And you must be perfect, right? Like you said, she’s a sixteen year old girl of course she’s not going to be a perfect mom.Rorygz194 wrote: ↑Fri Oct 11, 2019 11:48 amI am going to agree and disagree.JaneyB wrote: ↑Thu Oct 10, 2019 8:12 pmWell, I mean she has a point to some degree. A lot of these moms are literally on here every day just talking crap about teen moms...FueledByIcedCoffee wrote: ↑Thu Oct 10, 2019 7:14 pm LOL Maddie said she was reading here. Of course she acts like everyone here is some loser with no life aka her mom.
I have no problem pointing out when she does something good and praising her when needed. But sorry, I don’t think you’re an amazing mom cause you fed your daughter chocolate instead of lunch.
However, I am proud she got her license and hope she ditches her leech of a mother soon.
Edited to add: Brush your hair. It takes literal seconds and would make a world of differences.
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She deserves a hell of a lot more praise than she gets. For being a 15 year old mom she breastfeeds, found a way of making a solid income to support her child, has a savings fun just for her baby, makes it to all doctor appointments needed, got her permit, got her license, and is with her baby more than almost any other 15 year old mom I’ve ever heard of or seen. She has her downs where she may give her child a candy bar for a snack to calm her down, but you’re literally only seeing minutes (SOMETIMES a few hours most) of her life that she decides to show you.. So I mean, I guess what you guys take from it shows your own insecurities in a way. Most of you judge her by doing some things that aren’t even bad. She’s not going to be PERFECT. She’s still a kid herself. She hasn’t even been finished being raised? So how are you grown women going to sit and pick her apart piece by piece like this? She’s SIXTEEN. My goodness. I’d like to see some support or uplifting or advice rather than constant bashing. How do you guys expect her to grow and learn when all you do is talk down on her.
Maddie, if you see this. You are an AMAZING mother to Everly for your age. Even better than some grown women do raising their children. You shouldn’t read into what any of these lame people say. They’re bored with their own lives so they pick at others to try to make themselves feel better. Keep doin you girl.
Maddie is a good mother for her age. I'll give her that. For being sixteen. And i know a lot of people on here judge teen moms and single moms before even giving them a chance.
But Maddie has gotten 100 chances and still fucks up. Everyone praises her for being so good and so perfect, just because she's not a deadbeat junkie like a lot of teen moms are. Taking care of your kid doesnt make you a super parent, even if you're only sixteen. Thats what you are supposed to do. She chose to keep everly, thats what she gets.
And maddie has so many things wrong with her parenting and household that needs to get attention brought to it because it can be dangerous for everly.
Maddie is still very much a teenager and it shows, and it shows in dangerous ways. Which is why people react. People on here don't hate, they speak facts.
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I personally found that vlog very boring. Who wants to watch a teenage girl spend all her money on take away food and sit there and stuff her face?!?!
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Lol I missed a lot^^^^. In regards to Maddie saying we're all moms on our fourth husband or whatever, I just wanted to say that I'm only a few months older than she is. In no way am I mature, but I can recognize bad parenting and I want to talk about it with other people who understand.
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im not an adult, I'm Maddie's age. I'm not a mother. I am pointing out things that i am questioning, because they are questionable. i barely watch her videos, i used to be a "fan" of hers, i used to think she was really mature but I've seen now that the things she does and says are very weird and immature. and thats why i point it out. But you're probably Maddie, Maddies mom or one of her minions.jmarie567 wrote: ↑Sat Oct 12, 2019 4:21 pmImagine being an adult and hating on a literal child. I think it’s laughable that you sit there and watch her videos like a FAN but go talk shit on a forum. I’m convinced most of the adults talking shit about this girl are a bunch of karen’s with nothing better to do. Oh and you must be a perfect mom right?Rorygz194 wrote: ↑Sat Oct 12, 2019 12:22 pmi don't have kids either. where did she talk about this site?
I read that she talked about how everyone on here is on their 3rd marriage and doesnt take care of their kids like uhh maddie hasn't you mom been married 2 times (2 and 3 isn't really a big difference), and you are probably heading the same way with baby daddies left and right.
someone is mad because the truth is being spoken and people are realising that the "sweet little innocent girl" thing is all an act
And for the record, no one is a perfect mom that does perfect things all day long, and i've never said that. But Maddie's parenting style is questionable, but no one can stop her. Say one thing on here that is a lie.
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And again, who said I was perfect? No one is asking her to be a perfect mom, they are asking her to be a decent onejmarie567 wrote: ↑Sat Oct 12, 2019 4:23 pmAnd you must be perfect, right? Like you said, she’s a sixteen year old girl of course she’s not going to be a perfect mom.Rorygz194 wrote: ↑Fri Oct 11, 2019 11:48 amI am going to agree and disagree.JaneyB wrote: ↑Thu Oct 10, 2019 8:12 pm
Well, I mean she has a point to some degree. A lot of these moms are literally on here every day just talking crap about teen moms...
She deserves a hell of a lot more praise than she gets. For being a 15 year old mom she breastfeeds, found a way of making a solid income to support her child, has a savings fun just for her baby, makes it to all doctor appointments needed, got her permit, got her license, and is with her baby more than almost any other 15 year old mom I’ve ever heard of or seen. She has her downs where she may give her child a candy bar for a snack to calm her down, but you’re literally only seeing minutes (SOMETIMES a few hours most) of her life that she decides to show you.. So I mean, I guess what you guys take from it shows your own insecurities in a way. Most of you judge her by doing some things that aren’t even bad. She’s not going to be PERFECT. She’s still a kid herself. She hasn’t even been finished being raised? So how are you grown women going to sit and pick her apart piece by piece like this? She’s SIXTEEN. My goodness. I’d like to see some support or uplifting or advice rather than constant bashing. How do you guys expect her to grow and learn when all you do is talk down on her.
Maddie, if you see this. You are an AMAZING mother to Everly for your age. Even better than some grown women do raising their children. You shouldn’t read into what any of these lame people say. They’re bored with their own lives so they pick at others to try to make themselves feel better. Keep doin you girl.
Maddie is a good mother for her age. I'll give her that. For being sixteen. And i know a lot of people on here judge teen moms and single moms before even giving them a chance.
But Maddie has gotten 100 chances and still fucks up. Everyone praises her for being so good and so perfect, just because she's not a deadbeat junkie like a lot of teen moms are. Taking care of your kid doesnt make you a super parent, even if you're only sixteen. Thats what you are supposed to do. She chose to keep everly, thats what she gets.
And maddie has so many things wrong with her parenting and household that needs to get attention brought to it because it can be dangerous for everly.
Maddie is still very much a teenager and it shows, and it shows in dangerous ways. Which is why people react. People on here don't hate, they speak facts.
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Exactly! I am born just a few days after Maddie, I am not a mother and in no way “adult mature” or perfect, but I’m not a mom. I don’t have to be. But I watch kids all the time, and i know what bad parenting is. And no one here (I know some are but far from everyone) is saying she has to be perfect or bashing her for being a teen mom like she said, they are bashing her for her parenting. This forum is simply to discuss it and if she can’t take that then don’t be a public figure.beesly wrote: ↑Sat Oct 12, 2019 11:31 pm Lol I missed a lot^^^^. In regards to Maddie saying we're all moms on our fourth husband or whatever, I just wanted to say that I'm only a few months older than she is. In no way am I mature, but I can recognize bad parenting and I want to talk about it with other people who understand.
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Most of us are just concerned that this 16 year old dropped out of school and posts her private parts on the internet for $$$ and her mom is completely okay with that.
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Exactly. It’s not normal behavior from a 16 year old MOMOneGoodThing wrote: ↑Sun Oct 13, 2019 6:50 am Most of us are just concerned that this 16 year old dropped out of school and posts her private parts on the internet for $$$ and her mom is completely okay with that.
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I thought I was the only teenager... I turned 15 last month.beesly wrote: ↑Sat Oct 12, 2019 11:31 pm Lol I missed a lot^^^^. In regards to Maddie saying we're all moms on our fourth husband or whatever, I just wanted to say that I'm only a few months older than she is. In no way am I mature, but I can recognize bad parenting and I want to talk about it with other people who understand.
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Welcome to the forums Maddie and Melissa! Truth be told, you have been here for a while you just couldn't bite that tongue any longer and had to say something. Even though you posted as "just someone who is concerned that were are picking on a kid", I hope you realize you are not in any way shape or form stealthy and we all know it is you two.
So here is the thing. These adults that are "picking on you" are simply concerned for your and Everly's safety and well being since your mom is failing in that area. I know it may come as a shock but, us "adults" might actually know a thing or two. Your mom is taking advantage of you and is not properly protecting you or your child. The fact that neither of you care that pedophiles view and get off on this kind of stuff is MIND BOGGLING. You say its their problem and not yours but honey... when you knowingly continue to put stuff out there that they "enjoy" it becomes your problem too, and your childs. The fact that your mother promotes the idea in your head that school is not a number one priority for you is also MIND BOGGLING. But at least we all understand why. Youtube gets the bag not school, am I right?
And listen, I am actually coming from a place of total understanding and compassion. As someone who was also a teen mom many moons ago, I totally get it how hard it is. But you are trying to convince me how hard it is when you are not even finishing school and your "job" is Youtube. Oh and for the record, been married once finished high school and college. Supported both my girls as a single mom for 24 years since I also put them through college (with a actual job). Your life is NOT that hard so you don't get any special praises for deciding to be the mom you wanted to be.
So here is the thing. These adults that are "picking on you" are simply concerned for your and Everly's safety and well being since your mom is failing in that area. I know it may come as a shock but, us "adults" might actually know a thing or two. Your mom is taking advantage of you and is not properly protecting you or your child. The fact that neither of you care that pedophiles view and get off on this kind of stuff is MIND BOGGLING. You say its their problem and not yours but honey... when you knowingly continue to put stuff out there that they "enjoy" it becomes your problem too, and your childs. The fact that your mother promotes the idea in your head that school is not a number one priority for you is also MIND BOGGLING. But at least we all understand why. Youtube gets the bag not school, am I right?
And listen, I am actually coming from a place of total understanding and compassion. As someone who was also a teen mom many moons ago, I totally get it how hard it is. But you are trying to convince me how hard it is when you are not even finishing school and your "job" is Youtube. Oh and for the record, been married once finished high school and college. Supported both my girls as a single mom for 24 years since I also put them through college (with a actual job). Your life is NOT that hard so you don't get any special praises for deciding to be the mom you wanted to be.
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It’s really funny because she kept saying how excited she was to film and post that video for the whole week. I remember skimming it and being underwhelmed because like you said, all she was doing was eating food. Maybe the only reason Maddie was excited is because she got to mention this site.AliceInWonder wrote: ↑Sat Oct 12, 2019 9:42 pm I personally found that vlog very boring. Who wants to watch a teenage girl spend all her money on take away food and sit there and stuff her face?!?!
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I find Maddie’s moms behavior more concerning than Maddie’s. Maddie is a mom, but she is still a child who needs boundaries. Kids will act out if they aren’t given boundaries and it isn’t their fault. I think there are a lot of teenage girls who think it’s fine to post provocative pictures of themselves. That’s normal, they’re children. It’s up to the parents to set boundaries and parent and tell them no. But I do think that Maddie is a mom and needs to sort her shit out.
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THANK YOU. I've been wanting to say this but I didn't have the words. Maddie is comfortable, she lives with her mom who can watch her when Maddie doesn't feel like it, she doesn't go to school or have to worry about where the next meal is coming from or if she has enough money to take care of Everly. I mean even before she got famous, she had a whole wardrobe for Everly with these head bands, and I know she didn't pay for them herself.jayann wrote: ↑Sun Oct 13, 2019 8:02 am Welcome to the forums Maddie and Melissa! Truth be told, you have been here for a while you just couldn't bite that tongue any longer and had to say something. Even though you posted as "just someone who is concerned that were are picking on a kid", I hope you realize you are not in any way shape or form stealthy and we all know it is you two.
So here is the thing. These adults that are "picking on you" are simply concerned for your and Everly's safety and well being since your mom is failing in that area. I know it may come as a shock but, us "adults" might actually know a thing or two. Your mom is taking advantage of you and is not properly protecting you or your child. The fact that neither of you care that pedophiles view and get off on this kind of stuff is MIND BOGGLING. You say its their problem and not yours but honey... when you knowingly continue to put stuff out there that they "enjoy" it becomes your problem too, and your childs. The fact that your mother promotes the idea in your head that school is not a number one priority for you is also MIND BOGGLING. But at least we all understand why. Youtube gets the bag not school, am I right?
And listen, I am actually coming from a place of total understanding and compassion. As someone who was also a teen mom many moons ago, I totally get it how hard it is. But you are trying to convince me how hard it is when you are not even finishing school and your "job" is Youtube. Oh and for the record, been married once finished high school and college. Supported both my girls as a single mom for 24 years since I also put them through college (with a actual job). Your life is NOT that hard so you don't get any special praises for deciding to be the mom you wanted to be.
All these teen moms want to talk about how hard it is, but they are one of the lucky ones. There are teen moms who are thrown out, who have to work 2 or 3 jobs just to get food for their kids, who dedicate their whole lives to their kids even though no one believed in them, and they deserve the praise more than princess Maddie. They know the struggle, Maddie doesn't.
Btw good for you for fighting for your kids!
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The fact that you think boobs are private parts just shows how immature you areOneGoodThing wrote: ↑Sun Oct 13, 2019 6:50 am Most of us are just concerned that this 16 year old dropped out of school and posts her private parts on the internet for $$$ and her mom is completely okay with that.
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Maddie needs to get her priorities right, since she's more concerned about finding next baby daddy then finishing school. But maddies mom is the real problem. I mean the fact that she didn't even get a little mad at Maddie for getting pregnant in middle school is a weird thing to me. Fine, there was nothing to do about it but I think it should have been more of a reaction than "we love babies!"OneGoodThing wrote: ↑Sun Oct 13, 2019 8:30 am I find Maddie’s moms behavior more concerning than Maddie’s. Maddie is a mom, but she is still a child who needs boundaries. Kids will act out if they aren’t given boundaries and it isn’t their fault. I think there are a lot of teenage girls who think it’s fine to post provocative pictures of themselves. That’s normal, they’re children. It’s up to the parents to set boundaries and parent and tell them no. But I do think that Maddie is a mom and needs to sort her shit out.
Melissa has never set any boundaries for any of her kids, she has always made them too comfortable and it shows
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She has shown more than that. And it's not that it shows, it's that she's showing it on purpose, like in the video where she took a bath and stood in front of the camera with a thing bikini and looked back on the camera, probably in an attempt to look sexy or somethingjmarie567 wrote: ↑Sun Oct 13, 2019 12:20 pmThe fact that you think boobs are private parts just shows how immature you areOneGoodThing wrote: ↑Sun Oct 13, 2019 6:50 am Most of us are just concerned that this 16 year old dropped out of school and posts her private parts on the internet for $$$ and her mom is completely okay with that.
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I think this person meant that Maddie is underage and showing her boobs on a public format where there are pedophiles. Along with that fact that she’s shown more than just her breasts.jmarie567 wrote: ↑Sun Oct 13, 2019 12:20 pmThe fact that you think boobs are private parts just shows how immature you areOneGoodThing wrote: ↑Sun Oct 13, 2019 6:50 am Most of us are just concerned that this 16 year old dropped out of school and posts her private parts on the internet for $$$ and her mom is completely okay with that.
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I will agree that Maddie should have finished high school. It is a bit weird her mom was okay with her quitting school. I don’t think her mom is a bad mom for not getting mad at her for being pregnant, but I do think she could have done more to prevent it from happening in the first place.
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Agree.jmarie567 wrote: ↑Sun Oct 13, 2019 12:28 pm I will agree that Maddie should have finished high school. It is a bit weird her mom was okay with her quitting school. I don’t think her mom is a bad mom for not getting mad at her for being pregnant, but I do think she could have done more to prevent it from happening in the first place.
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