Trash Rash & Justine: 3 under 3 won't grow a money tree, but regret & resentment is free. | Part 26

[Cf22]

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Some poor cashier was expressing the fact that her mother had died and her grief and Rash said about Brynn - the lady didn’t take to well to Rash comparing the death of a grown arse woman to a 5mth stillborn. Im sorry but Rash was insensitive in this situation, yes brynn died. She rants and rants and rants. Id guess that this never actually happened- she was just fishing for pity again.

I watched this a few months back. I was so pissed at trashy. Trashy never met Brynn (alive), Brynn didn’t take a breath or live a few years etc. miscarriages and stillbirth are sad and I get the grieving. I’ve been through my mom dying. Matter of fact watched her die. Maybe the cashier watched her mom die too. Trashy didn’t watch Brynn die. One day Brynn died! Brynn was not living breathing person in the world. Brynn would not have survived if she was born at 20 weeks.

Annnnnndddd trashy was was 20 weeks 1 day and that is debatable. So it was BARELY a stillbirth. If it had been a day or two prior it would have been a miscarriage!

That cashier lost her mom! Trashy, imagine your mom dying today, and them compare it to Brynn passing. LOL can’t compare it can you??!!!

I’m so sorry about your mom. However saying that Brynn never too late breath does not mean Rachelle shouldn’t be upset. I had a miscarriage in September and it was extremely heartbreaking, painful emotionally and physically, and honestly traumatizing. I understand my baby wasn’t important to anyone else besides my husband and I because they never met them but that baby was important to us. Comparing grief isn’t fair. I understand the situations may not seem the same to you and that’s ok but it doesn’t mean someone isn’t in pain. Again I am very sorry about your mom and that you watched her pass I just hope maybe this could give you alittle insight and maybe be softer when someone looses a pregnancy full term or not

[Dani_465]

This appeared in my recommended....
Some poor cashier was expressing the fact that her mother had died and her grief and Rash said about Brynn - the lady didn’t take to well to Rash comparing the death of a grown arse woman to a 5mth stillborn. Im sorry but Rash was insensitive in this situation, yes brynn died. She rants and rants and rants. Id guess that this never actually happened- she was just fishing for pity again.

I watched this a few months back. I was so pissed at trashy. Trashy never met Brynn (alive), Brynn didn’t take a breath or live a few years etc. miscarriages and stillbirth are sad and I get the grieving. I’ve been through my mom dying. Matter of fact watched her die. Maybe the cashier watched her mom die too. Trashy didn’t watch Brynn die. One day Brynn died! Brynn was not living breathing person in the world. Brynn would not have survived if she was born at 20 weeks.

Annnnnndddd trashy was was 20 weeks 1 day and that is debatable. So it was BARELY a stillbirth. If it had been a day or two prior it would have been a miscarriage!

That cashier lost her mom! Trashy, imagine your mom dying today, and them compare it to Brynn passing. LOL can’t compare it can you??!!!

I’m so sorry about your mom. However saying that Brynn never too late breath does not mean Rachelle shouldn’t be upset. I had a miscarriage in September and it was extremely heartbreaking, painful emotionally and physically, and honestly traumatizing. I understand my baby wasn’t important to anyone else besides my husband and I because they never met them but that baby was important to us. Comparing grief isn’t fair. I understand the situations may not seem the same to you and that’s ok but it doesn’t mean someone isn’t in pain. Again I am very sorry about your mom and that you watched her pass I just hope maybe this could give you alittle insight and maybe be softer when someone looses a pregnancy full term or not

And nighean donn...
Thank you and I am sorry for being insensitive. If I could delete my post I would. I get wrapped up in the cluster f- of trashy’s life and don’t realize there are better people out there. It’s like I just want to make issue with her and how she dealt with it. But in doing so, also belittled anyone else who went through it.

Again, my apologies. I swear trashy brings out the worst in me.

[Dani_465]

In other news... how is she already 30 weeks? I swear she’s adding on weeks and isn’t really 30 weeks.

[Tweedles3]

ok, i believe someone touched on this briefly a while ago.
but trashy is such an idiot, she clearly is detatched from these babies. i think it has a lot to do with it being twins, but im pretty certain its because of the genders too. if you arent bonding with your children, find out the genders ffs! its just a gender yes but knowing the gender also helps you name the baby and give it an identity. she was an idiot to wait to find out the genders.

Yes, that would help her so much. They could really start hashing out names. They could be really caught off-guard and not be ready. Rash could even pick out a couple outfits for each baby if she knows the sex ahead of time.

Honestly, I think a lot of her disconnect is coming from her expectations not being reality. Emma was her rainbow baby, her miracle after a devastating loss. I think Rash was expecting this pregnancy to be just as magical as Emma’s, maybe even more so because she has twins. But the magic is not there. She’s not getting any more attention than normal, no one in her real life or her SM life are falling over in awe of the twins, sponsors aren’t knocking down the doors. She’s in more pain than she was with Emma, and has more complications. She will probably deliver early and have mixed feelings about the pregnancy ending early. She clearly has guilt for how this all will affect Emma, and she’s overcompensating by crafting with her and rearranging her toys, and not buying baby stuff.

I may be projecting a bit, I went through a lot of those emotions. But I found out my babies’ sex/genders at my anatomy scan, and it helped so much. First thing I bought them were sherpa blankets, one girl and one boy blanket. Maybe she secretly knows already, but that would surprise me with how she’s been acting.


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[wonderwall99]

Oh god she has to name these kids.... their unpreparedness I think is making ME feel like she isnt actually going to have two new babies at the end of this. It's like shes just pregnant for the sake of it.

I would be worried if I was her and had a nonexistent bond with my babies during my pregnancy. This is not going to look good for anyone in that house post partum

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[islasmumma]

ok, i believe someone touched on this briefly a while ago.
but trashy is such an idiot, she clearly is detatched from these babies. i think it has a lot to do with it being twins, but im pretty certain its because of the genders too. if you arent bonding with your children, find out the genders ffs! its just a gender yes but knowing the gender also helps you name the baby and give it an identity. she was an idiot to wait to find out the genders.

100% agree with this. I’m 29 weeks with my second baby, I wanted so badly to give my daughter a little sister but found out I was having a boy. I can’t dent that I was a little bit upset but now that I know he’s a boy and I’m collecting adorable little clothes and belongings for him I couldn’t be more excited. She’s only going to struggle more if they come out 2 boys..she needs to give herself time to accept these babies before they arrive


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[Ld5]

Yeah she could of at least been able to prep Emma on saying brother or sister or realizing it’s a girl/boy. I get that some people don’t want to find out.. but when you have a young sibling like that I would think it would be better to know.


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[Ld5]

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Horray? It’s, hooray Rachelle...


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[SomeoneActually]

In other news... how is she already 30 weeks? I swear she’s adding on weeks and isn’t really 30 weeks.

IVF is counted out of 38 weeks instead of 40 weeks of pregnancy plus the subtraction of how old the embryo. I hate to defend trashy on this one and she has yet to explain it in a vlog. I just know from personal experience.

[opangatay]

Normally I have a gut feeling about the genders of YT babies and whether I’m right or not (I think I’ve been right more times than wrong!), it feels weird that I have absolutely no gut feeling for the genders of these babies. Which makes me think it’s one boy and one girl? I’m really leaning no specific way which is strange for me lol. I suppose the combo that would most surprise me is two girls.

Even if I don’t like certain youtubers, I usually get invested in the pregnancies. But with this one it’s like even the viewers are disconnected because of how disconnected Rachelle is too. Which is an incredible feat (in a sad way) given that she’s been milking the twin clickbait every day. Like every vlog is about the twins but it’s still somehow not at all about the twins.


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[wonderwall99]

ok, i believe someone touched on this briefly a while ago.
but trashy is such an idiot, she clearly is detatched from these babies. i think it has a lot to do with it being twins, but im pretty certain its because of the genders too. if you arent bonding with your children, find out the genders ffs! its just a gender yes but knowing the gender also helps you name the baby and give it an identity. she was an idiot to wait to find out the genders.

100% agree with this. I’m 29 weeks with my second baby, I wanted so badly to give my daughter a little sister but found out I was having a boy. I can’t dent that I was a little bit upset but now that I know he’s a boy and I’m collecting adorable little clothes and belongings for him I couldn’t be more excited. She’s only going to struggle more if they come out 2 boys..she needs to give herself time to accept these babies before they arrive


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Coming from a boy mom, its absolutely the best thing! I may be biased though lol, my son is my life. I think I'd have gender disappointment if I had a girl tbh which sounds horrible. And when I really think about It and imagine having a daughter i immediately feel excitement but the initial what would I want would always be boy.

I was a tomboy always, still am very androgynous so maybe I just feel better around boys? But it's so wonderful. I know babies always have a bond with their moms but the mother son bond is so amazing. Good luck and I wish you all the best throughout your pregnancy

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[Mammababe111]

ok, i believe someone touched on this briefly a while ago.
but trashy is such an idiot, she clearly is detatched from these babies. i think it has a lot to do with it being twins, but im pretty certain its because of the genders too. if you arent bonding with your children, find out the genders ffs! its just a gender yes but knowing the gender also helps you name the baby and give it an identity. she was an idiot to wait to find out the genders.

100% agree with this. I’m 29 weeks with my second baby, I wanted so badly to give my daughter a little sister but found out I was having a boy. I can’t dent that I was a little bit upset but now that I know he’s a boy and I’m collecting adorable little clothes and belongings for him I couldn’t be more excited. She’s only going to struggle more if they come out 2 boys..she needs to give herself time to accept these babies before they arrive


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I wanted a girl and I have a little 4 month old boy! Boys are the best & totally obsessed with mammas. Enjoy him I have a 3 year old girl and I love them the same but it’s awesome having one of each!

[mamale]

Normally I have a gut feeling about the genders of YT babies and whether I’m right or not (I think I’ve been right more times than wrong!), it feels weird that I have absolutely no gut feeling for the genders of these babies. Which makes me think it’s one boy and one girl? I’m really leaning no specific way which is strange for me lol. I suppose the combo that would most surprise me is two girls.

Even if I don’t like certain youtubers, I usually get invested in the pregnancies. But with this one it’s like even the viewers are disconnected because of how disconnected Rachelle is too. Which is an incredible feat (in a sad way) given that she’s been milking the twin clickbait every day. Like every vlog is about the twins but it’s still somehow not at all about the twins.


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Your whole last paragraph is SPOT ON. I genuinely feel sad for those babies and Emma. Something is VERY off with Rash. I think her mental health needs to be monitored extremely closely after delivery. Facing the reality of 3 under 2 and totally broke/unprepared is not going to be pretty.


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[Taykp12]

Long time lurker, first time poster here.

What i can’t understand for the life of me is why rachelle has a new outfit for Emma every single day, yet has a pile of like 10 outfits total for these babies? Why are we worried about decorating the entryway when the twins could be here literally next week? And why do we still not have car seats??? This woman. The fact that she thinks she will carry full term and NOT have a c section blows my mind. She speaks about c sections like she’s too good for them, and frankly, as a c section mom, it pisses me off. She pisses me off.

[Snarky0702]

Sorry, had to

What in the fuck? Ew! Why? I do not understand.


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I don’t understand either. I have no idea why anyone would do that in the first place (wet your finger with your mouth to wipe your eye?) but I really have no idea why you’d film it and put it on Instagram like nobody would see it.


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I had a serious WTF moment when I saw that on her insta. Why is she so fucking gross?? Anything she does with her hands absolutely infuriates me. And you know it's probably been days since she washed those nasty talons of hers.

[Ld5]

What in the fuck? Ew! Why? I do not understand.


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I don’t understand either. I have no idea why anyone would do that in the first place (wet your finger with your mouth to wipe your eye?) but I really have no idea why you’d film it and put it on Instagram like nobody would see it.


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I had a serious WTF moment when I saw that on her insta. Why is she so fucking gross?? Anything she does with her hands absolutely infuriates me. And you know it's probably been days since she washed those nasty talons of hers.

She literally wipes her eyeball with her finger. Not just her eyelid. Who does that?! Is she trying to cause pink eye?


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[opangatay]

I don’t understand either. I have no idea why anyone would do that in the first place (wet your finger with your mouth to wipe your eye?) but I really have no idea why you’d film it and put it on Instagram like nobody would see it.


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I had a serious WTF moment when I saw that on her insta. Why is she so fucking gross?? Anything she does with her hands absolutely infuriates me. And you know it's probably been days since she washed those nasty talons of hers.

She literally wipes her eyeball with her finger. Not just her eyelid. Who does that?! Is she trying to cause pink eye?


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She did this so casually and absentmindedly that she probably does it 10+ times a day for no reason, like a tick or bad habit. I cannot imagine licking my finger and then sticking it in my eyeball. Why was sticking her finger in her eyeball not enough to scratch it or whatever? Lmao. If my eye ever itches I close my eye and rub my eyelid with a NORMAL amount of pressure, not digging in like I’m trying to get something out of a dog’s mouth.

I know they can be genetic (and probably are based on her mother) but I’ve always thought that her under eye bags were from (or at least exacerbated by) her constantly ripping her eye skin away from her face with her fingers.


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[Oookarrr]

ok, i believe someone touched on this briefly a while ago.
but trashy is such an idiot, she clearly is detatched from these babies. i think it has a lot to do with it being twins, but im pretty certain its because of the genders too. if you arent bonding with your children, find out the genders ffs! its just a gender yes but knowing the gender also helps you name the baby and give it an identity. she was an idiot to wait to find out the genders.

100% agree with this. I’m 29 weeks with my second baby, I wanted so badly to give my daughter a little sister but found out I was having a boy. I can’t dent that I was a little bit upset but now that I know he’s a boy and I’m collecting adorable little clothes and belongings for him I couldn’t be more excited. She’s only going to struggle more if they come out 2 boys..she needs to give herself time to accept these babies before they arrive


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I wanted a girl and I have a little 4 month old boy! Boys are the best & totally obsessed with mammas. Enjoy him I have a 3 year old girl and I love them the same but it’s awesome having one of each!

I’ll add on to this and say I always envisioned myself a girl mom and with baby #3 I thought it was a girl but we had a boy. I was a little upset but holy snap this mom and boy bond is no joke! I absolutely love my kiddos but I get it now and I wouldn’t trade it for the world!


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[angelmamma]

Can she not fit 3 car seats in the car she has now? Install the middle one first and go from there. She might wanna try that if she has no intention of even thinking about a new car till May. Those babies will be here way before then. Not that they have car seats to even test out space wise anyway.


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Something about overlapping seatbelts and no isofix/latch, they cant fit three across.

Add to that poor ol rash wouldnt have room to sit in the backseat next to them she’d have to ride in the boot!

Not exactly true. We had a Honda crv and were able to fit graco slim fits or diono seats 3 across easy. Cheaper than the one stupid carseat she wants. Would it be nice and more functional for them to have a new car? Absolutely, but they don't *need* one.
Rachelle is just stupid.
Tbh, I don't actually think they *need* a new car. It's not like they go out as a family much anyway, they can't even handle taking Emma out, so they leave her with Kaylee. I doubt they can handle taking 3 babies out at once except on a blue moon.

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[RobinSparkles]

I wonder if Rachelle is seriously depressed. She seems wholly inadequate to mother three children. From pumping her body and womb full of opiates, to having a tiny pile of old clothes thrown on the floor as her preparation for her second and third children (in contrast to fully decorated and stocked rooms for #1) and complaining that she just doesn’t have the energy or physical ability to nest (ignoring that she had seven months prior to now to get things started), to putting off as major a purchase as a new car when they have, at best, two newborns coming— at worst, a premature birth, NICU time, and a baby with a heart defect. I mean, the contrast to her prep for Brynn and Emma is seriously jarring.

I don’t think they’re struggling financially. If they can pull off a $20k+ purchase of a vehicle in cash, even if it takes 9 months to save, they’re doing fine IMO. But we will see how that turns out. I do think they’re not doing as well as THEY thought. It wasn’t long ago that very expensive plans for landscaping their dirt hole and putting in a pool were in the immediate/near future plans... haven’t heard either of those mentioned in a long long time. Plus the casita they need so that their house isn’t completely outgrown in 6 months... plus even simple things like making the garage based laundry room in their 640k house seem less like a steaming pile of garbage.