BritneyAndBoring: Living Our Best (Sponsored) Life! (Part 71)

[Amelia322]

Oh and the “getting emotional” was her trying so hard to pretend to “be emotional” lmfaoooo it didn’t happen.


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[stnalp]

The way she describes depression is like someone who has had periods where they are not happy with their current situation and not at all like an actual black fog of depression. I find it insulting to anyone that struggles with depression to imply that she apparently made a small change, didn’t work on any issues, didn’t address any of her problems, and it just simply went away easily!! (She is so so lucky that she doesn’t "steal dill" with depression any more guys! whew!)

I don’t feel sorry for her because she has said all this shit before. When she moved out with Ean, I was all for and about the idea of her working on herself and learning to love herself and figure herself out. That translated, for Brit, though, to getting knocked up and going on a world-wind of bullshit and bad choices. She admits that she has known about all these issues since before she had kids but chose to keep having them and chose not to get her ass into therapy to work on this while she was still with Ean, which might have been able to save their relationship. Why in the world has she gone all this time and never even tried to work on anything and now all of a sudden she is magically able to work on all this stuff (with some weird eye movement therapy at that)? She said the New Year didn’t start the way she wanted it to. I think something must have happened for her to suddenly be all about "fixing herself and her volcanic issues"

Also, how can she actually love frank if she still doesn’t know who she is and what she wants or how to love herself? What does that say about frank that he claims he is in love with someone who apparently has a ton of unworked through issues and doesn’t know who they even are?

I really find the one line from her telling "..and come out the other side a better person NOT THAT I AM NOT ALREADY A BETTER PERSON!" just like when she says shit like she wants to be more real or honest, not that she has ever been anything other than real and honest! Her level of idiocy and or denial blows my mind

[lazydazey]

The way she describes depression is like someone who has had periods where they are not happy with their current situation and not at all like an actual black fog of depression. I find it insulting to anyone that struggles with depression to imply that she apparently made a small change, didn’t work on any issues, didn’t address any of her problems, and it just simply went away easily!! (She is so so lucky that she doesn’t "steal dill" with depression any more guys! whew!)

I don’t feel sorry for her because she has said all this shit before. When she moved out with Ean, I was all for and about the idea of her working on herself and learning to love herself and figure herself out. That translated, for Brit, though, to getting knocked up and going on a world-wind of bullshit and bad choices. She admits that she has known about all these issues since before she had kids but chose to keep having them and chose not to get her ass into therapy to work on this while she was still with Ean, which might have been able to save their relationship. Why in the world has she gone all this time and never even tried to work on anything and now all of a sudden she is magically able to work on all this stuff (with some weird eye movement therapy at that)? She said the New Year didn’t start the way she wanted it to. I think something must have happened for her to suddenly be all about "fixing herself and her volcanic issues"

Also, how can she actually love frank if she still doesn’t know who she is and what she wants or how to love herself? What does that say about frank that he claims he is in love with someone who apparently has a ton of unworked through issues and doesn’t know who they even are?

I really find the one line from her telling "..and come out the other side a better person NOT THAT I AM NOT ALREADY A BETTER PERSON!" just like when she says shit like she wants to be more real or honest, not that she has ever been anything other than real and honest! Her level of idiocy and or denial blows my mind

She has no clue what real depression is. I unfortunately have it and agree all shes speaking of is feeling upset about her poor choices.
She has never dealt with the issues with her family, Ean, and Nolan's diagnosis. That is her problem. She chooses not to give herself time between traumas and she is doing the same thing to her kids!
She has never loved Frank, she loved Ean. She needs to work through her attachment and dependency issues (isn't that what katie from cullen and Katie has? That's what Brit needs to work through.)

I can't even feel bad for her. Brit, you made these decisions, you did this crap to yourself!

She knows she is an awful person. You don't preach that you're real if you're real, lol. Unless you are drunk, haha.
Speaking of, have we seen alcohol in her instas or fridge recently?

[Lady6]

I was coming to say the same thing about her understanding of depression! Like we all feel shit in a shit situation lol. That's a normal response. Depression is incomparable. It literally ruins peoples lives.

[dazzled]

It's funny how she blamed everything on Ean and their relationship and now that she's with Freenk apparently everything's still not magically rainbows and butterflies.

[js2013]

It was odd when she said her subconscious remembers trauma and so does her body.. wth does that mean.


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Lady Gaga developed fibromyalgia because she was r*ped. She just recently did a thing with Oprah talking about the physical effects of trauma. I think that's what Britney means.

I took it as she might startle easy...flinch when touched unexpectedly...not like to be cuddled/hugged.

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[Coletrain_04]

Trauma not only has mental affects, but also physical affects.

If you’re interested in learning more you can search ACEs (adverse childhood experience score) and physical affects of trauma.

There are a lot of graphics that give a quick snap shot.

[Hatethefakeones]

All of a sudden she is an expert on depresion. All for views. She has no depresion people. Depresion doesn’t work the way she described it. She is just using that for her channel. Probably Ean got a gf and she is pissed lol. That’s all.


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[stnalp]

I dont really see much of a huge difference in her life. In fact, I found her to be slightly better spoken and slightly more consistent when she was Ean verses now. I guess Frank must be messed up (no healthy, well adjusted guy looks to hook up with a frazzled single mother in her early 20s with no idea who she is or wants to be). I cant imagine having married someone who shared all by faults and didnt help me to be better or grow. Frank just seems to support all her bad habits and is ok with her being lazy in almost every area and that must be the only way he seemed better compared to Ean who seemed to want to grow as a person and try to be better (which is what she claims now she is trying to suddenly do) so maybe she really is realizing how badly she has messed up.

[olemama]

Britney is unhappy. She was unhappy when she was with Ean and now she is unhappy with Frank. And much of her unhappiness seems to stem from negative childhood experiences. (Her sister, Alyssa, has also alluded to this in her videos.) Well, at least she is talking to a therapist. Hopefully she will realize the path to peace and happiness does not involve having more children.

[Lalalilylove]

All of a sudden she is an expert on depresion. All for views. She has no depresion people. Depresion doesn’t work the way she described it. She is just using that for her channel. Probably Ean got a gf and she is pissed lol. That’s all.


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True - postpartum depression can come and go with births but
Not in the way she described. It doesn’t just go away because you leave the fiancé who wouldn’t marry you fast enough or build a house with you. That’s not sepression. That is narcissism.

[Resting_Bitch_Face]

It's funny how she blamed everything on Ean and their relationship and now that she's with Freenk apparently everything's still not magically rainbows and butterflies.

This!!!!!!

She lives her best life all the time but the moment things get a little real she wants to throw her “depression” around for sympathy. This ungrateful twat gets to sit in her ass and make more money in a few months than real hard working ppl w/ real jobs will make in a whole year. She gets clothes, baby gear, makeup, electronics etc sent to her for free AND she makes bank just to promote it on her IG AND makes more money when ppl use her promo codes.

She needs to put her big girl panties on, get her head out of her ass & grow the fuck up because if she can’t handle whatever mini drama she’s got going on, how is she gonna handle life when Nolan fully declines. What’s she gonna do when he needs help for every single thing & be on top of Scarlett’s allergy’s, the housework, youtube, sponsorships, the kids?

[DoodleBop2]

When this fails it will be Frenk's fault. So many women on YouTube do this. The knight in shining armor becomes the Villian and then they're on to finding the next dude.

[luci417]

I dont really see much of a huge difference in her life. In fact, I found her to be slightly better spoken and slightly more consistent when she was Ean verses now. I guess Frank must be messed up (no healthy, well adjusted guy looks to hook up with a frazzled single mother in her early 20s with no idea who she is or wants to be). I cant imagine having married someone who shared all by faults and didnt help me to be better or grow. Frank just seems to support all her bad habits and is ok with her being lazy in almost every area and that must be the only way he seemed better compared to Ean who seemed to want to grow as a person and try to be better (which is what she claims now she is trying to suddenly do) so maybe she really is realizing how badly she has messed up.

Ugh honestly I kind of relate - I went through a period of bad mental health in college which led me to date someone who didn't have much motivation to do anything in life which just suckered me into this black hole of not having a social life, a job, or trying to help myself get better. If Britney had good mental health, close friends, and a handle on raising her kids and doing her job she wouldn't have chosen frank. she just clung to him because anyone is better than no one to some people.

[flightlessbird]

The problem is that she thinks unhappy=depression. Maybe she does have something going on like a personality disorder that she developed from childhood trauma, but depression doesn't go away when you leave one boyfriend and get into another relationship. You can be unhappy in a situation or relationship but that doesn't mean you're automatically depressed.

[LilSeb1010]

The problem is that she thinks unhappy=depression. Maybe she does have something going on like a personality disorder that she developed from childhood trauma, but depression doesn't go away when you leave one boyfriend and get into another relationship. You can be unhappy in a situation or relationship but that doesn't mean you're automatically depressed.

This! She was talking in this video like since she’s with Frank now she can’t possibly be depressed which... makes me feel like she never actually had depression or doesn’t understand it at all. It’s literally a chemical imbalance in your brain. Yes certain things can trigger or exacerbate it, but you can have a perfect relationship and family situation and still be depressed.

I don’t like how she acts like you can magically make your depression go away if you uproot your entire life. Most people only improve with medication.


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[stnalp]

Yep. It is an insult to anyone with depression to imply that it is simply based on life situation or partner etc. She reminds me of people who used to tell me as a teenager that I needed to just make an active choice to be happy instead of choosing to be sad as if it were some kind of simple choice you could just wake up and make from one day to the next. That always made me even worse cause I would try so hard but never seemed to just will myself to be happy.

[WheresMyCoffee]

I dont really see much of a huge difference in her life. In fact, I found her to be slightly better spoken and slightly more consistent when she was Ean verses now. I guess Frank must be messed up (no healthy, well adjusted guy looks to hook up with a frazzled single mother in her early 20s with no idea who she is or wants to be). I cant imagine having married someone who shared all by faults and didnt help me to be better or grow. Frank just seems to support all her bad habits and is ok with her being lazy in almost every area and that must be the only way he seemed better compared to Ean who seemed to want to grow as a person and try to be better (which is what she claims now she is trying to suddenly do) so maybe she really is realizing how badly she has messed up.

Ugh honestly I kind of relate - I went through a period of bad mental health in college which led me to date someone who didn't have much motivation to do anything in life which just suckered me into this black hole of not having a social life, a job, or trying to help myself get better. If Britney had good mental health, close friends, and a handle on raising her kids and doing her job she wouldn't have chosen frank. she just clung to him because anyone is better than no one to some people.

I get this, but what exactly is Britney bringing to the table? I mean, atleast Frank had a meaningful job. Britneys goal when pregnant with Aria was to live with Eans grandma and be on welfare. She was very lucky to start her youtube channel when she before it was over saturated with content. She has NEVER held a job where she had scheduld hours, a boss, co-workers etc... She has never had a steady, longer term relationship with anyone in her life but Alyssa. Not even her parents, grandparents or any friends have been consistent in her life. I have never, as an adult, "broken up" with a friend... sure I have grown apart from people but she had some weird issue with the other Brittany, Vanessa and now Dani. Dani and Britne easily could have just started hanging out less because the both are busy and have babies the fact that they actually cut eachother out tells you something actually happend. The fact of the matter is all signs point to Britney not being a good person. Say what you will about Jesssfam but she has a group of people around her who clearly love and adore her and she has long term relationships with people, even her fucking baby daddy. Britney may be fucked up because of childhood trauma but at what point do ou stop being the victim and do you start to take control of your life and get help? and that doesnt mean making a vague brits bew.

[chloe6124]

It sure feels like she is getting bored with Frank. She started acting the same way before she left Ean. I still think it is possible Ean is the one that broke it off with her.


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[131618]

She is depressed, she doesn't have depression. I could see it either being A- she's realizing Frank was a mistake (since Ean has a GF (according to his parent's Facebook)), B- she's in a lull where there's nothing to look forward to. They've got the house, the fancy cars, the sponsorships....now what. Or C- Nolan is starting to decline and combined with Scarlett's issues she's finally realizing she's in over her head (bonus points if this is all happening while she's pregnant and either is anxiously awaiting the gender info or knows its a boy)
This is totally a cyclical problem with her so whenever she's unhappy she whips it out. Based on what we've seen in other peoples videos of them, she's seemed for a while to react very strangely around Frank which could easily be leading to arguments...pity she couldn't take a breath before she got herself knocked up with a stranget

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