Joan & John: Buy my crap and pay my Bills | Part #4

[SassySassenach]

I wonder what the egg photo will look like this weekend......




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[fossilfinger]

I can't watch her videos because her voice makes my soul cringe. Anybody care to summarize? She is replying to instagram commets with "answered in the video!"

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She didn’t answer the question about whether or not they would implant all embryos but said they had to take everything one step at a time. There wasn’t really any information in the video that hasn’t been brought up here.

[imnotaregularmom]

I can't watch her videos because her voice makes my soul cringe. Anybody care to summarize? She is replying to instagram commets with "answered in the video!"

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She didn’t answer the question about whether or not they would implant all embryos but said they had to take everything one step at a time. There wasn’t really any information in the video that hasn’t been brought up here.

At one point she does say that she will only transfer one embryo bc of maeve’s growth restriction. She says she’s high risk and if she got pregnant with twins she’d be considered ‘super high risk’ which isn’t, ya know, a real thing. But yes her voice is terrible and sounds like a balloon about to pop. Her laugh makes me wanna scream.

[imnotaregularmom]

I can't watch her videos because her voice makes my soul cringe. Anybody care to summarize? She is replying to instagram commets with "answered in the video!"

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She didn’t answer the question about whether or not they would implant all embryos but said they had to take everything one step at a time. There wasn’t really any information in the video that hasn’t been brought up here.

At one point she does say that she will only transfer one embryo bc of maeve’s growth restriction. She says she’s high risk and if she got pregnant with twins she’d be considered ‘super high risk’ which isn’t, ya know, a real thing. But yes her voice is terrible and sounds like a balloon about to pop. Her laugh makes me wanna scream.

[fossilfinger]

I can't watch her videos because her voice makes my soul cringe. Anybody care to summarize? She is replying to instagram commets with "answered in the video!"

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She didn’t answer the question about whether or not they would implant all embryos but said they had to take everything one step at a time. There wasn’t really any information in the video that hasn’t been brought up here.

At one point she does say that she will only transfer one embryo bc of maeve’s growth restriction. She says she’s high risk and if she got pregnant with twins she’d be considered ‘super high risk’ which isn’t, ya know, a real thing. But yes her voice is terrible and sounds like a balloon about to pop. Her laugh makes me wanna scream.

Yep, you’re right. I think some people were asking if they had several embryos make it to frozen if they would eventually implant all of them or if extras would be destroyed or donated, which Joan didn’t answer.

[imnotaregularmom]

She didn’t answer the question about whether or not they would implant all embryos but said they had to take everything one step at a time. There wasn’t really any information in the video that hasn’t been brought up here.

At one point she does say that she will only transfer one embryo bc of maeve’s growth restriction. She says she’s high risk and if she got pregnant with twins she’d be considered ‘super high risk’ which isn’t, ya know, a real thing. But yes her voice is terrible and sounds like a balloon about to pop. Her laugh makes me wanna scream.

Yep, you’re right. I think some people were asking if they had several embryos make it to frozen if they would eventually implant all of them or if extras would be destroyed or donated, which Joan didn’t answer.

Oooh I see what you’re saying now. I can’t see her ever donating an embryo, sadly. Also can’t see her destroying one. Which is probably why she hasn’t answered.

[imnotaregularmom]

Uh oh, trouble in paradise. She’s mad at John again. It sucks that he’s always bailing on her and I want to think he’s a jerk for it but also don’t know how he puts up with her antics all the time.

[sweetener]

Joan posted this on her IG stories. I feel like it's completely childish to post this for everyone to see. It's understandable that IVF is/can be stressful for couples, but I doubt John wants everyone to know about what happened PLUS for her to use a picture of a crying Vera is not okay. Don't use your baby to get sympathy.

[imnotaregularmom]

Joan posted this on her IG stories. I feel like it's completely childish to post this for everyone to see. It's understandable that IVF is/can be stressful for couples, but I doubt John wants everyone to know about what happened PLUS for her to use a picture of a crying Vera is not okay. Don't use your baby to get sympathy.

Using babies for sympathy is her whole identity

[2rcmeeksrichards2]

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[sweetener]

If you can't read or see the screenshot, the screenshot shows a crying Vera and a frowning Joan. Joan wrote, "Ivf is stressful. Couples don't always get along. Tonight is one of those nights. Seriously sick of how my husband goes off biking or disappears when I ask him for help with the baby. I had an obligation to a friend and had to reschedule because John wouldn't watch her for 20 min. I needed 20 min. "

[2rcmeeksrichards2]

And they want to bring another child into this strange, unhappy relationship


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[lmmomSD]

It is so not ok for her to air their dirty laundry like that. It's so passive aggressive. They're both immature and they should have counseling before bringing another child into their dysfunction. Blaming it on IVF isn't ok either. They have had fights like that before she started this round of IVF. It's got jack sh*t to do with him taking off or her putting it out there for everyone to see under some "I'm just being real" BS. I get that life is messy and a lot of people prefer a bit of nitty gritty reality to the perfect picture others try to portray, but there should be some boundaries.

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[imnotaregularmom]

She’s straight up crazy. After losing Maeve she walked around outside in the world with that Fox in an ergo baby and a stroller. Which is super weird even for someone who just lost a child.

[imnotaregularmom]

Joan posted this on her IG stories. I feel like it's completely childish to post this for everyone to see. It's understandable that IVF is/can be stressful for couples, but I doubt John wants everyone to know about what happened PLUS for her to use a picture of a crying Vera is not okay. Don't use your baby to get sympathy.

Annnnnd she’s already taken down the story. Probably so John won’t see it. But he’ll see it on here where it will exist for all eternityyyyy

[SassySassenach]

If you can't read or see the screenshot, the screenshot shows a crying Vera and a frowning Joan. Joan wrote, "Ivf is stressful. Couples don't always get along. Tonight is one of those nights. Seriously sick of how my husband goes off biking or disappears when I ask him for help with the baby. I had an obligation to a friend and had to reschedule because John wouldn't watch her for 20 min. I needed 20 min. "

I’m surprised her parents didn’t run to the rescue like they did over the weird breast milk kerfluffle.

And if it was only 20 minutes... let Vera sit in a stroller. It won’t kill her. It’s not rocket science. I’m not saying John is right, but Joan is always so dramatic.


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[webbygurl626]

So if he won’t watch her for twenty minutes did he even want children or does he just do his own thing all the time and Joan doesn’t tell him when she needs help?


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[131618]

So if he won’t watch her for twenty minutes did he even want children or does he just do his own thing all the time and Joan doesn’t tell him when she needs help?


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Mmmmm idk I call BS. Bet she attacked him when he got home and he went for a ride to cool off and she missed her hang out with her friend. Not saying he's perfect whatsoever but she's straight up nuts. As poster above said, take the kid with you! Then get home, hand her to dad and say good night while you take a bubble bath lol

Seriously she is so desperate for validation she has to air their weird dirty laundry, delete it, and then make a "well anyways I was totally in the right to do that but thanks for the few that cheered me up". What a loon....

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[lmmomSD]

So if he won’t watch her for twenty minutes did he even want children or does he just do his own thing all the time and Joan doesn’t tell him when she needs help?


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And she's been weird in the past about letting him hold Vera and do things with her, but when she wants him to take her, he'd best hop to it. Remember the big fight about swim lessons? And is Vera even in swimming lessons anymore?

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[1000Words]

So if he won’t watch her for twenty minutes did he even want children or does he just do his own thing all the time and Joan doesn’t tell him when she needs help?


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It appears this is constant. Joan has taken over all Care except for designated times. Like these. But John keeps bailing and goes biking instead.

Joan will lose her mind when she has lack of sleep, a crying newborn and vera who will be so used to constant attention and “enrichment activities” that she will also be a mess.
John got angry when vera was little and couldn’t handle all her crying and she was like “the perfect baby” so I have No idea how they think it’s the slightest bit okay or sane to be doing IVF.

Joan this is a pattern since John left during your pregnancy with Maeve which you keep forgetting about.....

Their relationship is toxic. Has nothing to do with IVF or Maeve.

Vera will be growing up in a home with this kind of energy.