2011ProblemsWithMyHouse | 2011Teenagemom | Part 52

[Commonlove]

I'm all for putting kids into daycare if the parents can't offer them anything but iPad time at home. But. She should definitely get herself some help. Putting Charlie into daycare isn't taking her anywhere if she doesn't work with her mental health. She should really realize that her behaviour is not normal and it's not good for her kids. I guess it's only getting worse if she does nothing all day and she doesn't have even Charlie at home with her. It's just so sad for the kids.

[Dumbledore]

Maybe her controversial video was going to be about putting Charlie into daycare full time as a sahm?

If she is as anxious and stressed as she’s been saying then, she SHOULD be seeking help. Just looking at her severely picked body, you can tell she’s not ok. Unfortunately, I think she got the 2 puppies so she could stay home and feel like she was still doing something productive instead of working on herself. Like, oh she’s so busy with the 2 dogs, they need constant supervision. She can’t be gone more than a couple hours because they’re crate training etc..

[tieruhhlynn]

Those pictures of her legs are awful. Clearly she KNOWS she has a problem if she edits them out all the time!

I just don't understand. Tricare will LITERALLY PAY for her to get help, and she isn't taking advantage of her resources. I don't care if she gets a job or goes to college since clearly it's not a priority and I don't see her or David leaving each other at this point, what I want her to do is get her mental health in check while she has the kids in school. Do something PRODUCTIVE.

I agree. She can just go to military onesource and get some damn counseling. She has Mon-Friday to do it now so no excuse. The first 12 visits are free apparently.

She supposedly went to a therapist a couple of months after David joined the military before kc joined them. I wouldn’t be surprised if she used up the free visits and thought she didn’t need to continue it anymore because she had kc (along with Nona) and all the stress of her children had been lifted at that point in time.

Regardless, if she has the money to spend on kkw makeup, new pets, endless Rae Dunn products and last minute ball gowns then she can more than afford therapy. She can even throw up an IG #ad to cover the costs.

Therapy with Tricare (with a doctor's written consent) is literally FREE. No matter how many sessions. She has no excuses because her insurance will cover it. I had to get therapy and medication and everything is free. I've been doing it for 2 years now. She needs to do something though but she's too busy not giving a shit and no one pushes Vanessa to do anything.

[sarah_rud]

Wow ok.. kids at daycare/school all day and Vanessa just sits around at home deciding on how to decorate for Halloween? That’s so productive.... girl get out into the world you sound crazy talking about Rae Dunn all the time now


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[RottieMama]

Maybe her controversial video was going to be about putting Charlie into daycare full time as a sahm?

If she is as anxious and stressed as she’s been saying then, she SHOULD be seeking help. Just looking at her severely picked body, you can tell she’s not ok. Unfortunately, I think she got the 2 puppies so she could stay home and feel like she was still doing something productive instead of working on herself. Like, oh she’s so busy with the 2 dogs, they need constant supervision. She can’t be gone more than a couple hours because they’re crate training etc..

OMG! I think you’re right!! She probably didn’t upload it bc even she realized how dumb it looks! She’s so fcking pathetic!! Hmm, maybe that’s why she got ANOTHER DAMN DOG!!

“David, I have to put ChaRRlee in ‘school’ bc I’m So BuSy with the puppies!”

She will literally use ANY EXCUSE to get out of being a mom! Hey V, how about getting a JOB?? Oh, that’s right, it’s too much WORK? She needs to get neutered. Seriously, why did she have another kid if she didn’t even want the first one? She already trapped David, why pop another one out? Views? Increased allowance from the in-laws? I would be so embarrassed if I was her.

How much does daycare cost? Few hundred dollars a week? How the hell are they getting by?? This bitch literally shops every single day! David’s not getting that separation pay anymore, and she NEVER uploads! How are they paying their bills and still having money to blow the way she does?

Do you guys think she’s up-selling Rae Dunn? Maybe an inheritance? In-laws? It just doesn’t make sense! She doesn’t even do sponsorships anymore. Something is up. Those puppies are expensive asf too.

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[ForeverGauc01]

Dear lord those stairs are terrible.

Where ARE they getting the money for Charlie’s full time daycare. Shits expensive. Especially on one income and Vanessa’s job is literally to stay at home with the kids.
I would understand 2-3 days a week for a half day, because he needs socialization, but not 5 days a week, full time hours.
She’s so lazy.


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[kiwi]

If a child that young is going for “socialization”, then a few days per week on a part time basis is all that is necessary. Otherwise let’s not kid ourselves, it’s daycare.

[Behlert13]

She is up selling Rae Dunn. It was mentioned briefly a few threads ago that someone caught her on Mercadi (it’s an app) upselling.


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[Resting_Bitch_Face]

She is up selling Rae Dunn. It was mentioned briefly a few threads ago that someone caught her on Mercadi (it’s an app) upselling.


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She said “she doesn’t upsell” and someone straight up told her I know your account LOL. Anyways if she’s up selling, she can’t possibly be making that much off of it to spend what she spending. The in-laws have to be paying for some of their expenses, day care being one of them.

[Dumbledore]

She is up selling Rae Dunn. It was mentioned briefly a few threads ago that someone caught her on Mercadi (it’s an app) upselling.


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She said “she doesn’t upsell” and someone straight up told her I know your account LOL. Anyways if she’s up selling, she can’t possibly be making that much off of it to spend what she spending. The in-laws have to be paying for some of their expenses, day care being one of them.

Yeah, the in-laws have to be paying for it. When lily started preschool she went to a private school which offered preK3. At that time, Vanessa and David were barely scraping by. He was working a job as a night time security guard and Vanessa was so desperate for extra money that she got a fake SCAM job. There’s NO WAY they could have been able to afford something like that themselves. Based on that and the fact the in-laws paid for an au pair for 1.5 years, I think it’s safe to assume the in-laws pay for the preschool/daycare.

[sarah_rud]

Is Charlie really in daycare full time?


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[Resting_Bitch_Face]

Is Charlie really in daycare full time?


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Yup! She said he goes Mon-Fri...as for the hours we don’t know but knowing her she probably has him in all day. Even if it was part time putting him in Mon-Fri is overkill cz she’s just at home doing nothing!

[ssr0312]

I agree. She can just go to military onesource and get some damn counseling. She has Mon-Friday to do it now so no excuse. The first 12 visits are free apparently.

She supposedly went to a therapist a couple of months after David joined the military before kc joined them. I wouldn’t be surprised if she used up the free visits and thought she didn’t need to continue it anymore because she had kc (along with Nona) and all the stress of her children had been lifted at that point in time.

Regardless, if she has the money to spend on kkw makeup, new pets, endless Rae Dunn products and last minute ball gowns then she can more than afford therapy. She can even throw up an IG #ad to cover the costs.

Therapy with Tricare (with a doctor's written consent) is literally FREE. No matter how many sessions. She has no excuses because her insurance will cover it. I had to get therapy and medication and everything is free. I've been doing it for 2 years now. She needs to do something though but she's too busy not giving a shit and no one pushes Vanessa to do anything.

She has access to SO MANY SELF HELP FREE services as a military spouse. Depression and anxiety are not uncomen things and they have many services to help. Every base has free confidential counselors that will meet you wherever you want to talk exept your living quarters. They refer you to other professionals as needed and whatever you talk stays with them unless you are a threat to yourself/society or is a domestic violence case.... She has the resources but she is not using them.

Vanessa if you are reading this call the red cross on your base they can point you in the right direction and you can get help. Is free and no one needs to know. Do it for yourself.

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[MommaOfThree]

Getting rid of her kids, and her responsibilities as a parent, m-f is her therapy. She hates being a mom and it shows. She should have never had Charlie since she has never wanted to take care of Lily. If YT cracks down on content w kids then she’s not going to be able to make money off of them. The kids will be completely useless to her.


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[Dumbledore]

Getting rid of her kids, and her responsibilities as a parent, m-f is her therapy. She hates being a mom and it shows. She should have never had Charlie since she has never wanted to take care of Lily. If YT cracks down on content w kids then she’s not going to be able to make money off of them. The kids will be completely useless to her.


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She hardly shows them on YT anyway. It’s the Vanessa show after all. And the way she has humiliated them in the past showing lily peeing herself, Charlie with a turd hanging out of his diaper and every single medical “emergency” they’ve experienced, I’m glad they get as little air time as they do.

She used the kids to weasel her way into David’s family and their pocketbooks. Now their job is done. David and his parents provide her with a comfortable life where she doesn’t have to work and hardly even take care of her own children. She can focus on her shopping addiction, catch up on her shows and play with her dogs. She thinks she’ll be happy now, but only until the next “crisis” strikes and she’s completely overwhelmed all over again begging Nona to come help her.

[Bambi_]

What I wouldn’t give to spend the day with my toddler, but unlike Vanessa I actually have a job. It’s so sad that she literally has nothing going for her, no job/career or hobbies (Rae Dunn is not a hobby) and can’t be bothered to spend time with her “last” child.


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[boonz]

She told replied back to someone on her Instagram post that Charlie is in montessori school


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[Resting_Bitch_Face]

She told replied back to someone on her Instagram post that Charlie is in montessori school


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What exactly is a Montessori school? Sounds expensive...but Vanessa isn’t Vanessa if she isn’t showing off her in-laws money.

[jellybean]

She told replied back to someone on her Instagram post that Charlie is in montessori school


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What exactly is a Montessori school? Sounds expensive...but Vanessa isn’t Vanessa if she isn’t showing off her in-laws money.

It's a type of school where the kids are in multi-age groups and basically all get to explore and work on whatever is interesting to them. Child-led learning is what they call it. It's great for ages 2-6 but beyond that it can be iffy.


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[gemmie]

She told replied back to someone on her Instagram post that Charlie is in montessori school


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It is also the type of bed that Britney got Harlow just because it was trendy. *eye roll*


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