Hayleeandfamily: Messy Divorce, New Baby Daddy Remorse | Part #5

[FueledByIcedCoffee]

red flags. She’s making excuses for Dann to essentially treat her daughter like dirt. If dann wants to be with her, he needs to be a man and stand up to his family.

Hazzel could eventually resent Dustin, and so could Haylee. She’s already pointing out it’s better when he’s not around aka Hazzel is happier and so is Haylee.
But the fact that dann is even ignoring his own infant son to play with Dustin????


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[twomommies]

red flags. She’s making excuses for Dann to essentially treat her daughter like dirt. If dann wants to be with her, he needs to be a man and stand up to his family.

Hazzel could eventually resent Dustin, and so could Haylee. She’s already pointing out it’s better when he’s not around aka Hazzel is happier and so is Haylee.
But the fact that dann is even ignoring his own infant son to play with Dustin????


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I don't see them lasting another year, they were clearly a fling he didn't want to pay child support for.

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[PissedOutDQ]

Oh what a surprise, the kinky fling isn't the best dad/stepdad!

It is important he have SOME one on one time with Dustin, but the others as well. The cookie thing made me furious. Like, yeah, it's a cookie. But it becomes serious when it's clear obvious favoritism.

It hurts that Hazzel was hurt that they didn't call or send her a card. Wasn't Dustin's birthday soon before? So she saw all the attention he got. ): Poor kid. Mom rushed into this when she should've got her own place.

I get she's into girly stuff, but they all can't play like dinosaurs, boardgames, or something?

Wonder why/ when she didn't watch Dustin as much. Honestly could be cause she needs time to film to make money and his mom doesn't want him on the vlogs (understandable). Wasn't she watching him because his mom and Dan were working and schools are closed? Also seems like Dan got laid off, because why else get a new job during this craziness.

[Maxxinsta96]

I feel bad for hazzel. As always haylee and her shitty choices are making hazzel suffer. The 1 thing about randy is he seemed super hands on with hazzel and same for his family. They seemed to accept both hazzel and haylee. It’s funny because I know for a few a fact if I ever got someone with kids from a previous relationship I would treat them the same as my own daughter. My partner has said if he ever had to get with someone with kids from a previous relationship he couldn’t really love or accept them... everyone is different but I have a feeling haylee is just going to keep accepting it. She seems like she’s never going to be independent and on her own. She’s always going to need a man or someone to support her. I’m sure dann went off on her for putting him on blast like that and a big fight happened. Haylee is 24 when is she going to realize you don’t have to share everything online? It’s super tacky. First sex life, relationship issues what’s next a porno? Wouldn’t put it past she and dann.

[ThisIsMeCeej]

Haylee needs to get into a therapist asap, to learn coping mechanisms on how to deal with being single mom. And also how to stand up for herself, with calm words, and not arguments... so she can leave Dann and be on her own with Hazzel and the baby, of course she'd be splitting custody with Dann, if he even wanted to remain in his life... you never know how he'd be, even though he's still in Dustin's life, doesn't mean he'd stay in Sterling's life. She also will need the support of the therapist, so she won't revert to wanting to kill herself, the way she did when she found out she was pregnant. She really needs to learn to be happy alone with her kids and love HERSELF.. no one needs a significant other, sure it be nice to have one... but, you don't need one.. and often times, you're better off alone. I hope she will get some help, and I hope she realizes what she needs to do.

[Crowned1414]

LOOOOOOOOONG time lurker, made this account to say it seems like Haylee and Dann are currently not together based on changes to her insta bio and his insta pic.

[GimmedoughnitsIneed]

I have been wondering about that too. She changed her insta bio and has done away with the 'happy blended family' on YouTube but the YouTube bio still has Dann and Dustin's ages and she still has pictures of them both on her insta.

Has she updated her stories? She has been inactive on YouTube.Poor poor Hazel, this will affect her in the long term. She only has her mommy to love and take care of her and she shouldn't have to be afraid of being unloved in her own house.
I feel Haylee, inspite of all the bad decisions, truly loves Hazel and I hope she decides to leave such a toxic relationship for Hazel's sake.

As for Dann, what kind of human is he to treat a 8 year old like that!

[fossilfinger]

Too bad that even if Haylee has left Dann, she will always have to deal with him because he will probably want split custody of Sterling. I doubt he'll be like Albert and just give up his parental rights.

[Maxxinsta96]

The thing is haylee could be lying to make herself look better. Same thing as she did with randy. There’s 2 sides to every story. I’d be interested to see what dann would say about it. Guess it won’t be long until she’s living in mom and dads basement again. They might just be fighting since I’m sure he doesn’t appreciate her putting him on blast like that. It really wasn’t needed in my opinion? She could have easily talked to friends or some family directly no need do post it. I tend to be a very private person so maybe I’m just different.

[AliceInWonder]

I feel like I'm missing something, lol.
I just watch YouTube and come here.
Can someone fill me in? What happened? And where are you guys getting this info? Instagram?

[lizpuff2006]

I feel like I'm missing something, lol.
I just watch YouTube and come here.
Can someone fill me in? What happened? And where are you guys getting this info? Instagram?

Yes insta stories. Haylee very bluntly said that Dann ignored Hazzel and sterling when Dustin is there and that he shows obvious favoritism towards Dustin in front of Hazzel including things like giving a cookie to Dustin but telling Hazzel she cannot have one. She also was talking about how Hazzel was upset by the fact that Danns family ignored Hazzel on her birthday and Dann didn't seem to care about it and she was pissed.

She tried to say Dann isn't a bad guy but she made him out to be a horrible father figure even to sterling

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[GossipPeasant]

She’s completely deleted Dann off her Facebook and just changed her profile picture yesterday to just herself but I could be reaching idk

[olemama]

Hah! I fucking called it on March 10 and 11 on ytmd!!! I knew Dannnnnn was a total loser because Haylee's vlogs were not picking up any positive interaction between him and Hazzel. Poor kid! She was expected to help clean the apartment (including his coffee bar), fold laundry, and help with Sterling. But Dannoo couldn't be bothered to read a book to her or play a board game or take her out for ice cream. Another shitheel fuckbuddy for Haylee and her lovely daughter suffers. My dream for Hazzel is that she escapes loser Haylee and whatever guy she's screwing and goes to college, finds and follows her dreams!

[Crystal212]

red flags. She’s making excuses for Dann to essentially treat her daughter like dirt. If dann wants to be with her, he needs to be a man and stand up to his family.

Hazzel could eventually resent Dustin, and so could Haylee. She’s already pointing out it’s better when he’s not around aka Hazzel is happier and so is Haylee.
But the fact that dann is even ignoring his own infant son to play with Dustin????


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Her pointing out that it's better when he's not around (which was extremely inappropriate imo) really makes me suspect that there is way more to the story than she is saying like she is just as guilty as Dann and his family when it comes to playing favorites but is acting like she's completely innocent like she did when she was dragging Randy all over social media for cheating and moving on quickly after their breakup then it turned out that she was involved with Dann and that their relationship likely began while her and Randy were still together.

I feel as bad for Dustin as I do for Hazzel because it's understandable if Hazzel (and Sterling when he's older) start to resent him because of Dann's favoritism because she's too young to realize that it is not his fault but Haylee should be aware of that and if she's not, she is a pathetic loser (anyone over the age of 19 who resents a child and blames them for another adult's behaviour is as far as I'm concerned). Her and Dann (along with Dann's family if she is not exaggerating about how they treat her and Hazzel and why) needs to grow up before they emotionally screw up those poor kids. I wish people who can't accept or love a partner's child(ren) from a previous relationship would do themselves and the kids a favor by only getting involved with people who don't have kids.

[AliceInWonder]

I feel like I'm missing something, lol.
I just watch YouTube and come here.
Can someone fill me in? What happened? And where are you guys getting this info? Instagram?

Yes insta stories. Haylee very bluntly said that Dann ignored Hazzel and sterling when Dustin is there and that he shows obvious favoritism towards Dustin in front of Hazzel including things like giving a cookie to Dustin but telling Hazzel she cannot have one. She also was talking about how Hazzel was upset by the fact that Danns family ignored Hazzel on her birthday and Dann didn't seem to care about it and she was pissed.

She tried to say Dann isn't a bad guy but she made him out to be a horrible father figure even to sterling

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Thanks for catching me up!

That makes me very sad. Mother and child come as a package. Love me and my kids or fuck off. I have friends like that. Just jump in with any man, no matter how he treats her children :/ really?!?! Your self worth is that low?! And your children don't matter?! Ok Haylee, you make your bed, you sleep in it!

[GimmedoughnitsIneed]

I may be totally wrong but Haylee's latest Instagram photos don't look like they are taken in her current apartment. I thought it looked like her parents house..again I am not sure.

Also, with regards to Haylee-Dustin vs Dann and Hazel's relationship, I think Haylee and Dustin had a better bond because she used to be his babysitter. Dann behaved like Hazel was invisible, I remember in a vlog she asked him about his fancy wallet and he ignored her as if she hadn't spoken.

I don't think it is right to drag Dustin in this (Haylee knows how hard kids can take it, seeing how hurt hazel is) but I think she was on making an effort and Dann's lack of interest in her daughter made her resentful about Dustin.Just look at the pictures on her insta, she has Dustin in her arms and seems happy but the one on Dann's birthday he has arms wrapped around his own kids and hazel is just there, looking out of place.

Haylee please do the right thing and put your kids first. You are not doing Sterling any favour by staying in a relationship where his dad doesn't treat his sister right

[alyshamne]

I may be totally wrong but Haylee's latest Instagram photos don't look like they are taken in her current apartment. I thought it looked like her parents house..again I am not sure.

Also, with regards to Haylee-Dustin vs Dann and Hazel's relationship, I think Haylee and Dustin had a better bond because she used to be his babysitter. Dann behaved like Hazel was invisible, I remember in a vlog she asked him about his fancy wallet and he ignored her as if she hadn't spoken.

I don't think it is right to drag Dustin in this (Haylee knows how hard kids can take it, seeing how hurt hazel is) but I think she was on making an effort and Dann's lack of interest in her daughter made her resentful about Dustin.Just look at the pictures on her insta, she has Dustin in her arms and seems happy but the one on Dann's birthday he has arms wrapped around his own kids and hazel is just there, looking out of place.

Haylee please do the right thing and put your kids first. You are not doing Sterling any favour by staying in a relationship where his dad doesn't treat his sister right

You’re right. In pictures from March with the same background, she said they were taken in her sister’s room.


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[Dirtknower2020]

She was their babysitter.

Wow!! So what’s the tale she’s telling...that they dated, them she got knocked up or is she being honest and saying she was fucking on the job and she “accidentally” got pregnant?

Well back when people first found out about Dann (I think around July 2018?) Haylee was still with Randy. Someone on here said they spotted Haylee kissing a guy at the mall, so they dug through who she was following on instagram and found his account. Haylee then came on here and insisted that she only knew Dann professionally from babysitting his son, never kissed him and that it was awkward to even have this rumor since she worked for him. You can find the posts if you dig through the last thread.

She now claims they started officially dating in April 2019 (while she was already 3 months pregnant by him lol, she never addressed that but clearly they were hooking up long before), but she now claims that he did kiss her in summer 2018 "to see how she would react" but she didn't want him at the time and only came around to it in April... while she was already pregnant with his kid.


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This is crazy to read. She broke up with my friend on and off around then until January 1, 2019, when Dan called him to ask if he was seeing haylee. She was cheating on Randy with him before dan. This girl is an immature weirdo and doesn’t know what birth control is. She was pregnant in the middle too but ended it. This girl is poisoned and needs serious mental health care.

[Dirtknower2020]

Wow seriously i wish i had found this site back when they were dating in 2017/2018. She terminated their pregnancy at some point in the spring of 2018. She was so uncomfortable to be around the handful of times she was over at his and just hid in his room like a teenager/didn’t even say hi or introduce herself. She was full of red flags. They met at home depot so she was cheating on Randy with both my friend and dan at the same time eventually . I could have saved him a ton of heartache had i found this earlier but he asked me not to watch her YouTube n I honored that until dan called him on New Years in 2019 asking if haylee was fucking him. Haylee promptly ghosted him for three days and then lied and said her phone was dead. My friend’s thick and haylees a great liar, so they got back together a few times. When he found out she was pregnant he lost it and still is hurt from it. Reading 28 pages of posts feels like closing a crazy chapter with this dumb bitch haunting his life. Her lies literally blow my mind and i don’t know how she sleeps at night.


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[missparzival]

Wow seriously i wish i had found this site back when they were dating in 2017/2018. She terminated their pregnancy at some point in the spring of 2018. She was so uncomfortable to be around the handful of times she was over at his and just hid in his room like a teenager/didn’t even say hi or introduce herself. She was full of red flags. They met at home depot so she was cheating on Randy with both my friend and dan at the same time eventually . I could have saved him a ton of heartache had i found this earlier but he asked me not to watch her YouTube n I honored that until dan called him on New Years in 2019 asking if haylee was fucking him. Haylee promptly ghosted him for three days and then lied and said her phone was dead. My friend’s thick and haylees a great liar, so they got back together a few times. When he found out she was pregnant he lost it and still is hurt from it. Reading 28 pages of posts feels like closing a crazy chapter with this dumb bitch haunting his life. Her lies literally blow my mind and i don’t know how she sleeps at night.


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Wowsers that’s a lot. How did she juggle 3 men and a kid? How did she even get 3 men. Is there a possibility sterling is your friends and not Dans?


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