Brittani Boren Leach: Part Four
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It’s speculation but someone mentioned Aaryn doesn’t like any of Brittani’s post anymore, since the funeral - I wonder if Brittani had a hard time acting like she was appropriately grieving at the funeral and it’s caught people’s attention enough to put them off of her?
I defended her to start with but - yikes. Her behavior is bizarre. It’s nowhere near what you’d expect from a grieving mother. She can barely drag herself out of bed, but she’s always able to get on IG with her hair and makeup done?
I defended her to start with but - yikes. Her behavior is bizarre. It’s nowhere near what you’d expect from a grieving mother. She can barely drag herself out of bed, but she’s always able to get on IG with her hair and makeup done?
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I never knew who BBL was until I heard Brianna K mention her and asking for prayers. So I went to IG and found her page. Immediately I wondered wth was wrong with this woman because in my opinion she gave up on Crew too soon. Granted I don’t know how he passed but she said he had swelling in his brain and irreversible brain damage. Less than 24 hours later she’s donating his organs and saying bye. I’m sorry but if that was my child I would not have given up so quickly. I would want a second and third opinion. I would want to see if things changed after the swelling went down, I would have kept my ass off of social media and would be having serious discussions with God, every specialist in the world, and selling my soul to the devil anything to save his life. To me she couldn’t get out of this situation and being his mom fast enough. Secondly, for someone who pretends to be so religious and righteous she sure does a lot of bragging, boasting and unchristian like actions (being mean to your haters, being money hungry, not being honest). I don’t trust this “lady” any farther than I can throw her.
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"WHO'S CREW?"kabuki wrote: ↑Thu Feb 06, 2020 7:13 pmShe didn’t cremate him. Remember the post where she said she buried him in a gown made from her wedding dress I wonder if she has visited his grave...? I don’t think being close to him matters to her sadly...skippy1931 wrote: ↑Thu Feb 06, 2020 6:45 pm I hope he is cremated because years later I couldn't move away from where my daughter is buried let alone what 3 months later maybe my life would completely shatter all over again
Who cares how close her son is it’s all about her fav target....
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Ik we all have our opinions on this thread about Brit, but just reading stories from other moms that have suffered loss makes us moms that have suffered in silence know we aren’t alone. You all are in my prayers I think that’s why I have such strong feelings about Brit and how IMO she’s not grieving but rather enjoying this new found fame, money etc. it’s as if she’s moved on and nothing will stop her. SheS happy, giddy, playful with her hair “hehehe”. She doesn’t mention Crew, it’s all about Brit, and what Brit wants, down to a damn swipe up for a tye dye hoodie. Unbelievable.
We mention Crew here more then his own mom does. And that is a travesty.
We mention Crew here more then his own mom does. And that is a travesty.
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I feel so bad for Crew.... he just wanted to be held all the time now he’s alone in a casket... while his mom goes to target and moves away from him. I should stop looking at her stuff.. it’s really upsetting
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Long time lurker/reader... will someone send me the link to the 1st house. I have found her current house and the other house they looked at but I can’t find the one they put a offer on. I see one that I think it might be and it says pending as of 2/4. I’m not real sure that one is the correct one.
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Imagine your baby just dying and your biggest concern in life is how far away the Target store is?
After that repulsive disregard for her dead baby there should not be 1 person who doesn't feel like this bozoo needs to be shot and pissed on. What a sin. That poor little baby.
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"God has a bigger plan for me" sorry to say but I think it's the other one who has a big plan for you.... sicko with that annoying stance she does with her big ass feet. I do think she is on xanax though. It made my soul go numb and you tend to think you're hot shit when you're on it...
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If you really need Xanax it does not affect you the same way as someone who’s taking it to get high off of it. I had an extremely traumatic thing happen to me and was on Xanax for a few years. I never felt numb and like hot shit because of it, because I wasn’t abusing it. However, if Brittani isn’t as upset as the doctors think she is, and she’s on quite a high dosage than it can be causing her to get high off it.Courtneyshayne wrote:"God has a bigger plan for me" sorry to say but I think it's the other one who has a big plan for you.... sicko with that annoying stance she does with her big ass feet. I do think she is on xanax though. It made my soul go numb and you tend to think you're hot shit when you're on it...
The way she’s acting isn’t like a high person though. She would be extremely drowsy and sleeping all day long, not out shopping at target and house hunting like she has ants in her pants. Xanax is not an excuse for how she’s acting at all. The antidepressants might be causing her to act manically though, maybe she’s having a bad reaction to being on a few different medications.
And to all the loss moms on this thread, I have been tearing up reading your posts. Please do not look at Brittani looking “perfect” and think that there’s something wrong with you for still finding it hard to go on. You all are the normal ones, she is not.
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If you don’t have extra cash on hand to pay for an emergency, then don’t move into a bigger house. Stay put, save up 6 months worth of living expenses & set up an emergency fund (10k minimum).h 25 l wrote:I'm not going to argue, but I shop at Target sometimes for new clothes and we just paid someone to paint our house because we are getting ready to list it and plan to move into a bigger house and if God forbid something like that happened to my family we would not have the cash to pay for our insurance deductible, extra stuff the insurance doesn't cover, funeral or burial expenses. I can't speak for everyone, but most people don't plan for that stuff.Andielina0984 wrote: ↑Thu Feb 06, 2020 9:07 amI’ve stated this before. She needed money cuz she couldn’t afford medical care, then she don’t got money to buy shit from target. Well if you can’t even pay your son’s health cost then why do you have money to shop, do your floors and redecorate and buy expensive breast milk jewelry? Her mother paid for his casket so where’s the money? The moment his organs became open for donation the hospital covered the cost from then on which means they were only responsible for two days, which again, most hospital will pardon the cost due to the donation. And he most likely met the deductible anyhow.h 25 l wrote:Investigate her for what exactly?? Finishing stuff in her house that she started months ago to list it? Moving in to a bigger house that she has talked about for months? Buying a tie die hoodie from Target?
I get the way she's been acting has been questionable for someone who list their baby a month ago, but come on. She's not out buying a new car and going on vacations.
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Well I was abusing it and it gave me energy & made me want to shop and spend non stop.LexiRae wrote: ↑Thu Feb 06, 2020 10:03 pmIf you really need Xanax it does not affect you the same way as someone who’s taking it to get high off of it. I had an extremely traumatic thing happen to me and was on Xanax for a few years. I never felt numb and like hot shit because of it, because I wasn’t abusing it. However, if Brittani isn’t as upset as the doctors think she is, and she’s on quite a high dosage than it can be causing her to get high off it.Courtneyshayne wrote:"God has a bigger plan for me" sorry to say but I think it's the other one who has a big plan for you.... sicko with that annoying stance she does with her big ass feet. I do think she is on xanax though. It made my soul go numb and you tend to think you're hot shit when you're on it...
The way she’s acting isn’t like a high person though. She would be extremely drowsy and sleeping all day long, not out shopping at target and house hunting like she has ants in her pants. Xanax is not an excuse for how she’s acting at all. The antidepressants might be causing her to act manically though, maybe she’s having a bad reaction to being on a few different medications.
And to all the loss moms on this thread, I have been tearing up reading your posts. Please do not look at Brittani looking “perfect” and think that there’s something wrong with you for still finding it hard to go on. You all are the normal ones, she is not.
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Can someone give me a hint or a PM as to where I can find the house links? Please!
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Were you on anything else with it? Your reaction sounds more like blow or something lolCourtneyshayne wrote:Well I was abusing it and it gave me energy & made me want to shop and spend non stop.LexiRae wrote: ↑Thu Feb 06, 2020 10:03 pmIf you really need Xanax it does not affect you the same way as someone who’s taking it to get high off of it. I had an extremely traumatic thing happen to me and was on Xanax for a few years. I never felt numb and like hot shit because of it, because I wasn’t abusing it. However, if Brittani isn’t as upset as the doctors think she is, and she’s on quite a high dosage than it can be causing her to get high off it.Courtneyshayne wrote:"God has a bigger plan for me" sorry to say but I think it's the other one who has a big plan for you.... sicko with that annoying stance she does with her big ass feet. I do think she is on xanax though. It made my soul go numb and you tend to think you're hot shit when you're on it...
The way she’s acting isn’t like a high person though. She would be extremely drowsy and sleeping all day long, not out shopping at target and house hunting like she has ants in her pants. Xanax is not an excuse for how she’s acting at all. The antidepressants might be causing her to act manically though, maybe she’s having a bad reaction to being on a few different medications.
And to all the loss moms on this thread, I have been tearing up reading your posts. Please do not look at Brittani looking “perfect” and think that there’s something wrong with you for still finding it hard to go on. You all are the normal ones, she is not.
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Her story on burying the religious figure to sell their house. How can a mother who just buried her child stand to bury anything in the ground right now? She is sooo detached.
It’s also odd she doesn’t care about making a drastic change for the kids, switching homes and schools, after they’ve just been through trauma.
It’s also odd she doesn’t care about making a drastic change for the kids, switching homes and schools, after they’ve just been through trauma.
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Thank you I’m slowly getting back to my normal self...a new normal though. I realised I’ll always feel like a piece of me is missing, but I’ve come to accept that.LonelyTown wrote:I’m so sorry for your lossokstupid wrote: ↑Thu Feb 06, 2020 1:45 pm I rarely ever post. I’m more of a longtime lurker on here and guru gossip. So hi everyone!
I had to comment after her most recent story about how far Target is from her new house. Like WTF!?? I’m in complete disbelief how this girl is acting after losing her baby only a month ago. I didn’t know who she was before this happened so I don’t know what she was like before. I’m just in shock how happy and giddy a person can be ONE month after losing their baby.
I had a second trimester miscarriage a few months ago. It was my first pregnancy, and I had just found out she was a girl. For the first month, I experienced the most sadness I’ve ever felt. I had someone tell me they could see the sadness in my eyes. I felt this deep sadness no matter where I was or what I did. This was for a baby I never even held. Even now, I still have nights where I cry.
When I’m sad or anxious, I tend to shop and organise. I reorganised my bathroom probably 10 times in the first two weeks after my miscarriage. So I get that staying busy can be a way to handle grief. But no matter what I did or where I was, I felt this deep sadness.
I don’t see any sadness in Brittani’s eyes. I see a happy, giddy girl. It seems like it’s genuine happiness and not her trying to be happy to cover up her grief. I don’t understand how she can be so happy after burying her baby. It makes no sense to me.
The theory I have is that she suffered from PPD and never formed a bond with Crew. That’s the only thing that would explain why she’s acting the way she is.
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That isn’t how Xanax works. I knew someone who was abusing it and they were in a constant stupor and sleeping all the time. I don’t think Britt is on Xanax. An antidepressant maybe for sure, but not Xanax. Either way her behavior is weird for a grieving mom. Super odd.Courtneyshayne wrote: ↑Thu Feb 06, 2020 10:28 pmWell I was abusing it and it gave me energy & made me want to shop and spend non stop.LexiRae wrote: ↑Thu Feb 06, 2020 10:03 pmIf you really need Xanax it does not affect you the same way as someone who’s taking it to get high off of it. I had an extremely traumatic thing happen to me and was on Xanax for a few years. I never felt numb and like hot shit because of it, because I wasn’t abusing it. However, if Brittani isn’t as upset as the doctors think she is, and she’s on quite a high dosage than it can be causing her to get high off it.Courtneyshayne wrote:"God has a bigger plan for me" sorry to say but I think it's the other one who has a big plan for you.... sicko with that annoying stance she does with her big ass feet. I do think she is on xanax though. It made my soul go numb and you tend to think you're hot shit when you're on it...
The way she’s acting isn’t like a high person though. She would be extremely drowsy and sleeping all day long, not out shopping at target and house hunting like she has ants in her pants. Xanax is not an excuse for how she’s acting at all. The antidepressants might be causing her to act manically though, maybe she’s having a bad reaction to being on a few different medications.
And to all the loss moms on this thread, I have been tearing up reading your posts. Please do not look at Brittani looking “perfect” and think that there’s something wrong with you for still finding it hard to go on. You all are the normal ones, she is not.
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That isn’t how Xanax works. I knew someone who was abusing it and they were in a constant stupor and sleeping all the time. I don’t think Britt is on Xanax. An antidepressant maybe for sure, but not Xanax. Either way her behavior is weird for a grieving mom. Super odd.Courtneyshayne wrote: ↑Thu Feb 06, 2020 10:28 pmWell I was abusing it and it gave me energy & made me want to shop and spend non stop.LexiRae wrote: ↑Thu Feb 06, 2020 10:03 pmIf you really need Xanax it does not affect you the same way as someone who’s taking it to get high off of it. I had an extremely traumatic thing happen to me and was on Xanax for a few years. I never felt numb and like hot shit because of it, because I wasn’t abusing it. However, if Brittani isn’t as upset as the doctors think she is, and she’s on quite a high dosage than it can be causing her to get high off it.Courtneyshayne wrote:"God has a bigger plan for me" sorry to say but I think it's the other one who has a big plan for you.... sicko with that annoying stance she does with her big ass feet. I do think she is on xanax though. It made my soul go numb and you tend to think you're hot shit when you're on it...
The way she’s acting isn’t like a high person though. She would be extremely drowsy and sleeping all day long, not out shopping at target and house hunting like she has ants in her pants. Xanax is not an excuse for how she’s acting at all. The antidepressants might be causing her to act manically though, maybe she’s having a bad reaction to being on a few different medications.
And to all the loss moms on this thread, I have been tearing up reading your posts. Please do not look at Brittani looking “perfect” and think that there’s something wrong with you for still finding it hard to go on. You all are the normal ones, she is not.
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Xanax isn’t an upper. It’s a benzodiazepine. It doesn’t generally have a different effect on you if you’re using it for a different reason. I do think she has been given a prescription for some sort of benzodiazepine but I highly doubt that’s what’s causing this behavior.
It’s far more likely she’s been given a different antidepressant and either Crew’s death triggered a manic episode or the antidepressant did. Antidepressants sometimes need to be balanced out with a mood stabilizer.
I don’t think this behavior is indicative of her being happy her child is dead. I think she needs help. I think she’ll have a pretty hard come down from this manic episode and it’ll be really, really bad.
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It’s far more likely she’s been given a different antidepressant and either Crew’s death triggered a manic episode or the antidepressant did. Antidepressants sometimes need to be balanced out with a mood stabilizer.
I don’t think this behavior is indicative of her being happy her child is dead. I think she needs help. I think she’ll have a pretty hard come down from this manic episode and it’ll be really, really bad.
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I take antidepressants and xanax since the death of my special needs baby years ago they dont make me act anything like Brittani is . I think she is on something else like an Opiod( Ive seen a lot of people in my life abuse them /snort them, they make you happy and high) Just my opinionLonelyTown wrote: ↑Fri Feb 07, 2020 3:14 amThat isn’t how Xanax works. I knew someone who was abusing it and they were in a constant stupor and sleeping all the time. I don’t think Britt is on Xanax. An antidepressant maybe for sure, but not Xanax. Either way her behavior is weird for a grieving mom. Super odd.Courtneyshayne wrote: ↑Thu Feb 06, 2020 10:28 pmWell I was abusing it and it gave me energy & made me want to shop and spend non stop.LexiRae wrote: ↑Thu Feb 06, 2020 10:03 pm
If you really need Xanax it does not affect you the same way as someone who’s taking it to get high off of it. I had an extremely traumatic thing happen to me and was on Xanax for a few years. I never felt numb and like hot shit because of it, because I wasn’t abusing it. However, if Brittani isn’t as upset as the doctors think she is, and she’s on quite a high dosage than it can be causing her to get high off it.
The way she’s acting isn’t like a high person though. She would be extremely drowsy and sleeping all day long, not out shopping at target and house hunting like she has ants in her pants. Xanax is not an excuse for how she’s acting at all. The antidepressants might be causing her to act manically though, maybe she’s having a bad reaction to being on a few different medications.
And to all the loss moms on this thread, I have been tearing up reading your posts. Please do not look at Brittani looking “perfect” and think that there’s something wrong with you for still finding it hard to go on. You all are the normal ones, she is not.
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So sorry for you loss. I am loving hearing from "real" moms who have lost a child. It just shows how whacked Brittani really is.Nothankyou wrote: ↑Thu Feb 06, 2020 7:33 pmUgh yes. I would have wanted to punch someone in the face one month after losing my daughter if they said that to me. I still hate the phrase 4 and 1/2 years later.Mom2liml wrote:OH- and the “everything happens for a reason” comment really really rubbed me the wrong way.
I used to say that all the time- UNTIL MY CHILD DIED. Cause I can’t think of a reason that had to happen. That’s not for me to know in this lifetime but I can’t bring myself to use that phrase.
Also, I can’t believe she’s moving so soon. I understand that house is small for their family size, but still. My family moved across country this past summer for a military transfer and I cried several times about leaving our home and that area. I had a pregnancy loss at 6 months, so I felt like I had to little to remember her by and it felt like I was leaving some of her behind by leaving that area. And here’s Brittani ready to move to a new house one month later.
One month after my loss, it felt like everything was standing still. I couldn’t plan my future, make any goals. I had these horrible puffy eyes from all the crying I did. I didn’t spend all my days in bed because I couldn’t, I had a 2 year old to talk care of, but I was crushed and it was so evident. Meanwhile, Brittani is focusing on superficial crap like how far her “favorite” Target is. She has absolutely no perspective.
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