Tannerites/YAWI: Failing our kids as they fail homeschool | Part 2

[ctx2002]

Is anyone else kind of weirded out that Branson is getting engaged to his girlfriend so soon? I mean, they've only known each other for what? Six months? I really wish them all the best, but it's just too soon, in my opinion. I wonder what his girlfriend's parents think about them getting engaged to a guy who hasn't stepped foot on a college campus or held a full time job before. Then again, I've long suspected that Johnny and Sarah are a bit wealthy, so who knows what's been discussed with her and her family behind the scenes.

[lmmomSD]

I can't imagine getting engaged to a guy who doesn't even have a job and lives at home. But hey-- he's back from his mission. Time to start pushing out babies...

[Ash_cats123]

Is anyone else kind of weirded out that Branson is getting engaged to his girlfriend so soon? I mean, they've only known each other for what? Six months? I really wish them all the best, but it's just too soon, in my opinion. I wonder what his girlfriend's parents think about them getting engaged to a guy who hasn't stepped foot on a college campus or held a full time job before. Then again, I've long suspected that Johnny and Sarah are a bit wealthy, so who knows what's been discussed with her and her family behind the scenes.

I dunno, my mum and dad got engaged after knowing each other fir only three months and neither of them are religious. They’ve been married for 25 years. Then again my dad actually had a degree and full time job and real life’s experience so.... lol

[skyandbuildings]

I definitely think it's insane! But I think it's pretty normal in Mormon/Utah culture! Still, I'm a few years older than Branson and he just seems soooo young to me, it's crazy that they're getting engaged so soon.

[Kattiness Everdeen]

Going back to topic On IG I saw that Daniell had her wisdom teeth removed... so, I guess we'll be seeing a vlog about all the funny things she said and did when she had them removed. I'm just wondering, is it a typical thing to give everyone laughing gas, when they have their wisdom teeth removed? When I had mine out, I couldn't have it, because of my allergies... so, all I got was the numbing shots... and I was shaking so bad, the nurse had to lay on top of me to get me to sit still, I was so nervous. I didn't feel a thing, I didn't even realize the dentist had even removed them... so, other than for nerves, why give laughing gas? Just wondering if anyone knows?

Also, I wonder when Allie is going to hear back from Disney? From how it sounds... she sent in an application for that work program, not just to be a Disney Princess. I forget what it's called... but, if she did sign up for it, she would be placed anywhere they needed her, and might not get her dream of being a Princess... It's a hard competition for those spots, and even harder if you apply for that work program, from what I've heard. You're most likely to be put into a costume like Minnie Mouse, or something else with a head. I think everyone has the right to dream... I just don't know that her dream is going to come true. And I hope she's ready for that, if it doesn't.

I didn't get laughing gas but I was put to sleep, the oral surgeon had to cut out mine because one was sideways, I wouldn't have wanted to be awake though because I have a fear of dentists.

I got LG because I was afraid of needles and IVs were expensive. It was a mistake. Mine were impacted too, and the LG and Novocain weren't very effective on me. They eventually kept excavating over my screams. I think IV sedation might be the norm now. The LG works great on a lot of people though, my sister kept falling asleep during her surgery. It is basically for nerves. I didn't feel any effect except some light headedness, but I hear it supposed to make you not care what they are doing to you.

Allie said in December they'd let her know within 6 months, but if she is requesting a performer position, I think she has to go to one of the traditional open auditions first. It has been a while since I looked this up, but it sounds like you are talking about the Disney College Program (DCP)? I thought you had to be enrolled in college....did she decide to go? I know any performer hopeful goes into the open audition with zero knowledge of the characters/roles they are casting for that day. It is extremely rare to score a role as a face character, much less a princess. If she applied for DCP, it seems most people get put behind a cash register or at the photo booth. You can put preferences, but there is no guarantee. They also cycle you in and out of roles the entire time.

I definitely don't think Allie is ready for rejection. She cries every time she meets a Disney princess. It seems that this is all she has ever wanted in life (sadly). There are also endless horror stories of characters getting felt up by horny Dads, vomit, urine....it is not an easy job, especially if you are in a heavy fur suit in the summer.

[lmmomSD]

I used to work for oral surgeons and we gave people laughing gas and a combination of IV drugs. It's usually the IV meds that make people so loopy afterwards. It's why we make people have drivers and agree not to make important decisions for 24 hours.

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[Kattiness Everdeen]

Is anyone else kind of weirded out that Branson is getting engaged to his girlfriend so soon? I mean, they've only known each other for what? Six months? I really wish them all the best, but it's just too soon, in my opinion. I wonder what his girlfriend's parents think about them getting engaged to a guy who hasn't stepped foot on a college campus or held a full time job before. Then again, I've long suspected that Johnny and Sarah are a bit wealthy, so who knows what's been discussed with her and her family behind the scenes.

I dunno, my mum and dad got engaged after knowing each other fir only three months and neither of them are religious. They’ve been married for 25 years. Then again my dad actually had a degree and full time job and real life’s experience so.... lol

It is not weird in the sense that S&J popped these kids out for this exact life purpose. Instead of toys, we see pre-schoolers wishing spouses/children for even the youngest siblings. Also, correct me if I am wrong, but weren't M&B friends before deciding to date? Branson might not have a job or an education, but he has been shelling out thousands on gifts recently, so either his channel finally took off, or his parents released his exploitation earnings to him.

I do find it strange that they never met her family before the engagement though, especially with her spending so many overnights at their house. They are going back "home" constantly for dentist and hair appointments and to buy garlic butter, but were never invited to drop by for coffee....never even crossed paths at school/community functions when they still lived there? Something seems off. Did they ever explicitly say she was Mormon? That could explain her family's seeming disinterest in inserting themselves into their adult daughters dating life.

Conspiracy theory: her family isn't okay with it, and this is a shotgun wedding! Like father, like son?

[PumpkinHead]

Is anyone else kind of weirded out that Branson is getting engaged to his girlfriend so soon? I mean, they've only known each other for what? Six months? I really wish them all the best, but it's just too soon, in my opinion. I wonder what his girlfriend's parents think about them getting engaged to a guy who hasn't stepped foot on a college campus or held a full time job before. Then again, I've long suspected that Johnny and Sarah are a bit wealthy, so who knows what's been discussed with her and her family behind the scenes.

I agree. Especially since it seems like Sarah is the one who is really, really pushing for Branson to get married and have kids soon. It's a bit creepy tbh..

[Lolislol26]

During the end of yesterday’s video when they were showing a preview for today’s video.. I felt so uncomfortable watching. They do not look like two people who are in love and investing in one another. They look like two awkward teenagers who are getting their photo taken together before their first school dance.


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[Kattiness Everdeen]

During the end of yesterday’s video when they were showing a preview for today’s video.. I felt so uncomfortable watching. They do not look like two people who are in love and investing in one another. They look like two awkward teenagers who are getting their photo taken together before their first school dance.


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Perfect comparison! That is why I was concerned they might not even be that into each other, just propelled by pressure of being considered Mormon spinsters already. I guess their extreme awkwardness kind of discounts the shotgun wedding theory too.

[Notsure]

Still no new video. They are dragging this out for views. I hate youtubers like this nothing is sincere and just feels so fake.

[Kattiness Everdeen]

Still no new video. They are dragging this out for views. I hate youtubers like this nothing is sincere and just feels so fake.

Family vloggers have been on a slow decline, nearly all of them are resorting to desperate tactics like insane clickbait, invented dramas/medical emergencies, gaslighting their kids, and the old entertainment standard, the cliff-hanger. YAWI is the worst I have seen. Not even the kids buy Johnny's lies any more.
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Side thought on Canyon's Recent Development

Now that S&J are spending some time at home interacting with the kids for the first time in years, has anyone noticed a difference in Canyon? He no longer comes across as a deeply disturbed "toddler", with constant potty accidents, violent outbursts, inability to communicate, self-harm activities (like storing scissors in underwear), destructive activities like playing with propane tanks/bottles of polish/rusty nails etc. He has even come up with some funny or insightful thoughts recently, like when he learned there were short one seat in the hot tub and he suggested they add some crabs to keep Daniell out.

Are they just downplaying his incidents now, or is he finally maturing out of the toddler tantrum stage? He will be legally required to enroll in school next year, but I suppose if they keep him at home, he could still continue to wear diapers and spend half the day sleeping off a tantrum. I really hope they go back to public school; I feel like he needs/deserves the help of professionals, and the socialization with kids his own age. All the kids do.

[xoxocharlie]

Am I the only one who thinks Branson is a giant creep? I swear I get the chills the whole time when he's talking to the camera lol.

[Kattiness Everdeen]

Am I the only one who thinks Branson is a giant creep? I swear I get the chills the whole time when he's talking to the camera lol.

Nope! I think I discounted some of the creepiness off, considering the people that raised him, but he is losing that benefit of the doubt.

Engagement vlog is up. Seems kind of anticlimactic. Mara's family didn't really appear on cam either. Did they say how many weeks/months the engagement will be? The most heartwarming part was seeing Mara hold/cuddle Lizzie and Savannah. I don't think I have ever seen an adult show them any comfort of affection before.

[Kattiness Everdeen]

After today's vlog I have come to the conclusion that Branson is looking for a little privacy in his life. All of Johnny's awkward intrusions at every step of the way seems to be resisted by Branson in front of the camera, not answering any questions about rings, events, dates, etc. At first I thought he was just trying to be coy or teasing upcoming events (admittedly poorly), but now I think he just refused to tell his family about the ring as they repeatedly begged him, because he doesn't want it all exploited on camera. It will be interesting to see if he starts to shut them out the second he says I do. If he has his money now as I expect, he'll have no reason to stay under the control of his tyrant father. Except for his siblings.

Also, so sad to see Lizzy crying in the corner today. I wish Mara was there to give her a hug. She didn't need to talk about it on camera Sarah, she needed a hug from her mother.

[ChelseaB1126]

After today's vlog I have come to the conclusion that Branson is looking for a little privacy in his life. All of Johnny's awkward intrusions at every step of the way seems to be resisted by Branson in front of the camera, not answering any questions about rings, events, dates, etc. At first I thought he was just trying to be coy or teasing upcoming events (admittedly poorly), but now I think he just refused to tell his family about the ring as they repeatedly begged him, because he doesn't want it all exploited on camera. It will be interesting to see if he starts to shut them out the second he says I do. If he has his money now as I expect, he'll have no reason to stay under the control of his tyrant father. Except for his siblings.

Also, so sad to see Lizzy crying in the corner today. I wish Mara was there to give her a hug. She didn't need to talk about it on camera Sarah, she needed a hug from her mother.

Kinda sad, sure, but I found it strange that a 10 yr old would be crying over something so stupid–something a 3 yr old might struggle with. Sorry to sound judgmental, I just have no patience for older kids pouting like toddlers. Also, what's with Savannah playing with Littlest Pet Shop? Good lord, isn't she like 12? When I was that age I was hanging out with friends or working on my hobbies, not playing with little kid toys with my much younger brothers.

[ChelseaB1126]

After today's vlog I have come to the conclusion that Branson is looking for a little privacy in his life. All of Johnny's awkward intrusions at every step of the way seems to be resisted by Branson in front of the camera, not answering any questions about rings, events, dates, etc. At first I thought he was just trying to be coy or teasing upcoming events (admittedly poorly), but now I think he just refused to tell his family about the ring as they repeatedly begged him, because he doesn't want it all exploited on camera. It will be interesting to see if he starts to shut them out the second he says I do. If he has his money now as I expect, he'll have no reason to stay under the control of his tyrant father. Except for his siblings.

Also, so sad to see Lizzy crying in the corner today. I wish Mara was there to give her a hug. She didn't need to talk about it on camera Sarah, she needed a hug from her mother.

I found that scene with Mara weird. Who the hell holds a 10 yr old like that??? Nobody ever picked ME up like a baby when I was a preteen! Kids these days need to grow the hell up, and adults need to quit coddling them.

[callie73]

After today's vlog I have come to the conclusion that Branson is looking for a little privacy in his life. All of Johnny's awkward intrusions at every step of the way seems to be resisted by Branson in front of the camera, not answering any questions about rings, events, dates, etc. At first I thought he was just trying to be coy or teasing upcoming events (admittedly poorly), but now I think he just refused to tell his family about the ring as they repeatedly begged him, because he doesn't want it all exploited on camera. It will be interesting to see if he starts to shut them out the second he says I do. If he has his money now as I expect, he'll have no reason to stay under the control of his tyrant father. Except for his siblings.

Also, so sad to see Lizzy crying in the corner today. I wish Mara was there to give her a hug. She didn't need to talk about it on camera Sarah, she needed a hug from her mother.

I found that scene with Mara weird. Who the hell holds a 10 yr old like that??? Nobody ever picked ME up like a baby when I was a preteen! Kids these days need to grow the hell up, and adults need to quit coddling them.

No, if anything, it's Lizzie that needs to be held and shown love. she seems to be forgotten and left out. she gets the short end of the stick often.

[ChelseaB1126]

After today's vlog I have come to the conclusion that Branson is looking for a little privacy in his life. All of Johnny's awkward intrusions at every step of the way seems to be resisted by Branson in front of the camera, not answering any questions about rings, events, dates, etc. At first I thought he was just trying to be coy or teasing upcoming events (admittedly poorly), but now I think he just refused to tell his family about the ring as they repeatedly begged him, because he doesn't want it all exploited on camera. It will be interesting to see if he starts to shut them out the second he says I do. If he has his money now as I expect, he'll have no reason to stay under the control of his tyrant father. Except for his siblings.

Also, so sad to see Lizzy crying in the corner today. I wish Mara was there to give her a hug. She didn't need to talk about it on camera Sarah, she needed a hug from her mother.

I found that scene with Mara weird. Who the hell holds a 10 yr old like that??? Nobody ever picked ME up like a baby when I was a preteen! Kids these days need to grow the hell up, and adults need to quit coddling them.

No, if anything, it's Lizzie that needs to be held and shown love. she seems to be forgotten and left out. she gets the short end of the stick often.

Fair point, but being loved doesn't need to entail being held like a baby. I just found it strange that she was being picked up like she was a small child.

[Kattiness Everdeen]

You haven't noticed that all these children appear to be emotionally stunted?

1. The one about to get married likes to collect bugs in the backyard and throw them at his mother/sisters.

2. The 18 yr old wore My Little Pony head to toe when she was 13, and cries every time she sees a Disney princess because it is her only dream in life.

3. The one turning 13 this year, asked for a baby doll that wets itself for her last birthday, and her main hobby is playing with Barbie/LPS (as you noted).

4. The youngest is 5 and still craps in diapers, stores scissors in his pants, and has violent tantrums because he can't communicate his thoughts/emotions.

Does it really seem strange that the perpetually ignored middle child would cry over being left out, when the kids who actually receive attention are so stunted?

Lizzie had to cry her eyes out just get her parents to celebrate her 10th birthday. When she was younger she cried because she was scared when her parents made her sleep in a room alone while Savannah slept with the boys. Crying seems to be the only way to be noticed. The parents put unbelievable responsibility on these kids to cook/clean/raise their siblings/etc. Maybe we are seeing their coping strategies. Neglect and/or mistreatment can really screw with your development. I know I am going to cheer every ounce of comfort they can squeeze out from anyone with a bit of empathy that comes into their orbit. It might just lessen the damage done by the selfish parents they have been burdened with.