Joan & John: Buy my crap and pay my Bills | Part #4

[2rcmeeksrichards2]

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Jesus Christ. What a healthy and happy relationship they’re in! And they’re planning on trying to bring another life into this world?!

Who blasts their dirty laundry online like that? Then moves it from their personal Facebook account to an Instagram account with thousands of followers?

No wonder John gets sick of her and her shit.


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[fossilfinger]

^ yeah, she could have simply posted asking if the milk could be saved without going into the whole story. Which, btw, if it has thawed in the fridge it should not be re-frozen. But I don’t understand this story at all. What did John do with the extension cord? Why can’t the freezer be plugged back in? If they need the extension cord to plug it back in how are Joan’s parents going to help if it’s lost?

[2rcmeeksrichards2]

^ yeah, she could have simply posted asking if the milk could be saved without going into the whole story. Which, btw, if it has thawed in the fridge it should not be re-frozen. But I don’t understand this story at all. What did John do with the extension cord? Why can’t the freezer be plugged back in? If they need the extension cord to plug it back in how are Joan’s parents going to help if it’s lost?

Exactly. So bizarre.

She is so manic. He is a child. Their whole relationship is odd. If they make each other happy then that’s great, but this situation is very immature. From John ‘not helping find the extension cord’ to Joan calling her parents and filling them in on her fight with John - so unhealthy.

I get it, couples fight and go through rough patches, but this is just such a strange thing.


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[HelloSweetie]

Sounds like the argument isn’t actually about the freezer. John unplugged it and hid the extension cord for a reason.

Joan is batshit crazy for needing her parents to come solve this problem for her. She could have picked up all the milk in her car and taken it to her parents house. I get the impression she isn’t great at adulting wither.


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[2rcmeeksrichards2]

Sounds like the argument isn’t actually about the freezer. John unplugged it and hid the extension cord for a reason.

Joan is batshit crazy for needing her parents to come solve this problem for her. She could have picked up all the milk in her car and taken it to her parents house. I get the impression she isn’t great at adulting wither.


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This exactly. She could have gone about it so much better. Acted like an adult and just fixed the problem. Then had it out with John later. Her minions won’t forget this and will bring it up etc in future - I bet John is so happy that his private life is being blasted over Instagram


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[SassySassenach]

I agree that the two of them are just bizarre.

All we can do is speculate, but why is she still protecting a milk hoard? I thought she was using it up in those muffins she was baking. Was she trying to save it for the next possible baby? Unplugging a freezer and thawing the milk is super childish, but there’s got to be more to the story.


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[HelloSweetie]

I agree that the two of them are just bizarre.

All we can do is speculate, but why is she still protecting a milk hoard? I thought she was using it up in those muffins she was baking. Was she trying to save it for the next possible baby? Unplugging a freezer and thawing the milk is super childish, but there’s got to be more to the story.


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And why was she so protective of it that she had a sign on it saying not to unplug it? Who just unplugs their freezer randomly?

Sounds like maybe she was being weird and crazy about the milk and John had had enough.


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[lmmomSD]

Sounds like the argument isn’t actually about the freezer. John unplugged it and hid the extension cord for a reason.

Joan is batshit crazy for needing her parents to come solve this problem for her. She could have picked up all the milk in her car and taken it to her parents house. I get the impression she isn’t great at adulting wither.


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She's whacked and he's passive aggressive (and honestly so is she) this isn't the first fight she's aired her side of on social media. It's disrespectful and the stuff he does is disrespectful too. I can't imagine bringing another child into that dysfunction.
I think she does it for the attention and the affirmation that she is right. "See John? 150,000 people think I'm right and you're wrong!"

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[2rcmeeksrichards2]

She’s deleted the story now, and the ones of her close to tears.

Maybe don’t post that kind of thing in the first place?


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[GGF1987]

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I know she posted this picture a few days ago but the placement of that bag is so weird to me. It's like she's using that bag to make it feel like Maeve is there too or something. I don't know for some reason it just seems weird to me. She just .has to put Maeve in the middle of everything, even a cute picture of Vera on a simple beach day

I thought the same. And her wearing the bag people will assume Vera is called Maeve.
I've never liked the idea of having my children's names on anything visible, never mind a dead child. Gives me chills.

Exactly! Just overall so weird!

[SassySassenach]

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I know she posted this picture a few days ago but the placement of that bag is so weird to me. It's like she's using that bag to make it feel like Maeve is there too or something. I don't know for some reason it just seems weird to me. She just .has to put Maeve in the middle of everything, even a cute picture of Vera on a simple beach day

I thought the same. And her wearing the bag people will assume Vera is called Maeve.
I've never liked the idea of having my children's names on anything visible, never mind a dead child. Gives me chills.

Exactly! Just overall so weird!

The bag is very weird to me. But we are talking about a woman who STILL hasn’t changed her IG profile picture to reflect her living child.


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[Akersik]

Does anybody remember Joan very rudely saying about the pregnant nurses in a Maine hospital that probably one of their baby will die? (Still can’t believe she actually fucking commented things like this bahh) Well they just had a photoshoot with all the beautiful healthy babies.

[1000Words]

They are absolutely STUPID to even entertain bringing another child into their relationship. From day one John and Joan have been bizarre. She doesn’t listen to him, talks over him, negates everything he says and does.... I’d be sick of her bs too. John why don’t you stand up for yourself.

[Kataja]

Who in their right mind shares their dirty laundry publicly like that! That is unfair for the partner. Based on the story that she chose to share (her point of view) there is something else behind. It is not about unplugging the fridge like she tries to convey! Is she truly so stupid that she don't get that other people are going to see past her bullshit?!

I cannot imagine what kind of damage that inflicts on their relationship!

Breast milk stays good in the freezer for about 6 months and storing up to 12 months is acceptable. Why would she store milk when Vera is already that age that she is about the be weaning off?

[lmmomSD]

The question about why she is still saving milk occured to me too! Didn't she already talk about weaning Vera? The only thing I can think of is she wanted it for feeding Vera when she starts IVF injections?
But these people are so whacked, who knows what she was thinking?

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[FlowersTar 68]

The question about why she is still saving milk occured to me too! Didn't she already talk about weaning Vera? The only thing I can think of is she wanted it for feeding Vera when she starts IVF injections?
But these people are so whacked, who knows what she was thinking?

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Probably for Maeve

[Kataja]

The question about why she is still saving milk occured to me too! Didn't she already talk about weaning Vera? The only thing I can think of is she wanted it for feeding Vera when she starts IVF injections?
But these people are so whacked, who knows what she was thinking?

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Probably for Maeve

[lwilson1081]

So she just posted in her Insta story about the wreck they were in and I tried to attach a photo but Tapatalk is acting weird and won’t let me do it. But I have to say that if I was in a wreck and it sent my car into the car in front of me or any wreck for that matter I’m taking my baby to the hospital to get checked out. I may be in the minority, maybe everybody doesn’t do this. I’ve only been in a couple wrecks with my kids and each time I’ve taken them to the hospital. I don’t care how much it cost, I don’t care how long I have to sit at the hospital, I wanna make sure my kid is OK on the inside where I can’t see with my eyes.


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[FlowersTar 68]

Show it then, Joan, make Vera feel she is her own person and not a rebirth of Maeve.
Another comment from a subby was that she went to see a medium and Maeve is indeed in heaven

[SlibbidyDew]

For someone that is so sensitive to other people’s words and takes offense so easily I found this so surprising. She obviously thinks she’s the guru of knowledge for anxiety and PTSD and depression. She’s always “schooling” people.

I direct messaged her and here’s the exchange.
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Annnnnnd I’m blocked/taken off her follower list. Thinnnnn skinnnnn

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I still can't get over how rude she is!! This whole email exchange floored me. You were so calm and kind in your explanation then she has the audacity to wait to make sure you read her precious words before blocking you?? Let's not forget that the only reason she got that job photographing beads in the warehouse of the store was because she was too delicate of a flower to return to her regular job in the bead store and she couldn't be in public without breaking down.

Also I am wondering about this car crash thing -- because normally when something goes wrong there are photos, posts, pictures of her crying about it. Something seems fishy.