Trash Rash & Justine: 3 under 3 won't grow a money tree, but regret & resentment is free. | Part 26

[Ket52]

This idiot really ordered a mirror for their front hall when she should be ordering all of the crap she needs for the twins. The mirror should be arriving in about two weeks. That’s great Rash, your twins could also very well be arriving in two weeks time and I’m sure they’ll be thrilled to have a new mirror on the wall, but no clothes to wear and no where to sleep!

[Tweedles3]

I’m not well-versed on baby sprinkle parties, but I thought they were primarily small get together to celebrate, without gifts. Just say you’re having another shower, if your expecting gifts. That drab corner in their bedroom where the twins will hang out is so depressing. You can’t just stick them there all day, where is the dock-a-tot thing that Emma used? The pack n play? They need to at least get two cribs set up in the nursery. Yes, two cribs, not one to share. A pile of Emma’s random clothes are worthless. They need footed sleepers, at least 8. Get a dozen long-sleeve onesies to go underneath. Get a bunch of muslin swaddles. I had 10 for my twins and would go through all of them in 2-3 days. Stock up on diaper cream, saline, Aquaphor, Tylenol, digital thermometer for taking axillary temperature, etc.

As far as cars go, are they planning to buy new? That’s the only way I can see them waiting another month. And if they can afford a new car that will cost $30K or more, they can spend $300 on two budget cribs.

If Rash really believing the twins are not coming home, she is mistaken if she thinks this will give her time to do things at home while the babies are in NICU. Because Rash and Justin, especially Rash, are going to be expected to spend substantial time at the hospital. I’ve been through it, they are going to watch her and her mental state like a hawk, because she is going to be high risk for PPD, and they want her to bond with the babies. If she’s not showing interest and getting involved in the babies’ care, she may have social workers wanting to talk to her.


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[islasmumma]

Can she not fit 3 car seats in the car she has now? Install the middle one first and go from there. She might wanna try that if she has no intention of even thinking about a new car till May. Those babies will be here way before then. Not that they have car seats to even test out space wise anyway.


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[sd9008]

So someone mentioned that she buys stuff all the time which is true... and since i havent followed them steady for a while I am curious- i just found their house and looks like they gave about $630,000 for it... per social blade says she makes around 77,000 a year which is about $6400 a month. Sounds like a lot but the est mortgage is what maybe $3400 which is a little over half of her monthly income...

So of course that income doesnt include sponsorships as additional income but also doesnt include paying taxes, utilities, whatever fees and crap there is in California... and then basic necessities like gas and whatever. They have to be broke. How are they even making it ?

Is Justins military career paying him as well for school? Is he getting a housing allowance or something because I dont see how they arent drowning.

Also for someone so eager to have children and to go through expensive IVF and everything just to get pregnant... i get the vibe like others have said she's extremely disconnected from these babies. I dont know if it is because she lost Brynn? And then with twins its higher risk for loss... or because she doesnt know the genders (which to each their own but i think its dumb personally to not find out. I think its adding to the unpreparedness too) Or if she felt so whole after having Emma and then she just continued on IVF for YT sake ? And she doesnt want the babies? They will be too much work?

I remember watching her before she got pregnant with Emma or maybe she was pregnant already she took sooo many naps. I have never seen people take as many naps as Trashy and Justine say they do. So I remember thinking i guess she better take all the naps she can get... but those naps are definitely going to end with twins. Id say she will call in recruits to help though.

I wanted to throw something at her when she said she bought a mirror. What in the eff is wrong with her?!

Ive always wanted twins and my last pregnancy wished they were twins and any pregnancy could be lost but if i was having twins id be stock piling like crazy. Id also be so excited for them but she seems worried more than anything... and concerned with her own self. Shes gonna have to have friends bring diapers with them when they come to let them nap lol if she doesnt suck it up and start buying some stuff for them. Never seen anything like it.

[Haulnarse]

Can she not fit 3 car seats in the car she has now? Install the middle one first and go from there. She might wanna try that if she has no intention of even thinking about a new car till May. Those babies will be here way before then. Not that they have car seats to even test out space wise anyway.


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Something about overlapping seatbelts and no isofix/latch, they cant fit three across.

Add to that poor ol rash wouldnt have room to sit in the backseat next to them she’d have to ride in the boot!

[dramallama429]

Ewww the way she said that they’re waiting for the baby sprinkle so they can get more things for the twins. no one loves handouts more than Rachelle. How could anyone even stand to be in her life considering she just uses everyone?

[Haulnarse]

This appeared in my recommended....





Some poor cashier was expressing the fact that her mother had died and her grief and Rash said about Brynn - the lady didn’t take to well to Rash comparing the death of a grown arse woman to a 5mth stillborn. Im sorry but Rash was insensitive in this situation, yes brynn died. She rants and rants and rants. Id guess that this never actually happened- she was just fishing for pity again.

[saltybitters]

Is Justins military career paying him as well for school? Is he getting a housing allowance or something because I dont see how they arent drowning.

According to my husband, the GI Bill allows the veteran recipient to receive BAH for the rank they were at retirement for the base nearest their place of residence. He's probably making between $2-3k per month, so nothing I would consider sizable or comfortable, but it would cover groceries for 3 and some extraneous bills. Also, it's been speculated before that they're surviving on credit cards right now, so depending on their spending habits, they may be drowning in debt and unable to get a loan for a new car right now.

This is a very morbid thought, but I noticed a new mom on YT who posted her birth vlog - it has 1.7 million views and counting. She was pregnant with twins and one passed at 18 weeks, so she birthed a live one at 30-something as well as her stillborn baby B. It makes me wonder if that's the kind of situation that Rash is trying to emulate with Baby B's heart problem and such. She wants the outpouring of support other people have gotten and that she has had in the past more than she wants stability and to be a good parent.

She's going to get PPD baaaaad if the twins end up in the NICU and she has to have a c-section.

[Dani_465]

This appeared in my recommended....
Some poor cashier was expressing the fact that her mother had died and her grief and Rash said about Brynn - the lady didn’t take to well to Rash comparing the death of a grown arse woman to a 5mth stillborn. Im sorry but Rash was insensitive in this situation, yes brynn died. She rants and rants and rants. Id guess that this never actually happened- she was just fishing for pity again.

I watched this a few months back. I was so pissed at trashy. Trashy never met Brynn (alive), Brynn didn’t take a breath or live a few years etc. miscarriages and stillbirth are sad and I get the grieving. I’ve been through my mom dying. Matter of fact watched her die. Maybe the cashier watched her mom die too. Trashy didn’t watch Brynn die. One day Brynn died! Brynn was not living breathing person in the world. Brynn would not have survived if she was born at 20 weeks.

Annnnnndddd trashy was was 20 weeks 1 day and that is debatable. So it was BARELY a stillbirth. If it had been a day or two prior it would have been a miscarriage!

That cashier lost her mom! Trashy, imagine your mom dying today, and them compare it to Brynn passing. LOL can’t compare it can you??!!!

[Dani_465]

Is Justins military career paying him as well for school? Is he getting a housing allowance or something because I dont see how they arent drowning.

According to my husband, the GI Bill allows the veteran recipient to receive BAH for the rank they were at retirement for the base nearest their place of residence. He's probably making between $2-3k per month, so nothing I would consider sizable or comfortable, but it would cover groceries for 3 and some extraneous bills. Also, it's been speculated before that they're surviving on credit cards right now, so depending on their spending habits, they may be drowning in debt and unable to get a loan for a new car right now.

This is a very morbid thought, but I noticed a new mom on YT who posted her birth vlog - it has 1.7 million views and counting. She was pregnant with twins and one passed at 18 weeks, so she birthed a live one at 30-something as well as her stillborn baby B. It makes me wonder if that's the kind of situation that Rash is trying to emulate with Baby B's heart problem and such. She wants the outpouring of support other people have gotten and that she has had in the past more than she wants stability and to be a good parent.

She's going to get PPD baaaaad if the twins end up in the NICU and she has to have a c-section.

Oh they have said they will buy a used car in cash. LOL. Wouldn’t it be funny af If they bought a new SUV? Because trashy is above buying a mini van. Well dumb ass NO ONE told you to implant TWO embryos!! If you had only implanted one, odds are you would only have had ONE baby. Annnnnd you wouldn’t need a mini van.


Hmmmm supposedly her suv doesn’t have the LATCH system? I call BS on that... I have a 2010 CRV and it has the LATCH system. It’s not extra... all cars come with it.

[Dani_465]

The comments on her last video! . People are FINALLY seeing through her BS!! Orrrrr trashy didn’t have tile
to delete the negative comments. (This was last night)

[Haulnarse]

Is Justins military career paying him as well for school? Is he getting a housing allowance or something because I dont see how they arent drowning.

According to my husband, the GI Bill allows the veteran recipient to receive BAH for the rank they were at retirement for the base nearest their place of residence. He's probably making between $2-3k per month, so nothing I would consider sizable or comfortable, but it would cover groceries for 3 and some extraneous bills. Also, it's been speculated before that they're surviving on credit cards right now, so depending on their spending habits, they may be drowning in debt and unable to get a loan for a new car right now.

This is a very morbid thought, but I noticed a new mom on YT who posted her birth vlog - it has 1.7 million views and counting. She was pregnant with twins and one passed at 18 weeks, so she birthed a live one at 30-something as well as her stillborn baby B. It makes me wonder if that's the kind of situation that Rash is trying to emulate with Baby B's heart problem and such. She wants the outpouring of support other people have gotten and that she has had in the past more than she wants stability and to be a good parent.

She's going to get PPD baaaaad if the twins end up in the NICU and she has to have a c-section.

Oh they have said they will buy a used car in cash. LOL. Wouldn’t it be funny af If they bought a new SUV? Because trashy is above buying a mini van. Well dumb ass NO ONE told you to implant TWO embryos!! If you had only implanted one, odds are you would only have had ONE baby. Annnnnd you wouldn’t need a mini van.


Hmmmm supposedly her suv doesn’t have the LATCH system? I call BS on that... I have a 2010 CRV and it has the LATCH system. It’s not extra... all cars come with it.

I think it was more that there was latch on the two outboard seats and these overlap the middle belt- therefore you cant use this for a carseat


https://thecarseatlady.com/vehicles/suv/honda-cr-v/

[Dani_465]

According to my husband, the GI Bill allows the veteran recipient to receive BAH for the rank they were at retirement for the base nearest their place of residence. He's probably making between $2-3k per month, so nothing I would consider sizable or comfortable, but it would cover groceries for 3 and some extraneous bills. Also, it's been speculated before that they're surviving on credit cards right now, so depending on their spending habits, they may be drowning in debt and unable to get a loan for a new car right now.

This is a very morbid thought, but I noticed a new mom on YT who posted her birth vlog - it has 1.7 million views and counting. She was pregnant with twins and one passed at 18 weeks, so she birthed a live one at 30-something as well as her stillborn baby B. It makes me wonder if that's the kind of situation that Rash is trying to emulate with Baby B's heart problem and such. She wants the outpouring of support other people have gotten and that she has had in the past more than she wants stability and to be a good parent.

She's going to get PPD baaaaad if the twins end up in the NICU and she has to have a c-section.

Oh they have said they will buy a used car in cash. LOL. Wouldn’t it be funny af If they bought a new SUV? Because trashy is above buying a mini van. Well dumb ass NO ONE told you to implant TWO embryos!! If you had only implanted one, odds are you would only have had ONE baby. Annnnnd you wouldn’t need a mini van.


Hmmmm supposedly her suv doesn’t have the LATCH system? I call BS on that... I have a 2010 CRV and it has the LATCH system. It’s not extra... all cars come with it.

I think it was more that there was latch on the two outboard seats and these overlap the middle belt- therefore you cant use this for a carseat


https://thecarseatlady.com/vehicles/suv/honda-cr-v/

What year is their CRV? Anyone know?

[SomeoneActually]

Is Justins military career paying him as well for school? Is he getting a housing allowance or something because I dont see how they arent drowning.

According to my husband, the GI Bill allows the veteran recipient to receive BAH for the rank they were at retirement for the base nearest their place of residence. He's probably making between $2-3k per month, so nothing I would consider sizable or comfortable, but it would cover groceries for 3 and some extraneous bills. Also, it's been speculated before that they're surviving on credit cards right now, so depending on their spending habits, they may be drowning in debt and unable to get a loan for a new car right now.

This is a very morbid thought, but I noticed a new mom on YT who posted her birth vlog - it has 1.7 million views and counting. She was pregnant with twins and one passed at 18 weeks, so she birthed a live one at 30-something as well as her stillborn baby B. It makes me wonder if that's the kind of situation that Rash is trying to emulate with Baby B's heart problem and such. She wants the outpouring of support other people have gotten and that she has had in the past more than she wants stability and to be a good parent.

She's going to get PPD baaaaad if the twins end up in the NICU and she has to have a c-section.

And if Justin is not in school, they do not get the GI Bill or TA. So him not being in school over the summer they are losing close to $7,500 income vs him staying in school. Plus all of the extra medical bills and expenses of having twins, it is not looking good.

[Mookiel]

Can she not fit 3 car seats in the car she has now? Install the middle one first and go from there. She might wanna try that if she has no intention of even thinking about a new car till May. Those babies will be here way before then. Not that they have car seats to even test out space wise anyway.


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Very few cars can safely fit 3 across.


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[Getaway_car13]

Sorry, had to

What in the fuck? Ew! Why? I do not understand.


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[opangatay]

Someone commented that they should get the car sooner than later and Rachelle said they’d rather wait and save more money until they need it, even if it’s not until after the twins are here.


?????????????????? Are they struggling with money this much? Why would they make their lives that much harder trying to buy a car with a toddler and two newborns? Buy it NOW or at the VERY latest, by the end of March. In any other situation I’d say it’s smart to hold off and save up, but they’ve had how many months to research cars and come up with a plan? And suddenly she’s fine with waiting until AFTER the twins are born? She’s in for a wild fucking ride lol.


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[Tweedles3]

Someone commented that they should get the car sooner than later and Rachelle said they’d rather wait and save more money until they need it, even if it’s not until after the twins are here.


?????????????????? Are they struggling with money this much? Why would they make their lives that much harder trying to buy a car with a toddler and two newborns? Buy it NOW or at the VERY latest, by the end of March. In any other situation I’d say it’s smart to hold off and save up, but they’ve had how many months to research cars and come up with a plan? And suddenly she’s fine with waiting until AFTER the twins are born? She’s in for a wild fucking ride lol.


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I would highly recommend they start now, I had the same problem. I had twins in September, didn’t find an affordable, nice car until November. I had to do it alone, test drive and negotiate, and I was still very sleep-deprived. Made some dumb decisions, like trade in my beloved car for practically nothing. They have nothing but time right now, they won’t have that in 4-5 weeks, most likely. Like some have said, she’s doing too much dumb stuff, like that bedroom project they want to start next week. Why wait, or even worry about that? Forget the garage, no one lives in it. It’s kind of late, but they need to make a list of priorities, with the baby essentials on top.

I really do think it’s coming down to them being broke, they just have too much pride to admit some things have to wait because they can’t afford it now. They are definitely waiting on that Youtube money that will be coming in.


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[NigheanDonn]

This appeared in my recommended....
Some poor cashier was expressing the fact that her mother had died and her grief and Rash said about Brynn - the lady didn’t take to well to Rash comparing the death of a grown arse woman to a 5mth stillborn. Im sorry but Rash was insensitive in this situation, yes brynn died. She rants and rants and rants. Id guess that this never actually happened- she was just fishing for pity again.

I watched this a few months back. I was so pissed at trashy. Trashy never met Brynn (alive), Brynn didn’t take a breath or live a few years etc. miscarriages and stillbirth are sad and I get the grieving. I’ve been through my mom dying. Matter of fact watched her die. Maybe the cashier watched her mom die too. Trashy didn’t watch Brynn die. One day Brynn died! Brynn was not living breathing person in the world. Brynn would not have survived if she was born at 20 weeks.

Annnnnndddd trashy was was 20 weeks 1 day and that is debatable. So it was BARELY a stillbirth. If it had been a day or two prior it would have been a miscarriage!

That cashier lost her mom! Trashy, imagine your mom dying today, and them compare it to Brynn passing. LOL can’t compare it can you??!!!

I'm sorry but to me this comes off as quite insensitive. Yes, losing a baby is different than losing a parent, and Trashy shouldn't have made the conversation about herself when the cashier was talking about losing her mother. BUT that does not mean losing a child isn't one of the most painful things in the world. You're left with an entire lifetime of wondering about who they would have been and missing out on certain milestones. It hurts every day.

And what do you mean "it was BARELY a stillbirth"?! Stillbirth, miscarriage, chemical pregnancy, neonatal death, it doesn't matter. It's still extremely painful and if you don't know what that's like, then how can you judge others who do? I get Trashy sucks, and isn't handling anything well, but don't downplay others' pain, please.

[torilynn2013]

Sorry, had to

What in the fuck? Ew! Why? I do not understand.


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I don’t understand either. I have no idea why anyone would do that in the first place (wet your finger with your mouth to wipe your eye?) but I really have no idea why you’d film it and put it on Instagram like nobody would see it.


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