She seriously needs those things you can get from occupational therapists! Things that auto off the stove and taps after a certain time!!!skyandbuildings wrote: ↑Tue Apr 28, 2020 5:05 am I can't even handle how much of an idiot Ruby is. She flooded her house. Nice.
I do wonder if this was hyped up for the vlog. If Kevin is too checked out to have already taken steps, he better take the checkbook and bills away from Ruby, now. Those are the consequences for being absentminded, Ruby.lmmomSD wrote: ↑Tue Apr 28, 2020 7:08 am How did they have to go without power for days? Here if it gets shut off, you can make a payment over the phone, and it's back on. And about the companies not shutting things off because of the virus, I think where I am, you have to call and let them know that you have issues paying your bill. But I could be wrong. And in Utah, they don't have a statewide order to stay home, so things might be different.
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Yes! You hit the nail on the head. She is incompetent and dangerous! 100%Happy+Charlie wrote: ↑Tue Apr 28, 2020 7:25 am Once again Ruby does something that affects many, with no consequences for her. I haven't watched the whole vlog yet, but I think it is time for Kevin to set some boundaries. She needs to be treated like an incompetent person. Someone needs to supervise everything she does, this woman is dangerous. It's pointless to say hopefully she learns some forgiveness and compassion for her kids. Her stupid, "the truth is....blah, blah, blah," just go stick yourself in a corner, Ruby, and think about how horrible you are to your kids, but they continue to put up with you. Of course, the one mostly affected is Chad, the one she can't ever forgive. Julie has so much more compassion than Ruby could ever have in her little pinkey, and yet she will judge her kids harshly until the day she dies.
By the way, for those that do not know, this isn't the first time she's caused major damage to their home. She left the stove on with a pot of beans and left the house. This resulted in smoke/smell damage, and they had to have their entire kitchen redone. Their homeowners insurance will go up again if they are going to go through it for repairs. She shows the box under the sink, indicating how high the water went, not realizing that cardboard will absorb the water, so even if it had been sitting in 1" of water, the water line will show higher on the box because it will absorb it. However, it is clear there was a lot of water, and it's not going to be just a matter of sopping it up with towels (was Abby really using her new towels to clean up Ruby's mess?). It is in the ceiling, baseboard and drywall, and they will probably need to replace a lot of it to prevent mold from growing. She is so pathetic how she sits there telling her story, once again, giving a play by play like she's cute. Kevin should take a cue from Bonnie and Joel and give Ruby the silent treatment for a week for punishment. Her new name is Ruby Ruins Everything.
I agree that Kevin is equal to Ruby and needs to engage more when it comes to his children and their family life. But he also works and has a stay at home wife with "self sufficient children". He should at least feel that he can trust his wife with the bills. I also recall that she prefers to handle and dictate finances in their family.imoverit wrote: ↑Tue Apr 28, 2020 6:09 am I can’t feel any sympathy about this tiny flooding ordeal that has happened to a ridiculously rich family who has enough money to tear apart a perfectly good backyard, bathroom, etc to suit exactly what Ruby wants. It hardly causes any trouble for them to get the damage fixed.
I literally can’t believe she forgot to pay the bills and they had their utilities turned off.... those kids must not feel any kind of reliability or security from their parents when their mom leaves water running and doesn’t pay the bills. I’d be mad too if I was Kevin and I’m glad he made her feel bad but at the same time maybe if he put an ounce of effort into running his own household he’d be aware of some of this before it gets so bad instead of expecting his wife to do it all. I think they’re both idiots.
I assume her account t is online. I am surprised she doesn’t have an automatic payment set up.Namm wrote:I agree that Kevin is equal to Ruby and needs to engage more when it comes to his children and their family life. But he also works and has a stay at home wife with "self sufficient children". He should at least feel that he can trust his wife with the bills. I also recall that she prefers to handle and dictate finances in their family.imoverit wrote: ↑Tue Apr 28, 2020 6:09 am I can’t feel any sympathy about this tiny flooding ordeal that has happened to a ridiculously rich family who has enough money to tear apart a perfectly good backyard, bathroom, etc to suit exactly what Ruby wants. It hardly causes any trouble for them to get the damage fixed.
I literally can’t believe she forgot to pay the bills and they had their utilities turned off.... those kids must not feel any kind of reliability or security from their parents when their mom leaves water running and doesn’t pay the bills. I’d be mad too if I was Kevin and I’m glad he made her feel bad but at the same time maybe if he put an ounce of effort into running his own household he’d be aware of some of this before it gets so bad instead of expecting his wife to do it all. I think they’re both idiots.
I don't know how it works in the states, but theres a process before anything gets turned off here. They'll send you invoices and reminders and it's only when you ignore an amount of these that they turn anything off. Has she ignored the bills maybe, or does she suffers from something like many of you have mentioned in older threads?
