I just think it's ridiculous.. because of the reason that if a parent forks out $100 on school supplies, and another doesn't buy anything but the folders and bare minimum because they know it's communal... then I am basically paying for that child. Which as I said, I wouldn't have a problem donating, but... who is to say the parent that bought the bare minimum doesn't have more money than *I* do? Where I live they don't do communal... they do donation bags when you go in to set up your child's desk the week before school starts. The bag consists of a backpack, and not a flimsy one... but, a nice one that will last all year if not for a few years... and everything on the teachers list. I am on board with THAT... and as far as learning to share, in art class is where they share paints and such... PE they learn to share, music class they learn to share, etc etc. I had never heard of this communal thing til it was brought up here. And I just think that's crazy.Lolislol26 wrote: ↑Sat Oct 19, 2019 7:39 amIt’s pretty common knowledge that supplies are communal, what are you going to do? Waste your time labeling your kids stuff and it will all get put into the same bucket with the rest of them anyway.ThisIsMeCeej wrote:If that's all true, I would be rather pissed off. Going out and spending all that money on all the things the teacher wanted for my child, then it doesn't even go to my kid? It goes into a communal supplies for everyone... and if someone's parents decided they didn't wanna buy 2 packs of crayons and 2 packs of markers etc etc... they are just using what I bought my kid and others bought their kid, on our dimes... now, I don't mind donating to families who can't afford to buy school supplies. I don't mind donating things to teachers, so they have supplies through the year... but, communal supplies... that's not something I would put up with. School supplies aren't cheap, especially when teachers are asking for certain BRAND name items.Lolislol26 wrote: ↑Fri Oct 18, 2019 4:16 pm
On IG she said that the teacher didn’t give the supplies back. It probably became communal supplies. Maybe even mixed with the entire grade.
They’re also required to pay a $10 supply fee to the school. There is even items they’re suppose to get for the nurses office!
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Because it's more important to pay government officials, who do nothing... millions a year... than to take money away from them, and put it where it should go, in to education and the likes.HeyKatie wrote: ↑Sat Oct 19, 2019 12:41 pm It’s crazy how schools in the US have to have students chip in and buy supplies for the entire class. Over here in Canada we each just got a list and bought enough stuff for ourselves. Makes me sick seeing how underfunded schools are over there.
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My daughter started kindergarten and only
Asked that we buy our only supplies. But I saw some kids with just a hand me down back pack and my daughter said the kid that sat next to her shared her whiteboard marker with her because he didn’t have one.. so I went and bought 2 packs
For the whole class
To have there own. The teacher was shocked but some kids really can’t afford it and it’s not there fault so I don’t
Mind buying for the whole
Class.
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Asked that we buy our only supplies. But I saw some kids with just a hand me down back pack and my daughter said the kid that sat next to her shared her whiteboard marker with her because he didn’t have one.. so I went and bought 2 packs
For the whole class
To have there own. The teacher was shocked but some kids really can’t afford it and it’s not there fault so I don’t
Mind buying for the whole
Class.
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This is the attitude everyone should have. PP says they are ok with donating supplies to others however words say otherwise. "good with donating BUT"Kjaysmommy999 wrote: ↑Sun Oct 20, 2019 7:31 pm My daughter started kindergarten and only
Asked that we buy our only supplies. But I saw some kids with just a hand me down back pack and my daughter said the kid that sat next to her shared her whiteboard marker with her because he didn’t have one.. so I went and bought 2 packs
For the whole class
To have there own. The teacher was shocked but some kids really can’t afford it and it’s not there fault so I don’t
Mind buying for the whole
Class.
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How do you know how other families live? IME, The children that do not have the correct supplies are those that do not have enough money to buy them. The ones that have more money are the ones with the flashy fancy things. Even if a kid's family has money, their parents may not get them what they need for whatever reason. And it is sad to think that a kid will have to sit there and twiddle their thumbs bc they have no markers or paper to write on. Having a communal supply means that every kid will have every opportunity to do the same activities. It was not this way when I was growing up and I am glad it is this way now
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She posted that Dannn gave her this necklace with "all the kids birthstones" on it. A mom and three baby birds. I would be pissed if I was Dann's son's real mom, especially from the whore babysitter. That's so irresponsible to have the kids thinking you're a "blended family" so quickly. She learned nothing from Randy, she admitted she moved too quickly with him but then moved even faster with Dann and involved multiple people's children this time.
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Yeah she has no boundaries with Hazzel and these men and that won't extend to her and their kids either.
She keeps comparing Dann to Albert when Dann is a grown man twice the age that Albert was. She also seems amazed every time he cooks when again that's a grown man and experienced father. She has very low standards.
She keeps comparing Dann to Albert when Dann is a grown man twice the age that Albert was. She also seems amazed every time he cooks when again that's a grown man and experienced father. She has very low standards.
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I feel so badly for all three of those kids. This wont last and its going to crush those kids when Hazzel and baby move back into the grandparents basement and the other loses his new siblings all together.
Nothing about this situation is ideal but Haylee could certainly be dealing with it better. She should have never put herself in a position to get pregnant, and now its just one bad decision after the next.
I do hope this lasts, for the childrens sake, but I just don't see it happening.
Nothing about this situation is ideal but Haylee could certainly be dealing with it better. She should have never put herself in a position to get pregnant, and now its just one bad decision after the next.
I do hope this lasts, for the childrens sake, but I just don't see it happening.
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It seems like her only standard is that the guy be willing to parent Hazzel within a few months of meeting Haylee.cat77 wrote:Yeah she has no boundaries with Hazzel and these men and that won't extend to her and their kids either.
She keeps comparing Dann to Albert when Dann is a grown man twice the age that Albert was. She also seems amazed every time he cooks when again that's a grown man and experienced father. She has very low standards.
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Haylee somehow still thinks she’s above it all because she’s supposedly not getting married again. But she moved in with someone, is acting like she’s parenting his child, and they’re “forever fiancées,” so what is the difference in terms of how it will impact the children?
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Did y'all see her story that one of her recent jobs was serving alcohol at a strip club?
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I can't watch her anymore. So boring, it puts me to sleep....
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Imagine giving your girlfriend of six months a gift with your child from a previous relationship on it. YIKES.jellybean wrote: ↑Mon Oct 21, 2019 8:50 am
She posted that Dannn gave her this necklace with "all the kids birthstones" on it. A mom and three baby birds. I would be pissed if I was Dann's son's real mom, especially from the whore babysitter. That's so irresponsible to have the kids thinking you're a "blended family" so quickly. She learned nothing from Randy, she admitted she moved too quickly with him but then moved even faster with Dann and involved multiple people's children this time.
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Nothing surprises me from her anymore, she could say she was one of the strippers while pregnant and I'd believe it.
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I think the disappointing thing about her is that she knows better than to do half of the things she does. She knows what the responsible decision would be but she doesn't make it. She's basically like "Yeah that's a horrible idea. I'm gonna do it."
She got hammered in public every night and acknowledged that something bad could've happened to her, but she did it anyway.
She said she was going to focus on herself and Hazzel and building their life together without a man, but instead was she sleeping with her employer and got pregnant by him.
She said that it would just be her and Hazzel in the move and that it was way too soon to be living with Dannnn, but then she moved in with him anyway.
I don't think she's innocent at all when it comes to Randy either. She talked a big game about co-parenting and having a great relationship with him but as soon as he had moved on, she went psycho and decided he was suddenly a horrible person. Her mood issues probably cost that little girl her father figure.
She got hammered in public every night and acknowledged that something bad could've happened to her, but she did it anyway.
She said she was going to focus on herself and Hazzel and building their life together without a man, but instead was she sleeping with her employer and got pregnant by him.
She said that it would just be her and Hazzel in the move and that it was way too soon to be living with Dannnn, but then she moved in with him anyway.
I don't think she's innocent at all when it comes to Randy either. She talked a big game about co-parenting and having a great relationship with him but as soon as he had moved on, she went psycho and decided he was suddenly a horrible person. Her mood issues probably cost that little girl her father figure.
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I can’t understand girls or women (I guess) that repeat mistakes that they’ve made so carelessly all over again. Like it was so hard for them the first time, why would they even want to do it again?
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I feel like when it comes to Dustin, Haylee is damned if she does and damned if she don’t. If she didn’t allow Hazzel to refer to Dustin as her “brother” now, then it probably wouldn’t be something that would continue in the future... same with the necklace- if Dan only had Haylee, Hazzel, and Sterling, he’d be excluding his son... regardless if we think that she’s moving too fast, I think it is better to be more inclusive that way no one feels excluded. I imagine it’s hard for both Hazzel and Dustin. Their parents are connected by their baby brother- trying to make it work, meanwhile it’s a whole gray area of space on what’s ok and what isn’t. I think they’re trying to make the best of what it is- trying to be inclusive with the kids so no one is left out.
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I see what you're saying but he should have found a different present to give then lol. It's the equivalent of Haylee giving him a shirt that says "father to Hazzel". I also completely disagree on the brother thing, it would be very easy for her to say that he's like her brother AFTER they've grown up together for years.MysteriousMaiden wrote: ↑Wed Oct 23, 2019 1:59 am I feel like when it comes to Dustin, Haylee is damned if she does and damned if she don’t. If she didn’t allow Hazzel to refer to Dustin as her “brother” now, then it probably wouldn’t be something that would continue in the future... same with the necklace- if Dan only had Haylee, Hazzel, and Sterling, he’d be excluding his son... regardless if we think that she’s moving too fast, I think it is better to be more inclusive that way no one feels excluded. I imagine it’s hard for both Hazzel and Dustin. Their parents are connected by their baby brother- trying to make it work, meanwhile it’s a whole gray area of space on what’s ok and what isn’t. I think they’re trying to make the best of what it is- trying to be inclusive with the kids so no one is left out.
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You're right, she tweeted "why does he get to be happy and I don't?!", then like that same night revealed she was dating Dannn. I wonder if she talked shit about Randy to Hazzel and made her not want to see him again either, or if she wonders why her so-called dad is gone. Or maybe she's settled on Dannn being the latest dad since he lives with her and fathered both of her new brothers. Even if Haylee doesn't let her call him dad, she has Hazzel very much involved with him now. If Haylee felt obligated to force being a family with him for Sterling, she's in even deeper now with Hazzel too.purplemoose wrote: ↑Tue Oct 22, 2019 12:20 pm I don't think she's innocent at all when it comes to Randy either. She talked a big game about co-parenting and having a great relationship with him but as soon as he had moved on, she went psycho and decided he was suddenly a horrible person. Her mood issues probably cost that little girl her father figure.
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I'm wanting to get something with all 3 of our kids' birthstones... my child's, our child's together, and my husband's daughter's. Her mom and I have a good relationship and I don't see it being a problem, but I'm still going to run it by her before I do. I doubt they did that.jellybean wrote: ↑Mon Oct 21, 2019 8:50 am
She posted that Dannn gave her this necklace with "all the kids birthstones" on it. A mom and three baby birds. I would be pissed if I was Dann's son's real mom, especially from the whore babysitter. That's so irresponsible to have the kids thinking you're a "blended family" so quickly. She learned nothing from Randy, she admitted she moved too quickly with him but then moved even faster with Dann and involved multiple people's children this time.
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Yea that’s 100% different than being in a 6 month relationship, which prolly became a “real” relationship bc she got pregnant. If I was only 6 months into a relationship I would not have my child involved. I feel bad for hazel. She will wind up needing so much therapy.Closer wrote: ↑Wed Oct 23, 2019 7:11 pmI'm wanting to get something with all 3 of our kids' birthstones... my child's, our child's together, and my husband's daughter's. Her mom and I have a good relationship and I don't see it being a problem, but I'm still going to run it by her before I do. I doubt they did that.jellybean wrote: ↑Mon Oct 21, 2019 8:50 am
She posted that Dannn gave her this necklace with "all the kids birthstones" on it. A mom and three baby birds. I would be pissed if I was Dann's son's real mom, especially from the whore babysitter. That's so irresponsible to have the kids thinking you're a "blended family" so quickly. She learned nothing from Randy, she admitted she moved too quickly with him but then moved even faster with Dann and involved multiple people's children this time.
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