said, they are roommates. Of course her love language is gift giving. Even when they were poor, chase just couldn’t say or do something nice for her, he had to go spend money he didn’t have. How pathetic and selfish of her. She doesn’t like hearing “I love you”?!?!? They need to re-evaluate this marriage. And my gosh let chase answer the damn questions that are asked to him!!

Edit to add: clearly YouTube isn’t the culprit of her selfish narcissistic personality. She has always been that way. “I’m the baby I like to be taken care of”.

She has stated in the past that her mother started bleaching her hair and getting her fake nails in elementary school - of course she is narcissistic and values looks and money and adoration over all else. Hopefully Chase has enough influence at home that he breaks that cycle with Savannah. I am starting to think Ashley is envious of Sav; Sav seems to be friendly and outgoing, no doubt would make friends easily but Ashley does not allow that to happen and instead keeps her on a tight reign and suffocated. Reminds me of that old movie Mommy Dearest. . .

That’s what I was thinking too!! The control thing is really passive aggressive abuse!! The hubs and sav are battered, that’s fucked up too!!!
Her vanity is hideous, her skin is bad and getting worse, her hair is breaking off.. she clearly doesn’t eat well and could very possibly be deficient in vitamins and minerals!! It does mess with your head if your diet is lacking fresh food, the processed food is not good, just look at her, ewww!!! Speaking of looking at he's
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Lmao, the similarities are striking, except Ashley is an uneducated mean girl!!

OMG it's an older version of Ashley. lol If she wouldn't come across as so condescending then I think more people WOULD subscribe and feel like they can relate more to her. She should take note from Amanda (This Crazy Life). She is down to earth, she seems sweet and humble and even has her young boys helping clean up. That is a momma to look up too

[libertyrose]

To be honest, my eyes totally glazed over the transcript because it was so dang BORING. But I did listen about halfway and yes, Chase was all in agreement how Ashley would not or could not handle having a boss. Hmm... Did Ashley pay him to say that 'cause she sure looked and sounded NERVOUS when he did! In fact, Ashley was nervous and tense through what I saw of the video. She was constantly clenching her hands giving out the fake giggles. Her teeth were very clenched! Girl was not relaxed in the least. But Chase seemed to be OK which is why he was cooking. He seemed at ease whereas she was fidgety, clenchy and her eyes were darting everywhere. She especially got worked up when she said she HAS to be on social media 24/7 because it's HER JOB! He just bobs his head. Um, girl, you're not saving lives. Social media is only an extra and a privilege. It's not like she OWNS YOUTUBE!

They definitely seem very roommatey. I mean, they both can't remember their wedding song? That has got to be embarrassing and says ALOT about the beginning of their marriage and even now! Wow... she thinks she's got balls of steel. She doesn't.

I see a Dr. Phil visit in her future. It's easy to step away from YT and IG, just put the damn phone down. It's not like she is on a reality show where they HAVE to film for so many hours and days a season. Girl needs to get a grip. She has her fake laugh, and she rolls her eyes when talking about her "haters". I work with a bunch of grouchy nurses who by the time our shift ends, you want to throat punch and a few who don't like me because I'm by the book but their "hate" does not effect me or my job. I leave that mess behind and don't worry with it. Ash needs thick skin to make it on social media.

[libertyrose]

I can't find the post but someone commented how Savy is always standing by Chase, holding his hand and so on and it looks like she is closer to her daddy. I agree, I watched an old video she did about SAHM and a day in the life, I believe, Savy was standing next to her and Ash was telling her "you like this or that huh " and the poor baby just shook her head and said yeah. Ashley hugged her to her and said something about my baby girl. Ashley did not seem comfortable doing that and saying it. It sounded forced. Some women just aren't born with a motherly instinct. Chase seems to enjoy being a dad, it's just sad that after he works all day he has to come home and do his Honey Do List and cook supper.

[girlandboymom]

I actually watched the q&a now and my gosh. Like a few people said, they are roommates. Of course her love language is gift giving. Even when they were poor, chase just couldn’t say or do something nice for her, he had to go spend money he didn’t have. How pathetic and selfish of her. She doesn’t like hearing “I love you”?!?!? They need to re-evaluate this marriage. And my gosh let chase answer the damn questions that are asked to him!!

Edit to add: clearly YouTube isn’t the culprit of her selfish narcissistic personality. She has always been that way. “I’m the baby I like to be taken care of”.

She has stated in the past that her mother started bleaching her hair and getting her fake nails in elementary school - of course she is narcissistic and values looks and money and adoration over all else. Hopefully Chase has enough influence at home that he breaks that cycle with Savannah. I am starting to think Ashley is envious of Sav; Sav seems to be friendly and outgoing, no doubt would make friends easily but Ashley does not allow that to happen and instead keeps her on a tight reign and suffocated. Reminds me of that old movie Mommy Dearest. . .

That’s what I was thinking too!! The control thing is really passive aggressive abuse!! The hubs and sav are battered, that’s fucked up too!!!
Her vanity is hideous, her skin is bad and getting worse, her hair is breaking off.. she clearly doesn’t eat well and could very possibly be deficient in vitamins and minerals!! It does mess with your head if your diet is lacking fresh food, the processed food is not good, just look at her, ewww!!! Speaking of looking at her:

IMG_2797.jpg

Lmao, the similarities are striking, except Ashley is an uneducated mean girl!!

Those pics! Lol Her face is sodium and preservative bloated. I'm sorry if that offends anyone here. I dont make fun of someone's appearance generally, but her overinflated ego is crazy!!!!! This woman really thinks she is something hot or something we all attain to be. That's a big fat NOPE, Ashley! Your life is a sad boring little bubble of bland. Get a hobby that doesn't revolve around you staring at yourself in the viewfinder while wearing your teenager "hater" shirts.

It blows my mind how she used to be so relatable to how she is now. Was it an act before or have the sad bored housewives fan club overinflated her sodium filled head? Just based on the fact that she prefers gifts to her husband saying, "I love you" is beyond unrelatable. I don't get it. My husband and our relationship is more valuable than anything I could ever own. I dont get her and that statement makes me sick and sad for her all at the same time.

Now, needing someone to weed out the "hate"?! Next to not being able to part with the stupid LV bag she promised her sad Stans, this admission is beyond cringe worthy. This woman is straight up pathetic!

Thank you all for the recaps. I won't give her views most of the time. So I appreciate it.

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[libertyrose]

Her IG post this morning, she is so transparent. lol She hates that she can't stop the comments on here and that there are more views here than on one of her videos and probably more users here than on her page. Does anyone know how many users are on here? lol