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^ In this case Joan was gifting her own progesterone to another woman who had just conceived from IVF so at least she did something to give back to other IVF moms. But I agree with the rest of your post. She is super insensitive and obsessive about hearing Maeve's name at any cost.
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fossilfinger wrote:^ In this case Joan was gifting her own progesterone to another woman who had just conceived from IVF so at least she did something to give back to other IVF moms. But I agree with the rest of your post. She is super insensitive and obsessive about hearing Maeve's name at any cost.

Oh that’s good! In Joan’s long (and ever dramatic) windedness I guess I read the first part, caught her usual “woe is me” tone, rolled my eyes and failed to read the rest.

Glad she did something for someone else for once, though I think her post could have been A LOT simpler.


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Using Maeve’s name at Starbucks is beyond weird.... her family needs to address her mental health. This isn’t healthy


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SassySassenach wrote:Using Maeve’s name at Starbucks is beyond weird.... her family needs to address her mental health. This isn’t healthy


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Yeah, that "cheers for hearing Maeve's name called out loud" bit was weird AF. As was taking Vera along to give someone her progesterone when she likely had no idea what losses the other woman had gone through.
She really yammered on for a while before making her point. I think it's great that she passed her meds on to someone else, but jeez she really went on for a while me me me before she got to her point.

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anyone else get joan vibes from this?
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aly wrote:anyone else get joan vibes from this?
Wow, just wow. I fear for Vera, this is Joan all over.
Where was that from? It'd be interesting to see what the replies were.

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“I got a little choked up when the woman asked me if Vee Vee was ivf. I smiled and said I also had a lot of loss in my life before ivf finally worked for me.”

Of course you did, Joan.

Of. Course. You. Did.

I’m sorry, putting Maeve’s name in for her order shows she needs some serious grief counseling and likely medication. I miss my daughters. I miss them every day, every second. But I can’t fathom going into Starbucks and giving their names just to hear them called.



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FlowersTar 68 wrote:
Tue Feb 11, 2020 12:18 am
aly wrote:anyone else get joan vibes from this?
Wow, just wow. I fear for Vera, this is Joan all over.
Where was that from? It'd be interesting to see what the replies were.

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Reddit AITA! The response was overwhelming in favor of the OP. Here's the post for anyone interested
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aly wrote:
FlowersTar 68 wrote:
Tue Feb 11, 2020 12:18 am
aly wrote:anyone else get joan vibes from this?
Wow, just wow. I fear for Vera, this is Joan all over.
Where was that from? It'd be interesting to see what the replies were.

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Reddit AITA! The response was overwhelming in favor of the OP. Here's the post for anyone interested
Wow!! That is scarily similar....hope she gets some legit help so Vera won't face the same fate when she's that age

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This is sad, Joan's just posted this. From what I can gather, this family had a stillbirth, a boy in 2015, the same year as Maeve. They went on to have another boy who looks to be of similar age to Vera. She's recently had another boy who died yesterday at about 10 days old. Poor, poor family.
I'm waiting for Joan to make it all about her grief now. [IMG]//uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/202002 ... 47a084.jpg[/IMG]

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So I know I haven’t been here in a million years (hi guys lol) and I’m about to fall asleep and will elaborate more tomorrow BUT I just wondered if anyone else caught the same vibes I have or noticed the same things I have ...

I think Joan and John have separated. Or at least she’s not staying with him at their home. I think she’s staying with her parents and has been at the very least since Valentine’s Day or even since the IVF transfer postponement.
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Playsinrain wrote:So I know I haven’t been here in a million years (hi guys lol) and I’m about to fall asleep and will elaborate more tomorrow BUT I just wondered if anyone else caught the same vibes I have or noticed the same things I have ...

I think Joan and John have separated. Or at least she’s not staying with him at their home. I think she’s staying with her parents and has been at the very least since Valentine’s Day or even since the IVF transfer postponement.
Actually, you may be on to something there.
However, she did say after the non transfer she would be quiet on social media for a while. I think she did post something on Valentines Day but that was about Vera, not John or them as a family.

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Playsinrain wrote:
Fri Feb 21, 2020 10:52 pm
So I know I haven’t been here in a million years (hi guys lol) and I’m about to fall asleep and will elaborate more tomorrow BUT I just wondered if anyone else caught the same vibes I have or noticed the same things I have ...

I think Joan and John have separated. Or at least she’s not staying with him at their home. I think she’s staying with her parents and has been at the very least since Valentine’s Day or even since the IVF transfer postponement.
You know, I've been blocked from Joan but check in on John's page from time to time. He hasn't posted anything about Vera (or Joan, but he rarely did that anyway) since late January. That's unusual for him. His last pic is him in his car with a LOT of boxes in the back saying "I'm still alive, btw" after not posting for weeks.
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Playsinrain wrote:So I know I haven’t been here in a million years (hi guys lol) and I’m about to fall asleep and will elaborate more tomorrow BUT I just wondered if anyone else caught the same vibes I have or noticed the same things I have ...

I think Joan and John have separated. Or at least she’s not staying with him at their home. I think she’s staying with her parents and has been at the very least since Valentine’s Day or even since the IVF transfer postponement.
Welcome back! You were missed. HS and I were wondering if you were ok.
WAY OT (sorry everyone!) But dying to hear what you think of Cullen and Katie right now!

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lmmomSD wrote:
Sat Feb 22, 2020 6:37 am
Playsinrain wrote:So I know I haven’t been here in a million years (hi guys lol) and I’m about to fall asleep and will elaborate more tomorrow BUT I just wondered if anyone else caught the same vibes I have or noticed the same things I have ...

I think Joan and John have separated. Or at least she’s not staying with him at their home. I think she’s staying with her parents and has been at the very least since Valentine’s Day or even since the IVF transfer postponement.
Welcome back! You were missed. HS and I were wondering if you were ok.
WAY OT (sorry everyone!) But dying to hear what you think of Cullen and Katie right now!

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hi!!! Yeah I have some thoughts on c&k lol! I’ll be on that later! Btw. I sent you a PM reply but I’m not sure it sent? My outbox says empty so I’m not sure. :/
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My first tip off was the Valentine’s Day post. Nothing about john and he posts nothing of her. I’ve been watching her IG stories religiously and the big red flag I saw was one where Vera was laying on a small mattress in Joan’s parents living room, and Joan captioned it “someone stole my bed” sooooooo..... plus there have been NO posts of Joan or Vera at the house in weeks. Normally she’s posting pics of Vera in her stories all day, in the kitchen eating breakfast, her and Louise looking outside, Vera climbing on that death trap ladder thing in the living room... none of that in a really long time. No videos of John playing with Vera. No pics of the cows at the river in the snow... no pics of Vera in that crazy pink fluffy suit walking to the little zoo thing down the road. Something is UP. John has been posting pics of snow and such from the house. Joan is posting only things out of the house or at her parents.....
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Playsinrain wrote:
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My first tip off was the Valentine’s Day post. Nothing about john and he posts nothing of her. I’ve been watching her IG stories religiously and the big red flag I saw was one where Vera was laying on a small mattress in Joan’s parents living room, and Joan captioned it “someone stole my bed” sooooooo..... plus there have been NO posts of Joan or Vera at the house in weeks. Normally she’s posting pics of Vera in her stories all day, in the kitchen eating breakfast, her and Louise looking outside, Vera climbing on that death trap ladder thing in the living room... none of that in a really long time. No videos of John playing with Vera. No pics of the cows at the river in the snow... no pics of Vera in that crazy pink fluffy suit walking to the little zoo thing down the road. Something is UP. John has been posting pics of snow and such from the house. Joan is posting only things out of the house or at her parents.....
Interesting observations. Joan also has been mysteriously silent about IVF. The transfer was postponed on February 4, so theoretically she would have had cycle day 1 probably sometime this past week, and you know Joan shares everything so she would have posted about that if she were planning on trying again this cycle and starting the meds again. She hasn't been promoting her jewelry, either.
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if they separated, would joan need to go to court to use the embryos if john didn’t want her to?
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flowerpuppy wrote:if they separated, would joan need to go to court to use the embryos if john didn’t want her to?
I remember that here in the UK a few years ago there was a court case of this kind. Can't remember the outcome though.
The couple didn't have any existing children together but the ex husband had gone on to have a child or children with someone else.

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Of course the moment I bring it up that she’s not staying in the house, she starts posting pics of her and Vera in the house. Not that I think I’m so important that I’m the reason she did it, purely coincidental I’m sure but still. :lol:
Either way, still no John. I hope she’s letting him see Vera. Don’t be a bitch and withhold your daughter from her father just bc you went off the deep end bc your IFV was postponed and John probably told you that you don’t have the money right now to start all over.
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I had the same thought, coincidence or reading here.
John did one on his too, in the house with Vera.

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I don’t believe in coincidences. Y’all mention it here & suddenly they’re both posting? And Joan is sharing John’s post? Definitely reading here...


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I know John read here ages ago, that's how I found this site. He posted a screenshot of something that was posted l.

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I’m just sitting here laughing at Joan posting a pic of her living room on her stories. I get it Joan, stop trying to prove yourself. You are suddenly back home! As soon as it’s mentioned here! I guess for the sake of your family I should have posted about it sooner, since that’s what it takes for you to decide to move back in.... So why were you sleeping on a mattress in your parents living room for days/weeks?? Can we address that now? :lol:
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Playsinrain wrote:I’m just sitting here laughing at Joan posting a pic of her living room on her stories. I get it Joan, stop trying to prove yourself. You are suddenly back home! As soon as it’s mentioned here! I guess for the sake of your family I should have posted about it sooner, since that’s what it takes for you to decide to move back in.... So why were you sleeping on a mattress in your parents living room for days/weeks?? Can we address that now? Image
I just wanted to say I also noticed all these strange things and the living room picture made me chuckle. I am sure she decided to be less crazy since she wants that transfer to happen asap.

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