Rachelle & Justin: Loser Spouse & The Over Budget House | Part 20

[mamabear01]

Someone back a post or two mentioned the packing the nursery away video. Did they purchase all new furniture for Emma and not use the furniture they already owned??? If so, that shows you their half-assed mentality. I would not wish the loss of a child on my worst enemy....but economics is economics.

I think her mother and stepfather have obviously helped them purchase this home. To what end, I'm uncertain. Since it is a ranch I would think they have an eye on living there themselves eventually.

For the life of me I do not understand Rash's sick need to have Tinkerbell with her always. I don't believe she wants him to work...at all. Not that he's qualified to do anything. When my husband was a young man he was in the Navy. He loved it! Single and on his own he traveled and saw places he normally could only dream about. Hubby said guys like Tinkerbell are a dime a dozen. The Navy generally doesn't kick up a fuss when they want out. Guys like Tinkerbell don't want to pull their weight and are taking up space.

Lastly, Rash is counting her chicks early when it comes to baby no. 2. The odds are not in her favor. All of her minions will gather round bearing gifts.....that Rash can sell on Poshmark.

Ok...just some rambling on my part. We shall see.


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She didn’t have much furniture for Brynn, just the recalled crib, clothes/blankets and car seat. The crib was recalled by IKEA. IKEA had the parts to make it safe again but Rach took it as an opportunity to buy something brand new and gave the crib away so she could buy that ridiculously expensive crib they have now. Then all of the clothes were not reused. I think the only thing she ended up using was the car seat.


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Not to say anything good about rash, but I think the packing the nursery was more of a closure thing/to help with loss recovery. A lot of therapists will recommend packing up or going through old belongings to help with loss.


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[ErinLace_20]

Seeing her post about her previous transfers got me curious and scrolling through her Instagram. I know we sat this a lot on here but what the hell happened to her? Was she hiding this psycho controlling, manipulative, insensitive, entitled side or did YT give her this complex? She just seems so different, like when I found her I wanted to be her friend and could relate to her as a military spouse. Now it’s like she hates her husband, is in a rush to replace her daughter with a more Instagramable child and nothing is every really good enough even a 600k home. Like it’s insane how unlikable and truly out of touch she is with her own audience.

I know exactly what you’re talking about because I’m also a military wife and live near her. When I first saw her she seemed kind and gentle, caring, sensitive, and friendly, but now it’s like she’s become this insane psychotic idiot who wants to have it all. She sounds jealous of a lot of other YouTube moms. Why is she trying to replace Emma already? Does she not like her cause she looks so much like Justin, thus leaving her to want to replace her already? It’s so fucking weird. You’d think she’d be all about giving Emma more mom and daughter time, actually DOING things to help her develop in a natural way instead of rushing it all. What is with the rushing? Where the fuck are you going Rachelle? Take a chill pill and enjoy what you have because it could definitely be worse, or it will definitely get worse with the way you’re going and how fast you’re taking things. I feel bad for Emma, it’s been more about Brynns death, but now that that’s over it was about beaux, but now it’s about the transfer, now I have to go through my pregnancy stage, but now it’s about Emma!, yay she’s here, wait now it’s about how shitty our rental is, now it’s about searching for a house, now it’s about traveling that one time to Ireland and piggy backing off mommy to Texas, no wait now it’s about ANOTHER TRANSFER!!, no wait now it’s about the house again....Emma who?

But that’s ok, she gave Emma the raddest thrillest birthday ever. Emma could hardly contain herself, oh lawwwwd.

Rachelle is off the deep end and I honestly think she’ll suffer post partum depression with all these fucking things to be excited over, but wont experience being honestly excited cause she’s already got it all and she fakes so much for her viewers.

I still can’t get over how stupid she was acting over a damn injection..

[Greenapples2]

"Money doesn't change men, it merely unmasks them. If a man is naturally selfish or arrogant or greedy, the money brings that out, that's all."
These youtubers are at their core rotten. At the end of the day no sane person would film and exploit their family for fame and money.

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[Floridagator 1012]

if I were them I would never ever dare to ask for handouts, money, food vouchers or whatever they are asking at their church, not to mention having people help me move instead of using a moving company, if I can't do that all by myself, I would be effing ashamed to get all that help while moving to a 640k mansion...

Wtf, churches should help people in real need, not assholes that due to overbudgeting their instalife cannot buy themselves food. Bitch, buy a less expensive house and let other people go help who really deserve and need it.

I'm calling it, if they really go move in, I stop hate watching them, they don't even deserve that.

*I am not saying it is Rachelle just happens to be in her area and a lot matches up* The house is from a member of the church. They moved and was selling their house they were told of a need inside the church for a home and the person agreed to allowing the down payment to be broke up in smaller chunks so this family could get in because they have had a lot of misfortune that stopped them from buying a house. The church then decided to help them out with gift cards for stores and food and baby clothes. The family didn’t ask from what I heard from my friend. If this is Rachelle I know she round about asked by crying about everything. I posted what I heard a few pages back.
So it is all help from the church not them helping and the person buying a house separate.

[mac531]

Someone back a post or two mentioned the packing the nursery away video. Did they purchase all new furniture for Emma and not use the furniture they already owned??? If so, that shows you their half-assed mentality. I would not wish the loss of a child on my worst enemy....but economics is economics.

I think her mother and stepfather have obviously helped them purchase this home. To what end, I'm uncertain. Since it is a ranch I would think they have an eye on living there themselves eventually.

For the life of me I do not understand Rash's sick need to have Tinkerbell with her always. I don't believe she wants him to work...at all. Not that he's qualified to do anything. When my husband was a young man he was in the Navy. He loved it! Single and on his own he traveled and saw places he normally could only dream about. Hubby said guys like Tinkerbell are a dime a dozen. The Navy generally doesn't kick up a fuss when they want out. Guys like Tinkerbell don't want to pull their weight and are taking up space.

Lastly, Rash is counting her chicks early when it comes to baby no. 2. The odds are not in her favor. All of her minions will gather round bearing gifts.....that Rash can sell on Poshmark.

Ok...just some rambling on my part. We shall see.


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She didn’t have much furniture for Brynn, just the recalled crib, clothes/blankets and car seat. The crib was recalled by IKEA. IKEA had the parts to make it safe again but Rach took it as an opportunity to buy something brand new and gave the crib away so she could buy that ridiculously expensive crib they have now. Then all of the clothes were not reused. I think the only thing she ended up using was the car seat.


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How much was the crib?? The one Emma uses


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[TrainwreckTottie]

What a creep! Who poses like this?? Copying keren again maybe??

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She’s probably holding it back since someone on here said the other day that her hair is covering her double chin


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[NaNaBrianna]

The way she talks about this transfer kind of disturbs me. Maybe it’s a tinge of jealousy, but it’s just so strange to me.


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[Jupiter]

"Money doesn't change men, it merely unmasks them. If a man is naturally selfish or arrogant or greedy, the money brings that out, that's all."
These youtubers are at their core rotten. At the end of the day no sane person would film and exploit their family for fame and money.

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Its more than just the fame and money. I wonder if these YouTubers know how dangerous it is to place your children front and center on YouTube? My future DIL works in the internet community, in marketing, advertising and ad placement. She knows a great deal about how the internet works in the places we never see. Hackers are very good at getting images of the very youngest children and photoshopping them for pedophiles. They do things like adjust the body....change the child's identification by altering their face, etc. This isn't just in our own country.....it's worldwide. These people can steal images and never be caught. When our youngest grandson was born, my son and his girlfriend told all the family we were not to post photos of the baby on Social Media without first asking them. I never have. I take this stuff seriously. An image of innocent looking topless Emma is nothing but fodder for the twisted sickos that get their rocks off on such things. I realize the kids are for the most part the major draw for people who count on views and sponsors for money. Most of us think the babies are cute and funny and they do silly things. But there's a ton of people out there on the dark web who use those images for much much more. Personally....I wish it would stop all together. Just stopping the comments does nothing.

[CurlupandDye]

"Money doesn't change men, it merely unmasks them. If a man is naturally selfish or arrogant or greedy, the money brings that out, that's all."
These youtubers are at their core rotten. At the end of the day no sane person would film and exploit their family for fame and money.

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Its more than just the fame and money. I wonder if these YouTubers know how dangerous it is to place your children front and center on YouTube? My future DIL works in the internet community, in marketing, advertising and ad placement. She knows a great deal about how the internet works in the places we never see. Hackers are very good at getting images of the very youngest children and photoshopping them for pedophiles. They do things like adjust the body....change the child's identification by altering their face, etc. This isn't just in our own country.....it's worldwide. These people can steal images and never be caught. When our youngest grandson was born, my son and his girlfriend told all the family we were not to post photos of the baby on Social Media without first asking them. I never have. I take this stuff seriously. An image of innocent looking topless Emma is nothing but fodder for the twisted sickos that get their rocks off on such things. I realize the kids are for the most part the major draw for people who count on views and sponsors for money. Most of us think the babies are cute and funny and they do silly things. But there's a ton of people out there on the dark web who use those images for much much more. Personally....I wish it would stop all together. Just stopping the comments does nothing.

This is exactly how I am. I do not allow anyone to post pictures of my child on social media without asking me first, and usually the answer is “no.”

My SIL posted pics of her on her FB, and I had never even posted pics of her on my own FB and I told my husband to ask her to take them down. I don’t think I posted any photos of her until she was three. My profile is locked down, and there are never photos of her in my profile photos. I have never posted her on IG (I never use it anyways), etc. Your job as a parent is to protect your children. I also NEVER post pictures of other people’s kids on FB. I get pissed off when she’s at dance and parents are taking videos and photos of their kids with my kid in the photo because I have no idea where the parents are posting them. I do not allow the school to take photos of her for their website (I check the release box “NO). She gets upset when she can’t be in the photos with other kids, but when she’s older she’ll understand why. My kid, my rules. She deserves her privacy just like any human.

Anyways, I’m sorry for the rant. I just feel very strongly about this, and I wish You Tube would crack down more on family vloggers, because it’s a relatively new thing (family vlogging, I mean), we have no idea how this is going to affect these children in the future. I know I’d be PISSED if I grew up and saw photos and videos of myself on the internet that I didn’t give my consent for. There are some articles online about kids who are now teens who’s parents posted them without their consent that are upset about it. You can search to find them, so apparently, it is already affecting them.


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[CurlupandDye]

Sorry for the double post, but I was at the park they take Emma to today, and saw a drug addict shooting up and almost falling out while standing up afterwards, so I told my daughter quickly and calmly that we needed to grab all of the sand toys and leave immediately.

That’s my daughter’s favorite park, too because it’s basically in a giant sand pit and has a lot of shade, so that’s a bummer. I hope she reads this and doesn’t take her there anymore. I won’t be taking my daughter again, that’s for sure.


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[Tweedles3]

Seeing her post about her previous transfers got me curious and scrolling through her Instagram. I know we sat this a lot on here but what the hell happened to her? Was she hiding this psycho controlling, manipulative, insensitive, entitled side or did YT give her this complex? She just seems so different, like when I found her I wanted to be her friend and could relate to her as a military spouse. Now it’s like she hates her husband, is in a rush to replace her daughter with a more Instagramable child and nothing is every really good enough even a 600k home. Like it’s insane how unlikable and truly out of touch she is with her own audience.

I know exactly what you’re talking about because I’m also a military wife and live near her. When I first saw her she seemed kind and gentle, caring, sensitive, and friendly, but now it’s like she’s become this insane psychotic idiot who wants to have it all. She sounds jealous of a lot of other YouTube moms. Why is she trying to replace Emma already? Does she not like her cause she looks so much like Justin, thus leaving her to want to replace her already? It’s so fucking weird. You’d think she’d be all about giving Emma more mom and daughter time, actually DOING things to help her develop in a natural way instead of rushing it all. What is with the rushing? Where the fuck are you going Rachelle? Take a chill pill and enjoy what you have because it could definitely be worse, or it will definitely get worse with the way you’re going and how fast you’re taking things. I feel bad for Emma, it’s been more about Brynns death, but now that that’s over it was about beaux, but now it’s about the transfer, now I have to go through my pregnancy stage, but now it’s about Emma!, yay she’s here, wait now it’s about how shitty our rental is, now it’s about searching for a house, now it’s about traveling that one time to Ireland and piggy backing off mommy to Texas, no wait now it’s about ANOTHER TRANSFER!!, no wait now it’s about the house again....Emma who?

But that’s ok, she gave Emma the raddest thrillest birthday ever. Emma could hardly contain herself, oh lawwwwd.

Rachelle is off the deep end and I honestly think she’ll suffer post partum depression with all these fucking things to be excited over, but wont experience being honestly excited cause she’s already got it all and she fakes so much for her viewers.

I still can’t get over how stupid she was acting over a damn injection..

I feel like social media has turned her into what she is now, just another spoiled Youtuber who’s addicted to constant upgrades in their lives. New house, more kids, more pets, vacations, home renovations, buying RVs. They’re a bunch of copycats that live bizarre lives of exploiting what should be most dear to them.

I watched her putting away the nursery video in solidarity, having lost a 19w pregnancy the year before. I couldn’t imagine this is what she would turn into, only two years out from her loss. She’s so strange, super delicate, but feisty like a wounded cat. She and Justine parade their baby around like god’s gift. I don’t see any humility or empathy for those that continue to struggle through infertility. She’s cocky about having 4+, which I’m sure she plans to homeschool allowing her to continue to not work. Seems she also wants Emma, or a future “cuter” daughter to be the next Everleigh from Cole and Sav. Only designer duds for my spawn! I still cant get over the fact she snubbed her nose at baby clothes given to her by viewers. Had I been her, I would have made sure each gift appeared in a vlog with a thank you. I recently online shopped a bit for my future twins (yep, that was a two embryo transfer Rash, you’d better be ready) at Carter’s, and I stopped and thought what the hell am I doing buying fancy Carter’s stuff when I have a 2-year old that needs fall clothes, too. I cut my shopping cart down significantly and stopped at a Once Upon a Child shop (baby & child consignment chain in the US) and got a nice haul of gently used sleepers.

Sorry this got so long-winded, but the TL;DR would read R&J have lost any sympathy with me for their shitty behavior that has only worsened since they’re living for Youtube now.


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[Haulnarse]

Someone back a post or two mentioned the packing the nursery away video. Did they purchase all new furniture for Emma and not use the furniture they already owned??? If so, that shows you their half-assed mentality. I would not wish the loss of a child on my worst enemy....but economics is economics.

I think her mother and stepfather have obviously helped them purchase this home. To what end, I'm uncertain. Since it is a ranch I would think they have an eye on living there themselves eventually.

For the life of me I do not understand Rash's sick need to have Tinkerbell with her always. I don't believe she wants him to work...at all. Not that he's qualified to do anything. When my husband was a young man he was in the Navy. He loved it! Single and on his own he traveled and saw places he normally could only dream about. Hubby said guys like Tinkerbell are a dime a dozen. The Navy generally doesn't kick up a fuss when they want out. Guys like Tinkerbell don't want to pull their weight and are taking up space.

Lastly, Rash is counting her chicks early when it comes to baby no. 2. The odds are not in her favor. All of her minions will gather round bearing gifts.....that Rash can sell on Poshmark.

Ok...just some rambling on my part. We shall see.


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She didn’t have much furniture for Brynn, just the recalled crib, clothes/blankets and car seat. The crib was recalled by IKEA. IKEA had the parts to make it safe again but Rach took it as an opportunity to buy something brand new and gave the crib away so she could buy that ridiculously expensive crib they have now. Then all of the clothes were not reused. I think the only thing she ended up using was the car seat.


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Not to say anything good about rash, but I think the packing the nursery was more of a closure thing/to help with loss recovery. A lot of therapists will recommend packing up or going through old belongings to help with loss.


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But she packed up a shit tonne of clothing that she never put Brynn-Emma in.

A “special” fluffy (not Hobo-IG worthy) jacket that they brought as the very first baby clothing item for Brynn, she said in the vlog she was excited to put it on their next baby.

Fast forward... Brynn-Emma has not been seen in that jacket. From memory size wise it would have fit her when rash brought all that unnecessary winter snowsuits for washington.

[Haulnarse]

Woof...

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Real professional lying on the couch while you manhandle the products and pimp it out

[Haulnarse]

Okay, so this is odd for me and have questions:

Do people who believe in heaven - think that thats where new babies come from??

Eg: someone deceased in their family sends them a new baby or “meets” the new baby before its “sent” to earth. (Im not religious, don’t really have thoughts either way, just find it bizarre and a bit ODD).

Some weird comments on her post about doing the transfer tomorrow about Brynn having played with her future sibling already Also, if thats what they believe, is Brynn continuing to age or is she the fragile 20 weeker playing with other babies?? (That thought is super creepy to me).

Sorry if this offends anyone, not bashing religion and beliefs - just find some of it harder to “swallow” than others. Totally accept heaven/hell - but the thoughts of dead people playing with or meeting future children is so so far from anything I can get my head around.

[MamaTweet]

Okay, so this is odd for me and have questions:

Do people who believe in heaven - think that thats where new babies come from??

Eg: someone deceased in their family sends them a new baby or “meets” the new baby before its “sent” to earth. (Im not religious, don’t really have thoughts either way, just find it bizarre and a bit ODD).

Some weird comments on her post about doing the transfer tomorrow about Brynn having played with her future sibling already Also, if thats what they believe, is Brynn continuing to age or is she the fragile 20 weeker playing with other babies?? (That thought is super creepy to me).

Sorry if this offends anyone, not bashing religion and beliefs - just find some of it harder to “swallow” than others. Totally accept heaven/hell - but the thoughts of dead people playing with or meeting future children is so so far from anything I can get my head around.

My niece was 4 or 5 when she told us new babies come "Kevin" (heaven) and God sent all the special ones down to earth with an angel but God would throw all the "unspecial" babies down to earth....of course she was one of the special ones and her sister wasn't LOL. That doesn't answer your question but it reminded me of that.

Before my husband passed away in 2013 we had some of his sperm stored and while he was very sick and dying he told me he wanted me to do IVF and then he started talking about hearing somewhere that babies are up in heaven until they are born and they get to pick their parents... could have just been the morphine talking but he also said something about he would get to meet our child before me so I don't know...he was pretty religious but it made me smile.

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[MamaTweet]

Wtf was up with her "don't be a baby!!!"? Her voice and tone changed and it actually scared me. It was like one of those movies where someone is possessed. Creepy AF....I wanna rewind it but I'm already scared and feel like I'm gonna have nightmares

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[MamaTweet]

Wtf was up with her "don't be a baby!!!"? Her voice and tone changed and it actually scared me. It was like one of those movies where someone is possessed. Creepy AF....I wanna rewind it but I'm already scared and feel like I'm gonna have nightmares

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It's in the getting my hair done vlog...there's a preview of it in the begining but it happened towards the end right after Justin gave her the ahot

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[Jupiter]

Wtf was up with her "don't be a baby!!!"? Her voice and tone changed and it actually scared me. It was like one of those movies where someone is possessed. Creepy AF....I wanna rewind it but I'm already scared and feel like I'm gonna have nightmares

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It's in the getting my hair done vlog...there's a preview of it in the begining but it happened towards the end right after Justin gave her the ahot

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I think she was talking to herself.

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[mamabear01]

Wtf was up with her "don't be a baby!!!"? Her voice and tone changed and it actually scared me. It was like one of those movies where someone is possessed. Creepy AF....I wanna rewind it but I'm already scared and feel like I'm gonna have nightmares

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When does she say that?


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[PrincessDellaGrazie]

Okay, so this is odd for me and have questions:

Do people who believe in heaven - think that thats where new babies come from??

Eg: someone deceased in their family sends them a new baby or “meets” the new baby before its “sent” to earth. (Im not religious, don’t really have thoughts either way, just find it bizarre and a bit ODD).

Some weird comments on her post about doing the transfer tomorrow about Brynn having played with her future sibling already Also, if thats what they believe, is Brynn continuing to age or is she the fragile 20 weeker playing with other babies?? (That thought is super creepy to me).

Sorry if this offends anyone, not bashing religion and beliefs - just find some of it harder to “swallow” than others. Totally accept heaven/hell - but the thoughts of dead people playing with or meeting future children is so so far from anything I can get my head around.

I’ve heard that concept brought up mainly by religious people. A lady on instagram who lost her daughter back in April is pregnant again with a son, and she always says that this son is “handpicked” by his deceased sister. I’ve always found that to be a really strange concept, because I don’t think un-conceived children reside in heaven.

The concept of “seeing them again” when you die sounds true, but I don’t think not yet conceived kids chill in the place where the dead supposedly end up until they’re sent to the womb. They’re... somewhere, in a state of non-existance, but just not in heaven. Saying they were “chosen” by a deceased sibling suggests that they were in the womb playing with all the different sperm, or in Brynn’s case, with all those frozen embryos.

So therefore I don’t think Brynn, a deceased individual, would have ANY sort of correspondance with a child who is still an embryo. As for Brynn aging... I would assume she is not a fragile-looking fetus anymore, probably looks like a toddler by now if she were to appear as a spirit/ghost. Then again, what do I know?


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