Rash&Justin: Paychecks A & B are here at last, maybe now we can afford some grass | Part 28

[mikanai]

Am I the only one who finds it strange when parents wish their kids never grow up? It has such a negative connotation to me (there's only one way your kids can stay little forever and I wouldn't wish that on anyone).
What the hell? I always look forward to my kids growing up and changing... trash has some weird obsession with babies staying small, it's disturbing.

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[Mammababe111]

I agree too! Emma wasn't even surprised or confused in the vlog. Which means she already saw them. before. Also trash was saying how she gets Emma to help etc to make her more comfortable around the babies. Which means they had the time to experience problems and find solutions. She is a liar and is embarrassed of her own kid.


Did you see the new ogre family picture? Grandma, mom and emma all have the same face

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Yeah she didn't think that through. She talked all about how Emma helps her throw away the diapers and get stuff for them, yet that was her first time meeting them??? Doesn't make sense. Emma barely has a reaction to anything at all so it doesn't surprise me.

Her lack of response/personality is so strange to me. I have three kids and at her age they would laugh at everything and be so silly all the time.

I agree about the lack of response and personality! Most kids around that age are silly and popping off the walls! Emma just seems so blah. Like they have just stuck her in a corner her whole life and she hasn’t experienced anything.

[spicy_dreams]

Is it normal for her to be wearing depends and disposable underwear?? That seems like that'd only be necessary for vaginal deliveries but I'm not educated on this stuff. But I thought even with a vaginal birth, you wouldn't need disposable underwear? You can just wash them... That just seems so lazy. But what's with the depends? Is she having bladder weakness maybe?

Also thought it was so weird she said she couldn't use a damp washcloth for her headaches because they're "all out". How the fuck do you run out of wash cloths? Why wouldn't you have fuckin 50 ready to go with the babies? Does she mean they're all dirty or what?

[131618]

Is it normal for her to be wearing depends and disposable underwear?? That seems like that'd only be necessary for vaginal deliveries but I'm not educated on this stuff. But I thought even with a vaginal birth, you wouldn't need disposable underwear? You can just wash them... That just seems so lazy. But what's with the depends? Is she having bladder weakness maybe?

Also thought it was so weird she said she couldn't use a damp washcloth for her headaches because they're "all out". How the fuck do you run out of wash cloths? Why wouldn't you have fuckin 50 ready to go with the babies? Does she mean they're all dirty or what?

I don't get the disposable outer underwear but you still bleed after a C.

Also, I thought she was saying because they are out as in out of the house but I could be wrong...we did see all the laundry piled up behind the stroller lol

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[NigheanDonn]

In the video of the them taking the twins to their first doctor's appointment, she must have touched the outside of her mask at least 5 times while she was talking. I almost had to stop watching because it was irritating me. And when Justin came in and immediately layed down on the bed and yawned...he had a smirk on his face like he was doing it on purpose because they read here lol still annoying though

[aloha1234]

Is it normal for her to be wearing depends and disposable underwear?? That seems like that'd only be necessary for vaginal deliveries but I'm not educated on this stuff. But I thought even with a vaginal birth, you wouldn't need disposable underwear? You can just wash them... That just seems so lazy. But what's with the depends? Is she having bladder weakness maybe?

Also thought it was so weird she said she couldn't use a damp washcloth for her headaches because they're "all out". How the fuck do you run out of wash cloths? Why wouldn't you have fuckin 50 ready to go with the babies? Does she mean they're all dirty or what?

I had a c section about a month ago. You bleed a lot. The first time I stood up I had a pool of blood underneath me which the nurses said was normal. I wore depends for about a week mainly because I could not find comfortable underwear and still needed to wear a pad. The depends hit way above the c section incision which made them comfy. I had issues with my underwear rolling down and hitting my incision. Also my skin hurt A LOT! My whole stomach was extremely painful from my skin hurting from the c section. It felt like it had an awful sunburn on it. The depends are loose unlike underwear so it was just so much more comfortable. Depends and dresses were my go to wardrobe


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[Audrey240]

This woman is seriously complaining about a headache. Give me a break and grow the fuck up. It’s just a headache, snort some more meth and you’ll be fine. I’ve suffered from migraines my whole life, and she’s complaining about “postpartum headaches” I’ve never heard of those. Must be making it up for sympathy.


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[Nicky1918]

Is it normal for her to be wearing depends and disposable underwear?? That seems like that'd only be necessary for vaginal deliveries but I'm not educated on this stuff. But I thought even with a vaginal birth, you wouldn't need disposable underwear? You can just wash them... That just seems so lazy. But what's with the depends? Is she having bladder weakness maybe?

Also thought it was so weird she said she couldn't use a damp washcloth for her headaches because they're "all out". How the fuck do you run out of wash cloths? Why wouldn't you have fuckin 50 ready to go with the babies? Does she mean they're all dirty or what?

You bleed a lot and pass large blood clots after you give birth. Doesn’t matter how you give birth. The depends and disposable underwear is just her preference. I personally didn’t like depends or the disposable mesh underwear with the giant pads that the hospital gave me, so I used regular pads and regular underwear as soon as I could. Those first few days you bleed so much that it’s honestly better to use the more full coverage stuff like Rachelle is doing. But after about a week it gets really annoying (especially if you tore while pushing and had to get stitches down there...fml) and its way more comfortable to have less bulky pads and regular underwear. Ugh I do not envy her at all right now. Postpartum fucking sucks and the newborn stage is my least favorite.

Also, it was so weird how she dressed the baby’s for their drs appointment. No socks? No hats? No blankets? Poor little boys. Those offices are usually pretty cold.

[spicy_dreams]

Is it normal for her to be wearing depends and disposable underwear?? That seems like that'd only be necessary for vaginal deliveries but I'm not educated on this stuff. But I thought even with a vaginal birth, you wouldn't need disposable underwear? You can just wash them... That just seems so lazy. But what's with the depends? Is she having bladder weakness maybe?

Also thought it was so weird she said she couldn't use a damp washcloth for her headaches because they're "all out". How the fuck do you run out of wash cloths? Why wouldn't you have fuckin 50 ready to go with the babies? Does she mean they're all dirty or what?

You bleed a lot and pass large blood clots after you give birth. Doesn’t matter how you give birth. The depends and disposable underwear is just her preference. I personally didn’t like depends or the disposable mesh underwear with the giant pads that the hospital gave me, so I used regular pads and regular underwear as soon as I could. Those first few days you bleed so much that it’s honestly better to use the more full coverage stuff like Rachelle is doing. But after about a week it gets really annoying (especially if you tore while pushing and had to get stitches down there...fml) and its way more comfortable to have less bulky pads and regular underwear. Ugh I do not envy her at all right now. Postpartum fucking sucks and the newborn stage is my least favorite.

Also, it was so weird how she dressed the baby’s for their drs appointment. No socks? No hats? No blankets? Poor little boys. Those offices are usually pretty cold.

Oh that explains it, thank you. I didn't realise it was like that for both c-sections and vaginal birth. God that sounds horrific lol I don't envy her either. But at the same time I'm super impressed by women's bodies and all the residence involved in childbirth! Even though I don't like Rachelle I am pretty impressed by how she's handling it so far. She's complained less than Justin lol.. except for the headache telenovela.

[Ifandany]

Am I the only one who finds it strange when parents wish their kids never grow up? It has such a negative connotation to me (there's only one way your kids can stay little forever and I wouldn't wish that on anyone).
What the hell? I always look forward to my kids growing up and changing... trash has some weird obsession with babies staying small, it's disturbing.

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Yes!!! This so much!!! People wishing a baby would never grow up just always send chills down my spine. Maybe wish for time to go slower or say that their growing up goes by too fast but not growing up... Sorry to say but Brynn never grew up... And I know she wishes that she could and do so with all the changes that entails. So I must say I'm surprised at this choice of words.


Reading this back I have to correct myself. No I'm not surprised at all. She does not have a good way with words and I think half of the time what she says and what she actually wants to convey are two completely different things

[islasmumma]

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Did anyone else notice the twins birth vlog is gone..?


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[Goodgirl]

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Did anyone else notice the twins birth vlog is gone..?


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It’s there on my feed.


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[IVFwarrior]

Rash seemingly addressed my criticism of her non-aspirational mismatched car seats and her favoritism of Asher by telling us that Asher gets the old one.

Also not to defend too much, but that post about Jamie Kay clothes was in a buy sell trade group. Shes seemingly looking to buy the clothes. I belong to similar groups for brands I like.

I don't think that was the reason. She likes the original carseat (she loves those muted browns and creams vs. plain black) and had tried to get another one exactly like that but couldn't.

So I think she put Asher into the old carseat because that's her favourite seat. Reuben got the plan black one that she doesn't like as much.

But she's definitely posting more photos now holding Reuben as proof she's not playing faves.

[Mookiel]

This woman is seriously complaining about a headache. Give me a break and grow the fuck up. It’s just a headache, snort some more meth and you’ll be fine. I’ve suffered from migraines my whole life, and she’s complaining about “postpartum headaches” I’ve never heard of those. Must be making it up for sympathy.


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Umm just because you’ve never heard if it, doesn’t mean it’s not a thing. They’re caused by the epidural and they’re horrible and debilitating.


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[ItsJustMyOpinion]

This woman is seriously complaining about a headache. Give me a break and grow the fuck up. It’s just a headache, snort some more meth and you’ll be fine. I’ve suffered from migraines my whole life, and she’s complaining about “postpartum headaches” I’ve never heard of those. Must be making it up for sympathy.


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Wtf? Nasty much? Postpartum headaches are 1000% a real thing. Just because you’ve never heard of them doesn’t mean they’re automatically not real and she’s faking it. Do a little research. Find it funny that your first go to for a headache is meth..sounds like that might be your solution but not thinking every woman out there suffering from a postpartum headache wants to resort to meth..Some women get them so bad from fluid leakage that they need a procedure to fix it.
And not I’m not here as a fan defending Rachelle but as someone who knows how horrible those headaches can be..I feel the need to defend the accusation that postpartum headaches aren’t real.

[MamaTweet]

Rash seemingly addressed my criticism of her non-aspirational mismatched car seats and her favoritism of Asher by telling us that Asher gets the old one.

Also not to defend too much, but that post about Jamie Kay clothes was in a buy sell trade group. Shes seemingly looking to buy the clothes. I belong to similar groups for brands I like.

I think before the twins were born she said something about wanting another one like Emma's but it wasnt available so they got a different one (same seat different colors i think) but i took that as emmas is the seat she likes more so of course thats the seat for the baby she likes more.

That seat with the brown handle is so ugly

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[MamaTweet]

Is it normal for her to be wearing depends and disposable underwear?? That seems like that'd only be necessary for vaginal deliveries but I'm not educated on this stuff. But I thought even with a vaginal birth, you wouldn't need disposable underwear? You can just wash them... That just seems so lazy. But what's with the depends? Is she having bladder weakness maybe?

Also thought it was so weird she said she couldn't use a damp washcloth for her headaches because they're "all out". How the fuck do you run out of wash cloths? Why wouldn't you have fuckin 50 ready to go with the babies? Does she mean they're all dirty or what?

I had a c section about a month ago. You bleed a lot. The first time I stood up I had a pool of blood underneath me which the nurses said was normal. I wore depends for about a week mainly because I could not find comfortable underwear and still needed to wear a pad. The depends hit way above the c section incision which made them comfy. I had issues with my underwear rolling down and hitting my incision. Also my skin hurt A LOT! My whole stomach was extremely painful from my skin hurting from the c section. It felt like it had an awful sunburn on it. The depends are loose unlike underwear so it was just so much more comfortable. Depends and dresses were my go to wardrobe


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After my csection i rocked those always diaper things lol. I loved being able to wear it longer than an hour without having to worry about leaks like i would with a regular pad.

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[MamaTweet]

Am I the only one who finds it strange when parents wish their kids never grow up? It has such a negative connotation to me (there's only one way your kids can stay little forever and I wouldn't wish that on anyone).
What the hell? I always look forward to my kids growing up and changing... trash has some weird obsession with babies staying small, it's disturbing.

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Yes!!! This so much!!! People wishing a baby would never grow up just always send chills down my spine. Maybe wish for time to go slower or say that their growing up goes by too fast but not growing up... Sorry to say but Brynn never grew up... And I know she wishes that she could and do so with all the changes that entails. So I must say I'm surprised at this choice of words.


Reading this back I have to correct myself. No I'm not surprised at all. She does not have a good way with words and I think half of the time what she says and what she actually wants to convey are two completely different things

Most days i wish my son would grow up a little slower but other days im kinda like dang dude when do you plan on moving out? Lol hes not even 2 yet. But yeah ive always wondered about people saying they wish their kid wouldnt grow up...like how do they not understand what that would mean?

I totally understand wanting time to slow way down during the newborn stage though

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[Elliecat]

I wouldn’t read too much into the wanting them to stay little thing. It’s a turn of phrase.
I’m due next week and I’m already sad that the newborn days will go so fast. With my first, he was in the NICU for a a few weeks and the first few weeks at home were so difficult that it was all a blur.
With my daughter, I clung to each moment and loved those newborn days (and nights) with a passion. I took so many pictures and relished her tiny days. As she grew out of newborn clothes, I shed tears.
It will be the same again this time. I love the way they are so needy and small and fragile. I love establishing breastfeeding and learning about each other. It goes way too fast.
Of course want them to grow up and be healthy. But we also want the tiny baby stage to last forever because it is magical and with subsequent babies we know how much we will miss it when it’s gone.


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[wonderwall99]

I wouldn’t read too much into the wanting them to stay little thing. It’s a turn of phrase.
I’m due next week and I’m already sad that the newborn days will go so fast. With my first, he was in the NICU for a a few weeks and the first few weeks at home were so difficult that it was all a blur.
With my daughter, I clung to each moment and loved those newborn days (and nights) with a passion. I took so many pictures and relished her tiny days. As she grew out of newborn clothes, I shed tears.
It will be the same again this time. I love the way they are so needy and small and fragile. I love establishing breastfeeding and learning about each other. It goes way too fast.
Of course want them to grow up and be healthy. But we also want the tiny baby stage to last forever because it is magical and with subsequent babies we know how much we will miss it when it’s gone.


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Completely agreed. There's this unspoken magic in those first 2 months with a newborn. Last summer with my son was honestly exhausting and I remember waiting for my husband to get home from work and the anxiety before bed wondering what the night would be like but the days were spent with a tiny little newborn napping on the swing in the backyard and going out for lunch with my mom and bringing him along in the carseat and taking evening strolls in the park. Everything felt so wonderful with a newborn, even the scary moments. They're so filled with a softness and ease that I have never felt before. If I could relive last summer I would. And now that we are approaching the 1 year birthday mark I'm so emotional. So I can understand wanting them to be tiny and little forever because we never get these days back. But I am also one who looks forward to the future and all the wonderful milestones that are to come.

I think as parents it's natural to want to stay in the newborn or baby phase for as long as you can. But time goes on.
I think the issue is that these YouTubers love the newborn stage so much they have x amount of kids that they didn't even want because it's so cute and adorable. Thats the problem

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