JesssFam: Breaking Rules and Twerking Fools (Part 134)
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She doesn’t give a damn about their consent. That’s all for the camera. Jessica you dumb bitch they are to young to give consent. They can’t even fully grasp what they’re agreeing to. Their lives and privacy have to be sold on the internet all because their stupid mother is to lazy to get a real job. She’d rather out all the disgusting slutty things she’s done then have to work. Think how disgusted her family must be watching that and how embarrassing this will be for her kids.
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I will say that most parents now do go through kids messages, phones, and social media with good reason. I had an agreement with all 3 of my kids that we were allowed their passwords on social media sites, and that if they changed the password or had different accounts, they lost access to the internet. Our kids are now 17, 20, and 23, and grew up fine with that, as do many kids.Captain Smooth wrote: ↑Wed Oct 23, 2019 6:03 amWhat outrages me so much about her snooping and publishing every little detail is, that she would do at least half of the things, even if Youtube suddenly stopped existing. She still would have cameras in her kids rooms, she would still go through her kids phones, including the messages. Growing up like this is terrible for personality development. Most phones have a safety feature for children, so they can't access certain websites, or functions. Nope, Jess needs to make sure Lilia is EXTRA safe.NarcoelpsyMom wrote: ↑Tue Oct 22, 2019 10:13 pm
The issue isn’t even that the kids feel they can’t say no. It’s more that they don’t understand that there is a choice, or that it isn’t normal to have a camera following them around.
These kids were all raised from day one with a camera in their faces. Every milestone, every embarrassing moment, every celebration, everything is filmed. To those kids, it’s beyond consent, because it’s the same as teaching kids to walk, talk, and put in their shoes. They learned it the same way.
They will probably not fully understand the repercussions to being raised that way until they are adults and everyone they ever meet knows when they lost their teeth, when they bought new shoes, when they went on vacation, when they hit puberty, when they started dating, when they got their hearts broken, when they sucked at math class.
It’s just part of everyday life to them.
I really hope at some point Jessica realizes that lines need to be drawn with what can and is shared- she has mentioned in in videos from time to time, but she goes by what the kids say she can share. Like the texts. It’s normal to Lilia to share everything, so why would she say no? Chris and Jessica need to set out rules for themselves- will not share puberty, will not share our kids in the bathroom in ANY stage of undress, etc. But they won’t.
Also, she looks through her daughters messages for safety? Why? What could a nine year old possibly say in there, that warrents Jess reading it? Is she afraid Lilia will curse? If so, maybe Jess should lead by example, after all children do as you do. What if Lilia talks about a crush to her friend? I wouldn't want my parents to read this.
Jess likely reads our criticism and just scoffs, because she's probably thinking her behaviour is normal. I wonder if Mimi ever did similar things, otherwise I don't understand where Jess got this from.
The reason isn't so much what our kids could have said or done, but what other people could have said or done in accessing them. Sexual predators often portray themselves as younger to befriend kids, and talk to them via social media, etc. Our kids had strong rules about what information they were allowed to talk about- they were not allowed to talk about what city they live in, what age they were, what grade they were in, they were not allowed to give out their phone numbers, home address, last names, etc. It's pretty common place for parents to put rules like this in effect in a digital world. Kids wind up missing fairly often due to circumstances like these.
That said, we never shared what we found, or posted it to the internet for other people. That would have been a violation of their privacy.
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Funny Jessica is preaching about consent when she panned a pregnant behind Gabe and Drakes back without their consent.
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Well said.She loves being lazy.prettyll wrote: ↑Wed Oct 23, 2019 8:56 am She doesn’t give a damn about their consent. That’s all for the camera. Jessica you dumb bitch they are to young to give consent. They can’t even fully grasp what they’re agreeing to. Their lives and privacy have to be sold on the internet all because their stupid mother is to lazy to get a real job. She’d rather out all the disgusting slutty things she’s done then have to work. Think how disgusted her family must be watching that and how embarrassing this will be for her kids.
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I sense a vasectomy reversal coming within the next few years.
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Her newest vlog is “I want ANOTHER baby” PRANK on my husband.
She constantly keeps bringing up that she wants to have another baby, I knew the first day she said she was done she wasn’t. Having a baby gets her more views, plus Addie is getting older so her being on the vlog the most won’t last long.
She constantly keeps bringing up that she wants to have another baby, I knew the first day she said she was done she wasn’t. Having a baby gets her more views, plus Addie is getting older so her being on the vlog the most won’t last long.
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Exactly she’s bringing it up to much it’s not just a joke. Plus think how much views a reversal and new baby would get.Redweasley wrote:Her newest vlog is “I want ANOTHER baby” PRANK on my husband.
She constantly keeps bringing up that she wants to have another baby, I knew the first day she said she was done she wasn’t. Having a baby gets her more views, plus Addie is getting older so her being on the vlog the most won’t last long.
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We get it jesss you want another baby to mooch off of
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If she tries to turn her channel into a prank channel it won't make money. She just doesn't pull off pranks.
I do think shes bringing it up because she doesnt know what to do without a baby and needs the views a baby will bring especially since all of them are in school and its just her and Chris. BaBy AfTeR vAsEcToMy
I do think shes bringing it up because she doesnt know what to do without a baby and needs the views a baby will bring especially since all of them are in school and its just her and Chris. BaBy AfTeR vAsEcToMy
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NarcoelpsyMom wrote:I will say that most parents now do go through kids messages, phones, and social media with good reason. I had an agreement with all 3 of my kids that we were allowed their passwords on social media sites, and that if they changed the password or had different accounts, they lost access to the internet. Our kids are now 17, 20, and 23, and grew up fine with that, as do many kids.Captain Smooth wrote: ↑Wed Oct 23, 2019 6:03 amWhat outrages me so much about her snooping and publishing every little detail is, that she would do at least half of the things, even if Youtube suddenly stopped existing. She still would have cameras in her kids rooms, she would still go through her kids phones, including the messages. Growing up like this is terrible for personality development. Most phones have a safety feature for children, so they can't access certain websites, or functions. Nope, Jess needs to make sure Lilia is EXTRA safe.NarcoelpsyMom wrote: ↑Tue Oct 22, 2019 10:13 pm
The issue isn’t even that the kids feel they can’t say no. It’s more that they don’t understand that there is a choice, or that it isn’t normal to have a camera following them around.
These kids were all raised from day one with a camera in their faces. Every milestone, every embarrassing moment, every celebration, everything is filmed. To those kids, it’s beyond consent, because it’s the same as teaching kids to walk, talk, and put in their shoes. They learned it the same way.
They will probably not fully understand the repercussions to being raised that way until they are adults and everyone they ever meet knows when they lost their teeth, when they bought new shoes, when they went on vacation, when they hit puberty, when they started dating, when they got their hearts broken, when they sucked at math class.
It’s just part of everyday life to them.
I really hope at some point Jessica realizes that lines need to be drawn with what can and is shared- she has mentioned in in videos from time to time, but she goes by what the kids say she can share. Like the texts. It’s normal to Lilia to share everything, so why would she say no? Chris and Jessica need to set out rules for themselves- will not share puberty, will not share our kids in the bathroom in ANY stage of undress, etc. But they won’t.
Also, she looks through her daughters messages for safety? Why? What could a nine year old possibly say in there, that warrents Jess reading it? Is she afraid Lilia will curse? If so, maybe Jess should lead by example, after all children do as you do. What if Lilia talks about a crush to her friend? I wouldn't want my parents to read this.
Jess likely reads our criticism and just scoffs, because she's probably thinking her behaviour is normal. I wonder if Mimi ever did similar things, otherwise I don't understand where Jess got this from.
The reason isn't so much what our kids could have said or done, but what other people could have said or done in accessing them. Sexual predators often portray themselves as younger to befriend kids, and talk to them via social media, etc. Our kids had strong rules about what information they were allowed to talk about- they were not allowed to talk about what city they live in, what age they were, what grade they were in, they were not allowed to give out their phone numbers, home address, last names, etc. It's pretty common place for parents to put rules like this in effect in a digital world. Kids wind up missing fairly often due to circumstances like these.
That said, we never shared what we found, or posted it to the internet for other people. That would have been a violation of their privacy.
We have very similar rules.
I trust my children explicitly. However I do not trust random people.
I’m lucky in the sense that my kids will come to me and say “this situation happened, it made me feel uncomfortable so I did what you taught me and bailed”. Both in person and online. I don’t check their messages because I trust that they will continue to tell me if something is wrong/off/not ok.
But Lilia is 9. Has Messss taught her what to do if something like that happens?
I find it odd she needs to check her messages when according to Messs, she only messages family and close friends on the kids messenger app. Is she afraid Lilia is telling people what goes on? Or does Lila have free access? She made a comment about “so and so added me in that chat”. So it doesn’t seem very restricted.
Also note; I’m aware that most abuse happens within the family/friend circle.
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I watch YT videos here when I don't want to give the views: https://invidio.us/search?q=jesssfamCandyheart wrote: ↑Tue Oct 22, 2019 12:02 pm Is there a place where we can watch youtubers and not give them veiws?
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Why did she wear those gross shorts? Why did she do that awkward kick and show the whole room her cavernous vagina?
God just go away ..
Also the consent talk... did you see the self important and smug “I’m a perfect mom” look on her face as that was happening?
God just go away ..
Also the consent talk... did you see the self important and smug “I’m a perfect mom” look on her face as that was happening?
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I’m so happy that Chris was genuinely horrified by Jess’ suggestion to have another baby.
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It is genuinely concerning to me that they had a vasectomy and do not know that he does indeed still produce sperm.
The vasectomy simply cuts off that exit out of the body. Did his doctor really not explain this to them?
The vasectomy simply cuts off that exit out of the body. Did his doctor really not explain this to them?
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I thought Chris wanted another one and Jesss was pushing for the vasectomy? I'm wondering why he changed his mind. It's not like they actually care for their children. Texas Roadhouse and some random friend/grandma picks up the slack.
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bella3987 wrote:It is genuinely concerning to me that they had a vasectomy and do not know that he does indeed still produce sperm.
The vasectomy simply cuts off that exit out of the body. Did his doctor really not explain this to them?
I think they’re just that dumb.
Messss strikes me as the type think you’ve only got one “hole” in your vagina.
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I think Chris knew but maybe was taking her serious (she does mention it all the time) and he knows she's not that smart so he played along. Plus I don't blame him for not wanting a reversal and then going through it again.
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I thought he was just trying to get out of the vasectomy, not actually wanting another one.mayhemmomof5 wrote: ↑Wed Oct 23, 2019 8:41 pm I thought Chris wanted another one and Jesss was pushing for the vasectomy? I'm wondering why he changed his mind. It's not like they actually care for their children. Texas Roadhouse and some random friend/grandma picks up the slack.
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I’m totally okay and 100% think parents should have access to what their kids are saying/doing online to keep them safe.
However sharing, posting and discussing it the way Jess does is not okay. Go on their devices and accounts, make sure their safe and leave it at that. But of course that stuff doesn’t bring in clicks.
Even at lilias young age it’s shocking what kids so young learn from their peers at school/daycare.
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However sharing, posting and discussing it the way Jess does is not okay. Go on their devices and accounts, make sure their safe and leave it at that. But of course that stuff doesn’t bring in clicks.
Even at lilias young age it’s shocking what kids so young learn from their peers at school/daycare.
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