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mayhemmomof5 wrote: Mon Sep 30, 2019 8:25 pm
Llamamamma wrote: Mon Sep 30, 2019 7:38 pm I doubt she got opiates. It looks like she had a vaginal birth based off her birth vlog and I don’t know anyone who was given opiates after their giving birth vaginally, c section yes but not vaginal. I myself just had a baby in May and was only given ibuprofen. We also live in the same state not too far away from each other and doctors here are really cracking down on that due to the opiate epidemic, it’s bad out here.
I'm in Nevada and have always been given percocet and ibuprofen. I have had 4 vaginal deliveries and 1 c section.
My latest birth being in 2018.
That’s crazy to me! Nobody I know was given more than ibuprofen after a vaginal birth, I think most doctors in my area shy away from it especially since it passes through breastmilk but she lives about an hour away from me so who knows, but he’s almost 3 weeks old now so I don’t see why she would still be taking them. I stopped ibuprofen after a few days
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Llamamamma wrote:
mayhemmomof5 wrote: Mon Sep 30, 2019 8:25 pm
Llamamamma wrote: Mon Sep 30, 2019 7:38 pm I doubt she got opiates. It looks like she had a vaginal birth based off her birth vlog and I don’t know anyone who was given opiates after their giving birth vaginally, c section yes but not vaginal. I myself just had a baby in May and was only given ibuprofen. We also live in the same state not too far away from each other and doctors here are really cracking down on that due to the opiate epidemic, it’s bad out here.
I'm in Nevada and have always been given percocet and ibuprofen. I have had 4 vaginal deliveries and 1 c section.
My latest birth being in 2018.
That’s crazy to me! Nobody I know was given more than ibuprofen after a vaginal birth, I think most doctors in my area shy away from it especially since it passes through breastmilk but she lives about an hour away from me so who knows, but he’s almost 3 weeks old now so I don’t see why she would still be taking them. I stopped ibuprofen after a few days
Yeah the majority of the time you're supposed to stop them within a week or so if you do get them and he would've been at least one to two weeks old in that vlog. But the thing is that half the time, even when the doctor will say to only take them for like 5 days they will give you like 20 pills.


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Llamamamma wrote: Tue Oct 01, 2019 6:47 am
mayhemmomof5 wrote: Mon Sep 30, 2019 8:25 pm
Llamamamma wrote: Mon Sep 30, 2019 7:38 pm I doubt she got opiates. It looks like she had a vaginal birth based off her birth vlog and I don’t know anyone who was given opiates after their giving birth vaginally, c section yes but not vaginal. I myself just had a baby in May and was only given ibuprofen. We also live in the same state not too far away from each other and doctors here are really cracking down on that due to the opiate epidemic, it’s bad out here.
I'm in Nevada and have always been given percocet and ibuprofen. I have had 4 vaginal deliveries and 1 c section.
My latest birth being in 2018.
That’s crazy to me! Nobody I know was given more than ibuprofen after a vaginal birth, I think most doctors in my area shy away from it especially since it passes through breastmilk but she lives about an hour away from me so who knows, but he’s almost 3 weeks old now so I don’t see why she would still be taking them. I stopped ibuprofen after a few days
It's pretty standard procedure here to get percocet, even if you are nursing. I usually get 30 pills upon discharge. I'm having our baby in the next 3 weeks, so I will see if anything has changed in a year.
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mayhemmomof5 wrote:
Llamamamma wrote: Tue Oct 01, 2019 6:47 am
mayhemmomof5 wrote: Mon Sep 30, 2019 8:25 pm I'm in Nevada and have always been given percocet and ibuprofen. I have had 4 vaginal deliveries and 1 c section.
My latest birth being in 2018.
That’s crazy to me! Nobody I know was given more than ibuprofen after a vaginal birth, I think most doctors in my area shy away from it especially since it passes through breastmilk but she lives about an hour away from me so who knows, but he’s almost 3 weeks old now so I don’t see why she would still be taking them. I stopped ibuprofen after a few days
It's pretty standard procedure here to get percocet, even if you are nursing. I usually get 30 pills upon discharge. I'm having our baby in the next 3 weeks, so I will see if anything has changed in a year.
That’s insane Image
I was given Tylenol and that’s it. I cannot imagine taking a Percocet with a newborn and breastfeeding (if you chose to). That’s wild.
Not common practice here in Ontario.


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mayhemmomof5 wrote: Tue Oct 01, 2019 8:10 am
Llamamamma wrote: Tue Oct 01, 2019 6:47 am
mayhemmomof5 wrote: Mon Sep 30, 2019 8:25 pm
I'm in Nevada and have always been given percocet and ibuprofen. I have had 4 vaginal deliveries and 1 c section.
My latest birth being in 2018.
That’s crazy to me! Nobody I know was given more than ibuprofen after a vaginal birth, I think most doctors in my area shy away from it especially since it passes through breastmilk but she lives about an hour away from me so who knows, but he’s almost 3 weeks old now so I don’t see why she would still be taking them. I stopped ibuprofen after a few days
It's pretty standard procedure here to get percocet, even if you are nursing. I usually get 30 pills upon discharge. I'm having our baby in the next 3 weeks, so I will see if anything has changed in a year.
No wonder there's an opioid crisis that's kinda ridiculous. My daughters father once got prescribed vicodin for a freaking sunburn (he was going in looking for an excuse to not go to work and drugs) and guess what now he's addicted to heroin, but that was 5 years ago, my mom just had mouth surgery and they didn't give her anything afterwards just recommended alternating Tylenol and Ibuprofen. I know three people that I grew up with that have overdosed and died just this past year. Every time I go to the doctors office they have signs plastered all over the place for alternative pain relief because of how bad it is getting. I understand it when it's needed but it's being over prescribed and that's a problem. It was never once even mentioned to me after either of my births, which is good because I would have refused it anyways.
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sssabrina wrote: Mon Sep 30, 2019 6:49 am From the girl that Haylee called the caricature bitch who moved across the country for Randy. He ghosted her pretty quickly. He split up with the other girl who had kids after like a month too.
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wait is this the girl randy cheated on haylee with?
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grandtheftautumn_ wrote: Tue Oct 01, 2019 12:40 pm
sssabrina wrote: Mon Sep 30, 2019 6:49 am From the girl that Haylee called the caricature bitch who moved across the country for Randy. He ghosted her pretty quickly. He split up with the other girl who had kids after like a month too.
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wait is this the girl randy cheated on haylee with?
No, idk who he was cheating with but he met this girl on twitter once him and Haylee were separated and trying to coparent Hazzel. Even though Haylee was already pregnant by Dann at the time, her finding out about Randy and this girl seemed to help lead to the big fights with Randy that resulted in her not allowing him to see Hazzel anymore. It seems like Randy never even cared about the girl in the first place to have started all that.
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Llamamamma wrote:
mayhemmomof5 wrote: Mon Sep 30, 2019 8:25 pm
Llamamamma wrote: Mon Sep 30, 2019 7:38 pm I doubt she got opiates. It looks like she had a vaginal birth based off her birth vlog and I don’t know anyone who was given opiates after their giving birth vaginally, c section yes but not vaginal. I myself just had a baby in May and was only given ibuprofen. We also live in the same state not too far away from each other and doctors here are really cracking down on that due to the opiate epidemic, it’s bad out here.
I'm in Nevada and have always been given percocet and ibuprofen. I have had 4 vaginal deliveries and 1 c section.
My latest birth being in 2018.
That’s crazy to me! Nobody I know was given more than ibuprofen after a vaginal birth, I think most doctors in my area shy away from it especially since it passes through breastmilk but she lives about an hour away from me so who knows, but he’s almost 3 weeks old now so I don’t see why she would still be taking them. I stopped ibuprofen after a few days
I live about 30-45 minutes from her and I know several people who’ve had Percocet after delivery. For the most part it’s only while they’re in the hospital but one had 17 stitches and an episiotomy so she needed it! What city do you live in?
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I had 3 c sections I cant imagine going through major surgery without pain medicine. My last one had an exposed nerve and I had to take a pain pill just to get a shower because once the water hit that nerve i went though the roof.. My first two I was only on for a few days but the 3rd it was almost 2 weeks before that never was covered up with skin. So freaking painful
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Lolislol26 wrote: Tue Oct 01, 2019 4:04 pm
Llamamamma wrote:
mayhemmomof5 wrote: Mon Sep 30, 2019 8:25 pm
I'm in Nevada and have always been given percocet and ibuprofen. I have had 4 vaginal deliveries and 1 c section.
My latest birth being in 2018.
That’s crazy to me! Nobody I know was given more than ibuprofen after a vaginal birth, I think most doctors in my area shy away from it especially since it passes through breastmilk but she lives about an hour away from me so who knows, but he’s almost 3 weeks old now so I don’t see why she would still be taking them. I stopped ibuprofen after a few days
I live about 30-45 minutes from her and I know several people who’ve had Percocet after delivery. For the most part it’s only while they’re in the hospital but one had 17 stitches and an episiotomy so she needed it! What city do you live in?
Oh man episiotomies need to be illegal. No reason for them
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lizpuff2006 wrote:
Lolislol26 wrote: Tue Oct 01, 2019 4:04 pm
Llamamamma wrote: That’s crazy to me! Nobody I know was given more than ibuprofen after a vaginal birth, I think most doctors in my area shy away from it especially since it passes through breastmilk but she lives about an hour away from me so who knows, but he’s almost 3 weeks old now so I don’t see why she would still be taking them. I stopped ibuprofen after a few days
I live about 30-45 minutes from her and I know several people who’ve had Percocet after delivery. For the most part it’s only while they’re in the hospital but one had 17 stitches and an episiotomy so she needed it! What city do you live in?
Oh man episiotomies need to be illegal. No reason for them
I know they’re painful, and probably overused, but if they need to get the baby out quickly, for example if it’s stuck and in distress, an episiotomy might be the best of a bunch of unpleasant outcomes


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Lolislol26 wrote: Tue Oct 01, 2019 4:04 pm
Llamamamma wrote:
mayhemmomof5 wrote: Mon Sep 30, 2019 8:25 pm
I'm in Nevada and have always been given percocet and ibuprofen. I have had 4 vaginal deliveries and 1 c section.
My latest birth being in 2018.
That’s crazy to me! Nobody I know was given more than ibuprofen after a vaginal birth, I think most doctors in my area shy away from it especially since it passes through breastmilk but she lives about an hour away from me so who knows, but he’s almost 3 weeks old now so I don’t see why she would still be taking them. I stopped ibuprofen after a few days
I live about 30-45 minutes from her and I know several people who’ve had Percocet after delivery. For the most part it’s only while they’re in the hospital but one had 17 stitches and an episiotomy so she needed it! What city do you live in?
I live in the Fort Collins area, and I think it makes more sense if they give it to you in the hospital, but to send you home with 20/30 seems a bit excessive unless you have a c-section. And I've never had an episiotomy but like I said if it's truly needed I don't have a problem with it, but I don't think it should just be over prescribed and given to everybody. That's just my personal opinion, opioid addiction kinda hits home for me cause my daughters father is a heroin addict and he became an addict by being over prescribed pain pills he didn't need.
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Momto3boys wrote: Tue Oct 01, 2019 9:53 pm I had 3 c sections I cant imagine going through major surgery without pain medicine. My last one had an exposed nerve and I had to take a pain pill just to get a shower because once the water hit that nerve i went though the roof.. My first two I was only on for a few days but the 3rd it was almost 2 weeks before that never was covered up with skin. So freaking painful
I 100% agree that they are needed after c-sections, my best friend had a c-section with her first baby and she didn't take any pain pills because they make her really sick and her mom is an addict so she's scared of them, but she definitely could have used them, she was in hell, but her vbac was a breeze.
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I had an Epi with my first it was needed it was a horrible delivery and my body has never been the same i had two babies after that no stitches required but for my 3rd a very easy no complications at all delivery I was offered Perc I was SHOCKED!!! I asked the doctor why she was offering me as I was doing fine with Motrin she said they offer to all new moms and she hates it but it’s what the hospital does. I don’t think any vaginal delivery needs Perc and I had a horrible delivery with my first completely ripped apart and still didn’t need perc Karen from kkandbabyj admired she got addicted to the pain meds after her son was born
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Hereforthemamadrama wrote: Wed Oct 02, 2019 6:22 pm I had an Epi with my first it was needed it was a horrible delivery and my body has never been the same i had two babies after that no stitches required but for my 3rd a very easy no complications at all delivery I was offered Perc I was SHOCKED!!! I asked the doctor why she was offering me as I was doing fine with Motrin she said they offer to all new moms and she hates it but it’s what the hospital does. I don’t think any vaginal delivery needs Perc and I had a horrible delivery with my first completely ripped apart and still didn’t need perc Karen from kkandbabyj admired she got addicted to the pain meds after her son was born
When I was pregnant with my daughter 7 years ago I went into the hospital at 5 weeks for bleeding and cramping thinking I was miscarrying(I wasn't) but they prescribed me Vicodin for the cramping, even after I tried to deny it he brought me some anyways and I was shocked and honestly upset that they were trying to force Vicodin on me while I was pregnant for some cramping... but not once was I offered anything after the birth with either children, it must just depend on hospitals/doctors
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sssabrina wrote: Sat Sep 28, 2019 3:54 pm
Honeybee23 wrote: Sat Sep 28, 2019 3:25 pm At the end of her newest video"big sister shops for baby brother" Or whatever. When she says she extremely exhausted and hardly can keep her eyes open. 110% sure shes on some sort of pain killers. Like percocet.

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Did she have a natural birth or c section? I've heard of people being prescribed opioids after a c-section, which seems excessive especially considering the opioid epidemic, but I guess everyone's case is different. It's not something I'd jump towards, especially in her case with a history of substance abuse, unless it was truly severe pain which she doesn't really seem to be acting like she's in.
I had a 4th degree tear and they didn’t send me home with anything but tylenol, advil and stool softeners
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Oh look her 7 days worth of pain meds must had ran out , back to posting once every 3 months


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toastedalmond wrote: Fri Oct 04, 2019 4:54 am Oh look her 7 days worth of pain meds must had ran out , back to posting once every 3 months


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I was wondering what happened to her...
That was all very weird, hey!? All that posting. Wtf!?
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AliceInWonder wrote: Fri Oct 04, 2019 5:35 am
toastedalmond wrote: Fri Oct 04, 2019 4:54 am Oh look her 7 days worth of pain meds must had ran out , back to posting once every 3 months


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I was wondering what happened to her...
That was all very weird, hey!? All that posting. Wtf!?
The baby high is gone...
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ihateliars wrote:
AliceInWonder wrote: Fri Oct 04, 2019 5:35 am
toastedalmond wrote: Fri Oct 04, 2019 4:54 am Oh look her 7 days worth of pain meds must had ran out , back to posting once every 3 months


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I was wondering what happened to her...
That was all very weird, hey!? All that posting. Wtf!?
The baby high is gone...
Wasn't she moving this week? That's probably been keeping her busy too.

I think it's equally likely her surge in energy and enthusiasm could have been from one or any combination of the factors of crazy baby hormones plus already having underlying mood and anxiety issues, then possible pain meds on top of that. She did start posting fairly often (in comparison to her past) right before he was born, she may have already been heading towards some type of manic.


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