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I just watched a recent funny skit from SNL on YouTube. The Sound of Music, Rolf & Liesl. Rolf's lines had me laughing. They are doing a parody of 'I am Sixteen, Going on Seventeen' Hope some will watch it if they have time and will laugh also. ;)
P.S. Howlin17 You Go Girl! Just read your post when I was about to post my silly one. Ditto..Ditto..Ditto...

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Howlin17 wrote:
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Howlin17 wrote: Sun Mar 01, 2020 9:41 am “Despite what the parents say?? “ WTF? Since when does a school encourage kids to do something against a parents wishes?? How stupid Image
And, no, it isn’t always “normal” for multiples to do everything together. Ever hear of the Busby family? The Scotts? Somehow, those families are able to recognize the uniqueness of each of their “multiples”.



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Schools encourage students to go after what they want as long as it's good for them. For example let's say Scarlett finds she loves to play soccer and Esme loves art and drawing. The school would encourage the girls to go after these things. If the parents tried to fight this they would sit down and explain how this is in the best interest of the girls to go after different things. Now, the parents have the final say but the school will be behind the girls (that is if they have a good teacher). There is scientific evidence that twins that grow up doing everything together have a difficult time learning to do things separate. Now there are different scenarios much like you mentioned they are encouraged to pursue their own dreams so it's easier for them. But see Ashley and Tyson have babied these girls to where they cant do anything on their own so yea it will be difficult for them and I hope the school encourages them to grow in their own ways.
Some people are just annoying. For example, you. Now, I know you have been told this. For example, your 1st post on this thread. Now, the mods here have the final say. For example, when you continually break the TOS. Now, most of us have been posting here together for quite a while. And, most have followed the Greeds from the beginning. For example, even before their brief time on Rattled. Now, there have been members joining here after the original group. For example, there was another site before this one. Some were together on that site. For example, I joined here after the “original” sissies. Now, most of the time, we are delighted for new members to join.....sisters in snark. For example, ones who have “seen the light” and seek out like minded snarkers. Now, what we really don’t like is someone like you who comes here to lecture and demand to be included. For example, praising the fat pervert and his psycho sidekick. Now, in your most recent insulting reply, you stupidly instruct me about how Perv & Screech have raised their feral four. For example, treating them as babies. WTF?? You think?? Now, that’s just pathetic that you feel the need to explain to me....us.....that tidbit. Are you a teacher? For example, declaring what the duties of a teacher require? Now, there are teachers on this thread. For example, the one who handed you your ignorant ass on a platter. Now, you came busting in here demanding to be accepted by instructing us what we could & couldn’t say. For example, declaring that Perv is a good father & Seneshit Whore is a fine mother. Now, in your world, maybe stalker dad giving daughters an occasional bath is delightful. Or, Munchausen mom is lovely for pretending to like her spawn by randomly making banana bread. If so, you are in the wrong place. Now, it seems that you may be declaring yourself a victim of misunderstanding and not being able to articulate well enough for us meanies to understand. My prediction....you will end up laughing your ass off with the KADS about how clever you were. Now, that’s just fine. I think that behavior fits just perfectly. But, now, I must say it’s getting tiresome dealing with you. For example, I feel VERY passionate about the fine ladies, here. I truly care deeply for them. Their humor, their wisdom, their compassion, their humanity. Now, when someone comes here & is disruptive, I get stabby. For example, you ignoring TOS is a threat to getting this place shut down. A common KAD tactic. Now, that causes me to throw caution to the wind and tell you to fuck off. Go kiss the ample asses of the child abusers. I considered making you a foe....but, instead, I plan to confront you every time you attempt disrupting this thread or disrespecting the very, very special sissies on here. Take your “for example” and “now” & shove it!


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You know when you walk into a place like a gathering or as a guest in someone else's home and you feel you aren't welcome?
What do people usually do? Leave? Or keep coming back to that place where you aren't wanted?
In my humble opinion, the answer is quite clear... Don't come back!
Hmmmm..... just my thoughts today.

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Howlin17 wrote: Sun Mar 01, 2020 12:53 pm
Snowball90 wrote:
Howlin17 wrote: Sun Mar 01, 2020 9:41 am “Despite what the parents say?? “ WTF? Since when does a school encourage kids to do something against a parents wishes?? How stupid Image
And, no, it isn’t always “normal” for multiples to do everything together. Ever hear of the Busby family? The Scotts? Somehow, those families are able to recognize the uniqueness of each of their “multiples”.



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Schools encourage students to go after what they want as long as it's good for them. For example let's say Scarlett finds she loves to play soccer and Esme loves art and drawing. The school would encourage the girls to go after these things. If the parents tried to fight this they would sit down and explain how this is in the best interest of the girls to go after different things. Now, the parents have the final say but the school will be behind the girls (that is if they have a good teacher). There is scientific evidence that twins that grow up doing everything together have a difficult time learning to do things separate. Now there are different scenarios much like you mentioned they are encouraged to pursue their own dreams so it's easier for them. But see Ashley and Tyson have babied these girls to where they cant do anything on their own so yea it will be difficult for them and I hope the school encourages them to grow in their own ways.
Some people are just annoying. For example, you. Now, I know you have been told this. For example, your 1st post on this thread. Now, the mods here have the final say. For example, when you continually break the TOS. Now, most of us have been posting here together for quite a while. And, most have followed the Greeds from the beginning. For example, even before their brief time on Rattled. Now, there have been members joining here after the original group. For example, there was another site before this one. Some were together on that site. For example, I joined here after the “original” sissies. Now, most of the time, we are delighted for new members to join.....sisters in snark. For example, ones who have “seen the light” and seek out like minded snarkers. Now, what we really don’t like is someone like you who comes here to lecture and demand to be included. For example, praising the fat pervert and his psycho sidekick. Now, in your most recent insulting reply, you stupidly instruct me about how Perv & Screech have raised their feral four. For example, treating them as babies. WTF?? You think?? Now, that’s just pathetic that you feel the need to explain to me....us.....that tidbit. Are you a teacher? For example, declaring what the duties of a teacher require? Now, there are teachers on this thread. For example, the one who handed you your ignorant ass on a platter. Now, you came busting in here demanding to be accepted by instructing us what we could & couldn’t say. For example, declaring that Perv is a good father & Seneshit Whore is a fine mother. Now, in your world, maybe stalker dad giving daughters an occasional bath is delightful. Or, Munchausen mom is lovely for pretending to like her spawn by randomly making banana bread. If so, you are in the wrong place. Now, it seems that you may be declaring yourself a victim of misunderstanding and not being able to articulate well enough for us meanies to understand. My prediction....you will end up laughing your ass off with the KADS about how clever you were. Now, that’s just fine. I think that behavior fits just perfectly. But, now, I must say it’s getting tiresome dealing with you. For example, I feel VERY passionate about the fine ladies, here. I truly care deeply for them. Their humor, their wisdom, their compassion, their humanity. Now, when someone comes here & is disruptive, I get stabby. For example, you ignoring TOS is a threat to getting this place shut down. A common KAD tactic. Now, that causes me to throw caution to the wind and tell you to fuck off. Go kiss the ample asses of the child abusers. I considered making you a foe....but, instead, I plan to confront you every time you attempt disrupting this thread or disrespecting the very, very special sissies on here. Take your “for example” and “now” & shove it!


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I don't even know what a KAD is. And tbh nothing I said was in no disrespect at all. I just came from a background where the teachers and staff had a close relationship with students so in a way I kind of expect the teachers today to do the same thing which I realize was wrong. In fact I admire a lot of you for speaking your minds on a lot of this bullshit. Tyson is a pervert and Ashley is a lazy woman I never denied that. I do admit after studying the rules and regulations yes I broke a couple rules so I am doing my best to abide by them
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Snowball90 wrote: Sun Mar 01, 2020 11:31 am
Ireallydocare wrote: Sun Mar 01, 2020 11:08 am
Snowball90 wrote: Sun Mar 01, 2020 10:11 am

Schools encourage students to go after what they want as long as it's good for them. For example let's say Scarlett finds she loves to play soccer and Esme loves art and drawing. The school would encourage the girls to go after these things. If the parents tried to fight this they would sit down and explain how this is in the best interest of the girls to go after different things. Now, the parents have the final say but the school will be behind the girls (that is if they have a good teacher). There is scientific evidence that twins that grow up doing everything together have a difficult time learning to do things separate. Now there are different scenarios much like you mentioned they are encouraged to pursue their own dreams so it's easier for them. But see Ashley and Tyson have babied these girls to where they cant do anything on their own so yea it will be difficult for them and I hope the school encourages them to grow in their own ways.
Don't think so. I am so busy teaching math in the classroom that i can't possibly take on a parents responsibility to expose them to different EXTRA curricular activities outside of the classroom. That is the parents job to give exposure to things that are not reading, writing and arithmetic. We teachers cannot do it all.
I take it personally that others(you) think it is my job to parent. It is my job to teach.
Do i care what my students are doing outside of the classroom, you betcha!
There is not enough time in my day to help each of my 125 students decide if they want to okay soccer or not.
Unless you are a teacher, Do Not Speak for me about what I should be doing in my classroom.
I am not saying it is your responsibility to parent. What I am saying it takes a quality teacher to get to know their students and let the parents know of some concerns of their children and that is what I am talking about. In no way am I questioning or attacking you as a teacher. I just live in an area where the teachers are 100% invested in their students and that is where I am coming from. I grew up having learning disability and it took wonderful people to have me get the help I needed and because of them I was able to open up, express myself in ways that I never could before so yes i do hold teachers up at a higher standard and i apologize if that came across as questioning your abilities.
You are clueless..
Please cite your scientific twin research. Without proof, you are just running your fingers across the keyboard.
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Howlin17 wrote:
Snowball90 wrote:
Howlin17 wrote: Sun Mar 01, 2020 9:41 am “Despite what the parents say?? “ WTF? Since when does a school encourage kids to do something against a parents wishes?? How stupid Image
And, no, it isn’t always “normal” for multiples to do everything together. Ever hear of the Busby family? The Scotts? Somehow, those families are able to recognize the uniqueness of each of their “multiples”.



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Schools encourage students to go after what they want as long as it's good for them. For example let's say Scarlett finds she loves to play soccer and Esme loves art and drawing. The school would encourage the girls to go after these things. If the parents tried to fight this they would sit down and explain how this is in the best interest of the girls to go after different things. Now, the parents have the final say but the school will be behind the girls (that is if they have a good teacher). There is scientific evidence that twins that grow up doing everything together have a difficult time learning to do things separate. Now there are different scenarios much like you mentioned they are encouraged to pursue their own dreams so it's easier for them. But see Ashley and Tyson have babied these girls to where they cant do anything on their own so yea it will be difficult for them and I hope the school encourages them to grow in their own ways.
Some people are just annoying. For example, you. Now, I know you have been told this. For example, your 1st post on this thread. Now, the mods here have the final say. For example, when you continually break the TOS. Now, most of us have been posting here together for quite a while. And, most have followed the Greeds from the beginning. For example, even before their brief time on Rattled. Now, there have been members joining here after the original group. For example, there was another site before this one. Some were together on that site. For example, I joined here after the “original” sissies. Now, most of the time, we are delighted for new members to join.....sisters in snark. For example, ones who have “seen the light” and seek out like minded snarkers. Now, what we really don’t like is someone like you who comes here to lecture and demand to be included. For example, praising the fat pervert and his psycho sidekick. Now, in your most recent insulting reply, you stupidly instruct me about how Perv & Screech have raised their feral four. For example, treating them as babies. WTF?? You think?? Now, that’s just pathetic that you feel the need to explain to me....us.....that tidbit. Are you a teacher? For example, declaring what the duties of a teacher require? Now, there are teachers on this thread. For example, the one who handed you your ignorant ass on a platter. Now, you came busting in here demanding to be accepted by instructing us what we could & couldn’t say. For example, declaring that Perv is a good father & Seneshit Whore is a fine mother. Now, in your world, maybe stalker dad giving daughters an occasional bath is delightful. Or, Munchausen mom is lovely for pretending to like her spawn by randomly making banana bread. If so, you are in the wrong place. Now, it seems that you may be declaring yourself a victim of misunderstanding and not being able to articulate well enough for us meanies to understand. My prediction....you will end up laughing your ass off with the KADS about how clever you were. Now, that’s just fine. I think that behavior fits just perfectly. But, now, I must say it’s getting tiresome dealing with you. For example, I feel VERY passionate about the fine ladies, here. I truly care deeply for them. Their humor, their wisdom, their compassion, their humanity. Now, when someone comes here & is disruptive, I get stabby. For example, you ignoring TOS is a threat to getting this place shut down. A common KAD tactic. Now, that causes me to throw caution to the wind and tell you to fuck off. Go kiss the ample asses of the child abusers. I considered making you a foe....but, instead, I plan to confront you every time you attempt disrupting this thread or disrespecting the very, very special sissies on here. Take your “for example” and “now” & shove it!


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Well said Howlin. I don’t comment here much but have been around the board for a very long time. There is a pattern with KADs that can’t be ignored. I don’t have time to keep up on all things Gardner and when I do find time I’m often days behind. So what I would say has already been said by our wonderful SIS. I’ve found this board to be very accepting of those who are likeminded. But no one here takes well to those who disrupt or are insulting. As it should be. There is history here of KADs trying to get the board shut down. We will protect our own.


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Ireallydocare wrote: Sun Mar 01, 2020 11:08 am
Snowball90 wrote: Sun Mar 01, 2020 10:11 am
Howlin17 wrote: Sun Mar 01, 2020 9:41 am “Despite what the parents say?? “ WTF? Since when does a school encourage kids to do something against a parents wishes?? How stupid Image
And, no, it isn’t always “normal” for multiples to do everything together. Ever hear of the Busby family? The Scotts? Somehow, those families are able to recognize the uniqueness of each of their “multiples”.



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Schools encourage students to go after what they want as long as it's good for them. For example let's say Scarlett finds she loves to play soccer and Esme loves art and drawing. The school would encourage the girls to go after these things. If the parents tried to fight this they would sit down and explain how this is in the best interest of the girls to go after different things. Now, the parents have the final say but the school will be behind the girls (that is if they have a good teacher). There is scientific evidence that twins that grow up doing everything together have a difficult time learning to do things separate. Now there are different scenarios much like you mentioned they are encouraged to pursue their own dreams so it's easier for them. But see Ashley and Tyson have babied these girls to where they cant do anything on their own so yea it will be difficult for them and I hope the school encourages them to grow in their own ways.
Don't think so. I am so busy teaching math in the classroom that i can't possibly take on a parents responsibility to expose them to different EXTRA curricular activities outside of the classroom. That is the parents job to give exposure to things that are not reading, writing and arithmetic. We teachers cannot do it all.
I take it personally that others(you) think it is my job to parent. It is my job to teach.
Do i care what my students are doing outside of the classroom, you betcha!
There is not enough time in my day to help each of my 125 students decide if they want to okay soccer or not.
Unless you are a teacher, Do Not Speak for me about what I should be doing in my classroom.
100% agree with you IDoReallyCare. Retired teacher here - you have a job to do & almost all teachers I know are focussed on how we can help children in all aspects of school, encouraging & advocating for them. But we can’t do it all, and it’s not our job to do it all, parents are fully responsible for supporting their children in all other areas outside of school hours.
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Winter can be a very deceptive season. Especially in certain areas of the world. Some days its unusually warm and other days theres a blizzard brewing.
With that said, Snow lady appears to be that deceptive type of KAD trying to *SNOW* us all into falling for her attempt to fit in whilst brewing her own blizzard behind the scenes in order to get this thread shut down.

Eh, I could be totally wrong but hey, if it walks like a duck....... dont mistake it for an innocent little lamb.

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I have to agree and support all those who have gone before me.

This is an open board, but Snowball, you are very much not welcome here. Whatever your reasons be they KAD or whatever, I'm asking you to please leave. You have broken the board when a lot of people on here want to support and be there for each other. We can't currently do that because you are lecturing and otherwise, quite frankly, making a nuisance of yourself. It may well be that that is your intent but this isn't just an ordinary snark board. People on here have real lives, here they are sick and in some cases dying and we want to be there for them. WE can't do that while you are lecturing us about things that are not important to us. We are mainly all mothers so we know how things work. So I'm asking you nicely, please leave the board and go somewhere else. And I'm telling you nicely, we won't play your games any more nor will we enter into conversation with you. You are not wanted here. Get the hint?
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Snowball90 wrote: Sun Mar 01, 2020 11:31 am
Ireallydocare wrote: Sun Mar 01, 2020 11:08 am
Snowball90 wrote: Sun Mar 01, 2020 10:11 am

Schools encourage students to go after what they want as long as it's good for them. For example let's say Scarlett finds she loves to play soccer and Esme loves art and drawing. The school would encourage the girls to go after these things. If the parents tried to fight this they would sit down and explain how this is in the best interest of the girls to go after different things. Now, the parents have the final say but the school will be behind the girls (that is if they have a good teacher). There is scientific evidence that twins that grow up doing everything together have a difficult time learning to do things separate. Now there are different scenarios much like you mentioned they are encouraged to pursue their own dreams so it's easier for them. But see Ashley and Tyson have babied these girls to where they cant do anything on their own so yea it will be difficult for them and I hope the school encourages them to grow in their own ways.
Don't think so. I am so busy teaching math in the classroom that i can't possibly take on a parents responsibility to expose them to different EXTRA curricular activities outside of the classroom. That is the parents job to give exposure to things that are not reading, writing and arithmetic. We teachers cannot do it all.
I take it personally that others(you) think it is my job to parent. It is my job to teach.
Do i care what my students are doing outside of the classroom, you betcha!
There is not enough time in my day to help each of my 125 students decide if they want to okay soccer or not.
Unless you are a teacher, Do Not Speak for me about what I should be doing in my classroom.
I am not saying it is your responsibility to parent. What I am saying it takes a quality teacher to get to know their students and let the parents know of some concerns of their children and that is what I am talking about. In no way am I questioning or attacking you as a teacher. I just live in an area where the teachers are 100% invested in their students and that is where I am coming from. I grew up having learning disability and it took wonderful people to have me get the help I needed and because of them I was able to open up, express myself in ways that I never could before so yes i do hold teachers up at a higher standard and i apologize if that came across as questioning your abilities.
Snowball, you don't sound like you are questioning anyone's abilities. You just sound like you don't know what you are talking about.
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We really are a very nice group of ladies. Unlike the not-so-nice KADs, we don’t allow anyone to come on here and underhandedly defend or compliment a fat pervert and his psycho bitch wife under any circumstance whatsoever. The Greedners have no redeeming qualities at all. If you think you may have spotted a redeeming quality, you may need to get a good night’s sleep, sober up or take your meds. I promise it was an illusion. Like as has been stated many times, there are many places to blow rainbows and sunshine up their asses; sorry, this is simply not one of those places.
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Snowball90, I’m aware in saying this, that you had mentioned infertility issues and I don’t want to be insensitive. However, let me tell you something about being a parent that you, the Gardners and lots of others in today’s society seem to misunderstand. When you have a child - planned or otherwise - it is yours to parent. When it’s 2 days old, its your responsibility and when it’s 5 yrs old it’s your responsibility. Legally, it’s your responsibility until it’s 18 yrs old but as many parents here will testify, you will continue to care for, worry about and share responsibility for that child as long as you are alive. It doesn’t matter if you give birth to 1 child at a time or 8 children at the same time - still your responsibility! If you only ever have 1 child or you have 12 children - still your responsibility! If you have a bad day - your responsibility! If you have a toothache - your responsibility! When the child behaves like an Angel - your responsibility! When it acts like a little demon - your responsibility!
Teachers do an amazing job but it is not their responsibility to parent the children in their care. Some teachers may have 30 children in their class - all with different needs, different life experiences, possibly medical conditions or special learning needs. They will all be little individuals with different personalities and interests. They will not all come from the same social or cultural backgrounds. Some will be English speakers, while others may not even have English as their main language. There is no way you can expect a teacher to look out for the interests of all those children, even with the very best will in the world. It’s simply not their job to parent your child!
Now, add to that the fact that any teacher, may have at home 1 or 2 or 3 or however many children of their own. Those children will also have their own little personalities and interests and needs and deserve their mother’s or father’s full attention, at home. Those children are that teacher’s responsibility, just as they should be.
Let’s then consider this from a parent’s perspective. Have I admired my children’s teachers? On the most part, yes - very much! Do I expect them to encourage my children’s interests and talents? Well, yes and no. I have a child who is a very gifted academically. I expected them to give her work to challenge her a little bit more, as long as it was within their ability to do so. It absolutely would not have been appropriate if challenging her, came at a cost to another child. We are her parents and if it wasn’t always possible for the school to challenge her, that was fine. We were her parents; we could do so at home. The same child is also a very gifted singer. What was the school’s responsibility in relation to that? Well, we paid the school for voice lessons and she attended them. It was our responsibility to ensure she practiced at home and prepared adequately for exams etc. If there were festivals etc to attend, we took her. She has applied for a music performance degree at Uni next year. Her teacher helped her put together her personal statement and audition tape. Was it his responsibility to do so? No. Did we expect him to do so? Absolutely not. He very generously offered to help her and took time out of his own schedule to do so. He did it but he categorically did not have to do it.
My other child is on the autistic spectrum which meant she had what we in the UK call, a statement of special educational needs. We, her parents, fought tooth and nail for that. There are those who think that they are automatically entitled to a statement and the help it allows a child to have. They expect the school to do all the fighting for it and blame the school if they can’t secure it. However, as parents that was not our approach. She was our child and therefore, our responsibility. If we wanted help for her we were damn well going to make sure she got it. When we did get it, we worked together with the teachers and her teaching assistant to use the hours of one to one assistance she got, in a way which would benefit her the most. We wanted her to be fulfilled, happy and able to leave school and live as independently as she could. You see, that’s the team work again. Yes, the teacher was able to advise about her learning goals but we were her parents. We were much better placed in so many ways, to advise on what would benefit her. We were able to give an insight into what the barriers to reaching those goals would be. We worked together with the teachers to see how we could come up with a plan which best suited her needs. We didn’t leave it up to her teachers - why would we place that responsibility on a stranger. That wouldn’t be in our daughter’s best interests, or her teacher’s. She’s at Uni now, studying what she wants to study and has a wide range of interests outside of that.
Those interests incidentally, are very different to her sister’s interests. Strictly speaking, we could have sent two girls to the same activities. That would have been easier for me. They weren’t multiples, obviously, but they were close enough in age for that to work for us. It wouldn’t have worked for them, though. They didn’t like the same things and therein lies the lazy parent’s problem.
There’s nothing easy about being a parent. If parents want easy, they shouldn’t have kids. It’s hard, hard work. You are responsible for the tiny lives you’ve been entrusted with - not the teacher, the nanny, the aunts or uncles, the grandparents. It’s down to you! The Gardners need to learn that and so does anyone else who thinks they can have a child and pass the buck to anyone but themselves to look after it.
That is why, people here become angry with the Gardners! Everything is about doing things the easiest way possible, with no regard for the well-being of their children. Moreover, that’s why the things you are saying are not being well received!
I try to be fair but I’m seriously questioning your motivation here. Despite your pleas of innocence and naïveté, you are challenging and contradicting everything people say. It’s hard to believe you don’t have an agenda for doing so. You don’t seem to understand that people here are not going to share your desire to like the Gardners. There is no pity for them here. They are truly deplorable individuals. In reality, I don’t actually believe you are here to try and convince us otherwise. Rather, you’re here to try and stir up as much trouble as you possibly can. You seem to be trying to play some kind of clever game where you say one thing and do another. However, you’re just not being clever. You appear to have a somewhat duplicitous personality. At least if you’re going to challenge everything that others post, have the courage of your convictions and stand by it. Don’t keep coming back and playing a sympathy card when someone calls you out, in order to make them feel or look bad. It doesn’t make sense how you want to like Ashleigh and Tyson, while at the same time trying to convince us that you find them both as vile as everyone else does.



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Again we Aussies miss out on seeing freshly falling snow whilst we sleep😊.

Another retired teacher here. I taught the quads age so as a teacher I was also a nurturer of the “whole child” out of necessity because of the age of the children I taught. At times I was a child’s first real venture out into the wider world outside of the home and family. But I nurtured them I didn’t mother them because I was not their mother. And it was no more my place to tell a parent how to parent any more than it was a parent’s place to tell me how to teach. Yes you can raise issues or concerns regarding the child in relation to the school setting. eg suggesting they need a speech assessment. But telling a parent how to parent their child outside of school hours is a sure fire way of jeopardising the teacher parent relationship. I was 100% invested in my students and for you to suggest otherwise is an enormous insult to those of us who have chosen to provide children with the best education and experiences we can.

I taught a number of sets of multiples. I’m also an aunty to identical twin nieces. So identical that outside of their parents, my parents and myself nobody can tell them apart physically. So identical that they’re both missing the same organ. One of the blessings that came out of me having to give up work due to terminal illness was that I got to be a significant part of their lives. Because of their parents jobs they both had to return to work when my nieces were six weeks old. And they haven’t always been able to be physically a part of their day to day lives as they’d like to be. But when they are with their girls they are fully present and engaged. My parents and I have filled in the gaps where we can. I frequently did school pick ups. I was the one that was there for assemblies, concerts, sport days, Easter bonnet parades, who made their Easter bonnets and Christmas concert outfits with them and even went to Mother’s Day morning teas. In the last year of their primary school there were still parents that assumed I was their Mum. An assumption I was always very quick to correct whenever it arose. Yes they have done a lot of things together because for the most part developmentally they have always been at a similar stage. But my sweet nieces are so very different from a personality aspect and have been from a very young age. They have always had very different interests. They were in the same classroom for Kindy, the first year in a school setting in our jurisdiction, but within days of starting they had ventured from one another and were making friends and playing with their other peers. They were often winding up outdoor play as parents and caregivers started to arrive for pick up. I’d sit in my car in the carpark and scour the playground from a distance. I would be shocked if they were playing together. At that age schools are legally required to handover students to parents and caregivers at the classroom door. It was very very rare to see my nieces sitting near each on the mat when I got to the classroom door. It doesn’t matter how identical multiples are they are still individuals. As such you can’t make broad, sweeping generalisations about multiples as a set or as individuals.
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Trashley living up to her nickname today. Raising Cane's and Disney fried food has not been good to her. She should have worn the dress one of the girls picked out for her but maybe she couldn't fit into it since she's had it for awhile.

I was shocked to see Tyson actually looking like decent instead of his usual slob look.[IMG]//uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/202003 ... cd2060.jpg[/IMG][IMG]//uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/202003 ... 19f656.jpg[/IMG][IMG]//uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/202003 ... 8f9dee.jpg[/IMG]

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Hod! They are sooooooo predictable. After a comment made here last week about TyPERV’s family bring absent recently they are on IG today. And they just HAD to hang out with their young ass “besties” to compete with BigHams and the Snoopys. As we’ve said for years ... not an original thought in either if their heads. And the Blob’s latest obsession with putting music to his IG stories just needs to stop. It’s annoying AF. But even more annoying AF when he open’s his fat face and blah blah blah!


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Greednersandcryson wrote: Sat Feb 29, 2020 7:23 pm She looks so awful and sickly here. Image

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Even if they dipped that child in sunscreen, she should have a little color and she looks like she hasn't slept in week. She has got to be the palest child I've ever seen
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3momstrong wrote:Hod! They are sooooooo predictable. After a comment made here last week about TyPERV’s family bring absent recently they are on IG today. And they just HAD to hang out with their young ass “besties” to compete with BigHams and the Snoopys. Image As we’ve said for years ... not an original thought in either if their heads. And the Blob’s latest obsession with putting music to his IG stories just needs to stop. It’s annoying AF. But even more annoying AF when he open’s his fat face and blah blah blah!


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Sorry for the typos = FAT FINGERS ImageImage Guess I have sausage fingers like the Perv. Couldn’t get back in here to correct them.


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ears wrote:Trashley living up to her nickname today. Raising Cane's and Disney fried food has not been good to her. She should have worn the dress one of the girls picked out for her but maybe she couldn't fit into it since she's had it for awhile.

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A) her shoes are HIDEOUS with this dress B) For Hod’s sake ... I wish she would go pee before they pose for these photos.


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Assface trying so hard to convince us about the girls always wanting to match their egg donor...... well, as we can all see, Assface didn't wear the same matchy match dress like her girls.... why is that you ask? Assface simply can't fit into it anymore. Shes gained too much weight from eating crap every day yet her denial keeps her from getting into the outfits of her past.
Face it Ashley Gardner, you're not a size 8 anymore.... and that's ok....but for Ashley, well, she apparently refuses to see the weight change on her and to actually do something about it. Denial isn't just the longest river in the world.

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What is that along her hairline? It looks like an old bruise. Like maybe she slept in a way too tight headband? Image

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