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WheresMyCoffee wrote:I stand by my comments before but I will admit it is very interesting he never used the #blacklovesmatter, and never said Georges name.
Because he’s a racist. He should had said nothing instead of this half assed, forced compassion that is clearly influenced by Britney.
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Sounds like he's trying to stay neutral. It didn't sound like he felt very strongly about this cause.
luci417 wrote:I do think it's white people's obligation to at the very least show support for blm, but I haven't seen any evidence that Frank is a racist. Within the police force there is SUCH a culture of institutional racism - maybe firefighters are similar and he doesn't have the balls to offend anyone at his station?
Then that's still racism.... the fuck
And that's why there won't be change. Because if hes not willing to "offend" one of his co workers and speak up about the injustice occurring in institutions that are meant to keep people safe, then this is all for nothing.
luci417 wrote:I do think it's white people's obligation to at the very least show support for blm, but I haven't seen any evidence that Frank is a racist. Within the police force there is SUCH a culture of institutional racism - maybe firefighters are similar and he doesn't have the balls to offend anyone at his station?
Then that's still racism.... the fuck
And that's why there won't be change. Because if hes not willing to "offend" one of his co workers and speak up about the injustice occurring in institutions that are meant to keep people safe, then this is all for nothing.
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If someone is “reluctant to post” because they’re worried about losing followers then they need to re-evaluate their lives.
FrEnk staying silent and not liking any of Britney’s posts speaks volumes, it shows were he stands. It’s disgusting because some of the ppl that follow his pathetic account, channel and use the promo codes that pay his bills are BLACK. All the ppl like him that are just NOW posting tryna act like they took so long because they didn’t know what to say.....fuck that!! You can still share shit while you gather your thoughts, it also doesn’t take a week to think about what to say. He’s only posting because he’s being pressured to...periodT.
Trust me if you really truly cared about what is going on, losing followers would be the least of your worries.
luci417 wrote:I do think it's white people's obligation to at the very least show support for blm, but I haven't seen any evidence that Frank is a racist. Within the police force there is SUCH a culture of institutional racism - maybe firefighters are similar and he doesn't have the balls to offend anyone at his station?
Then that's still racism.... the fuck
And that's why there won't be change. Because if hes not willing to "offend" one of his co workers and speak up about the injustice occurring in institutions that are meant to keep people safe, then this is all for nothing.
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Oh no I totally agree! Sorry if it made it sound like I was justifying his actions, that wasn't my intention at all. White discomfort is nothing in the face of black lives. I agree that an emergency services worker, especially one who is so thirsty to be an influencer, staying silent about disgusting racism and murder by his colleagues for so long is at best ignorance.
"This is the most ghetto shit I've ever seen in my life."
Rihanna
Unrelated to what's been being discussed recently, but I am howling that she posted how she did those french braids on Aria today after I posted a few weeks ago that Ean's girlfriend most likely did them on Aria previously. It's so funny to me that she reads here. I don't blame her for trying though, and I'm sure it's something Aria/all the girls would like done to their hair eventually.
quietmouse wrote: ↑Tue Jun 02, 2020 10:01 pm
Ok I’m not defending frank maybe he’ll talk more in a video w her. I personally haven’t posted anything. I’ve made comments, liked stuff etc. I signed the online petition thru text for him. I go on sm to relax and not deal with what’s going on. I try not to think about it more than necessary, I have my thoughts and opinions and am grieving, but maybe I’m just the type who prefers keep to themselves. I don’t believe everyone who didn’t post expressing their sadness is a racist
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Whaaaat?? No no no no. The point is to not BE comfortable. Those experiencing racism every day do not have a choice. We have an opportunity to grow, feel uncomfortable while we learn and do what we can to be ANTI-RACIST. Frank has a platform. He chose that life. He should use it for the good of the country, not bow out because he wants his social media to be a place to relax and he doesn’t want to feel uncomfortable.
I wouldn’t look towards frank for anything he married brit that’s enough for me. I see enough of that on on the news and everywhere else. I see plenty of crime and good deeds everyday involving the matter. At the end of the day it all boils down towards change and who is in charge our country. I chose to not think about it more than usual which is my choice. Everyone reacts differently towards times of trial. The thought of my boyfriend being picked on innocently and not come home one day I don’t need those tears and worry everyday. I would rather not be chastised for my own reaction towards a mans unfair horrible death thank you.
Maybe I'm a fool, but I think we have to meet people where they are. We can't bully them into change, we have to help them change by being human to them. There are a LOT of racists on this planet, and they all are at different levels, where some proudly call it out, all the way to those who harbor racist feelings, but are blind to them. We can't change any of them by calling them names and bullying; if only it were that easy. We have to have (excuse the term) frank discussions about WHY they harbor these ideas, find the error in their logic and root it out. Some people will never change, but I think a good number of people are totally capable of being decent people. Frank clearly grew up in the South, which is one of the most racist places in the US. He likely learned to have some racist views while growing up. Whether he eschewed them or not, he might have some views that we'd consider racist, whereas he might consider himself forward-thinking. Who knows. The point is he did show some minor support for the cause, even if it was not the best. There are a lot of people not doing anything. He probably felt really uncomfortable posting, and maybe he DID do it because he felt pressured. He did do it, though. Let's all hope this is an eye-opening experience for him. If it changes him one step forward, that's still a step forward.
Personal:
My brother's wife's family is HIGHLY religious, her father is a well-known bishop within the church. Well, my brother is trans, and they disowned my sister-in-law when they got together. It was awful. She was absolutely heartbroken. Anyway, they ended up marrying and having children via donor. Her parents found out about it and asked to see the grandchildren. Instead of telling them to fuck off after all they'd done to her, she welcomed them with open-arms. They've now accepted their marriage, see them every Sunday and have a really amazing relationship. They love my brother and are grateful they're together. It didn't happen overnight, but through long, persistent conversations using warmth and love. Change is real and can happen.
Apologies if I come across as a do-gooder or offend anyone. I just think we need to have realistic expectations. I SO WISH we could change everyone's heart immediately, but it's an impossible task. Britney showing support is great. Frank showing some support is good. Again, I find it difficult to use words to describe exactly how I feel, so apologies if this is really inelegant or stupid sounding.
Wow...so now all of a sudden Aria says this “before the quarantine” and she’s just now conveniently bringing it up. There’s no way in hell Aria said all this smfh
chloe6124 wrote: ↑Wed Jun 03, 2020 6:51 pm
Wow now she is making stories up on Instagram. That story about Aria can’t be true.
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I came here to say the same thing, I can guarantee you that conversation never even happened, I can’t see Britney having a heart to heart conversation with Aria ever and conveniently this was all said off camera. Sure Britney
chloe6124 wrote:Wow now she is making stories up on Instagram. That story about Aria can’t be true.
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I totally thought the same thing. Sounds made up to me. Of course Britney has a story so she can prove to the world she's not racist and that she raised her kids in a "home free of racism" LOL
She's just looking for pats on the back. What an unnecessary rant!
Aria having a Black friend does not automatically make you a good person, Brittany. Again she's trying to make something all about her.
I know she’s full of shit because in first grade they DO NOTTTT talk about slavery. She just wants ass pats but we all know that story is as fake as she and franks marriage. I’m sure frank will call her out about this instance when tbd time comes. Also she said aria was playing with the friend; more like aria was sent to her room for time out or something.
Maxxinsta96 wrote: ↑Thu Jun 04, 2020 3:00 am
I know she’s full of shit because in first grade they DO NOTTTT talk about slavery. She just wants ass pats but we all know that story is as fake as she and franks marriage. I’m sure frank will call her out about this instance when tbd time comes. Also she said aria was playing with the friend; more like aria was sent to her room for time out or something.
Exactly! My son is in 4th grade and they briefly touched on slavery this year for the first time. Very doubtful they learned about it in 1st grade...good job britch...making up stories to seem relatable.
webby wrote:remember when Britney had a problem with the Target bathrooms being open to all genders?
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In all fairness, I’m uncomfortable with that. Too many creeps in this world, and I have a daughter.
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unfortunately bathrooms don't have force fields to keep creeps out so the women's sign on the door doesn't protect anyone from creeps. The I have a daughter excuse has always been silly to me.
Brit doesn't understand that all white people hold racist ideas at some level because they are socialized that way. Just like how even women have internalized sexism. It doesn't make you a bad person it makes you a product of your raising. Recognizing where you hold sexist or homophobic or racist ideas and being like yeah that's fucked up I can do better then do better.
Brit won't even to that emotional labor for her own children I doubt she will for some random black friend she says she has.
webby wrote:remember when Britney had a problem with the Target bathrooms being open to all genders?
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In all fairness, I’m uncomfortable with that. Too many creeps in this world, and I have a daughter.
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unfortunately bathrooms don't have force fields to keep creeps out so the women's sign on the door doesn't protect anyone from creeps. The I have a daughter excuse has always been silly to me.
thank you for saying it. my friend was sexually abused by his babysitter so it can happen ANYWHERE and to ANYONE, not just in public restrooms and not exclusively to girls.
Yeh the newest post rubbed me the WRONG way. It screams:
“I have taught my kids NOTHING about racism”
“I am privileged enough that my kids have not had to know about racism or be treated differently”
“I don’t see colour” / I don’t respect differences or acknowledge colour based struggles
“I have a black friend” / I am not racist
“Look at me!!!! I know black people are dying but look at me look at me!!!!”
Her husband is a racist trump supporter. She has never mentioned race before. She has never taught her children about race. She took way too long to say anything at all. But she wants a bunch of praise for allowing her daughter to play with a little girl who is black. Great, praise away.