Rachelle & Justin: Loser Spouse & The Over Budget House | Part 20

Sat Aug 31, 2019 8:10 am

I think the worst part of this entire situation was when she lost Brynn she got TONS of pity subscribers. When she got pregnant with Emma she RAKED in the views and then it was like a cliff dropping dramatically after her daughter was born. People came for the raw, real, heartbreaking and honest truth of life after a stillborn and she couldn’t even properly cope with that. She saw dollar signs and jumped at them. What makes her dirtier is she’s has to actively seek IVF for pregnancy so it’s 100% her choice to not give Emma her own time. It’s shinning a light to her selfish wants.

Emma bRyNn is a perfect example of her unhealthy coping mechanisms and if she gets pregnant again it’s proving to be ANOTHER bandaid on her issues. Have a stillborn? Get pregnant again. Not happy in your marriage? Buy a 600k house and have another baby. Everything she does is a unhealthy and unrealistic choice shows poor decision and coping mechanisms. There are woman out there who can’t afford ONE IVF transfer and here she is throwing Emma in their faces and bragging about imaginary 4+ kids with endless transfers in sight. It’s appalling.

Do I hope her transfer fails? No. Do I think she needs to bring her another child into her life? Absolutely not. She’s not ready for two kids, I’ll be bold and say she wasn’t even ready for Emma. God forbid this child has any issues or she ends up with twins she’s going to either drop off YT or worse sacrifice their needs to keep doing videos. I HIGHLY doubt all their embryos are heathy considering Brynn and I just hope they know what they’re doing and the risks they’re taking rushing into IVF back to back to back.

TD;DR Roachelle is selfish, unhealthy, and fake having children and buying houses as bandaids for her unhappy life. She’s lost touch with her core audience and rubs her successes and what her delusional mind believes to be the future in their faces. She’s out of touch and disturbingly confident she’s going to get what she wants. I don’t hope her transfer fails but she’s not ready for another child and
God forbid they have genetically abnormal children who are compatible with life and she ends up with special needs children.

Unread post by **Bored2018** » Sat Aug 31, 2019 8:14 am

Here_2_talk wrote:So annoying I can’t attach pictures.. on her IG story, where “she loves her cousins”

Is that Rachel holding baby Leo?! I thought it was her mum, maybe it’s Justin’s mum?!

Did Justin marry a carbon copy of his mother

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Pretty sure it’s Justin’s mom.

And their floors have been mopped, thank goodness, but not for a longggg time. She had that cleaning person for a while, remember?

Also, didn’t she have a transfer between Brynn and Emma that didn’t take? Or am I remembering wrong?

Just because she’s on progesterone does not mean it will work. Progesterone is used in almost all fertility patients, whether you do iuis or ivf, and all definitely don’t get pregnant.

Sat Aug 31, 2019 11:10 am

RobinSparkles wrote:
gossipdottir wrote: ↑Sat Aug 31, 2019 7:17 am
Jupiter wrote: ↑Fri Aug 30, 2019 11:24 pm I guess it is what it is. I wouldn't wish something as horrific as losing a baby on anyone. It hasn't happened to me, but to friends who have their grief is palpable. Which brings me to Rash...she put on a very good face of sorrow, but she certainly recovered quickly. As soon as her doctor gave her the A-OK, Rash got back in the stirrups, pardon the pun, for round 2. I find Rash and her half-wit husband Tinkerbell to be barely tolerable and they certainly aren't very good parents. By hook or crook they've managed to get themselves a house they cannot afford and now want another child they can afford even less. We'll see what happens but I'm betting Rash and Tinkerbell are being waaayyyy over confident about the outcome. We'll see.

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Exactly. The way she rushed into a new transfer after the stillbirth is appalling. I know some will twist their nose and roll their eyes at what I'm going to say, and man I know I'm talking about 2 really different things, but we lost our dog in November and while on a walk today we still shed some tears, and we both agreed that, as much we would love another one later on, the pain is still too fresh. We just don't want to "replace" him. I would not be able to proceed with another transfer, another pregnancy, another child, right the moment I could physically do it, it wouldn't feel ok. And she's in her early 20s, she had all the time in the world to wait. To me it would have looked a lot more healthy if they would have decided to take a year off, since they haven't even been that much together since their wedding due to Justina deployment, and get to know each other, grief together, for god's sake, travel, do things 20 years old people do, go see the world. Vlog your way through recovery and discovery. Whatever, but no, what does she go and choose? Getting a new transfer without her husband on her side.
When your baby dies, not only do you have to face the grief that your baby died, but you also have been making future plans that all revolve around being new parents... and then suddenly, those plans are just gone. A lot of loss moms go on to try for another baby quickly. I don’t think she deserves the flack she catches for this. If you’ve never had this kind of loss you just can’t understand it. Even on the dog loss front, people deal very differently. Some can never get another one, some feel like their house is so quiet and depressing without their pup that they need a new pet right away. It doesn’t really have anything to do with how much they loved the baby/child/pet that they lost, but rather their personal coping styles.

Maybe a little side eye for not waiting for Justin but I really can’t judge a grieving mother— well, not until she starts using grief as a platform for $$$$. And Justin quitting his job. I judge the shit out of that. They should put Brynn on the deed to their house as a reminder that without losing their child, they would never ever be in a position to buy it.

Yepp. I got pregnant quickly right after my full term stillbirth. It was the best thing for me, it got me out of a dark dark place. It was never about replacing my first daughter, but it did help me grieve healthily and was very healing.

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Unread post by **Tweedles3** » Sat Aug 31, 2019 11:36 am

RobinSparkles wrote:
gossipdottir wrote: ↑Sat Aug 31, 2019 7:17 am
Jupiter wrote: ↑Fri Aug 30, 2019 11:24 pm I guess it is what it is. I wouldn't wish something as horrific as losing a baby on anyone. It hasn't happened to me, but to friends who have their grief is palpable. Which brings me to Rash...she put on a very good face of sorrow, but she certainly recovered quickly. As soon as her doctor gave her the A-OK, Rash got back in the stirrups, pardon the pun, for round 2. I find Rash and her half-wit husband Tinkerbell to be barely tolerable and they certainly aren't very good parents. By hook or crook they've managed to get themselves a house they cannot afford and now want another child they can afford even less. We'll see what happens but I'm betting Rash and Tinkerbell are being waaayyyy over confident about the outcome. We'll see.

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Exactly. The way she rushed into a new transfer after the stillbirth is appalling. I know some will twist their nose and roll their eyes at what I'm going to say, and man I know I'm talking about 2 really different things, but we lost our dog in November and while on a walk today we still shed some tears, and we both agreed that, as much we would love another one later on, the pain is still too fresh. We just don't want to "replace" him. I would not be able to proceed with another transfer, another pregnancy, another child, right the moment I could physically do it, it wouldn't feel ok. And she's in her early 20s, she had all the time in the world to wait. To me it would have looked a lot more healthy if they would have decided to take a year off, since they haven't even been that much together since their wedding due to Justina deployment, and get to know each other, grief together, for god's sake, travel, do things 20 years old people do, go see the world. Vlog your way through recovery and discovery. Whatever, but no, what does she go and choose? Getting a new transfer without her husband on her side.
When your baby dies, not only do you have to face the grief that your baby died, but you also have been making future plans that all revolve around being new parents... and then suddenly, those plans are just gone. A lot of loss moms go on to try for another baby quickly. I don’t think she deserves the flack she catches for this. If you’ve never had this kind of loss you just can’t understand it. Even on the dog loss front, people deal very differently. Some can never get another one, some feel like their house is so quiet and depressing without their pup that they need a new pet right away. It doesn’t really have anything to do with how much they loved the baby/child/pet that they lost, but rather their personal coping styles.

Maybe a little side eye for not waiting for Justin but I really can’t judge a grieving mother— well, not until she starts using grief as a platform for $$$$. And Justin quitting his job. I judge the shit out of that. They should put Brynn on the deed to their house as a reminder that without losing their child, they would never ever be in a position to buy it.

I really appreciate your post, there are different ways to handle pregnancy loss. I’ve mentioned I also lost a pregnancy at 19w like Rachelle, the difference being we knew at 13w the baby was not going to survive the second trimester (cystic hygroma and hydrops). We had six weeks to grieve, and we didn’t go through the emotions of buying baby gear only to return it or pack it away. We went in for a second transfer 5 months after our loss, I think we beat R&J by a few weeks, time-wise. I really wanted to wait a full year, but being 39, I didn’t want to push it too far. I don’t want to get too personal about the emotional toll a loss can have on a couple, but it was really difficult. But one thing I’ll say is that there is no replacing a lost baby. We lost a son, then had a healthy son. We did not reuse names, and never has he felt like a replacement. I’ll admit I get annoyed by Rash and how she uses her loss for views and sympathy.

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Unread post by **Tina9900** » Sat Aug 31, 2019 1:25 pm

I don't understand why Emma is always shirtless. We know you read here Rash and we have talked about the ways some sick person could use it for child pornography but you don't seem to care. When my daughter was a baby I don't remember ever letting her run around without a shirt on.

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Unread post by **April1006** » Sat Aug 31, 2019 1:34 pm

I’m still trying to figure out why they bought a 3 bedroom house after transferring two embryos. I have 2 sons and a 4 bedroom house and I feel like we’re maxing it out.

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Sat Aug 31, 2019 1:53 pm

cute pic trashelle

Unread post by **sweetlace** » Sat Aug 31, 2019 1:56 pm

I feel like she is going to get exactly what she wants like always. I’m hoping the embryos don’t split and then she ends up with triplets or quads. Actually that might be hilarious to watch her be miserable though.

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Unread post by **chubbybunny** » Sat Aug 31, 2019 2:19 pm

judging by the pic of the embryos she posted on insta, i would be very surprised if both of them stuck. my husband and i just had our first transfer and are now 8 weeks pregnant after 4 years of infertility and while we arent ivf experts by no means, we have learned alot about diff. things like embryo quality and etc. theres a grading scale that clinics use based on how the embryo looks inside and out. one of her embryos looks fragmented or something like its not as good quality as the other one. and if im not mistaken, they pair the lesser quality embryos together so theres a chance of at least one sticking. considering shes done all her transfers (as far as i know) in pairs, that tells me her embryos are probably not top quality. like i said, im not an expert, but if shes gone through 6 (correct me if im wrong) embryos just to get emma, that aint good. so based on my experience and knowledge her embryos probably wont both take (my grammar is atrocious, sorry) , probably just one if i had to guess.

anywho, just my two cents.

Unread post by **angelmamma** » Sat Aug 31, 2019 2:25 pm

chubbybunny wrote:judging by the pic of the embryos she posted on insta, i would be very surprised if both of them stuck. my husband and i just had our first transfer and are now 8 weeks pregnant after 4 years of infertility and while we arent ivf experts by no means, we have learned alot about diff. things like embryo quality and etc. theres a grading scale that clinics use based on how the embryo looks inside and out. one of her embryos looks fragmented or something like its not as good quality as the other one. and if im not mistaken, they pair the lesser quality embryos together so theres a chance of at least one sticking. considering shes done all her transfers (as far as i know) in pairs, that tells me her embryos are probably not top quality. like i said, im not an expert, but if shes gone through 6 (correct me if im wrong) embryos just to get emma, that aint good. so based on my experience and knowledge her embryos probably wont both take (my grammar is atrocious, sorry) , probably just one if i had to guess.

anywho, just my two cents.

Does anyone know if they have done genetic testing to the embryos?
I was thinking the same (regarding the clinic always transferring two embryos).

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Unread post by **CurlupandDye** » Sat Aug 31, 2019 2:34 pm

belleolivia99 wrote:cute pic trashelle

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I feel like this one sums up their relationship.

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Sat Aug 31, 2019 2:58 pm

Maite5 wrote: ↑Fri Aug 30, 2019 11:51 pm Apologies for the off topic but can someone link or pm the link for Jade Brittany?
Cannot seem to find her.
Thanks

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Here’s her Instagram: https://instagram.com/jadebrittanyblog? ... 8cr7w5ealh

We really need to start a thread on her.

Sat Aug 31, 2019 4:18 pm

angelmamma wrote:
chubbybunny wrote:judging by the pic of the embryos she posted on insta, i would be very surprised if both of them stuck. my husband and i just had our first transfer and are now 8 weeks pregnant after 4 years of infertility and while we arent ivf experts by no means, we have learned alot about diff. things like embryo quality and etc. theres a grading scale that clinics use based on how the embryo looks inside and out. one of her embryos looks fragmented or something like its not as good quality as the other one. and if im not mistaken, they pair the lesser quality embryos together so theres a chance of at least one sticking. considering shes done all her transfers (as far as i know) in pairs, that tells me her embryos are probably not top quality. like i said, im not an expert, but if shes gone through 6 (correct me if im wrong) embryos just to get emma, that aint good. so based on my experience and knowledge her embryos probably wont both take (my grammar is atrocious, sorry) , probably just one if i had to guess.

anywho, just my two cents.
Does anyone know if they have done genetic testing to the embryos?
I was thinking the same (regarding the clinic always transferring two embryos).

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I don’t believe they’ve done genetic testing. They should though..

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Unread post by **Tweedles3** » Sat Aug 31, 2019 4:34 pm

anywho, just my two cents.

[/quote]Does anyone know if they have done genetic testing to the embryos?
I was thinking the same (regarding the clinic always transferring two embryos).

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This is the one question I’ve never heard her answer. Maybe if she did, it would open her to more scrutiny about choosing to do two-embryo transfers. I don’t think they’re tested, though.

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Unread post by **Haulnarse** » Sat Aug 31, 2019 4:35 pm

chubbybunny wrote:judging by the pic of the embryos she posted on insta, i would be very surprised if both of them stuck. my husband and i just had our first transfer and are now 8 weeks pregnant after 4 years of infertility and while we arent ivf experts by no means, we have learned alot about diff. things like embryo quality and etc. theres a grading scale that clinics use based on how the embryo looks inside and out. one of her embryos looks fragmented or something like its not as good quality as the other one. and if im not mistaken, they pair the lesser quality embryos together so theres a chance of at least one sticking. considering shes done all her transfers (as far as i know) in pairs, that tells me her embryos are probably not top quality. like i said, im not an expert, but if shes gone through 6 (correct me if im wrong) embryos just to get emma, that aint good. so based on my experience and knowledge her embryos probably wont both take (my grammar is atrocious, sorry) , probably just one if i had to guess.

anywho, just my two cents.

Looking at emma, you can tell the quality isnt the best

Sat Aug 31, 2019 5:47 pm

NellieNovember wrote:
Maite5 wrote: ↑Fri Aug 30, 2019 11:51 pm Apologies for the off topic but can someone link or pm the link for Jade Brittany?
Cannot seem to find her.
Thanks

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Here’s her Instagram: https://instagram.com/jadebrittanyblog? ... 8cr7w5ealh

We really need to start a thread on her.

Yes, totally! How do you begin a thread??

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Unread post by **NowAndThen87** » Sat Aug 31, 2019 6:03 pm

The. Embryos. Are. Not. Twins.

They are two separate embryos transferred for a higher risk of one implanting. They become fraternal twins if and only it both implant. But still genetically they are like any normal sibling.

She makes herself sound like such an idiot.

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Unread post by **dani_banana** » Sat Aug 31, 2019 6:35 pm

Wtf kind of thumbnail is this

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Unread post by **Tweedles3** » Sat Aug 31, 2019 6:35 pm

Alysia887 wrote:The. Embryos. Are. Not. Twins.

They are two separate embryos transferred for a higher risk of one implanting. They become fraternal twins if and only it both implant. But still genetically they are like any normal sibling.

She makes herself sound like such an idiot.

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Right, they would only be twins if both embryos stick, or if only one embryo took and split into two. With my current twin pregnancy, I have a boy and a girl, so we know 100% that both embryos took. They are twins in the sense that they are born from one pregnancy, but I don’t plan on calling them “the twins” or dressing them in matchy clothes. My 2-year old is from the same embryo batch, his vial was just used first. It’s weird to say it like that about my children, but you lose that randomness with IVF.

Edit: I don’t know why it makes me angry seeing Youtubers sneaking cell phone cameras into these highly-sensitive procedures. At the very least, it’s rude to the practitioners working with you. Will have to watch I guess, her thumbnail image shows just one person working on her. I think I had 5 people present for all of mine, all doing a different job.

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Unread post by **NowAndThen87** » Sat Aug 31, 2019 6:43 pm

Tweedles3 wrote:
Alysia887 wrote:The. Embryos. Are. Not. Twins.

They are two separate embryos transferred for a higher risk of one implanting. They become fraternal twins if and only it both implant. But still genetically they are like any normal sibling.

She makes herself sound like such an idiot.

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Right, they would only be twins if both embryos stick, or if only one embryo took and split into two. With my current twin pregnancy, I have a boy and a girl, so we know 100% that both embryos took. They are twins in the sense that they are born from one pregnancy, but I don’t plan on calling them “the twins” or dressing them in matchy clothes. My 2-year old is from the same embryo batch, his vial was just used first. It’s weird to say it like that about my children, but you lose that randomness with IVF.

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Right? Like technically since all the embryos are from one batch are they all twins? Like if you have six embryos are they sextuplets?
It’s like she doesn’t understand how anything works or just wants the clickbait. I just want to scream at her to slow her roll and wait for a positive pregnancy test before you go calling anything twins. Or have your daughter kiss your stomach. IVF isn’t an exact science and it’s a crap shoot whether any of them stick.
Also congrats on the babies!

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